So I've decided to be random and I thought I'd give the dating app hinge a try as it seems to be the least worse option I can see and it does seem to have some somewhat real looking profiles on it.
I wonder if any guys have been in this situation, but have you noticed how many of them constantly list travelling to <Insert exotic country> on their bucket list or they actually want a boyfriend to come with them and do it. Now I'm not against that for a holiday at all or anything like that but it seems like these women actually want to do it on the regular and these are women in their 30's.
It's not even an outlier thing either because this is clearly a trend but it made me realise how much I'm working currently. Do they honestly not realise that most guys are fucking broke and working their arses off to keep a roof over their heads? Most of them can't afford to go jet setting across the world which explains why they only end up going after the usual stereotypes that they hate and end up being cum dumpsters.
I just found it baffling, not the first time I've been weirded out by the normies.
All women on dating apps are “into yoga and travelling” but they just say that to sound interesting: they’re all actually into Netflix and wine.
Other seemingly popular actual interests: spicy books, social media, fur babies/cats, getting others to buy them shit they cannot afford themselves but think they deserve.
Oh yeah I've seen that crap, there's also women who do have legit looking photos of places they've been though ( Unless it's AI generated, can't discount that these days ) and I found it very baffling.
You can even just put in your face and generate whatever you want now. Don't even need to be too tech savy since people have ready made work flows ready you just put in our image. Very careful I would be around stuff that looks too good to be true.
You should look into last minute flights and cheap accommodations. That might explain a thing or two. Also, another thing is that you're thinking about one or two week vacations, while they might just be weekend trips.
And don't forget, a lot of women are white collar workers and have disposable income.
Some places? Yeah, depends on where, I've sort of contemplated Eastern Europe myself as a potential 'cheap' option. What I would do is potentially either fly there or go by car via the channel tunnel. Alternatively train I guess if I want to travel the world a bit and get drunk normie style.
Would I do that with a total stranger girl who's almost certainly using me for a free trip? No, fuck that, would be even worse if she turned out to be one of those creepy phone addict zombies so it's all manner of wrong or if she was just generally bad company. I feel like when it comes to travelling that's definitely one of those moment you have to know a person if you go along with them and know they're chill. Which also tells you that these women either have the worse survival instincts imaginable and are probably a liability to keep around
Why would you go on a vacation with a complete stranger? Factor in the 'every man is a potential rapist' notion of modern day women and you can pretty much guarantee that such a spur of the moment vacation isn't happening.
By mentioning traveling they mean: you've got disposable income, you don't have children (or pets) and they expect you to have the time to go on vacation.
If they're angling for gold, that's not happening either.