Can't have both and date a mature woman that recognises sometimes she can't always get her way. It reeks of a bratty mindset where they think it's all got to be about them and I have no respect for that.

They've been spoiled rotten by a culture that refuses to let them endure the slightest inconvenience. That's why they throw shit fits whenever they don't get their way about the tiniest of things. It's also a major part of why they treat men with the slightest imperfections in any area as subhuman. They don't think they should have to make the trade-offs in dating that a mere mortal does.