This MOSTLY happens to the guys that acquiesce to women at the first stage of asking to do shit like good morning texts.
The ones that go 'no that sounds stupid and I ain't gonna waste time on it' typically get more interest because they've openly refused them, said they aren't the most important thing and ridiculed the idea.
A lot of these types really want a guy to take control and deny them at times because even they know they have a lot of stupid ideas.
This MOSTLY happens to the guys that acquiesce to women at the first stage of asking to do shit like good morning texts.
Exactly what I was going to say. This could have been headed off at the pass if you just say 'no' when she makes some silly demand. If you're not already doing "good morning texts," it probably doesn't mean much to you. If she asks for it and you agree, you'll get resentful and not like her as much, or eventually stop doing it like in this example. If you just tell her 'no,' you'll seem assertive, and not have to inject more bullshit and confusion into the relationship.
If a woman - or anyone else (except maybe like your boss or parent, depending on your relationship) - asks you to do something pointless, don't agree just because it's "small." That's just making everything more difficult, generally.
Men are at a disadvantage because women are allowed to say no where men cannot.
“Hey honey, can you do the laundry?” “No, I don’t really feel up to it” “ok sweetie that’s fine”
Flip side:
“Hey boo, can you take out the trash?” “No sorry, it’s been a long day I’ll get to it tomorrow” “what a selfish lazy pig, he doesn’t even listen to me, I should leave his ass”
Also women are allowed and encouraged to drop whoever if they perceive a better option is available. My own wife makes constant remarks that she’d leave me for NHL players and I shrug it off but if I said the same thing about models or actresses it’s suddenly a personal attack and I’m the villain
You have to figure out how to thread the needle of "she wants someone to tell her what to do and stop her stupid impulses" and "all of her friends have told her that a man who does that is being abusive". You also have to figure out how to do this perfectly before your first year of high school or you run the risk of her using her global communication device to shame you in front of the entire world. Good luck!
Correct. The request itself is a shit test. She's seeing how much control she has over you. Agreeing too easily causes her to lose interest, like the cat that loses interest once it's caught the toy. You gotta keep dancing in front of her.
Though I will say in the past society was arranged better to shut this down. Women who played these sorts of games were socially shamed and shunned for it. This was something Roosh talked about, how sick he was of having to constantly put on 'Clown Game' to keep girls around. It shows how 'PUA' is still ultimately a bid for female approval. You're playing the game better than most, but it's still a stupid game.
you make the plans for your life. you work towards building a lifestyle and life she can just "step into". that's what she wants and that's what she finds attractive.
wasting your time attending to her random whims is what low-standing, low-value men do. men who kind of know at some level they don't have much real to offer anyone. don't do that.
you live your life and she can come along if she wants. and she will, if your life and lifestyle are the best she thinks she can do, and if you're not a fat ugly pig-man who tends to take care of himself.
This is a perfect example of a brain damaged by hormonal birth control. The emotionally dead eyes from being passed through like a joint at a concert. The ability to make inane demands and hyper emotional decisions on a whim with no regard to the other person. The narcissistic sympathetic mannerisms they call empathy. This is a woman who only considers herself and hates herself simultaneously, she will try to validate her life choices by supporting whatever victim hood ideology is hot at the moment and will only equate herself with a victim to try and dissuade the small rationality in her brain telling her how completely awful she is as a person.
Insanity about getting dumped by a girl for not sending good morning texts escalating into a bunch of additional bullshit demands which even when met still makes the man "unattractive" to her.
Eventually culminates in saying that the man wasn't actually dumped, he chose this.
Hormone regulation + a complete lack of any social responsibilities + constant enabling by men who want a quick lay or are willing to be an emotional boyfriend for years as a “friend” to try and get laid= the woman in the video
It's typically not that the man loses attractiveness, but that she has a potential branch to monkeyswing to and needs an "out" of the relationship without appearing like the whore she is.
In most cases those “branch swings” are guys that flirt for fun and the woman confuses that with caring. The other end are the orbiters or emotional boyfriends that the woman isn’t attracted to but enjoys validation from.
Things women will never understand. Sex is supposed to be an expression of love and bonding, not just for using each other as masturbation devices.
