It's hard if you're in a relationship. Generally speaking, they want every second of your time that you're not working. Mowing the lawn and fixing the house are things your wife will let you get away with because they're effectively work.
“How dare you sleep in! Don’t you have WORK to do!”
Thus, I busied myself with housework and cooking, to the point of spending too much time doing it, because at least it shut them up, and they were less likely to complain about that…
Eh, at least I’m “well-prepared” if a spouse ever comes along…
But yeah, it’s… I wouldn’t recommend that experience. To anyone…
Learning about how different grasses come in different shapes, colors, sizes, densities, and adapt to different soils is interesting. Women or no women.
Yup. A buddy of mine has a BA in psychology and he says the APA is ideologically compromised. They consider "toxic masculinity" a disorder now. Most therapists are feminists and frankly feminism is the root cause of a lot mental health problems men have.
Read the latest DSM from the APA. It says everything you need to know about the profession. Shrinks have always bent with the cultural winds, since what they do is not that much different from witch doctoring.
Because modern therapy is based off methods designed to treat women by talking about something face to face. Men don't do this.
Men share problems the same way they share burdens: shoulder to shoulder.
If you are a guy and one of your friends is going through shit the second best thing you can do is not ask about it. The best thing you can do is spend time with your friend doing stuff like hiking/exercising until he feels ready to bring up whatever is going on. But I bet you he won't be facing you when he starts talking about it and might never do.
Exactly. Talking is overrated. Much of it is pointless fluff. Taking your buddy out shooting, going to the gym or a sauna together is much more effective at reducing stress.
Because modern therapy is based off methods designed to treat women by talking about something face to face. Men don't do this.
If you are a guy and one of your friends is going through shit the second best thing you can do is not ask about it.
This is stereotyped nonsense. Masculinity isn't about being a macho caricature. Putting thought into words and untangling it through conversation is how I solve my issues and I'm not unmasculine.
If you are a guy and one of your friends is going through shit the second best thing you can do is not ask about it.
I think that might be a tad too far. Having a deep conversation with a friend, that helps them sort themselves out, and find a way of fixing what's wrong is very beneficial. Just talking for talking or de-stressing is a different issue. Your friend might actually want help, rather than just want you to listen to him bitch.
For a while in lockdown I started having constant anxiety. Getting nervous as fuck, feelings of impending doom, couldn't bring myself to get out of bed in the morning, couldn't sleep at night, sometimes worrying myself the point of shivering convulsions and heaving. At one point I could barely stand up because of the tremors.
Did I go to the doctor? Did I seek a shrink?
No. When one wave of anxiety passed, I got on my bike and rode it until I was exhausted. Physically beaten, I stayed home and I painted. And then I did it again a few days later when my body stopped aching. And I ached for less time each time I did it. I worried a little less each day.
My anxiety went from debilitating to non-existant in a month. No doctor, no shrink, no pills.
Which is… I think the whole point (your last sentence, that is)…
I wouldn’t go so far as to suggest such a situation is deliberately engineered, in “modern” society, but it’s… It’s not like we don’t KNOW that already. Yet we’re told to “sit down, shut up, take this pill and stop questioning things”…
Anyone can benefit from a sympathetic ear and honest self-reflection, and some men have problems that need a different approach than just throwing themselves at a healthy activity.
But are men going to derive any benefit from from modern (aka pozzed) psychiatry? Probably not. You're right that masculinity is the cure more often than not. Telling someone to stop overthinking and get outside/go lift some weights/eat healthier is probably going to solve 90% of their problems.
Our modern, forced-feminized society is simply toxic to men, and nobody cares. Except the people who want to poison us.
she can have whatever standards she wants in her tiny mind
but the moment she verbalizes them and thinks her words carry any kind of weight with a man then you know she has been at least partially absorbed by the feminist hivemind
That's too far. Women are complimentary to you, you need to have their input in a relationship, otherwise they will become resentful of you and walk away.
There is nothing masculine about therapy. Therapy is a fundamentally feminine pursuit. Men don't deal with personal issues by talking about them. We do it through action, even if what we do has nothing to do with the problem. Work stress? Play vidya and shoot some NPCs. Relationship stress? Go camping with your dog for a weekend and leave the bitch at home. Someone died? Go drinking with your friends and stop thinking about it for a while. Women perceive these things as "avoidance behaviour" and "not dealing with the problem." They don't understand that men need to shut their emotions off for a while in order to get perspective.
