The show promotes itself as a social experiment where single men and women look for love and get engaged, all before meeting in person
In this context, "at the alter" carries the same weight as, "decides not to have a second date." Devaluing the institution of marriage while trying to use its prior value to emphasize their content.
At least old-school arranged marriages had the benefit that the involved would likely eventually bond over their mutual struggle to survive. Nowadays, nobody could be bothered to tough things out when they get stressful or the "spark" goes away, even when "true love" is involved.
Arranged marriages go in knowing they won't love each other. They will have to learn to live together first and then gradually the love seeps in from that shared space. As antithetical as it is to most Western sensibilities, its shown to be more healthy and stable than letting people choose for themselves.
But, like most things, people focus on the rare terrible version (selling your daughter to noblemen) and ignore that normal people do just fine with it if allowed.
I'm still not going to advocate for them, but they have the history and data showing they do work way better.
they have the history and data showing they do work way better
Have to wonder how it would go if they split the modern sample into "self-directed marriage" and "self-directed marriage without easy divorce." I doubt there was ever a time with arranged marriage and easy divorce* for obvious reasons.
Is it actually the choice of entering marriage that makes the difference or the presence of social incentives to make it work.
The data I am specifically thinking of was from a study/documentary done of arranged marriages in America (yes that means mostly Jeets) I covered in my undergrad. So they had easy access to the divorce but chose not to because it both worked out and they had extreme pressure from the families to not do so. I imagine divorcing the girl your mom literally arranged for you would get you disowned.
Of course there is a lot of factors and angles involved, like the fact that arranged marriages in the modern era are still mostly a Jeet thing, but of the small amount that still happen has a consistent trend of it being effective.
I do think the gap would narrow considerably with the return of Fault-Divorce or other major consequences for women trying to escape a marriage. When you know you are stuck with this person until death, you put in a lot more effort to make it work instead of imploding it.
At this point, I've heard enough cases of divorce rape with even arranged marriages, that the data you mentioned (and yes, I'd heard the same thing as well when I was in college) is likely no longer valid.
Apparently, it is now common in India for the bride's family to immediately turn on the groom as soon as the marriage is official. The wife refuses to have sex, threatens the husband and his family of suing him for rape and domestic violence, and demand that his family pay a ransom for her not ruining his life, and after they suck his family dry, she divorces him.
This is a scenario that seems to now be extremely common in India. It even happened to a guy that works with me, in the past year, after he'd asked his parents to find him a partner back in India.
It seems that our cherished western values of allowing frivolous divorces is successfully making its way around the world.
It seems that our cherished western values of allowing frivolous divorces is successfully making its way around the world.
Something passportbros have also been finding out about. I've heard more than a few tales of traditional foreign brides either turning out to be not so traditional after having a ring put on or quickly adapting to American culture in the worst way.
I was with you until you started talking shit about me selling my daughters to nobleman. How else will I be able to solve our issues with House Corrino and regain our seat on the Landsraad?
Nowadays, nobody could be bothered to tough things out when they get stressful or the "spark" goes away, even when "true love" is involved.
I wish Nick Rekieta hadn't turned out to be such a disgusting degenerate. He actually had a pretty good take on the issue, before all the wheels fell off of his own life and marriage.
Yeah, all his relationship advice is a lot more sus in hindsight considering he's a trustfund baby, a cokehead, a cuck, an adulterer, a drunk and probably a child abuser through neglect.
I wonder who is the 2025 equivalent of 2021-22 Rekieta.
I do miss his old show, I never really found a replacement.
Nick Fuentes can fill some of the late night content gap, but he has the same degeneracy problems and takes himself too seriously.
Let's get this out of the way first. Reality TV is cringe, and the only thing more cringe is being on Reality TV by choice and not by blackmail or cruel and unusual punishment by court order or something.
Anyway, "I love you ... but I need someone on the same wavelength" translates to "I love you but social approval is my first priority."