Dumped an ex a long time ago for cheating and one of the last things she said to me (after giving up trying to gaslight me back) was "it was just sex...but I love you!" as if those could be separated in a serious non-cucked relationship lol
Dumped an ex a long time ago for cheating and one of the last things she said to me (after giving up trying to gaslight me back) was "it was just sex...but I love you!" as if those could be separated in a serious non-cucked relationship lol
In a sensible time she'd have been stoned to death in the street for that.
Ignoring women's nagging apparently leads to them inventing even more problems so they can have an excuse to dump you...or something. I dunno, it sounded like woman logic.
I love my cats, but if anyone asks when their birthday is I will have no fucking clue, I don't even know what year they were born, best guess is 7-10 years old.
multiple ignored attempts at telling you what she needs from you.
Lol, lmao even.
Women will tell you what they need through multiple layers of subtle body language and hints, which often are so subtle they are basically non-existent. But they need to throw in this little defense because they know what the instant dismantle of their whining will be.
It’s all hamster wheel rationalization. The woman at some point gets the “ick” and must find a way to make it the man’s fault. It’s a more drawn out version of the post sex regret becoming “rape”.
And the word "ick" is just them creating a term so that way they don't have to explain the problem. Because they know if they say it out loud it'll make them look like the bad guy and come across as insane or retarded, or even the bad guy.
So they reduce it down to a "you know what I mean" empty term so that way they can still elicit public sympathy without having to cop to anything.
Yeah, the dude would gladly comply with the stupid "GM" text if she really wanted that. This scenario is when they demand attention but can't/won't tell you what they really want. There is literally no way to appease their demand, so she escalates it to a fight whenever she feels like it.
Not to mention, a morning text is also a quick way to also become clingy. So you can't do it every day. You must do it the exact amount of times her mind arbitrarily requires and no more or less.
Which is why most guys don't do it, they learned at a young age to not do so. Back when they were innocent and loving, instead of jaded and broken by a line of dumb women.
One of the big problems with modern relationships and why so many end is simple, people mistake pleasure for happiness. I didn't get my little dopamine hit of a text, so now my overall happy relationship is in ruins.
Someone dodged a bullet. She's already having the "prolapsed anus" filler done to her lips. By the time she's 30 she's going to be straight up nightmare fuel. And her voice... Jesus. Imagine having to listen to that for more than 30 seconds.
This nigga thinks they will tell you they want to be slapped and choked.
Women like this, and a huge portion of them in general, want you to basically rape and physically destroy them on the chance they like it.
Because them having to tell you makes you less attractive, because you are supposed to just know. And they don't give a shit about the possible consequences that come from a guy gambling to do that.
Most on-point thing the ''sexuality and relationship'' University class based boomer male teacher taught us :
Nobody can read minds. When you expect the other to guess what you want, or why you're upset, from cues or context, you're setting your relationship for failure. Life isn't a romance movie. Ladies, he won't know you wanted that necklace you swooned over at the shop 2 months before your birthday.
I forget which comedian it was (Louis C.K.?), but he had a bit in one of his standup routines where he recounted a time he hung out with a lady who essentially wanted him to just outright force himself on her despite her giving zero signals to do that. She later whined about him not doing it, and he tried explaining to her that what she wanted was for him to essentially rape her, and she didn't understand what the issue was.
The really advanced women will want you to not only gorilla-fuck them like wild cavemen, but they'll also have specific moves that somebody used on them in the past that will trigger a breakdown or, even worse, a false accusation months or years later, and you'll have no idea until you get blindsided later.
"he became unattractive" = "he didn't slap and choke me hard enough during sex and became weirded out when I told him that was what I wanted"
I imagine most men have to hold back from killing their women in bed due to the anger that they must be festering while thinking about how the slut will inevitably leave him and rob him.
Rank entitlement and lack of self-awareness revealed for the whole world to see. Thank you to OP and the 50% of comments that are supportive for snitching on yourselves.