Women see callousness and bluntness in the same vein. Like when my grandfather died a couple of years ago, and as expected whenever the date rolls around my now ex would get all emotional, then call me callous or unemotional because I wouldnt join the pity party.
Having the perspective and understanding that they're dead, means you can be sad, without being an emotional wreck once a year. Same applies to a lot of things right down to "avoidant" behaviour of going camping or working on something.
They've mistakenly taught themselves that men have to "fix" everything which isn't true. We have to fix everything... IF we can. But first we assess.
My dad died when I was twelve. I cried for a week or two as a boy, and then I was done crying and it was over. I'm a man now and I don't get sad about his death. I don't even think about it unless my mother asks me to come visit his grave. What's done is done. I felt sorrow at the time, but that time passed and we have to get over what happened instead of feeling sorry for ourselves. Once we accept what happened, what is there to be emotional about?
It's not normal for a man to be emotional. Women think it should be because that is their nature. If a man is solid, they think he must be "avoiding his true feelings", like putting on an act to appear strong. Except we don't need to "appear strong". It's a fact of life for us if we aren't betas.
The site's shitty design led to the title being covered in the archive. The original title is "New dating deal-breaker just dropped: not going to therapy".
I know it's mostly women pushing this, but whenever I read the sentence "Men should go to therapy." I can't help but read it in the most faggoty soy boy lisp you can imagine. It should also go without saying that women are only holding betas to this standard, since they would never make an alpha jump through this or any other hoop before they fuck him. Meanwhile anyone who's not a simp isn't going to partake in this clown show for the privilege of dealing with the modern woman's bullshit for the slight chance of being able to date a fat single mother with an entitlement complex. Anyway, onto some fun quotes from the article:
Tweets like “All men should be required to go to therapy before pursuing a relationship with anyone lol, Mfers out here running rampant and ruining every soul in sight” rack up thousands of likes.
Yes, progressive echo chambers feel entitled to tell men to spend their own time and money getting indoctrinated with hateful communist dogma. Life pro tip: If a progressive tells a group that they hate what they should do or not do members of that group are best off ignoring that "advice" and in many cases doing the exact opposite of what the progressives want. It shouldn't need to be said but these people do not have our best interests at heart.
The preference is so prevalent that Hinge has even added a “my therapist would say I…” prompt to the app, making it easier for users to spot which matches are taking care of their mental health.
Yeah, it's totally about what the users want and not part of a coordinated agenda being pushed by our rotten institutions. Fucking retards. These apps allow trannies into the pool without requiring them to disclose or letting people filter them out despite the fact that no one wants anything to do with them. They don't give a shit about their users. It's all about pushing a sick agenda.
This feeling isn’t exclusive to women. 26-year-old Harry* uses Hinge and says he prefers to date men and women who have been to therapy...
They're trying to convey the false impression that men feel this way too. But wait, Harry* is a fag. Women and fags are shitting up the culture again? Say it ain't so...
But on a broader scale, I worry this fascination with therapy...
...it’s also fed into an obsession with therapy and pathologising, well, everything, including dating behaviour.
Meanwhile, Instagram accounts, which may or may not be run by therapists, dissect the dating world through the lens of psychological tools like attachment theory. Social media is also rampant with posts accusing ex-partners, current partners and dates of being mentally unwell for behaviours like “leaving them on read” or “taking things too slow”.
The problem is that these generalisations weaken the real meaning of psychological terms and tools in order to make people feel better about rejection.
Finally a little honesty about what's really going on. The nutjob college girl who diagnoses people who do things she doesn't like with psychological disorders a week after she starts Psychology 101 is pretty much a meme. But now any woman who's gone to fucking therapy is prone to this. She didn't get her way so it must be because he has some kind of mental problem. If there's one thing women excel at above all else it's avoiding personal responsibility for anything.
People often act like “I’ve been to therapy” translates to “I’m incredible in bed” or “I possess magical powers of self awareness and intelligence.”
Yup. So many people (especially progressives) going to therapy act like they're beacons of enlightenment spreading the wisdom of the world as they walk amongst the ignorant proles. You know, like typical leftists. It gives their tiny little minds the justification they need to continue being the same insufferable assholes they've always been. You know, like typical leftists.
