I don't mean cutesy 'yelling in frustration and ranting' insane. I mean a literal psychological break. The majority of women are absolutely incapable of going through what being a man is like.
They also never realize this, which is why you see women absolutely gobsmacked when they get slapped in the face with what being a man is like.
It would be hilarious if it didn't have real-world consequences in the wider social arena.
A lot of red pilled men are taking precautions just like that in the work place to prevent women from making false claims to HR to advance their careers. I make it a point to not socialize with women at work and avoid them as much as humanly possible. When I do communicate I try to keep it via email.
He's covering his ass. He can fraternize with the guys all day long, they aren't going to file spurious HR complaints against him (like she is already contemplating). One wrong move with a female co-worker and you're done.
I guarantee he's attractive, otherwise she wouldn't care. She's literally trying to get HR to force him into a romantic entanglement.
I bet he's cute and she's a danger-haired freak with a face like a pincushion. Guarantee she's fat too. She's asking reddit instead of reporting him already, she's not pretty enough to be confident.
He's likely hot, but at least some of the women are as well, I assume. I'm not going to make judgements on them. The saying is "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned," not "Hell hath no fury like an ugly fat woman scorned," although, come to think of it, that would probably also be a true statement.
But, seriously, I don't think it has anything to do with the quality of the women, since at least according to her, he's avoiding all of them.
The kind of woman who would complain to HR for someone being too professional is exactly the same kind of woman who would complain to HR for someone being too friendly.
They don't want to have coherent rules for men to follow. They want to be able to decide what's good and bad, right and wrong, or safe and unsafe, on a whim. Because that is ultimate power.
I literally overheard this yesterday in the time clock room ... Female: "Do you want to Date me?". Male (Alarmed) - "YOU'RE 10 YEARS OLDER THAN ME , NO!"
This happens A LOT at the office. Particularly post-wall women in their 40s. Too old to have kids, but too young to have any assets or debt paid off. Not a good time to look for a sugar daddy.
I would have been at the HR office and put in a complaint. I don't fuck around with that shit. I had no interpersonal clauses in some of my contracts and it was great a excuse.
Yep. Its pre-emptive strike. You go on record before them. Use the tools the system have. Again HR exists to protect the company regardless of who it is.
I literally overheard this yesterday in the time clock room ... Female: "Do you want to Date me?". Male (Alarmed)
It's sad that this actually gets a visceral reaction. I'm so extremely, extremely grateful I'm not currently in an environment where I have to worry about this shit. But you can tell things are broken where even the idea of it is terrifying.
Damned if you do, damned if you don't. Can't these women take a hint? He doesn't wanna associate with you or any other female working at your place. Get it in your thick skull that the world does not revolve around you and this guy just wants to work in peace and quiet.
Disagree, he's gotta be mid or ugly that's why they're mean girling him.
If he's hot they would've done scout work to find out where he lived, current and past 3 relationships and create sock puppets for his social media accounts. And the reddit post wouldn't be titled:
A colleague at work (27m) of 1 year refuses to socialise with me (24f) or any of the women in our office.
it would be
Mysterious, broody guy at work (27m) of 1 year doesn't notice me even though I (24f and hawt but slightly thicc*) send him signals all the time. Help!
Disagree, he's gotta be mid or ugly that's why they're mean girling him.
Except they're not mean girling him. They're whining about him to themselves and on the internet. If I had to put money one way or the other, I'd put money on him being attractive.
They're whining to themselves at the workplace about him to the point of considering going to HR.
Mean girl isn't just direct bullying. It's creating an us vs them situation. A group of girls at work talked together and reached consensus that they're in the right and he has created an uncomfortable workplace for them. That's the mean girl part, they don't have to actually bully the guy they just have to use him as a way to speculate, create a problem, gossip and bond together in creating a solution for a problem they created all the whole not taking a breather to check with reality.
She literally posted this crazy shit on Reddit for christ sakes, that's enough to convince me the hens constructed their own little world in the henhouse
Ugh, man. I work across the hall from the “girl” whose office tends to be the meeting place for mean-girling at my work, the henhouse to steal your excellent term. About once every two weeks or so I’ll see two or three other “girls” walking in there talking about “tea” and then the door shuts. An hour later it opens and these women in their 20s to 40s sashay out giggling about whatever it is this time, though it’s always about their fellow workers. I just do what Dan does, keep my head down and don’t see my coworkers before 9 or after 5, and socialize as little as possible in between those hours, and don’t socialize with “girls” at all if I can help it.
Edit: That’s a slight lie, I do enjoy talking to the little old lady who runs the front desk. That’s on account of she’s a normal human being.
If only people could maintain this same “mind your own business and let other people mind theirs” energy about issues like who plays what video games and other stuff unworthy of freakouts online and IRL. The original thread at least makes me happy that people have their limits to what they’ll accept as, I dunno, “trauma” or whatever word were using now, demanding of social intervention.
