We've seen how women react to their gamer boyfriends to the point of going insane and destroying their gaming PCs sometimes clearly worth thousands because it all gets posted online now. The lotus eaters did a segment recently about women breaking up with their guys and while I did not agree with their takes at all it did show that there are women out there who if their boyfriend does not keep them at the centre of their universe 100% of the time they're going to kick of a shitstorm about it.
So really the message to me was good luck having friends, hobbies and any kind of life if you want a girlfriend. Can't have both and date a mature woman that recognises sometimes she can't always get her way. It reeks of a bratty mindset where they think it's all got to be about them and I have no respect for that.
Imagine as well if you're a guy and you're a real professional or you're a business owner. You come home and that's what you've got to look forward to when you just want to have some peace and quiet after a stressful day. It is no wonder women who have that mindset are permanently single and a lot of them are definitely not attractive enough to put up with that shit.
Can't have both and date a mature woman that recognises sometimes she can't always get her way. It reeks of a bratty mindset where they think it's all got to be about them and I have no respect for that.
They've been spoiled rotten by a culture that refuses to let them endure the slightest inconvenience. That's why they throw shit fits whenever they don't get their way about the tiniest of things. It's also a major part of why they treat men with the slightest imperfections in any area as subhuman. They don't think they should have to make the trade-offs in dating that a mere mortal does.
True, you don't need to even be the type of submissive eyecandy shit that the manosphere types call a 'true woman'
You want to know a keeper type of woman? Your past scenario, you come home after a long day, she's there before you and just says 'hi honey long day?' as a short welcome, quick acknowledgement and then leaves you to work out stress by gaming a bit, she does her own thing maybe even gaming too or even joining you and then after you meet up in bed and just sleep.
That is just ALL we need, none of this 'the world revolves around me' shit, we acknowledge each other, let ourselves time to de-stress through our hobbies but come back to bed together always, the bare minimum and both sides but especially the left miss the point on this.
For that scenario in particular, depending on lifestyle you might want a woman who can contribute equally like if you're more living independently or if you're working from home have something more important.
The important thing is to have respect for time and or the other person's hobbies. If you demand their time when it is limited due to providing or dismiss their hobbies as 'childish', you aren't approaching the relationship from anything more than you want a devotee than a partner.
The point is for the woman knowing when to be a mature person and when it's acceptable to be clingy and unlike women men aren't fucking hint droppers. If I've been on a coding session for example until 6:00am like I have done just today the last thing I would want is to have some woman behaving like an utter brat and trying to start shit with me. I go into day long trances sometimes thinking non-stop about code and when I'm done I'm pretty exhausted even though I enjoy my work.
Being somebody who's never had a girlfriend before, being clingy and attention seeking would be cute under normal circumstances but no fucking way if I've got a lot of shit going on. This is why I bring up the point of, these women desire professional men, but they have no idea what a relationship with one would actually look like. So when they finally get what they want that goes at least some way to explaining why they ditch them anyway and think they can find someone better.
That's the deal women don't seem to understand these days, when you get a hardworking guy there are pitfalls to that and time constraints are one of them. Mature women understand this which is why they always end up in the happy marriages, the bratty permanently single women don't.
I don't, I've just seen a lot of shit in my time despite my age lol it's one of the big reasons I'm single in the first place. I see the way women treat men and I've been on the receiving end of it a bit myself and they're actually horrible and then people have the gall to act shocked that men wouldn't want anything to do with that. Women are not only horrible to men they're absolutely horrible to each other and women themselves will confirm this which is why you get those women who only hang out with men mostly day to day.
This is why I get into big fights with the older lot on here sometimes especially the cuckservatives and be really bitchy about it. You go through this shit as a younger guy and you see more typical female behaviour than most older guys could ever hope to understand. They don't realise they've got their family hug box and not a lot of guys anymore have that.
Although I should point out when I talk about 'women' as most people in the west I mean western women. It's fascinating how different even slightly more foreign women ( Eastern European for example ) are when it comes to their treatment of men and relationships. I want to see if the grass is greener on the other side at some point which is why I've mentioned I'll probably end up being a passport bro.
hobbies and any kind of life if you want a girlfriend
Honestly this not true, there are "acceptable" hobbies. Building things or fishing, sports, working out or hunting (in some circles) are things that girls can brag about to their friends.
A lot depends on whether she respects him for being hawt. If she sees him as an alpha the hobbies aren't a problem. It becomes a problem if she put him in the beta provider category, because at that point the hobbies become an impediment to her extracting the maximum amount of value from him before throwing him out like yesterday's garbage.