Women are full of shit with their check lists and ticking boxes. They will never meet anyone halfway and they will never admit their shortcomings. YOU ARE BETTER OFF WITHOUT THEM
a couple zoomers I know insist that any man who goes to therapy automatically becomes 3 points hotter on their personal scale
Yeah, everyone knows how great spineless cucks are with the ladies. This is why you should watch what they do instead of listening to what they say.
I'll go back to dating...nobody, I guess, because Millennials suck too.
Yeah, I'd be going after the same age range if I hadn't gone MGTOW. When they say there's plenty of fish in the sea they neglect to mention that the feminists have spent the past 60 years dumping toxic sludge into that sea. All the healthy fish are already picked out and the ones left are sick, poisonous, or straight up mutants (ie trannies). Oh well. Escorts are a much better deal anyway.
If you're a retard about it there are all kinds of risks. If you know what you're doing it's not really any more dangerous than shoplifting in blue hellholes with woke DAs.
Fair enough. I think it's best to give men an honest assessment of the risk and ways to reduce it, especially since dealing with the modern woman comes with its own set of risks. MGTOW is the only rational response to clown world and if we're telling men that monk mode is the only option they'll let their dicks lead them into being betabuxed. What a fucking mess feminists have made of the world.
What they've done is attack men based on the worst men's behaviors, but then they start replacing male abuse with the female version of what's basically the same abuse.
The difference is that when men are abusive you at least now it's bad.
When women are abusive they manage to convince everything their abuse "is a good thing".
Yep. Bad men rule by physical force. Bad women rule by manipulation.
Also compounding this is the push for "equity" -- women are less likely to be good leaders. It doesn't mean it's impossible, it just means the more we push it towards 50/50 the more leadership positions are being occupied by vapid, petty tyrants without any leadership qualities at all.
One of the most visible female "leaders" in the current zeitgeist is CDC Director Walensky. Just try to imagine her taking responsibility for anything - it's impossible because she's proven herself incapable.
I blame a lot of this on BetterHelp in the last few years. Even after they were caught doing incredibly fucked shit in their initial shill runs, they managed to bounce back and now every fucking podcast has ads for them.
One of the big lines I've heard is things like "oil change for your brain" wherein the therapy is treated like a pressure relief valve. Which, as someone who is trained to be a therapist, is incredibly retarded and has no idea what counseling is.
However, its a great marketing pitch for "online therapy" like more than half of these bitches go to. Wherein you just emotional tampon someone who is basically one step above a bot, then act like you are better for it.
i doubt this is really true, just like the articles about hordes of young people getting themselves sterilized after the SC Obergefell case removed federal abortions. It is social conditioning.
It's certainly not true if the dude in question is an alpha. I wouldn't be shocked if they really are holding betas to this though. What's one more requirement when they already have a list of 300+ "standards" betas need to be meet before they'll even kind of think about considering dating them?
there is an endless series of hoops to jump through if you are "beta", if you are someone she likes she will break her own rules. Lesson to learn is dont listen to women, and I say that with sadness because I wish it wasnt the case.
Everyone believes themselves to be within certain margins of "average".
If someone thinks therapy is a must-have... They probably are crazy. After all, write what you know, and they "know" that they need therapy, and thus, assume everyone else does too.
Therapy can be helpful but it's just one tool out of many and it's not this panacea that people claim it is.
That said, any woman who places such an importance on tHeRaPy probably has deep seated mental problems and should be avoided. The point of therapy is to get to a point where you no longer need it. You got mfers going 5, 10, or even more years. Come on now. 🙄
There’s so much wrong with this that I have nothing to say but: men, if a woman says this to you before she even knows you? Run. Run so far away. (As Flock of Seagulls would say).
Therapy is psychology. Psychology validates transgenderism. Transgenderism is the destruction of masculinity. Thusly, therapy can be nothing but the destruction of masculinity.
I think even most women would agree that something is wrong. More than a quarter of all woman over aged 60 are currently on antidepressants. the higher the education level, the higher the usage of antidepressants. Around 1/5 of ALL adult women are on antidepressants.
(And a large number of men, though not nearly as high, are on antidepressants too.)
So is it women that are broken naturally, modern women that are broken, our modern society that breaks people, etc?
I think modern society just kind of sucks. Yes, there are so many wonderful things, amazing opportunities, and basically no one in America has to worry about having enough food to eat. Social media and constantly being connected seems to really be hard for women though. It's like living all your life in highschool social circles.