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She’s right. As someone who had been working hard at overcoming anxious attachment though…I would counsel women to be mindful of their Asks. Because whatever the little thing is you would like - once you ASK for it, it so easily becomes an “if you love me you would do this little thing” shibboleth. So let’s say the girl in the relationship had a perfectly lovely guy who suited her and mostly met her needs and she was HAPPY with him. UNTIL she decided she ought to be getting Good Morning texts. And it all snowballed from there.
Now obviously, if he was just generally neglectful and unaffectionate- and if he NEVER was attentive to her requests, fair enough. But I think we can mess up good things with “gosh it would be sweet if…okay now I NEED THAT and yoh aren’t meeting my NEEDS”
Sad thing is if he kept sending good morning texts it would have been something else, and that if he complied to all of her neurotic requests he would have been too "nice" and therefore "unattractive". Bitch basically just wants to be single. This is most women you will encounter, they just can't cut it - they'd rather be single and it wholly benefits them to be single usually or to act single at your expense.
This is why andrew potater is very appealing these days.
I like how she never once stops to think anything from the guys perspective. She is just admitting she is a spoiled child that can't make any real connection outside total servitude. That she would hate anyway.
At this point her best chance at happiness is 35 baby panic where she will take a half-decent guy with a ton of issues just so he would put a child in her.
I love how this betrays how utterly stupid the woman is for seeking validation, while trying to blame the man for "failing" some stupid, arbitrary hurdle that she says is a "simple fixable problem", but everyone can see it's her own irrationality that put this "problem" there in the first place.
If you're dating someone and they need validation like that? Leave. Seriously, dodge the bullet. Because it's not worth it. Anyone who would take a good morning text as some weird ritual of adoration does not ultimately love you.
But then again, the idea of love is totally lost on most people and struggle to understand the idea of being comfortable with another person for constantly seeking validation and approval from the person who you are supposed to love.
If you're dating someone and they need validation like that? Leave. Seriously, dodge the bullet. Because it's not worth it. Anyone who would take a good morning text as some weird ritual of adoration does not ultimately love you.
Nope, most men are desperate and we'll put up with literal torture if it gives us even the slightest chance of reproduction.
She should follow this banger of a video up with a sequel on how leaving her "on read, for any reason and/or length of time" is why she broke up with you.
One thing I learned during 20 years of marriage is that women have no idea what they really want. There will be random, nonsensical demands with barely any connection to reality.
Also, everything "extra" you do will immediately become the new status quo. Women are designed to constantly push boundaries and demand more more more. It's your job as a man to manage and temper those impulses.
So basically, women have the ability to take a tiny meaningless selfish demand and let it snowball into even more meaningless selfish demand and then gaslight themselves into thinking the significant other isn’t good enough and leave to pursue their own selfish goals?
It's two and a half minutes long. Someone give a short summary. Two and a half minutes of a feminist talking is the equivalent of suffering through a two and a half hour long harangue.
It's a shitty attempt to copy the doodling style of a newer relationship YTuber called hoe_math who is pretty based.
Her version involves a hypothetical woman losing attraction for her boyfriend because he wouldn't meet her demands ad infinitum (I want to exchange "Good Morning!" texts daily in perpetuity).
The OG YTuber with the original relationship doodling style made a response video correctly assessing that these incessant demands for more relationship investment originate from the fact that she subconsciously considers her bf mid wrt to tingles and attractiveness, so demands endless investment on his part to compensate for the boredom.
Holy fuck am I ever done playing these stupid games with these overgrown children.
This MOSTLY happens to the guys that acquiesce to women at the first stage of asking to do shit like good morning texts.
The ones that go 'no that sounds stupid and I ain't gonna waste time on it' typically get more interest because they've openly refused them, said they aren't the most important thing and ridiculed the idea.
A lot of these types really want a guy to take control and deny them at times because even they know they have a lot of stupid ideas.
Exactly what I was going to say. This could have been headed off at the pass if you just say 'no' when she makes some silly demand. If you're not already doing "good morning texts," it probably doesn't mean much to you. If she asks for it and you agree, you'll get resentful and not like her as much, or eventually stop doing it like in this example. If you just tell her 'no,' you'll seem assertive, and not have to inject more bullshit and confusion into the relationship.
If a woman - or anyone else (except maybe like your boss or parent, depending on your relationship) - asks you to do something pointless, don't agree just because it's "small." That's just making everything more difficult, generally.