Is it a big loss? Nah, better that it's out there instead of her secretly defying her husband.
rofl, are those their actual families or rent-an-audience-members? I get the whole thing about just two singles getting involved in this trashy show, but to also involve their parents and other relatives?
And I bet they had to pay for their wedding attire themselves. Sleaze and cheese.
And that mouthy smooth brain chick talking about BLM as if it mattered. rofl, reminds me of rule nr. 1 of television: everything is either fake or orchestrated. And this sounds like it's orchestrated. They knew what her 'opinions' were and they purposely paired her up with someone who didn't give a shit about hype-of-the-moment black supremacy causes to make the fireworks go off.
Some of that looked like really poor acting, though. Could be fake, as well.
He should have beat her to the punch when he found out she was a nurse. There is no bigger group of ran through whores who habitually cheat on whoever they are dating. Hospitals are a worse meat market than tinder.
Absolutely meaningless when:
In this context, "at the alter" carries the same weight as, "decides not to have a second date." Devaluing the institution of marriage while trying to use its prior value to emphasize their content.
At least old-school arranged marriages had the benefit that the involved would likely eventually bond over their mutual struggle to survive. Nowadays, nobody could be bothered to tough things out when they get stressful or the "spark" goes away, even when "true love" is involved.
Arranged marriages go in knowing they won't love each other. They will have to learn to live together first and then gradually the love seeps in from that shared space. As antithetical as it is to most Western sensibilities, its shown to be more healthy and stable than letting people choose for themselves.
But, like most things, people focus on the rare terrible version (selling your daughter to noblemen) and ignore that normal people do just fine with it if allowed.
I'm still not going to advocate for them, but they have the history and data showing they do work way better.
Have to wonder how it would go if they split the modern sample into "self-directed marriage" and "self-directed marriage without easy divorce." I doubt there was ever a time with arranged marriage and easy divorce* for obvious reasons.
Is it actually the choice of entering marriage that makes the difference or the presence of social incentives to make it work.
* retarded reality TV shows aside, I mean.
The data I am specifically thinking of was from a study/documentary done of arranged marriages in America (yes that means mostly Jeets) I covered in my undergrad. So they had easy access to the divorce but chose not to because it both worked out and they had extreme pressure from the families to not do so. I imagine divorcing the girl your mom literally arranged for you would get you disowned.
Of course there is a lot of factors and angles involved, like the fact that arranged marriages in the modern era are still mostly a Jeet thing, but of the small amount that still happen has a consistent trend of it being effective.
I do think the gap would narrow considerably with the return of Fault-Divorce or other major consequences for women trying to escape a marriage. When you know you are stuck with this person until death, you put in a lot more effort to make it work instead of imploding it.
At this point, I've heard enough cases of divorce rape with even arranged marriages, that the data you mentioned (and yes, I'd heard the same thing as well when I was in college) is likely no longer valid.
Apparently, it is now common in India for the bride's family to immediately turn on the groom as soon as the marriage is official. The wife refuses to have sex, threatens the husband and his family of suing him for rape and domestic violence, and demand that his family pay a ransom for her not ruining his life, and after they suck his family dry, she divorces him.
This is a scenario that seems to now be extremely common in India. It even happened to a guy that works with me, in the past year, after he'd asked his parents to find him a partner back in India.
It seems that our cherished western values of allowing frivolous divorces is successfully making its way around the world.
Something passportbros have also been finding out about. I've heard more than a few tales of traditional foreign brides either turning out to be not so traditional after having a ring put on or quickly adapting to American culture in the worst way.
I was with you until you started talking shit about me selling my daughters to nobleman. How else will I be able to solve our issues with House Corrino and regain our seat on the Landsraad?
More importantly, how will House Frogger make it across the street with all those big trucks constantly whizzing by?
I wish Nick Rekieta hadn't turned out to be such a disgusting degenerate. He actually had a pretty good take on the issue, before all the wheels fell off of his own life and marriage.