Women having no need to settle is the bigger issue. Without the internet most men's connection to the outside world at this point would just be taking orders from one's boss and buying groceries.
It's all of the above. The man's job is to be the solid foundation for a woman. We bring her back to reality from the depths of hell. When we don't do that, we find hell on earth as we do now.
Women are reverting to their natural state because society told us we're not allowed to discipline them. This is a failure of men more than anything. Evil men taking advantage and weak men letting it happen
Discipline is more than just violence. Its also morals and values that are shared and protected in the communities you live in. We wouldnt be here if men stood up for what they believed in instead of kowtowing to the egalitarians for decades
So self-impose it then. Don't date trashy, slutty women. Talk about what an ideal woman actually is in your personal life. If men did only those things, then things would be different. There are too many thirsty simps, creating the situation that we have now.
Men don't need therapy.
For a man, therapy is going into your garage and scratch building a bike rack out of scrap. Or walking up a mountain.
"Captain Kirk is climbing the mountain, why is he climbing the mountain?"
Because Shatner saw himself getting old as fuck and he needed to remind himself he was still alive and still able to do things.
"To challenge the rock. Challenge death."
No man needs to sit on a couch and have some Jewish woman tell him about his toxic masculinity.
Masculinity is the CURE, not the poison.
the gym, the mats, the ring, the woods, the shop but mostly consecutive hours (days, weeks) away from women
Yeah, those men that love mowing their lawns. It's not about the lawn. It's about being away from the god damned woman.
Getting away from women is hardly a problem for most men.
It's hard if you're in a relationship. Generally speaking, they want every second of your time that you're not working. Mowing the lawn and fixing the house are things your wife will let you get away with because they're effectively work.
My parents both did this to me, growing up…
“Why are you sitting down? DO something!”
“How dare you sleep in! Don’t you have WORK to do!”
Thus, I busied myself with housework and cooking, to the point of spending too much time doing it, because at least it shut them up, and they were less likely to complain about that…
Eh, at least I’m “well-prepared” if a spouse ever comes along…
But yeah, it’s… I wouldn’t recommend that experience. To anyone…
Hey!
Learning about how different grasses come in different shapes, colors, sizes, densities, and adapt to different soils is interesting. Women or no women.
See also: boats, sheds, “holiday houses” (like any of us can afford that, lol), tinkering with cars, gardening (to a lesser extent), etc…
“Why aren’t you around more? Reeee!!” -her.
I had a den once, but my old lady at the time moved in her spawn from another marriage and they took it over as a bedroom.
It was the last straw.
I hope that taught you that single mothers are for recreation only.
100%
Some people need therapy to be told that, though many therapists today might do more harm that good.
Yup. A buddy of mine has a BA in psychology and he says the APA is ideologically compromised. They consider "toxic masculinity" a disorder now. Most therapists are feminists and frankly feminism is the root cause of a lot mental health problems men have.
Read the latest DSM from the APA. It says everything you need to know about the profession. Shrinks have always bent with the cultural winds, since what they do is not that much different from witch doctoring.
Psychology was the first institution that was taken over, back when they caved to the gay lobby to consider homosexual behavior as perfectly healthy.
Because modern therapy is based off methods designed to treat women by talking about something face to face. Men don't do this.
If you are a guy and one of your friends is going through shit the second best thing you can do is not ask about it. The best thing you can do is spend time with your friend doing stuff like hiking/exercising until he feels ready to bring up whatever is going on. But I bet you he won't be facing you when he starts talking about it and might never do.
Exactly. Talking is overrated. Much of it is pointless fluff. Taking your buddy out shooting, going to the gym or a sauna together is much more effective at reducing stress.
This is stereotyped nonsense. Masculinity isn't about being a macho caricature. Putting thought into words and untangling it through conversation is how I solve my issues and I'm not unmasculine.
I think that might be a tad too far. Having a deep conversation with a friend, that helps them sort themselves out, and find a way of fixing what's wrong is very beneficial. Just talking for talking or de-stressing is a different issue. Your friend might actually want help, rather than just want you to listen to him bitch.
Yeah, this is the case for a bunch of men who are already below par and have no idea how to begin unfucking themselves.
If this was Reddit I would give you a badge for some such thing as Comment of the Day - but it's not so just know you're right - that's enough for men
For a while in lockdown I started having constant anxiety. Getting nervous as fuck, feelings of impending doom, couldn't bring myself to get out of bed in the morning, couldn't sleep at night, sometimes worrying myself the point of shivering convulsions and heaving. At one point I could barely stand up because of the tremors.