Men are eternally at a disadvantage in dating if women are allowed to leave.
Men are at a disadvantage because women are allowed to say no where men cannot.
“Hey honey, can you do the laundry?” “No, I don’t really feel up to it” “ok sweetie that’s fine”
Flip side:
“Hey boo, can you take out the trash?” “No sorry, it’s been a long day I’ll get to it tomorrow” “what a selfish lazy pig, he doesn’t even listen to me, I should leave his ass”
Also women are allowed and encouraged to drop whoever if they perceive a better option is available. My own wife makes constant remarks that she’d leave me for NHL players and I shrug it off but if I said the same thing about models or actresses it’s suddenly a personal attack and I’m the villain
Men are at a disadvantage because they can get another man while men are forced to be incredibly desperate.
You have to figure out how to thread the needle of "she wants someone to tell her what to do and stop her stupid impulses" and "all of her friends have told her that a man who does that is being abusive". You also have to figure out how to do this perfectly before your first year of high school or you run the risk of her using her global communication device to shame you in front of the entire world. Good luck!
Most of us never even had the chance to get close to a woman.
Correct. The request itself is a shit test. She's seeing how much control she has over you. Agreeing too easily causes her to lose interest, like the cat that loses interest once it's caught the toy. You gotta keep dancing in front of her.
Though I will say in the past society was arranged better to shut this down. Women who played these sorts of games were socially shamed and shunned for it. This was something Roosh talked about, how sick he was of having to constantly put on 'Clown Game' to keep girls around. It shows how 'PUA' is still ultimately a bid for female approval. You're playing the game better than most, but it's still a stupid game.
This is why women should be property.
you make the plans for your life. you work towards building a lifestyle and life she can just "step into". that's what she wants and that's what she finds attractive.
wasting your time attending to her random whims is what low-standing, low-value men do. men who kind of know at some level they don't have much real to offer anyone. don't do that.
you live your life and she can come along if she wants. and she will, if your life and lifestyle are the best she thinks she can do, and if you're not a fat ugly pig-man who tends to take care of himself.
Most men have no way attracting a woman and no way to prevent her from robbing us other than killing her in revenge and throwing our lives away
Women do not lose the tingles because of fights.
You’ll never be hoe_math.
Yup.
Blatant shittier hoe_math rip off.
Except with purely retconned, ex post facto reasoning for actions rather than any actual introspection.
hoe_math is quick
He posted a response this morning.
This is a perfect example of a brain damaged by hormonal birth control. The emotionally dead eyes from being passed through like a joint at a concert. The ability to make inane demands and hyper emotional decisions on a whim with no regard to the other person. The narcissistic sympathetic mannerisms they call empathy. This is a woman who only considers herself and hates herself simultaneously, she will try to validate her life choices by supporting whatever victim hood ideology is hot at the moment and will only equate herself with a victim to try and dissuade the small rationality in her brain telling her how completely awful she is as a person.
Monotone vocal fry = no watch. What's the summary?
Insanity about getting dumped by a girl for not sending good morning texts escalating into a bunch of additional bullshit demands which even when met still makes the man "unattractive" to her.
Eventually culminates in saying that the man wasn't actually dumped, he chose this.
Hormone regulation + a complete lack of any social responsibilities + constant enabling by men who want a quick lay or are willing to be an emotional boyfriend for years as a “friend” to try and get laid= the woman in the video
Men are forced into these acts of desperation because there's no legal way for unattractive men to get a woman anymore.
It's typically not that the man loses attractiveness, but that she has a potential branch to monkeyswing to and needs an "out" of the relationship without appearing like the whore she is.
In most cases those “branch swings” are guys that flirt for fun and the woman confuses that with caring. The other end are the orbiters or emotional boyfriends that the woman isn’t attracted to but enjoys validation from.
Yeah exactly. Women have difficulty understanding the difference between a man wanting to fuck you and a man willing to commit resources to you.
To borrow and flip a typical feminist NPC statement: you can't insert sex tokens into a man and expect a relationship to come out every time.
It doesn't help that they make chumps out of the guys who are willing to commit. Why buy the cow when Chad gets the milk for free?
