So I've decided to be random and I thought I'd give the dating app hinge a try as it seems to be the least worse option I can see and it does seem to have some somewhat real looking profiles on it.
I wonder if any guys have been in this situation, but have you noticed how many of them constantly list travelling to <Insert exotic country> on their bucket list or they actually want a boyfriend to come with them and do it. Now I'm not against that for a holiday at all or anything like that but it seems like these women actually want to do it on the regular and these are women in their 30's.
It's not even an outlier thing either because this is clearly a trend but it made me realise how much I'm working currently. Do they honestly not realise that most guys are fucking broke and working their arses off to keep a roof over their heads? Most of them can't afford to go jet setting across the world which explains why they only end up going after the usual stereotypes that they hate and end up being cum dumpsters.
I just found it baffling, not the first time I've been weirded out by the normies.
All women on dating apps are “into yoga and travelling” but they just say that to sound interesting: they’re all actually into Netflix and wine.
Other seemingly popular actual interests: spicy books, social media, fur babies/cats, getting others to buy them shit they cannot afford themselves but think they deserve.
Oh yeah I've seen that crap, there's also women who do have legit looking photos of places they've been though ( Unless it's AI generated, can't discount that these days ) and I found it very baffling.
You can even just put in your face and generate whatever you want now. Don't even need to be too tech savy since people have ready made work flows ready you just put in our image. Very careful I would be around stuff that looks too good to be true.
You should look into last minute flights and cheap accommodations. That might explain a thing or two. Also, another thing is that you're thinking about one or two week vacations, while they might just be weekend trips.
And don't forget, a lot of women are white collar workers and have disposable income.
Some places? Yeah, depends on where, I've sort of contemplated Eastern Europe myself as a potential 'cheap' option. What I would do is potentially either fly there or go by car via the channel tunnel. Alternatively train I guess if I want to travel the world a bit and get drunk normie style.
Would I do that with a total stranger girl who's almost certainly using me for a free trip? No, fuck that, would be even worse if she turned out to be one of those creepy phone addict zombies so it's all manner of wrong or if she was just generally bad company. I feel like when it comes to travelling that's definitely one of those moment you have to know a person if you go along with them and know they're chill. Which also tells you that these women either have the worse survival instincts imaginable and are probably a liability to keep around
Why would you go on a vacation with a complete stranger? Factor in the 'every man is a potential rapist' notion of modern day women and you can pretty much guarantee that such a spur of the moment vacation isn't happening.
By mentioning traveling they mean: you've got disposable income, you don't have children (or pets) and they expect you to have the time to go on vacation.
If they're angling for gold, that's not happening either.
Yes but it's British women doing it in the inverse, they're clearly expecting men to fly them on holiday LOL, fuck me. I knew western women were bad but it's always eye opening checking out the profiles.
Fuck is such a versatile word too
For some, it’s probably an invitation for a quid pro quo pseudo escort situation like how some instagram sluts will be flown out on private jets to glamorous locations in exchange for fucking rich dudes. For others, it’s just a financial shit test to weed out the guys who are poor.
Fucking amazing, I was just glancing over some video on the maths behind dating but it is like we all say the kind of men that these girls are after simply don't exist. Even people who are as rich as they're asking for are going to be fucking busy, they won't have the time to deal with literal gold digging whores. It's basically only uber rich guys with too much time and money on their hands that can do this.
Oh preaching to the choir on that one, the maths is fascinating and depressing, by the way, that's not even taking into account the amount of fake profiles there are. I also think some people are pretty dumb on dating sites and can't tell the difference between fake and real.
Travel is just code for seeking foreign dick, I'm convinced.