Did I go to the doctor? Did I seek a shrink?
No. When one wave of anxiety passed, I got on my bike and rode it until I was exhausted. Physically beaten, I stayed home and I painted. And then I did it again a few days later when my body stopped aching. And I ached for less time each time I did it. I worried a little less each day.
My anxiety went from debilitating to non-existant in a month. No doctor, no shrink, no pills.
Literally just go outside and exercise.
What did you paint?
3D prints of fat tittied goblins.
TITW
Which is… I think the whole point (your last sentence, that is)…
I wouldn’t go so far as to suggest such a situation is deliberately engineered, in “modern” society, but it’s… It’s not like we don’t KNOW that already. Yet we’re told to “sit down, shut up, take this pill and stop questioning things”…
Big sad
Anyone can benefit from a sympathetic ear and honest self-reflection, and some men have problems that need a different approach than just throwing themselves at a healthy activity.
But are men going to derive any benefit from from modern (aka pozzed) psychiatry? Probably not. You're right that masculinity is the cure more often than not. Telling someone to stop overthinking and get outside/go lift some weights/eat healthier is probably going to solve 90% of their problems.
Our modern, forced-feminized society is simply toxic to men, and nobody cares. Except the people who want to poison us.
Any woman who makes any demands whatsoever isn't relationship material.
Remember kids, she makes rules for beta bux and breaks them for chad.
Yup, I said that in my own comment. Only a simp would participate in a clown show like this.
Some rules are completely reasonable:
etcetera...
she can have whatever standards she wants in her tiny mind
but the moment she verbalizes them and thinks her words carry any kind of weight with a man then you know she has been at least partially absorbed by the feminist hivemind
That's too far. Women are complimentary to you, you need to have their input in a relationship, otherwise they will become resentful of you and walk away.
Especially if you fucked the dog.
There is nothing masculine about therapy. Therapy is a fundamentally feminine pursuit. Men don't deal with personal issues by talking about them. We do it through action, even if what we do has nothing to do with the problem. Work stress? Play vidya and shoot some NPCs. Relationship stress? Go camping with your dog for a weekend and leave the bitch at home. Someone died? Go drinking with your friends and stop thinking about it for a while. Women perceive these things as "avoidance behaviour" and "not dealing with the problem." They don't understand that men need to shut their emotions off for a while in order to get perspective.
Woah there buddy. Cool it with the toxic masculinity. 300 pound feminist big mad.
Women see callousness and bluntness in the same vein. Like when my grandfather died a couple of years ago, and as expected whenever the date rolls around my now ex would get all emotional, then call me callous or unemotional because I wouldnt join the pity party.
Having the perspective and understanding that they're dead, means you can be sad, without being an emotional wreck once a year. Same applies to a lot of things right down to "avoidant" behaviour of going camping or working on something.
They've mistakenly taught themselves that men have to "fix" everything which isn't true. We have to fix everything... IF we can. But first we assess.
My dad died when I was twelve. I cried for a week or two as a boy, and then I was done crying and it was over. I'm a man now and I don't get sad about his death. I don't even think about it unless my mother asks me to come visit his grave. What's done is done. I felt sorrow at the time, but that time passed and we have to get over what happened instead of feeling sorry for ourselves. Once we accept what happened, what is there to be emotional about?
It's not normal for a man to be emotional. Women think it should be because that is their nature. If a man is solid, they think he must be "avoiding his true feelings", like putting on an act to appear strong. Except we don't need to "appear strong". It's a fact of life for us if we aren't betas.
The site's shitty design led to the title being covered in the archive. The original title is "New dating deal-breaker just dropped: not going to therapy".
I know it's mostly women pushing this, but whenever I read the sentence "Men should go to therapy." I can't help but read it in the most faggoty soy boy lisp you can imagine. It should also go without saying that women are only holding betas to this standard, since they would never make an alpha jump through this or any other hoop before they fuck him. Meanwhile anyone who's not a simp isn't going to partake in this clown show for the privilege of dealing with the modern woman's bullshit for the slight chance of being able to date a fat single mother with an entitlement complex. Anyway, onto some fun quotes from the article:
Yes, progressive echo chambers feel entitled to tell men to spend their own time and money getting indoctrinated with hateful communist dogma. Life pro tip: If a progressive tells a group that they hate what they should do or not do members of that group are best off ignoring that "advice" and in many cases doing the exact opposite of what the progressives want. It shouldn't need to be said but these people do not have our best interests at heart.