Building things or fishing, sports, working out or hunting...
Masculine trait, masculine, masculine, masculine and masculine. It all forms part of intrasexual competition which improves her exposure to others, boosts her respect from others and provides something for her.
But he still has to make her the centre of her world. This is why you can get complaints about fishing when it's done all day to escape from the situation at home and get some peace.
Generally speaking, once you get married women will do one of two things to your hobbies: 1. Invade them or 2. Destroy them. The goal is to have 100% ownership of your fun (which lets her charge any price she wants for it). It does not matter what those hobbies are. She does not care.
That's why you need to set the boundaries early. Say your game/bowling/fishing/poker time is MAN TIME ONLY. She is not allowed, you won't stop for her, and that is that. Never give a single inch.
There is no time spent doing things other than paying attention to her that a woman will not be jealous of. The only solution is to tell them tough shit and you don't care.
This is why I always tell my wife no when my idiot friends try to invite her to D&D night. She's my wife and I love her, but D&D is sacred and she does not belong there.
That's a fair point, it seems to be the same thing when it comes to professions and whether they're 'educated' or not. This is why university educated men are up on the list of desirables along with professions like doctor and I do know the maths on that. Even then though, that falls back to my point that this is bratty behaviour and she's making it all about her life and what makes her happy, what the man wants in the relationship be damned.
I don't why men are willing to live like that. I refuse to arrange my life around appeasing an overgrown child who wouldn't know adversity if it bit her on her over pampered ass.
I think I heard it on a hoe_math video (don't quote me on that) that women like to live life as if they are the starring actress in the movie that is their life. The husband/boyfriend is the main man who makes that happen. It may also be fuelling the concept that men should do everything and the frustration recently at younger men who are not earning as much as younger women.
The problem with video games is that the main character is the main focus of the man at that time. Escapism means escaping from your duties. And that's probably why the right has an issue with it.
The problem with the right is they frequently attack and shame men over trying to shirk their 'responsibilities' as men but they will almost never go after women beyond low hanging fruit like e-thots.
This is why red pill podcasts have gotten so much more popular because whether I agree with them or not they do fill the void in that particular topic of discussion. You can sense the simping behaviour which is why it's often older generation x guys and boomer men who have been married for sometimes decades that are doing this and have no idea how bad the dating market is for men nevermind women.
I'm willing to give some of them the benefit of the doubt, guys like Sargon of Akkad for example. He sort of gets it, but you can tell he's completely out of touch because sometimes he does revert to defend women and that's just because of his age. You put any men in the same situation as what a lot of guys under about 35 are going through they would get red pilled so hard. The women who try to be nice and help guys get dates are a great example of this, they always get red pilled big time on what guys go through.
I'm willing to give some of them the benefit of the doubt, guys like Sargon of Akkad for example.
The YT comment section on the recent Lotus Eaters segment on the "Good Morning texts" girl breakup video kept pointing out that Carl was giving dad energy advice to constantly validate women's need for attention with random acts of kindness while caring for stepchildren himself. Which is pretty much the most beta thing a man can do - raise another man's children.
Ugh. Reminds me of how some women in my family were legitimately mad at the ex-husband of someone I know for committing suicide. Focusing almost entirely on how it "hurt" his ex-wife.
Not that I know much about their marriage, or the guy in question, but I was kind of pissed at their "woman most affected" kind of shit-take, especially given how a lot of these stories sometimes end up with the guy killing the woman and then himself.
That such a thing didn't happen in this instance indicates to me that the guy was not in a good place, but at least had the moral fortitude or sense to not take someone else out along with him.
The right lost control of the culture because they didn't purge tradcucks who are just thinly disguised feminists. For some reason the right loves its fifth columnists, be they Lolbertarians who deliberately throw elections to their Democrat butt buddies or feminist faggots who LARP as conservatives like Walsh.
Even more-so with the specific attitude taken by right-wing pundits.
Like maybe a case could be made that too much time invested into gaming can sometimes be detrimental for a person. But instead of tackling it with a fair minded approach like that they almost always hand wave any such hobbies as being "childish" and "unworthy".
I find it especially annoying because I've been debating the pros and cons of having grown up and spent a fair bit of time gaming. Maybe too much. I dunno, but it's something where I'd rather see some legitimately honest and constructive discussion over it. Unfortunately that's something that'll almost never happen in any kind of public space, because extreme takes are all that can really be expected.
And on another note, can I say just how fucking stupid it is for right wing pundits to try and dunk on gamers right now during a major election season?