HR might fire him. I mean, it better fire him, if it choses to pursue this garble, cuz this'll make the work environment frankly hostile, not merely "unacceptably cordial".
Men have to treat women at work like a fucking minefield, best to simply avoid them, for how easy it is for a woman to destroy a man's career for no reason. If you just don't talk to them and keep it strictly professional, when they do go to HR, they will have no ability to bring anything against you. This is a demon of the "me too" movement and the result of radical feminism. Men don't want to train, talk to or interact with women at work, it is too risky.
We demand the power to destroy your life over accusations made without a shred of proof, or even for so much as looking at us askance, and to be able to retroactively withdraw consent for interactions that already took place
WHY ARE YOU RELUCTANT TO INTERACT WITH US??????
And one of them is thinking of crying to HR about it because he doesn't want to be, or doesn't feel safe being, on friendly terms with them. Essentially using an authority figure to force someone to be her friend.
My favorite criticism is the unwitting self-own of:
"He treats us like men!"
You mean, equally? And without privilege? Yeah, women FUCKING HATE being treated like men.
Treating women like men drives them insane.
I don't mean cutesy 'yelling in frustration and ranting' insane. I mean a literal psychological break. The majority of women are absolutely incapable of going through what being a man is like.
They also never realize this, which is why you see women absolutely gobsmacked when they get slapped in the face with what being a man is like.
It would be hilarious if it didn't have real-world consequences in the wider social arena.
Yeah, I agree on basically all of that.
"How dare he doesn't ask us about ourselves and focuses on work....at work."
This is obviously fake and gay.
A lot of red pilled men are taking precautions just like that in the work place to prevent women from making false claims to HR to advance their careers. I make it a point to not socialize with women at work and avoid them as much as humanly possible. When I do communicate I try to keep it via email.
everything on the relationship sub is a creative writing exercise
have you heard of the Pence rule?
He's covering his ass. He can fraternize with the guys all day long, they aren't going to file spurious HR complaints against him (like she is already contemplating). One wrong move with a female co-worker and you're done.
I guarantee he's attractive, otherwise she wouldn't care. She's literally trying to get HR to force him into a romantic entanglement.
HR is the worst thing that ever happened to businesses
HR exists to protect the company.
I used to think this. Now HR exists as the primary point of entryism for leftism. HR is literally destroying companies.
You sir, are correct.
HR exists first because dipshit voters and politicians think you can legislate equity into the workplace.
*HR exists to lie for the company
From women.
From lawsuits. Fags and trannies can file those as well.
Fags and trannies are just men who act like women.
So, "not women", then.
Works both ways trust me.
Incorrect. Women in the workplace is the worst thing that ever happened to businesses.
That's not how "civilization" is spelled.
my Tea isn't going to bring itself.
Something something "picking your own cotton to avoid down-the-line catastrophic consequences".
REEEEEE. Misogyny. REEEEEE. Dude bro. REEEEE. Sexist.
I've actually heard that bullshit. Apparently if you think HR is cancer, it just means you want to rape and harass all da Females.
I bet he's cute and she's a danger-haired freak with a face like a pincushion. Guarantee she's fat too. She's asking reddit instead of reporting him already, she's not pretty enough to be confident.
He's likely hot, but at least some of the women are as well, I assume. I'm not going to make judgements on them. The saying is "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned," not "Hell hath no fury like an ugly fat woman scorned," although, come to think of it, that would probably also be a true statement.
But, seriously, I don't think it has anything to do with the quality of the women, since at least according to her, he's avoiding all of them.
Considering they are all friends and threatening to report him to HR, it's a dog kennel in that office.
Either that or she's trying to betabux his ass. He should run either way.
And she probably smells like moldy bread.
So now they are mad he isn’t super friendly? What do you expect from hen you have some women that will run to HR if you are friendly. I’ve seen it.
The kind of woman who would complain to HR for someone being too professional is exactly the same kind of woman who would complain to HR for someone being too friendly.
This guy has good instincts.
Which may or may not save him. It sounds like this whore knows how to game the system.
They don't want to have coherent rules for men to follow. They want to be able to decide what's good and bad, right and wrong, or safe and unsafe, on a whim. Because that is ultimate power.
Oh boy, I truly want to see if one of those comments is
I'm beginning to think it's true that they decide what behavior is harassment or not based entirely on how attractive a man is to them.
Being friendly is harassment if she dosen't want you.
Being strictly professional is also harassment if she wants you.
I literally overheard this yesterday in the time clock room ... Female: "Do you want to Date me?". Male (Alarmed) - "YOU'RE 10 YEARS OLDER THAN ME , NO!"
This happens A LOT at the office. Particularly post-wall women in their 40s. Too old to have kids, but too young to have any assets or debt paid off. Not a good time to look for a sugar daddy.
I would have been at the HR office and put in a complaint. I don't fuck around with that shit. I had no interpersonal clauses in some of my contracts and it was great a excuse.