Things women will never understand. Sex is supposed to be an expression of love and bonding, not just for using each other as masturbation devices.
Dumped an ex a long time ago for cheating and one of the last things she said to me (after giving up trying to gaslight me back) was "it was just sex...but I love you!" as if those could be separated in a serious non-cucked relationship lol
They can't be separated even in a cucked relationship since they don't love the guys they're cucking.
In a sensible time she'd have been stoned to death in the street for that.
Ignoring women's nagging apparently leads to them inventing even more problems so they can have an excuse to dump you...or something. I dunno, it sounded like woman logic.
tl;dr you forgot her dog's bday so she breaks up with you.
I love my cats, but if anyone asks when their birthday is I will have no fucking clue, I don't even know what year they were born, best guess is 7-10 years old.
Lol, lmao even.
Women will tell you what they need through multiple layers of subtle body language and hints, which often are so subtle they are basically non-existent. But they need to throw in this little defense because they know what the instant dismantle of their whining will be.
It’s all hamster wheel rationalization. The woman at some point gets the “ick” and must find a way to make it the man’s fault. It’s a more drawn out version of the post sex regret becoming “rape”.
And the word "ick" is just them creating a term so that way they don't have to explain the problem. Because they know if they say it out loud it'll make them look like the bad guy and come across as insane or retarded, or even the bad guy.
So they reduce it down to a "you know what I mean" empty term so that way they can still elicit public sympathy without having to cop to anything.
Yeah, the dude would gladly comply with the stupid "GM" text if she really wanted that. This scenario is when they demand attention but can't/won't tell you what they really want. There is literally no way to appease their demand, so she escalates it to a fight whenever she feels like it.
Not to mention, a morning text is also a quick way to also become clingy. So you can't do it every day. You must do it the exact amount of times her mind arbitrarily requires and no more or less.
Which is why most guys don't do it, they learned at a young age to not do so. Back when they were innocent and loving, instead of jaded and broken by a line of dumb women.
She left out the part where she's been fucking at least one other dude since before step one.
One of the big problems with modern relationships and why so many end is simple, people mistake pleasure for happiness. I didn't get my little dopamine hit of a text, so now my overall happy relationship is in ruins.
Modern relationships end because women were giving the right to leave instead of it being a life long bond.
Someone dodged a bullet. She's already having the "prolapsed anus" filler done to her lips. By the time she's 30 she's going to be straight up nightmare fuel. And her voice... Jesus. Imagine having to listen to that for more than 30 seconds.
"he became unattractive" = "he didn't slap and choke me hard enough during sex and became weirded out when I told him that was what I wanted"
This nigga thinks they will tell you they want to be slapped and choked.
Women like this, and a huge portion of them in general, want you to basically rape and physically destroy them on the chance they like it.
Because them having to tell you makes you less attractive, because you are supposed to just know. And they don't give a shit about the possible consequences that come from a guy gambling to do that.
Most on-point thing the ''sexuality and relationship'' University class based boomer male teacher taught us :
Nobody can read minds. When you expect the other to guess what you want, or why you're upset, from cues or context, you're setting your relationship for failure. Life isn't a romance movie. Ladies, he won't know you wanted that necklace you swooned over at the shop 2 months before your birthday.
2/3rds of women will admit to a pollster that they have rape fantasies.
And men willing to fulfil those fantasies end up getting sent to prison by these sluts so they can rob them of everything they're worth.
I forget which comedian it was (Louis C.K.?), but he had a bit in one of his standup routines where he recounted a time he hung out with a lady who essentially wanted him to just outright force himself on her despite her giving zero signals to do that. She later whined about him not doing it, and he tried explaining to her that what she wanted was for him to essentially rape her, and she didn't understand what the issue was.
YAWALT.
The really advanced women will want you to not only gorilla-fuck them like wild cavemen, but they'll also have specific moves that somebody used on them in the past that will trigger a breakdown or, even worse, a false accusation months or years later, and you'll have no idea until you get blindsided later.
And they fucking deserve it but our laws prevent that.
I imagine most men have to hold back from killing their women in bed due to the anger that they must be festering while thinking about how the slut will inevitably leave him and rob him.
