It’s all hamster wheel rationalization. The woman at some point gets the “ick” and must find a way to make it the man’s fault. It’s a more drawn out version of the post sex regret becoming “rape”.
And the word "ick" is just them creating a term so that way they don't have to explain the problem. Because they know if they say it out loud it'll make them look like the bad guy and come across as insane or retarded, or even the bad guy.
So they reduce it down to a "you know what I mean" empty term so that way they can still elicit public sympathy without having to cop to anything.
It’s all hamster wheel rationalization. The woman at some point gets the “ick” and must find a way to make it the man’s fault. It’s a more drawn out version of the post sex regret becoming “rape”.
And the word "ick" is just them creating a term so that way they don't have to explain the problem. Because they know if they say it out loud it'll make them look like the bad guy and come across as insane or retarded, or even the bad guy.
So they reduce it down to a "you know what I mean" empty term so that way they can still elicit public sympathy without having to cop to anything.