And on another note, can I say just how fucking stupid it is for right wing pundits to try and dunk on gamers right now during a major election season?
Republicans are experts at shooting themselves in the foot.
Cool, so we're also going to get rid of all the romcoms and the entire film industry along with them, right? All those romance novels and in fact every single piece of printed entertainment as just like games those are a form of entertainment. The big difference being how interactive games are, and as a consequence less reliant on others which is something many panic about when they are faced with just how replaceable they might be because there are better options now on the table, and this is before even getting onto the topics of other people to spend time with.
Romcoms? "Those are for the weak womenfolk, so they're okay to keep." would be his thought process.
But sport hunting, sports in general, 24-hour-news, social media, and also any and every platform this person might ever make money on? Those need to go, even by his standards. They're pointless vapid "entertainment".
Counter point: not respecting someone’s hobby and seeing it as behavior that would warrant a “red flag” is a pretty big red flag for men to stay away from.
Men who have their own hobbies don't make very good beta slaves. If they saw men as humans with their own goals and desires they wouldn't have a problem with that, but they just want a utility to extract value from and discard. Feminists and tradcucks are the same in that regard, they just disagree about what the beta slaves should be ordered to do.
Doesn't matter, actually. A predditor wouldn't want a partner who views predditoring as a red flag, that is, the red flagging of their hobby is, itself, a red flag, even for them too. It isn't a desired trait, but for those with the trait, they would not want to make themselves subservient to one who does not like the trait.
Man who seeks validation from social media tries to condemn others
This is just pathetic and sad. Doesn't even get into the type of women who would reply to such a poll being likely unfit to touch with a ten-foot poll (outside of those condemning it as the obvious bait that it is)
You mean those hate filled whores will find another chump to strip mine for resources? Only a faggot tradcuck would see that as a bad thing. Stay away from Western whores if you're interested in family life, because it's just a means to an end for them.
The point many like Walsh often avoid is these same arguements were made against baseball 150 years ago, and persisted for decades after. Somehow, though, many conservatives are okay with a guy obsessing over sports that he doesn't even play.
I keep up with sports enough to make conversation, and used to like most a lot so I understand all the rules, so I'll watch with friends sometimes. Still, the guys who spend all their free time following every tiny detail for their fantasy league, it blows my mind, seems like the biggest waste of time, even with $100 on the line.
To be fair to Walsh, he probably is against obsessing over sports too, he seems like the kind of guy to shame people for anything outside of reading non-fiction or digging a hole.
Question for men: if you're looking for a mother for your children, are trimmed, thickened or painted on eyebrows a red flag? If a woman can't face and deal with the stresses of reality without looking like a clownish hivemind NPC, is she marriage material?
Hole moment. Every activity a man does that is not increasing his monetary or social value is a red flag to them. That's why playing football is fine but video games are not.
All of the "red flags" about are hilarious coming from women who read horoscopes, do tarot, watch reality TV, listen to jungle music and/or Taylor Swift, etc...
A bit of a longshot. It isn't the right kind of projection. Not zero, of course, they do bring it up on rare occasion, but they're more the violent types who see aliens blowing up and go "I must go on a shooting rampage! Wait, no, it's the video games making me think that!". They probably also have a good deal of self-loathing, and regret their lack of association with cultural touchstones, feeling left behind and left out, and are lashing out because they feel excluded.
I mean, Walshy boy has only been on the scene for a few years, but I've been a dead gamer for over a decade, and a live one before that, well aware of the culture war and Yuri Bezmenov's testimonies the entire time. Walsh whines that he started everything, when he showed up, like, 5 years ago, the kid. He clearly feels excluded and without a place of belonging.
These people had ten years to offer to help. Instead they sat back and said nothing. Now they just shit on you when you don't immediately prostrate yourself before them.
if a woman doesn't approve of my hobbies, she is not marriage material. just like if a woman is into shit that I don't approve of, she is not for me. simple as.
This sounds mighty hypocritical coming from the side that constantly says it's going to do something but fucking doesn't.
You flip on your favorite shabbos and they tell you everything is going to be A-okay, because we're gonna impeach Brandon! Trump is gonna fix everything! We just gotta trust the plan! Sit back an relax! Pathetic.
Ah yes, all the well adjusted women that are on twitter and follow babylonbee polls are the sort that gamers are missing out on, instead of slaving for.
I want to thank all the women on Twitter replying in support to this retarded take for being so open and sharing their own red flags so they can be avoided.
He is not wrong. Sure it is much less of an issue now then 15 years ago but back then girls did not like guys that were heavy in to games. It was accepted by all involved.
