Other seemingly popular actual interests: spicy books, social media, fur babies/cats, getting others to buy them shit they cannot afford themselves but think they deserve.
You can even just put in your face and generate whatever you want now. Don't even need to be too tech savy since people have ready made work flows ready you just put in our image. Very careful I would be around stuff that looks too good to be true.
You should look into last minute flights and cheap accommodations. That might explain a thing or two. Also, another thing is that you're thinking about one or two week vacations, while they might just be weekend trips.
And don't forget, a lot of women are white collar workers and have disposable income.
Why would you go on a vacation with a complete stranger? Factor in the 'every man is a potential rapist' notion of modern day women and you can pretty much guarantee that such a spur of the moment vacation isn't happening.
By mentioning traveling they mean: you've got disposable income, you don't have children (or pets) and they expect you to have the time to go on vacation.
If they're angling for gold, that's not happening either.
For some, it’s probably an invitation for a quid pro quo pseudo escort situation like how some instagram sluts will be flown out on private jets to glamorous locations in exchange for fucking rich dudes. For others, it’s just a financial shit test to weed out the guys who are poor.
I’ve tried eharmony and may try again in the spring. The issue with dating apps is that while women get perverted messages, they do get plenty of messages from guys who legit want to talk to them even if they are below average so they can be very picky. Guys may get 5 responses for every 100 messages they send unless they are a 9 or 10 on the looks scale. The few times I met up for coffee they most likely had multiple dates that week (one actually told me she is in no rush since so many guys message her).
I’ve the the travel thing as well as the single mom with 2 or 3 kids demanding that the guy that messages her have a 6 figure job.
To be fair, if I was getting a bunch of messages from ladies then I would be very picky. This is an endless cycle and the main reason so many men leave dating apps/sites.
Such a shame the dating profile of "I have no real standout features or desires other than maintaining statistical average looks, weight, and health. Most of my time is spent shitposting on 8chan." is so rare.
They expect the 1% (to be honest I think it's less than that) on there that are good looking and loaded to take them to places.
Never mind the fact that they probably were going there anyway and wanted to take a side piece from a country with STD checks to another so they can get their dick wet without worry. The problem with these dating sites is women get exposed to those guys once, think they can ALWAYS get those kinds of guys and then get disappointed it was a one night stand and they're now too old to get the liberty of choice.
They also don't want to take on the responsibility and management of the trip itself; they want to be taken care of and have everything put on a silver platter for them.
...I'm being a little unfair here, but I admit slight frustration, as my version of 'I like to travel' and women's version of 'I like to travel' are often radically different. My version involves road trips and spending time in national forests where the nearest toilet is several miles away; their version involves fancy resorts and being around way too many people.
and STILL is trying to convince me after telling me all about how it was limping along and passengers were out on restriction how great they are. Some people just like things you don't.
Cruises are a decent way to get places that are otherwise hard to get to. Like, I did the inside passage in Alaska, which is cheesy AF, but I also haven't been back to any of those places. Cuz it's fuckin hard to get there otherwise. I don't regret that trip.
It's mostly terrible, though. Wherever you go, there are too many people that you came with.
For instance, when I go to Islands sometimes, if the cruise ships are in you avoid their terminal like the plague.
My son told my mother she's not allowed to go on The Flying Titanic, and my mother acted like that was an advertisement. For a flying ship with the name Titanic.
Yep, as others mentioned, "traveling" is a euphemism for going abroad and getting railed by the Chads and Tyrones.
If you really want an insight into how women think, definitely subscribe to Hoe Math. He's a guy who's been on both sides of the fence, as the virgin Joe and as the alpha Chad. He explains that being a Chad is not what it's cracked up to be, and that women are actually worse once you reach Chad-like status.
A "bucket list" isn't for things you want to do regularly, it's things you want to do at least once in your life (before you "kick the bucket" i.e. die).
Women just put on dating apps what they think they are supposed to in order to sound attractive. In reality most girls like watching shitty tv shows and crime documentaries/podcasts. Everything else a girl posts about is fluff to sound more interesting than she is.
All women on dating apps are “into yoga and travelling” but they just say that to sound interesting: they’re all actually into Netflix and wine.
Other seemingly popular actual interests: spicy books, social media, fur babies/cats, getting others to buy them shit they cannot afford themselves but think they deserve.
You can even just put in your face and generate whatever you want now. Don't even need to be too tech savy since people have ready made work flows ready you just put in our image. Very careful I would be around stuff that looks too good to be true.
You should look into last minute flights and cheap accommodations. That might explain a thing or two. Also, another thing is that you're thinking about one or two week vacations, while they might just be weekend trips.
And don't forget, a lot of women are white collar workers and have disposable income.
Why would you go on a vacation with a complete stranger? Factor in the 'every man is a potential rapist' notion of modern day women and you can pretty much guarantee that such a spur of the moment vacation isn't happening.
By mentioning traveling they mean: you've got disposable income, you don't have children (or pets) and they expect you to have the time to go on vacation.
If they're angling for gold, that's not happening either.
Fuck is such a versatile word too
For some, it’s probably an invitation for a quid pro quo pseudo escort situation like how some instagram sluts will be flown out on private jets to glamorous locations in exchange for fucking rich dudes. For others, it’s just a financial shit test to weed out the guys who are poor.
