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Smith1980 7 points ago +7 / -0

Shortly before the accusations started rolling in Bill Cosby made lefties mad because he said black parents should stop giving kids ridiculous names. My brother’s wife is Asian and she was telling me a lot of them give their kids like an American first or middle name. Makes sense to go with the when in Rome mentality. If I moved to another country and planned on staying I’d do something like that with my kids

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Smith1980 5 points ago +5 / -0

What kind of word salad is this? I get my last name from my white ggg grandfather who had a child with his slave and a few generations later here I am. Never bothered me, and I’m sure I’m not the only one in the history of world slavery that is the descendant of the master. I have bigger things to deal with and Smith is a very convenient last name. NBC really has nothing better to write about. If you want to give your kids an African name then fine, but why this deserves an article is beyond me.

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Smith1980 10 points ago +10 / -0

“Conservative” he is an anti trump republican. Like Bill Kristol who votes for far left democrats and insists he is a conservative. Not sure why they act like it’s a big deal. Salon has the normal left wing talking points so of course they will say that about trump.

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Smith1980 2 points ago +2 / -0

That’s true and I used to be very shy with women. Although I generally have seen young girls go wild for the bad boy and then in their 30s want a responsible guy. Although by then they usually have kids

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Smith1980 19 points ago +19 / -0

Good to see. If anyone complains I’ll use the twisted blm logic against them

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Smith1980 9 points ago +9 / -0

True. And young people as well. But that’s why I think it’s important for the elderly to get a hobby and get out. My parents are more active now than when I was a kid.

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Smith1980 2 points ago +2 / -0

I’d rather hear the true reason. Like I said I get why a woman would feel the need to sugarcoat rejections because some guys could react violently. One woman actually told me I was too ugly and I thanked her for her honesty. She looked confused but I told her it beats the long speech about how great I am or how they want to focus on themselves or the “if it wasn’t for xyz I’d totally date you”.

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Smith1980 10 points ago +10 / -0

It always cracks me up when Fox News is attacked as propaganda but they don’t think MSNBC or CNN have any biases. I remember when Trump was president someone said if all news networks are negative about trump then that means they are speaking the truth.

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Smith1980 1 point ago +1 / -0

I get that. That’s also why I don’t get angry at the many rejections because I think women a lot of time feel the need to give a long flowery speech about how wonderful you are but they aren’t interested. I never give them a hard time because of the reasons you say. Although I do chuckle sometimes to myself at the probability that I meet every woman who isn’t looking for anything serious at the moment.

But I’m not disagreeing with you. I would personally a woman bluntly tell me I’m ugly over being a creep

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Smith1980 1 point ago +1 / -0

Once she thought about it she realized he didn’t seem like a bad person but just a guy she wasn’t attracted to. I’m average liking at best so women approaching me is a rarity of it happens at all but my point was that I agree with you but if a big woman like you describe approached me to flirt I’d like to think that o wouldn’t think her a bad or creepy person simply for not being attractive to me

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Smith1980 3 points ago +3 / -0

True but the fat woman isn’t creepy. I remember my female cousin once said a creepy guy was trying to talk to her and I asked was he really creepy or was he just a guy you didn’t find attractive. She admitted that she wasn’t attracted to him. Like you said I’d do the same but I hope I wouldn’t see the fat woman as a creep.

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Smith1980 5 points ago +5 / -0

I get that but I’ve seen “chads” use the same tactics that they cry about the nice guys using. Of course it comes down to looks. Like a hot guy telling a woman she looks great and an ugly guy who says it turns into a creep

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Smith1980 1 point ago +1 / -0

Just look at the books that win awards now in the fantasy or sci fi arenas. They are so obsessed with the diversity checklist they don’t get around to a story

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Smith1980 10 points ago +10 / -0

In high school I remember being so confused because women would pound into my head that women liked nice guys but then I’d see the same women date a guy who was the opposite of what she claimed she wanted. But you broke it down very well.

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Smith1980 15 points ago +15 / -0

Do you think that ties in to the whole “nice guy” thing that you hear women rage about? I remember endless articles telling men that being nice doesn’t mean a woman owes you sex and talked about how manipulative nice guys are. Although it’s confusing because the attractive guy who gets in a woman’s pants and then leaves can be manipulative too but they don’t seem to complain about that.

But good post. Makes a lot of sense

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Smith1980 13 points ago +13 / -0

I’m not either. Their obsession with discussing sex/sex preferences with kids should be a red flag in a sane world

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Smith1980 8 points ago +8 / -0

When I was doing online dating more I’d see articles by women encouraging men to lose weight to have better chances with the ladies. But if you tell a woman to lose weight…. Well we all know

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Smith1980 2 points ago +2 / -0

Me neither. I enjoy all the “manly things” but I’ve seen some rom cons that were good as I’ve read some romance novels. Although originally as a teen I read them to get insight on meeting women

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