Sadly, as I understand, you almost have to. If she beats you to the punch you're in deep shit.
Yep. Its pre-emptive strike. You go on record before them. Use the tools the system have. Again HR exists to protect the company regardless of who it is.
It's sad that this actually gets a visceral reaction. I'm so extremely, extremely grateful I'm not currently in an environment where I have to worry about this shit. But you can tell things are broken where even the idea of it is terrifying.
What shocked me was the speed of his reply - absolutely no second thought, just shutting that shit down
Polite, reserved and focussed on work.
I want to work with him.
She's fucking crazy. "You will be my friend, OR ELSE." What the fuck.
Sounds like he's trying his best to maintain professionalism.
What idiot would have a problem with that?
Also, this is red, meaning it's from Reveddit because Reddit mods deleted it.
Damned if you do, damned if you don't. Can't these women take a hint? He doesn't wanna associate with you or any other female working at your place. Get it in your thick skull that the world does not revolve around you and this guy just wants to work in peace and quiet.
Well the civil rights act banned voluntary association. It's now against the law to not associate with everyone (if you're white/conservative/male)
Maybe he is Gay. Doesn't want to talk to women?
or Maybe he is
CIS Hetero and SMART.
Women ruin everything
why are you complaining? this is what you wanted!
He must be attractive...
Disagree, he's gotta be mid or ugly that's why they're mean girling him.
If he's hot they would've done scout work to find out where he lived, current and past 3 relationships and create sock puppets for his social media accounts. And the reddit post wouldn't be titled:
it would be
*fat
Except they're not mean girling him. They're whining about him to themselves and on the internet. If I had to put money one way or the other, I'd put money on him being attractive.
They're whining to themselves at the workplace about him to the point of considering going to HR.
Mean girl isn't just direct bullying. It's creating an us vs them situation. A group of girls at work talked together and reached consensus that they're in the right and he has created an uncomfortable workplace for them. That's the mean girl part, they don't have to actually bully the guy they just have to use him as a way to speculate, create a problem, gossip and bond together in creating a solution for a problem they created all the whole not taking a breather to check with reality.
She literally posted this crazy shit on Reddit for christ sakes, that's enough to convince me the hens constructed their own little world in the henhouse
Ugh, man. I work across the hall from the “girl” whose office tends to be the meeting place for mean-girling at my work, the henhouse to steal your excellent term. About once every two weeks or so I’ll see two or three other “girls” walking in there talking about “tea” and then the door shuts. An hour later it opens and these women in their 20s to 40s sashay out giggling about whatever it is this time, though it’s always about their fellow workers. I just do what Dan does, keep my head down and don’t see my coworkers before 9 or after 5, and socialize as little as possible in between those hours, and don’t socialize with “girls” at all if I can help it.
Edit: That’s a slight lie, I do enjoy talking to the little old lady who runs the front desk. That’s on account of she’s a normal human being.
He probably doesn't want to get pound me tooed.
Dan sounds like a very intelligent young man.
Also potentially hot. These women are either thirsting, or just pissed he's not simping.
Also, absolutely fuck that bitch who wants to go to HR. I don't say this often, but I think it's absolutely warranted here...what a fucking cunt.
Repeal the 19th.
https://www.reveddit.com/v/relationship_advice/comments/10yx39j/a_colleague_at_work_27m_of_1_year_refuses_to/
Haha, wow you weren't kidding. Hundreds of comments and not one seemed to be agreeing with her that didn't come off as sarcasm.
If only people could maintain this same “mind your own business and let other people mind theirs” energy about issues like who plays what video games and other stuff unworthy of freakouts online and IRL. The original thread at least makes me happy that people have their limits to what they’ll accept as, I dunno, “trauma” or whatever word were using now, demanding of social intervention.
HR might fire him. I mean, it better fire him, if it choses to pursue this garble, cuz this'll make the work environment frankly hostile, not merely "unacceptably cordial".
This 'tude is why.
This brand of wamen sucks.
DAN
HAL's much sexier cousin
Men have to treat women at work like a fucking minefield, best to simply avoid them, for how easy it is for a woman to destroy a man's career for no reason. If you just don't talk to them and keep it strictly professional, when they do go to HR, they will have no ability to bring anything against you. This is a demon of the "me too" movement and the result of radical feminism. Men don't want to train, talk to or interact with women at work, it is too risky.
And one of them is thinking of crying to HR about it because he doesn't want to be, or doesn't feel safe being, on friendly terms with them. Essentially using an authority figure to force someone to be her friend.
Vile.
Sanest Gen Z female.
HR is retarded enough that they would probably find the complaint justified. Especially since she knows all the buzz words.
"Lady, you should smile more to your coworkers." Mysoginy. Harassment.
"Dude, you should smile more to your coworkers." ... Or else it's also mysoginy and harassment.
Story twist: you were working at a meat plant and the HR complaint was from the cows you were butchering. ;)