My on opinion on why so few girls liked games is that girls did not like gamers, hot guys liked girls so they in turn did not like gamers, girls are considerably more social than guys so more likely to stay away from games. The girls that did like games were the few non-social ones and there are far fewer non-social girls than non-social guys.
I don't doubt that things changed now as gaming is mainstream but in the classic conservative world, as the name implies, it still holds true.
Even on the left, while playing games casually is ok do they want a guy that goes partying with them/zir or a guy that raids? I know a few guys, including me that lost a couple of years to wow, not exactly a desired trait.
That being said, as long as the guy is hot he can be a serial killer and girls don't care. You can play what ever games you want if you also work out.
It used to be a niche, geeky and limited social hobby when one to two players was the norm, anything more was relatively rare and it was all in one physical place. Humans are a social species and women in particular have and spend social capital. That's why social media is popular with women.
The second that the industry became a billion or more dollar industry is when things changed. That comic of the masses wanting to remove those who made that space is relevant in this case.
And the Halo Effect is a thing. Attractive people can get away with more behaviour compared to most people and particularly so compared to unattractive people.
nice sideways shaming of men and their passtimes. this tactic never gets old. also, is this man gay? asking women to complain about men is one of the least productive things I can think of.
Guess we should stop reading fiction as well, especially stuff like LOTR or Lovecraft or Orwell or Herbert. And movies need to go as well, especially fantasy and action.
Also, I wonder how many women would view "writing joke articles on Facebook" as a red flag.
Look, if you liked Duck Tales as a kid, fantastically fine. But shared values mean jackshit if that means globohomo appreciation of American Idol. This is why I'm distrustful of some "trad-cons" in this forum whom I'm convinced have a hard-on for whatever televangelists and Robert McNamara sold last century.
Posts on X, which is just a dopamine high facilitating the illusion of doing something somehow any more productive than "escapism".
I'm fine with women not wanting men with video games as a hobby but I would hope these kinds of women are the kinds of women who don't use any social media, most especially instagram and are constantly engaged in some sort of physical activity outside.
How many of these women bashing video games watch netflix?
I have consistently found that women who don't play video games and have a hate on for video games tend to be some of the lowest quality women. All the best quality women I've ever met have played video games. Even some of the hottest girls I've known still played Mario Kart for fun with their friends or something. The girls with such big egos that they have some sort of superiority complex regarding video game playing are women to stay the fuck around from. They be bitches.
"This survey's for the ladies! Well girls, what do YOU think men should do?"
This shit is just 1980s pop feminism. Weird, because they act like they're the real conservatives. Shouldn't they come off a little less like retarded simps in that case?
this old shit again... entertainment bad is how it comes off along with hints of men must simp for women. well, two can play at this game, since you and some of your comment section think facing reality is so importent you and your audiences favorate entertainment must be a second job and doing taxes, your homelife is where your wife dictates everything and controls all your hobbies. that everyone must be the fucking same cardboard cutout of a sterotype. i hated conformity in school and i still hate it now, get a hole in your head joel it might let the stupid out.
when it comes to relationships mutual respect is a must that include hobbies, a close second is acceptence/tollerence basicly i like my stuff you like your stuff great lets enjoy them at our own pace and intrest.
See this is why the right lost control of culture.
Dismissing something as a 'distracrion, a pointless hobby not allowing you to face reality' is why the left infected the industry so easily.
And NOW they expect to just come in like the original gamergate and be our 'enlightened saviours against leftist indoctrination'
Fuck off, you're both relics that should be discarded in to the past.
We've seen how women react to their gamer boyfriends to the point of going insane and destroying their gaming PCs sometimes clearly worth thousands because it all gets posted online now. The lotus eaters did a segment recently about women breaking up with their guys and while I did not agree with their takes at all it did show that there are women out there who if their boyfriend does not keep them at the centre of their universe 100% of the time they're going to kick of a shitstorm about it.
So really the message to me was good luck having friends, hobbies and any kind of life if you want a girlfriend. Can't have both and date a mature woman that recognises sometimes she can't always get her way. It reeks of a bratty mindset where they think it's all got to be about them and I have no respect for that.
Imagine as well if you're a guy and you're a real professional or you're a business owner. You come home and that's what you've got to look forward to when you just want to have some peace and quiet after a stressful day. It is no wonder women who have that mindset are permanently single and a lot of them are definitely not attractive enough to put up with that shit.
They've been spoiled rotten by a culture that refuses to let them endure the slightest inconvenience. That's why they throw shit fits whenever they don't get their way about the tiniest of things. It's also a major part of why they treat men with the slightest imperfections in any area as subhuman. They don't think they should have to make the trade-offs in dating that a mere mortal does.
