I’ve tried eharmony and may try again in the spring. The issue with dating apps is that while women get perverted messages, they do get plenty of messages from guys who legit want to talk to them even if they are below average so they can be very picky. Guys may get 5 responses for every 100 messages they send unless they are a 9 or 10 on the looks scale. The few times I met up for coffee they most likely had multiple dates that week (one actually told me she is in no rush since so many guys message her).
I’ve the the travel thing as well as the single mom with 2 or 3 kids demanding that the guy that messages her have a 6 figure job.
To be fair, if I was getting a bunch of messages from ladies then I would be very picky. This is an endless cycle and the main reason so many men leave dating apps/sites.
I’ve tried eharmony and may try again in the spring. The issue with dating apps is that while women get perverted messages, they do get plenty of messages from guys who legit want to talk to them even if they are below average so they can be very picky. Guys may get 5 responses for every 100 messages they send unless they are a 9 or 10 on the looks scale. The few times I met up for coffee they most likely had multiple dates that week (one actually told me she is in no rush since so many guys message her). I’ve the the travel thing as well as the single mom with 2 or 3 kids demanding that the guy that messages her have a 6 figure job.
To be fair, if I was getting a bunch of messages from ladies then I would be very picky. This is an endless cycle and the main reason so many men leave dating apps/sites.
Pity we can’t use chatGPT to spam all of Asian/non-psycho women and just let it notify us when the date is scheduled
Oh really?! So guys make a profile and wait favor a woman to contact them?
I’ve read so many articles wondering why guys quit online dating