Yeah, all his relationship advice is a lot more sus in hindsight considering he's a trustfund baby, a cokehead, a cuck, an adulterer, a drunk and probably a child abuser through neglect.
I wonder who is the 2025 equivalent of 2021-22 Rekieta.
I do miss his old show, I never really found a replacement.
Nick Fuentes can fill some of the late night content gap, but he has the same degeneracy problems and takes himself too seriously.
Probably Legal Mindset.
Are you actually capable of learning or pattern recognition?
Well, one difference is that I'm aware of Nick. J's past and proclivities up front and can weigh that accordingly.
And a faggot
Inviting and embracing evil has this corrosive effect on your entire life. Sometimes it's slow, sometimes fast.
"And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil"
“You don’t want a hot girl to reject you because you don’t support all the gay ghetto commie bullshit, do you?”
And they picture him then teary and alone at the altar, while she's girl bossing with her friends shit talking him and his faith.
Perfect example of the "in-group/out-group" logic women base their decisions & opinions on.
Bingo.
Yes. Yes, I do.
She looks heavy lol
Like a fat girl waiting to burst out of her body. Once she’s married she’ll be a heifer.
Agitprop
Let's get this out of the way first. Reality TV is cringe, and the only thing more cringe is being on Reality TV by choice and not by blackmail or cruel and unusual punishment by court order or something.
Anyway, "I love you ... but I need someone on the same wavelength" translates to "I love you but social approval is my first priority."
Is it a big loss? Nah, better that it's out there instead of her secretly defying her husband.
The best part is when another female asks her if she's ok, as if she WASN'T the one dumping the guy at the altar. WTF
"Why can't he just think like I do?"
To be fair it was her mom who asked.
And the award for luckiest man alive goes to...
THIS GUY
Oh no! What ever will he do without a self-entitled fat chick? Those are SOOOOOOOO hard to find and high value!
I don’t know the context of what the hell this shows and who the hell that slag is. But if real this guy dodged a cannon ball sized bullet
Notice she was mad at the dude, not for being a Chud, but just not giving a shit about the pozz one way or the other lmao.
rofl, are those their actual families or rent-an-audience-members? I get the whole thing about just two singles getting involved in this trashy show, but to also involve their parents and other relatives?
And I bet they had to pay for their wedding attire themselves. Sleaze and cheese.
And that mouthy smooth brain chick talking about BLM as if it mattered. rofl, reminds me of rule nr. 1 of television: everything is either fake or orchestrated. And this sounds like it's orchestrated. They knew what her 'opinions' were and they purposely paired her up with someone who didn't give a shit about hype-of-the-moment black supremacy causes to make the fireworks go off.
Some of that looked like really poor acting, though. Could be fake, as well.
She is so fake. "I don't know anything about Black Lives Matter, but he had no opinion and that's bad!?"
You don't have any thoughts on it other than the tv told you it was important so I'll support it and judge people.
His church views are traditional, omg, you mean his church stands for something and isn't just trying to preach modern thing?
What a vapid human being. She wants to jilter the guy at the altar, play victim, and then say we'll talk after.
so its fake as fuck
Men gain nothing by marrying these worthless bitches
Support the destruction of your society or else mid women won't like you
He should have beat her to the punch when he found out she was a nurse. There is no bigger group of ran through whores who habitually cheat on whoever they are dating. Hospitals are a worse meat market than tinder.
Retarded clickbait shit, about propaganda "reality" television.
I'd rather get it up front than spend a few months or years and then get ambushed by it.
Bro dodged a bullet. Don't feel sorry for him.
I'm happy for him. He might be sad right now, but it'll get so much better when he gets the right woman
The title tells me nothing, but i am going to guess that the guy hates faggots and niggers and she is the average white female woketard.
Liberal woman are so retarded. He dodged a bullet. Fat cunt will be a cat lady and wonder why.
A real man would've permanently messed up her face.