Every Lifetime Romantic movie has the guy giving up what he loves for his new girlfriend, and then it ends.
True, you don't need to even be the type of submissive eyecandy shit that the manosphere types call a 'true woman'
You want to know a keeper type of woman? Your past scenario, you come home after a long day, she's there before you and just says 'hi honey long day?' as a short welcome, quick acknowledgement and then leaves you to work out stress by gaming a bit, she does her own thing maybe even gaming too or even joining you and then after you meet up in bed and just sleep.
That is just ALL we need, none of this 'the world revolves around me' shit, we acknowledge each other, let ourselves time to de-stress through our hobbies but come back to bed together always, the bare minimum and both sides but especially the left miss the point on this.
So... Your ideal wife is a coworker you happen to fuck every now and then, and share tax filings with?
I mean, works for me, just seems a minority opinion.
For that scenario in particular, depending on lifestyle you might want a woman who can contribute equally like if you're more living independently or if you're working from home have something more important.
The important thing is to have respect for time and or the other person's hobbies. If you demand their time when it is limited due to providing or dismiss their hobbies as 'childish', you aren't approaching the relationship from anything more than you want a devotee than a partner.
The point is for the woman knowing when to be a mature person and when it's acceptable to be clingy and unlike women men aren't fucking hint droppers. If I've been on a coding session for example until 6:00am like I have done just today the last thing I would want is to have some woman behaving like an utter brat and trying to start shit with me. I go into day long trances sometimes thinking non-stop about code and when I'm done I'm pretty exhausted even though I enjoy my work.
Being somebody who's never had a girlfriend before, being clingy and attention seeking would be cute under normal circumstances but no fucking way if I've got a lot of shit going on. This is why I bring up the point of, these women desire professional men, but they have no idea what a relationship with one would actually look like. So when they finally get what they want that goes at least some way to explaining why they ditch them anyway and think they can find someone better.
That's the deal women don't seem to understand these days, when you get a hardworking guy there are pitfalls to that and time constraints are one of them. Mature women understand this which is why they always end up in the happy marriages, the bratty permanently single women don't.
Bro you've never even had a girlfriend?
Why else do you think he talks about it like he knows everything?
I don't, I've just seen a lot of shit in my time despite my age lol it's one of the big reasons I'm single in the first place. I see the way women treat men and I've been on the receiving end of it a bit myself and they're actually horrible and then people have the gall to act shocked that men wouldn't want anything to do with that. Women are not only horrible to men they're absolutely horrible to each other and women themselves will confirm this which is why you get those women who only hang out with men mostly day to day.
This is why I get into big fights with the older lot on here sometimes especially the cuckservatives and be really bitchy about it. You go through this shit as a younger guy and you see more typical female behaviour than most older guys could ever hope to understand. They don't realise they've got their family hug box and not a lot of guys anymore have that.
Although I should point out when I talk about 'women' as most people in the west I mean western women. It's fascinating how different even slightly more foreign women ( Eastern European for example ) are when it comes to their treatment of men and relationships. I want to see if the grass is greener on the other side at some point which is why I've mentioned I'll probably end up being a passport bro.
Nope
Honestly this not true, there are "acceptable" hobbies. Building things or fishing, sports, working out or hunting (in some circles) are things that girls can brag about to their friends.
A lot depends on whether she respects him for being hawt. If she sees him as an alpha the hobbies aren't a problem. It becomes a problem if she put him in the beta provider category, because at that point the hobbies become an impediment to her extracting the maximum amount of value from him before throwing him out like yesterday's garbage.
Masculine trait, masculine, masculine, masculine and masculine. It all forms part of intrasexual competition which improves her exposure to others, boosts her respect from others and provides something for her.
But he still has to make her the centre of her world. This is why you can get complaints about fishing when it's done all day to escape from the situation at home and get some peace.
Generally speaking, once you get married women will do one of two things to your hobbies: 1. Invade them or 2. Destroy them. The goal is to have 100% ownership of your fun (which lets her charge any price she wants for it). It does not matter what those hobbies are. She does not care.
That's why you need to set the boundaries early. Say your game/bowling/fishing/poker time is MAN TIME ONLY. She is not allowed, you won't stop for her, and that is that. Never give a single inch.
There is no time spent doing things other than paying attention to her that a woman will not be jealous of. The only solution is to tell them tough shit and you don't care.
This is why I always tell my wife no when my idiot friends try to invite her to D&D night. She's my wife and I love her, but D&D is sacred and she does not belong there.