I noticed a key factor in all of that.
The woman never actually says what the problem is, or that there is a problem, but it's the guy's fault for not reading her mind and knowing that.
Rank entitlement and lack of self-awareness revealed for the whole world to see. Thank you to OP and the 50% of comments that are supportive for snitching on yourselves.
Woman with slightly more sense in the comments:
She is a broken narcissist, nothing more. The dead look on her face and awful voice show her for what she is.
I rolled my eyes at the demand for ''good morning texts'', reminding me why I don't associate with people.
I get it though. She wants to feel desired and the text reassure her that the guy is infatuated with HER and has HER on his mind.
Bitch is right. I do not care enough about her wet hole to put up with her shit.
Sad thing is if he kept sending good morning texts it would have been something else, and that if he complied to all of her neurotic requests he would have been too "nice" and therefore "unattractive". Bitch basically just wants to be single. This is most women you will encounter, they just can't cut it - they'd rather be single and it wholly benefits them to be single usually or to act single at your expense.
This is why andrew potater is very appealing these days.
Repeal the 19th.
Hoe trying to use logic like a worm trying to use chopsticks.
I like how she never once stops to think anything from the guys perspective. She is just admitting she is a spoiled child that can't make any real connection outside total servitude. That she would hate anyway.
Dog’s birthday? Jesus Christ, get a fucking life.
They are children. This is why they shouldn't vote or hold positions of power. How retarded.
who the fuck cares about what some twitter nobody has to say?
I love how this betrays how utterly stupid the woman is for seeking validation, while trying to blame the man for "failing" some stupid, arbitrary hurdle that she says is a "simple fixable problem", but everyone can see it's her own irrationality that put this "problem" there in the first place.
If you're dating someone and they need validation like that? Leave. Seriously, dodge the bullet. Because it's not worth it. Anyone who would take a good morning text as some weird ritual of adoration does not ultimately love you.
But then again, the idea of love is totally lost on most people and struggle to understand the idea of being comfortable with another person for constantly seeking validation and approval from the person who you are supposed to love.
Nope, most men are desperate and we'll put up with literal torture if it gives us even the slightest chance of reproduction.
>has dogshit standards
>is surprised he gets dogshit results
She should follow this banger of a video up with a sequel on how leaving her "on read, for any reason and/or length of time" is why she broke up with you.
One thing I learned during 20 years of marriage is that women have no idea what they really want. There will be random, nonsensical demands with barely any connection to reality.
Also, everything "extra" you do will immediately become the new status quo. Women are designed to constantly push boundaries and demand more more more. It's your job as a man to manage and temper those impulses.
Compare this "mind map", scribbles and all with it's random flow charts to the "ordered and simple "Crazy hot" scale.
So basically, women have the ability to take a tiny meaningless selfish demand and let it snowball into even more meaningless selfish demand and then gaslight themselves into thinking the significant other isn’t good enough and leave to pursue their own selfish goals?
That's the great thing about this video, she lays out the whole chain of illogic in broad daylight lol
Women. Famous for clearly telling men what they want.
Wow, what an entitled, horrible fucking bitch. I've been with women like this before. There are signs. So, so many signs...
Anyone who demands you send her a "Good Morning" text? And then gets shitty like this when you forget?
Run, run for the fucking hills. "Dump that arse", as I'm sure this bitch would happily say, if the roles were reversed...
Uber-cringe...
Men can't afford to be picky, we have to take anything we can get.
It's two and a half minutes long. Someone give a short summary. Two and a half minutes of a feminist talking is the equivalent of suffering through a two and a half hour long harangue.
There are limits, I tell you. Limits.
It's a shitty attempt to copy the doodling style of a newer relationship YTuber called hoe_math who is pretty based.
Her version involves a hypothetical woman losing attraction for her boyfriend because he wouldn't meet her demands ad infinitum (I want to exchange "Good Morning!" texts daily in perpetuity).
The OG YTuber with the original relationship doodling style made a response video correctly assessing that these incessant demands for more relationship investment originate from the fact that she subconsciously considers her bf mid wrt to tingles and attractiveness, so demands endless investment on his part to compensate for the boredom.