Travel is just code for seeking foreign dick, I'm convinced.
I always took it as "free vacation" but they aren't mutually exclusive
I’ve tried eharmony and may try again in the spring. The issue with dating apps is that while women get perverted messages, they do get plenty of messages from guys who legit want to talk to them even if they are below average so they can be very picky. Guys may get 5 responses for every 100 messages they send unless they are a 9 or 10 on the looks scale. The few times I met up for coffee they most likely had multiple dates that week (one actually told me she is in no rush since so many guys message her). I’ve the the travel thing as well as the single mom with 2 or 3 kids demanding that the guy that messages her have a 6 figure job.
To be fair, if I was getting a bunch of messages from ladies then I would be very picky. This is an endless cycle and the main reason so many men leave dating apps/sites.
Pity we can’t use chatGPT to spam all of Asian/non-psycho women and just let it notify us when the date is scheduled
Oh really?! So guys make a profile and wait favor a woman to contact them?
I’ve read so many articles wondering why guys quit online dating
I haven't opened a dating app in years, but from what I remember, every other thot on there that even bothered to put anything in her bio was like:
I love traveling (= take me on expensive vacations)
I love good food (= take me to expensive dinners)
I love shopping (= buy me expensive shit)
I love to laugh (= entertain me, because I'm incapable of doing so myself, having no hobbies)
And also, often a link to Instagram (= I am an e-whore)
Such a shame the dating profile of "I have no real standout features or desires other than maintaining statistical average looks, weight, and health. Most of my time is spent shitposting on 8chan." is so rare.
The average weight rises (like a fire) so it isn't that good today.
I still don't understand why "average" size isn't ideal size. Someone will say it's a cope, but evolution made men a certain size for a reason.
I don't mean average like super fat American average. I just mean why isn't 5'9" 170 and fit the ideal?
They expect the 1% (to be honest I think it's less than that) on there that are good looking and loaded to take them to places.
Never mind the fact that they probably were going there anyway and wanted to take a side piece from a country with STD checks to another so they can get their dick wet without worry. The problem with these dating sites is women get exposed to those guys once, think they can ALWAYS get those kinds of guys and then get disappointed it was a one night stand and they're now too old to get the liberty of choice.
They also don't want to take on the responsibility and management of the trip itself; they want to be taken care of and have everything put on a silver platter for them.
...I'm being a little unfair here, but I admit slight frustration, as my version of 'I like to travel' and women's version of 'I like to travel' are often radically different. My version involves road trips and spending time in national forests where the nearest toilet is several miles away; their version involves fancy resorts and being around way too many people.
Oh yeah, almost every woman mentions traveling.
That and mentioning therapy are super common.
My mom and stepdad constantly go on cruises, and they can't understand that I don't want them to buy me one. Some people really do think that's fun.
My mother was just on this...
https://www.cruisehive.com/carnival-cruise-ship-in-trouble-with-engine-difficulties/114969
and STILL is trying to convince me after telling me all about how it was limping along and passengers were out on restriction how great they are. Some people just like things you don't.
Many cruiseships are essentially just a floating buffet.
Cruises are a decent way to get places that are otherwise hard to get to. Like, I did the inside passage in Alaska, which is cheesy AF, but I also haven't been back to any of those places. Cuz it's fuckin hard to get there otherwise. I don't regret that trip.
It's mostly terrible, though. Wherever you go, there are too many people that you came with.
For instance, when I go to Islands sometimes, if the cruise ships are in you avoid their terminal like the plague.
My son told my mother she's not allowed to go on The Flying Titanic, and my mother acted like that was an advertisement. For a flying ship with the name Titanic.
I know chadfishing is instructive, but it's equally instructive to make a normie Woman account and see what the experience is like too.
Women travel to collect foreign sperm. It's biological, even gorillas do it.
Yep, as others mentioned, "traveling" is a euphemism for going abroad and getting railed by the Chads and Tyrones.
If you really want an insight into how women think, definitely subscribe to Hoe Math. He's a guy who's been on both sides of the fence, as the virgin Joe and as the alpha Chad. He explains that being a Chad is not what it's cracked up to be, and that women are actually worse once you reach Chad-like status.
The conundrum you explained is outlined in this video here: https://youtu.be/7rgXgANHrhk
A couple of others well worth it, too: https://youtu.be/7VO_kFCaj1o
And I simply could not stop laughing at this one here: https://youtu.be/_zK1Uqb8kUk
A "bucket list" isn't for things you want to do regularly, it's things you want to do at least once in your life (before you "kick the bucket" i.e. die).
Wanna play bingo?
Hobbies: 🛩🍔🐕🍷 sometimes also 🎬
MySpace magic / strategic photography/ only groupshot photos (she's always the worst looking one)
Some unnecessarily aggressive self aggrandizing boast: "Your friends dog will find me funnier than you" you know those kind of statements
Is Asian. That gets its own space
It's really not that hard or expensive to go places. Maybe the way these women want it, it is.
I guess everything is relative, but if you're not adding up those uber eats and netflix bills, you can trade money for time as needed.
Women just put on dating apps what they think they are supposed to in order to sound attractive. In reality most girls like watching shitty tv shows and crime documentaries/podcasts. Everything else a girl posts about is fluff to sound more interesting than she is.