Yeah but no man starts a hobby so that his chick can brag to their female friends
That's a fair point, it seems to be the same thing when it comes to professions and whether they're 'educated' or not. This is why university educated men are up on the list of desirables along with professions like doctor and I do know the maths on that. Even then though, that falls back to my point that this is bratty behaviour and she's making it all about her life and what makes her happy, what the man wants in the relationship be damned.
As a married guy, I can confirm this to be true. In fact is so acceptable that the same saying is in multiple cultures: "Happy wife, happy life"
I don't why men are willing to live like that. I refuse to arrange my life around appeasing an overgrown child who wouldn't know adversity if it bit her on her over pampered ass.
Pussy is the most powerful force known to mankind. That’s all there is to it.
I've found that it loses most of its power if you understand the nature of the creature that owns it.
I think I heard it on a hoe_math video (don't quote me on that) that women like to live life as if they are the starring actress in the movie that is their life. The husband/boyfriend is the main man who makes that happen. It may also be fuelling the concept that men should do everything and the frustration recently at younger men who are not earning as much as younger women.
The problem with video games is that the main character is the main focus of the man at that time. Escapism means escaping from your duties. And that's probably why the right has an issue with it.
The problem with the right is they frequently attack and shame men over trying to shirk their 'responsibilities' as men but they will almost never go after women beyond low hanging fruit like e-thots.
This is why red pill podcasts have gotten so much more popular because whether I agree with them or not they do fill the void in that particular topic of discussion. You can sense the simping behaviour which is why it's often older generation x guys and boomer men who have been married for sometimes decades that are doing this and have no idea how bad the dating market is for men nevermind women.
I'm willing to give some of them the benefit of the doubt, guys like Sargon of Akkad for example. He sort of gets it, but you can tell he's completely out of touch because sometimes he does revert to defend women and that's just because of his age. You put any men in the same situation as what a lot of guys under about 35 are going through they would get red pilled so hard. The women who try to be nice and help guys get dates are a great example of this, they always get red pilled big time on what guys go through.
The YT comment section on the recent Lotus Eaters segment on the "Good Morning texts" girl breakup video kept pointing out that Carl was giving dad energy advice to constantly validate women's need for attention with random acts of kindness while caring for stepchildren himself. Which is pretty much the most beta thing a man can do - raise another man's children.
I couldn't confirm it though.
Oh my god! Why did he commit suicide! /s
Ugh. Reminds me of how some women in my family were legitimately mad at the ex-husband of someone I know for committing suicide. Focusing almost entirely on how it "hurt" his ex-wife.
Not that I know much about their marriage, or the guy in question, but I was kind of pissed at their "woman most affected" kind of shit-take, especially given how a lot of these stories sometimes end up with the guy killing the woman and then himself.
That such a thing didn't happen in this instance indicates to me that the guy was not in a good place, but at least had the moral fortitude or sense to not take someone else out along with him.
The right lost control of the culture because they didn't purge tradcucks who are just thinly disguised feminists. For some reason the right loves its fifth columnists, be they Lolbertarians who deliberately throw elections to their Democrat butt buddies or feminist faggots who LARP as conservatives like Walsh.
They care more about the 'morality of the process' than winning in the first place.
Just like history is written by the victor, morality is written by the superior power.
Even more-so with the specific attitude taken by right-wing pundits.
Like maybe a case could be made that too much time invested into gaming can sometimes be detrimental for a person. But instead of tackling it with a fair minded approach like that they almost always hand wave any such hobbies as being "childish" and "unworthy".
I find it especially annoying because I've been debating the pros and cons of having grown up and spent a fair bit of time gaming. Maybe too much. I dunno, but it's something where I'd rather see some legitimately honest and constructive discussion over it. Unfortunately that's something that'll almost never happen in any kind of public space, because extreme takes are all that can really be expected.
And on another note, can I say just how fucking stupid it is for right wing pundits to try and dunk on gamers right now during a major election season?
Republicans are experts at shooting themselves in the foot.
There's a huge area of normal recreation between getting sucked into addiction and dismissing everything fun.
This reminds me of the war in Babylon 5 when they realized both sides were dangerous and needed to go.
Cool, so we're also going to get rid of all the romcoms and the entire film industry along with them, right? All those romance novels and in fact every single piece of printed entertainment as just like games those are a form of entertainment. The big difference being how interactive games are, and as a consequence less reliant on others which is something many panic about when they are faced with just how replaceable they might be because there are better options now on the table, and this is before even getting onto the topics of other people to spend time with.
