Why would you go on a vacation with a complete stranger? Factor in the 'every man is a potential rapist' notion of modern day women and you can pretty much guarantee that such a spur of the moment vacation isn't happening.

By mentioning traveling they mean: you've got disposable income, you don't have children (or pets) and they expect you to have the time to go on vacation.

If they're angling for gold, that's not happening either.