Yeah, it's totally about what the users want and not part of a coordinated agenda being pushed by our rotten institutions. Fucking retards. These apps allow trannies into the pool without requiring them to disclose or letting people filter them out despite the fact that no one wants anything to do with them. They don't give a shit about their users. It's all about pushing a sick agenda.
They're trying to convey the false impression that men feel this way too. But wait, Harry* is a fag. Women and fags are shitting up the culture again? Say it ain't so...
Finally a little honesty about what's really going on. The nutjob college girl who diagnoses people who do things she doesn't like with psychological disorders a week after she starts Psychology 101 is pretty much a meme. But now any woman who's gone to fucking therapy is prone to this. She didn't get her way so it must be because he has some kind of mental problem. If there's one thing women excel at above all else it's avoiding personal responsibility for anything.
Yup. So many people (especially progressives) going to therapy act like they're beacons of enlightenment spreading the wisdom of the world as they walk amongst the ignorant proles. You know, like typical leftists. It gives their tiny little minds the justification they need to continue being the same insufferable assholes they've always been. You know, like typical leftists.
Why even bother? It's too much effort for no pay out.
Some people fish, others go whaling.
Women are full of shit with their check lists and ticking boxes. They will never meet anyone halfway and they will never admit their shortcomings. YOU ARE BETTER OFF WITHOUT THEM
Yeah, everyone knows how great spineless cucks are with the ladies. This is why you should watch what they do instead of listening to what they say.
Yeah, I'd be going after the same age range if I hadn't gone MGTOW. When they say there's plenty of fish in the sea they neglect to mention that the feminists have spent the past 60 years dumping toxic sludge into that sea. All the healthy fish are already picked out and the ones left are sick, poisonous, or straight up mutants (ie trannies). Oh well. Escorts are a much better deal anyway.
Nope, that's illegal in most places, but don't worry, they'll let the whore go free especially if she trumps up the charges to rape.
If you're a retard about it there are all kinds of risks. If you know what you're doing it's not really any more dangerous than shoplifting in blue hellholes with woke DAs.
That's still too dangerous for most and most won't know what they're doing,
Fair enough. I think it's best to give men an honest assessment of the risk and ways to reduce it, especially since dealing with the modern woman comes with its own set of risks. MGTOW is the only rational response to clown world and if we're telling men that monk mode is the only option they'll let their dicks lead them into being betabuxed. What a fucking mess feminists have made of the world.
"Any guy who goes to therapy is 3 points hotter"
5 minutes later...
"Why are all the guys I go out with either spineless cucks or crazy?"
At the risk of sounding like Imp...
...the female imperative is truly an infection on our culture.
What they've done is attack men based on the worst men's behaviors, but then they start replacing male abuse with the female version of what's basically the same abuse.
The difference is that when men are abusive you at least now it's bad.
When women are abusive they manage to convince everything their abuse "is a good thing".
Yep. Bad men rule by physical force. Bad women rule by manipulation.
Also compounding this is the push for "equity" -- women are less likely to be good leaders. It doesn't mean it's impossible, it just means the more we push it towards 50/50 the more leadership positions are being occupied by vapid, petty tyrants without any leadership qualities at all.
One of the most visible female "leaders" in the current zeitgeist is CDC Director Walensky. Just try to imagine her taking responsibility for anything - it's impossible because she's proven herself incapable.
Haven't read the article and don't plan to but from the headline I've got this to say - this is a shit test, pure and simple.
I blame a lot of this on BetterHelp in the last few years. Even after they were caught doing incredibly fucked shit in their initial shill runs, they managed to bounce back and now every fucking podcast has ads for them.
One of the big lines I've heard is things like "oil change for your brain" wherein the therapy is treated like a pressure relief valve. Which, as someone who is trained to be a therapist, is incredibly retarded and has no idea what counseling is.
However, its a great marketing pitch for "online therapy" like more than half of these bitches go to. Wherein you just emotional tampon someone who is basically one step above a bot, then act like you are better for it.
i doubt this is really true, just like the articles about hordes of young people getting themselves sterilized after the SC Obergefell case removed federal abortions. It is social conditioning.