Romcoms? "Those are for the weak womenfolk, so they're okay to keep." would be his thought process.
But sport hunting, sports in general, 24-hour-news, social media, and also any and every platform this person might ever make money on? Those need to go, even by his standards. They're pointless vapid "entertainment".
Counter point: not respecting someone’s hobby and seeing it as behavior that would warrant a “red flag” is a pretty big red flag for men to stay away from.
Men who have their own hobbies don't make very good beta slaves. If they saw men as humans with their own goals and desires they wouldn't have a problem with that, but they just want a utility to extract value from and discard. Feminists and tradcucks are the same in that regard, they just disagree about what the beta slaves should be ordered to do.
True but it also depends on the hobby, if you have a hobby to dress up as a woman and read porn to kids it may not be a desired trait.
That's not a hobby, that's a mental illness.
Doesn't matter, actually. A predditor wouldn't want a partner who views predditoring as a red flag, that is, the red flagging of their hobby is, itself, a red flag, even for them too. It isn't a desired trait, but for those with the trait, they would not want to make themselves subservient to one who does not like the trait.
Ladies, would you rather date a true Aryan gamer, or a shabbos goy who sucks cock for Israel?
This is just pathetic and sad. Doesn't even get into the type of women who would reply to such a poll being likely unfit to touch with a ten-foot poll (outside of those condemning it as the obvious bait that it is)
stop singling out video games. guys who watch sportsball and tons of other shit are in the same boat.
pretty much anything that involves effort or time consumption without gain, either intellectual or bodily improvement, is the opiate of the masses.
You mean those hate filled whores will find another chump to strip mine for resources? Only a faggot tradcuck would see that as a bad thing. Stay away from Western whores if you're interested in family life, because it's just a means to an end for them.
The point many like Walsh often avoid is these same arguements were made against baseball 150 years ago, and persisted for decades after. Somehow, though, many conservatives are okay with a guy obsessing over sports that he doesn't even play.
I keep up with sports enough to make conversation, and used to like most a lot so I understand all the rules, so I'll watch with friends sometimes. Still, the guys who spend all their free time following every tiny detail for their fantasy league, it blows my mind, seems like the biggest waste of time, even with $100 on the line.
To be fair to Walsh, he probably is against obsessing over sports too, he seems like the kind of guy to shame people for anything outside of reading non-fiction or digging a hole.
women: men don't need to hide their feelings and should open up to their partner about them!
also women: if a man has a hobby then he's a weak escapist that cannot face reality!
i'm eagerly awaiting Imp's comeback
Question for men: if you're looking for a mother for your children, are trimmed, thickened or painted on eyebrows a red flag? If a woman can't face and deal with the stresses of reality without looking like a clownish hivemind NPC, is she marriage material?
Mexican women: was that a personal attack?
Juu lissen heer, cabrón...
Hole moment. Every activity a man does that is not increasing his monetary or social value is a red flag to them. That's why playing football is fine but video games are not.
Still better than a fucking manchild who collects Funko Pops and/or watches Sportsball
All of the "red flags" about are hilarious coming from women who read horoscopes, do tarot, watch reality TV, listen to jungle music and/or Taylor Swift, etc...
What's the over/under on how long until either this guy or Walsh are outed as pedophiles?
A bit of a longshot. It isn't the right kind of projection. Not zero, of course, they do bring it up on rare occasion, but they're more the violent types who see aliens blowing up and go "I must go on a shooting rampage! Wait, no, it's the video games making me think that!". They probably also have a good deal of self-loathing, and regret their lack of association with cultural touchstones, feeling left behind and left out, and are lashing out because they feel excluded.
I mean, Walshy boy has only been on the scene for a few years, but I've been a dead gamer for over a decade, and a live one before that, well aware of the culture war and Yuri Bezmenov's testimonies the entire time. Walsh whines that he started everything, when he showed up, like, 5 years ago, the kid. He clearly feels excluded and without a place of belonging.
Then men shouldn’t watch sport either but every time you point that out, it’s “Manly.” Gamers are on their own in this fight, as it always has been.
These people had ten years to offer to help. Instead they sat back and said nothing. Now they just shit on you when you don't immediately prostrate yourself before them.
Get fucked.
if a woman doesn't approve of my hobbies, she is not marriage material. just like if a woman is into shit that I don't approve of, she is not for me. simple as.
This sounds mighty hypocritical coming from the side that constantly says it's going to do something but fucking doesn't.
You flip on your favorite shabbos and they tell you everything is going to be A-okay, because we're gonna impeach Brandon! Trump is gonna fix everything! We just gotta trust the plan! Sit back an relax! Pathetic.
