For that scenario in particular, depending on lifestyle you might want a woman who can contribute equally like if you're more living independently or if you're working from home have something more important.
The important thing is to have respect for time and or the other person's hobbies. If you demand their time when it is limited due to providing or dismiss their hobbies as 'childish', you aren't approaching the relationship from anything more than you want a devotee than a partner.
The point is for the woman knowing when to be a mature person and when it's acceptable to be clingy and unlike women men aren't fucking hint droppers. If I've been on a coding session for example until 6:00am like I have done just today the last thing I would want is to have some woman behaving like an utter brat and trying to start shit with me. I go into day long trances sometimes thinking non-stop about code and when I'm done I'm pretty exhausted even though I enjoy my work.
Being somebody who's never had a girlfriend before, being clingy and attention seeking would be cute under normal circumstances but no fucking way if I've got a lot of shit going on. This is why I bring up the point of, these women desire professional men, but they have no idea what a relationship with one would actually look like. So when they finally get what they want that goes at least some way to explaining why they ditch them anyway and think they can find someone better.
That's the deal women don't seem to understand these days, when you get a hardworking guy there are pitfalls to that and time constraints are one of them. Mature women understand this which is why they always end up in the happy marriages, the bratty permanently single women don't.
I don't, I've just seen a lot of shit in my time despite my age lol it's one of the big reasons I'm single in the first place. I see the way women treat men and I've been on the receiving end of it a bit myself and they're actually horrible and then people have the gall to act shocked that men wouldn't want anything to do with that. Women are not only horrible to men they're absolutely horrible to each other and women themselves will confirm this which is why you get those women who only hang out with men mostly day to day.
This is why I get into big fights with the older lot on here sometimes especially the cuckservatives and be really bitchy about it. You go through this shit as a younger guy and you see more typical female behaviour than most older guys could ever hope to understand. They don't realise they've got their family hug box and not a lot of guys anymore have that.
Although I should point out when I talk about 'women' as most people in the west I mean western women. It's fascinating how different even slightly more foreign women ( Eastern European for example ) are when it comes to their treatment of men and relationships. I want to see if the grass is greener on the other side at some point which is why I've mentioned I'll probably end up being a passport bro.
So... Your ideal wife is a coworker you happen to fuck every now and then, and share tax filings with?
I mean, works for me, just seems a minority opinion.
For that scenario in particular, depending on lifestyle you might want a woman who can contribute equally like if you're more living independently or if you're working from home have something more important.
The important thing is to have respect for time and or the other person's hobbies. If you demand their time when it is limited due to providing or dismiss their hobbies as 'childish', you aren't approaching the relationship from anything more than you want a devotee than a partner.
The point is for the woman knowing when to be a mature person and when it's acceptable to be clingy and unlike women men aren't fucking hint droppers. If I've been on a coding session for example until 6:00am like I have done just today the last thing I would want is to have some woman behaving like an utter brat and trying to start shit with me. I go into day long trances sometimes thinking non-stop about code and when I'm done I'm pretty exhausted even though I enjoy my work.
Being somebody who's never had a girlfriend before, being clingy and attention seeking would be cute under normal circumstances but no fucking way if I've got a lot of shit going on. This is why I bring up the point of, these women desire professional men, but they have no idea what a relationship with one would actually look like. So when they finally get what they want that goes at least some way to explaining why they ditch them anyway and think they can find someone better.
That's the deal women don't seem to understand these days, when you get a hardworking guy there are pitfalls to that and time constraints are one of them. Mature women understand this which is why they always end up in the happy marriages, the bratty permanently single women don't.
Bro you've never even had a girlfriend?
Why else do you think he talks about it like he knows everything?
I don't, I've just seen a lot of shit in my time despite my age lol it's one of the big reasons I'm single in the first place. I see the way women treat men and I've been on the receiving end of it a bit myself and they're actually horrible and then people have the gall to act shocked that men wouldn't want anything to do with that. Women are not only horrible to men they're absolutely horrible to each other and women themselves will confirm this which is why you get those women who only hang out with men mostly day to day.
This is why I get into big fights with the older lot on here sometimes especially the cuckservatives and be really bitchy about it. You go through this shit as a younger guy and you see more typical female behaviour than most older guys could ever hope to understand. They don't realise they've got their family hug box and not a lot of guys anymore have that.
Although I should point out when I talk about 'women' as most people in the west I mean western women. It's fascinating how different even slightly more foreign women ( Eastern European for example ) are when it comes to their treatment of men and relationships. I want to see if the grass is greener on the other side at some point which is why I've mentioned I'll probably end up being a passport bro.
Nope