It's certainly not true if the dude in question is an alpha. I wouldn't be shocked if they really are holding betas to this though. What's one more requirement when they already have a list of 300+ "standards" betas need to be meet before they'll even kind of think about considering dating them?
there is an endless series of hoops to jump through if you are "beta", if you are someone she likes she will break her own rules. Lesson to learn is dont listen to women, and I say that with sadness because I wish it wasnt the case.
Soooo they'll avoid ending up with women who are in therapy? Oh no what terrible retribution for those men not in therapy.
Therapy is for people who cannot communicate from trauma. It's not to mentally abuse people into getting your way. Fuck these cunts.
Projection.
Everyone believes themselves to be within certain margins of "average".
If someone thinks therapy is a must-have... They probably are crazy. After all, write what you know, and they "know" that they need therapy, and thus, assume everyone else does too.
Therapist or the rapist? At this point... it’s hard to tell.
And those women don't need to be dated. Not every woman is datable.
Therapy can be helpful but it's just one tool out of many and it's not this panacea that people claim it is.
That said, any woman who places such an importance on tHeRaPy probably has deep seated mental problems and should be avoided. The point of therapy is to get to a point where you no longer need it. You got mfers going 5, 10, or even more years. Come on now. 🙄
They are always self-projecting themselves onto others. Women with overwhelming mental issues of their own always insist "men" need therapy.
Thots removing themselves from the market? Okay.
My simple answer will be, do you? Then 180 anyway.
Actually this is a great trend! It's like the dating pool is self-chlorinating.
You won't date men who won't go to therapy? Good. Run along now. You've just saved me from having to find out you're a needy psycho the hard way.
This is the only therapy i need not dates (nsfw obviously)
It's stupid as fuck, but look at it as the people you don't want to date weeding themselves out for you.
It's just a shame when otherwise decent women fall for shit like this.
There’s so much wrong with this that I have nothing to say but: men, if a woman says this to you before she even knows you? Run. Run so far away. (As Flock of Seagulls would say).
Seriously…
Jesus, fuck this absolute bullshit…
File Under MGTOW
These sorts of women used to be called "old maids."
Therapy is psychology. Psychology validates transgenderism. Transgenderism is the destruction of masculinity. Thusly, therapy can be nothing but the destruction of masculinity.
No man should submit himself to therapy.
What an easy way to dodge a bullet. Unless you are one of the growing, pussified males in this country.
I think even most women would agree that something is wrong. More than a quarter of all woman over aged 60 are currently on antidepressants. the higher the education level, the higher the usage of antidepressants. Around 1/5 of ALL adult women are on antidepressants.
(And a large number of men, though not nearly as high, are on antidepressants too.)
So is it women that are broken naturally, modern women that are broken, our modern society that breaks people, etc?
I think modern society just kind of sucks. Yes, there are so many wonderful things, amazing opportunities, and basically no one in America has to worry about having enough food to eat. Social media and constantly being connected seems to really be hard for women though. It's like living all your life in highschool social circles.
Women having no need to settle is the bigger issue. Without the internet most men's connection to the outside world at this point would just be taking orders from one's boss and buying groceries.
It's all of the above. The man's job is to be the solid foundation for a woman. We bring her back to reality from the depths of hell. When we don't do that, we find hell on earth as we do now.
Women are reverting to their natural state because society told us we're not allowed to discipline them. This is a failure of men more than anything. Evil men taking advantage and weak men letting it happen
It's a failure of modern men to not throw our lives away to disobey the law?
Discipline is more than just violence. Its also morals and values that are shared and protected in the communities you live in. We wouldnt be here if men stood up for what they believed in instead of kowtowing to the egalitarians for decades
And the enforcing and instilling of those values, even without violence, is a risk to our lives and against the "law".
It's now considered emotional/domestic/controlling abuse or phobic or sexist and yes you can go to jail, lose your job, your home,your family.
Discipline is verboten these days unless it's self imposed.
So self-impose it then. Don't date trashy, slutty women. Talk about what an ideal woman actually is in your personal life. If men did only those things, then things would be different. There are too many thirsty simps, creating the situation that we have now.
Exactly. Sad how many people here are willing to make excuses just because of some vague threat of going to jail.
Ok dummy, my point is men should have done it in the past when they still had a chance. Yes, its too late now. Literally my point.
Not sure why you're being hostile if we're both on the same page. But hey you do you.
It is a failure of modern men to allow women to act this way.
We aren't allowed to control our women anymore.