Ah yes, all the well adjusted women that are on twitter and follow babylonbee polls are the sort that gamers are missing out on, instead of slaving for.
I want to thank all the women on Twitter replying in support to this retarded take for being so open and sharing their own red flags so they can be avoided.
He is not wrong. Sure it is much less of an issue now then 15 years ago but back then girls did not like guys that were heavy in to games. It was accepted by all involved.
My on opinion on why so few girls liked games is that girls did not like gamers, hot guys liked girls so they in turn did not like gamers, girls are considerably more social than guys so more likely to stay away from games. The girls that did like games were the few non-social ones and there are far fewer non-social girls than non-social guys.
I don't doubt that things changed now as gaming is mainstream but in the classic conservative world, as the name implies, it still holds true.
Even on the left, while playing games casually is ok do they want a guy that goes partying with them/zir or a guy that raids? I know a few guys, including me that lost a couple of years to wow, not exactly a desired trait.
That being said, as long as the guy is hot he can be a serial killer and girls don't care. You can play what ever games you want if you also work out.
It used to be a niche, geeky and limited social hobby when one to two players was the norm, anything more was relatively rare and it was all in one physical place. Humans are a social species and women in particular have and spend social capital. That's why social media is popular with women.
The second that the industry became a billion or more dollar industry is when things changed. That comic of the masses wanting to remove those who made that space is relevant in this case.
And the Halo Effect is a thing. Attractive people can get away with more behaviour compared to most people and particularly so compared to unattractive people.
Joel, you are one dumb mother fucker...
nice sideways shaming of men and their passtimes. this tactic never gets old. also, is this man gay? asking women to complain about men is one of the least productive things I can think of.
Is Berry the semite or is that the other guy?
He's not the owner seth dillon. I'm not sure if he's a jew as well
Guess we should stop reading fiction as well, especially stuff like LOTR or Lovecraft or Orwell or Herbert. And movies need to go as well, especially fantasy and action.
Also, I wonder how many women would view "writing joke articles on Facebook" as a red flag.
Shared interests is a red herring. Fuck a girl enough times and she'll think your authentic Battlestar Galactica prop collection is hot.
Nothebee - These new stories – ... American Idol ... created a cohesive social fabric that slowed the rot brought on by post-modern ideas.
Look, if you liked Duck Tales as a kid, fantastically fine. But shared values mean jackshit if that means globohomo appreciation of American Idol. This is why I'm distrustful of some "trad-cons" in this forum whom I'm convinced have a hard-on for whatever televangelists and Robert McNamara sold last century.
All the allegedly conservative grifters are jumping out of the woodwork to virtue signal on the side of the depraved DEI nutters.
Makes you wonder if they work for the same people and they've all been given the same marching orders.
"Video Games are escapism"
Posts on X, which is just a dopamine high facilitating the illusion of doing something somehow any more productive than "escapism".
I'm fine with women not wanting men with video games as a hobby but I would hope these kinds of women are the kinds of women who don't use any social media, most especially instagram and are constantly engaged in some sort of physical activity outside.
How many of these women bashing video games watch netflix?
I have consistently found that women who don't play video games and have a hate on for video games tend to be some of the lowest quality women. All the best quality women I've ever met have played video games. Even some of the hottest girls I've known still played Mario Kart for fun with their friends or something. The girls with such big egos that they have some sort of superiority complex regarding video game playing are women to stay the fuck around from. They be bitches.
How much is "heavy video game playing". This will swing my personal vote.
Men are defined by what they do.
This framing implicitly says 'this is a man who only plays video games' - which for some, sure, can be a negative if it limits their potential.
However, even those of us who are successful and can afford the free time to game can want games to be not shit.
This shit is just 1980s pop feminism. Weird, because they act like they're the real conservatives. Shouldn't they come off a little less like retarded simps in that case?
Ok, uno reverse time. If she has a tiktok account.... I can't have my fun then you can't either.
this old shit again... entertainment bad is how it comes off along with hints of men must simp for women. well, two can play at this game, since you and some of your comment section think facing reality is so importent you and your audiences favorate entertainment must be a second job and doing taxes, your homelife is where your wife dictates everything and controls all your hobbies. that everyone must be the fucking same cardboard cutout of a sterotype. i hated conformity in school and i still hate it now, get a hole in your head joel it might let the stupid out.
when it comes to relationships mutual respect is a must that include hobbies, a close second is acceptence/tollerence basicly i like my stuff you like your stuff great lets enjoy them at our own pace and intrest.