I always took it as "free vacation" but they aren't mutually exclusive
I’ve tried eharmony and may try again in the spring. The issue with dating apps is that while women get perverted messages, they do get plenty of messages from guys who legit want to talk to them even if they are below average so they can be very picky. Guys may get 5 responses for every 100 messages they send unless they are a 9 or 10 on the looks scale. The few times I met up for coffee they most likely had multiple dates that week (one actually told me she is in no rush since so many guys message her). I’ve the the travel thing as well as the single mom with 2 or 3 kids demanding that the guy that messages her have a 6 figure job.
To be fair, if I was getting a bunch of messages from ladies then I would be very picky. This is an endless cycle and the main reason so many men leave dating apps/sites.
Pity we can’t use chatGPT to spam all of Asian/non-psycho women and just let it notify us when the date is scheduled
Oh really?! So guys make a profile and wait favor a woman to contact them?
I’ve read so many articles wondering why guys quit online dating
I haven't opened a dating app in years, but from what I remember, every other thot on there that even bothered to put anything in her bio was like:
I love traveling (= take me on expensive vacations)
I love good food (= take me to expensive dinners)
I love shopping (= buy me expensive shit)
I love to laugh (= entertain me, because I'm incapable of doing so myself, having no hobbies)
And also, often a link to Instagram (= I am an e-whore)
Such a shame the dating profile of "I have no real standout features or desires other than maintaining statistical average looks, weight, and health. Most of my time is spent shitposting on 8chan." is so rare.
The average weight rises (like a fire) so it isn't that good today.
I still don't understand why "average" size isn't ideal size. Someone will say it's a cope, but evolution made men a certain size for a reason.
I don't mean average like super fat American average. I just mean why isn't 5'9" 170 and fit the ideal?
They expect the 1% (to be honest I think it's less than that) on there that are good looking and loaded to take them to places.
Never mind the fact that they probably were going there anyway and wanted to take a side piece from a country with STD checks to another so they can get their dick wet without worry. The problem with these dating sites is women get exposed to those guys once, think they can ALWAYS get those kinds of guys and then get disappointed it was a one night stand and they're now too old to get the liberty of choice.
They also don't want to take on the responsibility and management of the trip itself; they want to be taken care of and have everything put on a silver platter for them.
...I'm being a little unfair here, but I admit slight frustration, as my version of 'I like to travel' and women's version of 'I like to travel' are often radically different. My version involves road trips and spending time in national forests where the nearest toilet is several miles away; their version involves fancy resorts and being around way too many people.
You're not being unfair, you're being gaslit by spoiled western women into thinking you're being unfair for living in the real world and these women are experts at that now. They want to be pampered and honestly people are right to compare this to prostitution because really where's the difference? Except the worse part about this form of prostitution is sex isn't even agreed on beforehand and so many men get money extracted from them by these types of women. Modern men are so desperate that they've lowered themselves to paying money for the implication of sex rather than any explicit agreement on it. Which is why they're in the supreme position of spinning everything back at you and going "I don't owe you anything". Which is why if you ever start talking to a woman and are looking to date money should never change hands realistically.
In fact, most singles setups no matter whether it's RL or internet if you really look at the maths are purely designed to extract money from single men and single men only. The women who show up there are purely for marketing purposes. A great example of this is night clubs which is why sometimes the bouncers openly discriminate against the fatties and less attractive women that show up. It's because they know the single guys that show up at these places have money and they're going to spend it on drinks for hot women. The maths on this is undeniable which is why I do appreciate that the hoe_inflation channel exists.
They're so fucking horrible now you can't even as a man simply go "I'm actually too busy and poor to be able to afford that" because they're that delusional they think they deserve it even if they're fat as fuck and barely a 5.
Oh yeah, almost every woman mentions traveling.
That and mentioning therapy are super common.
Another terrifying fact about British women there are attractive ones out there but more often than not in the 25 - 35 range they often eradicate their good looks within five seconds due to heavy drinking and likely chain smoking. Mostly heavy drinking and they won't admit to the heavy drinking all of the time. It's not even the biological wall, they just flat out kill themselves in terms of health lol.
Oh and pro tip for the guys out there if they ever think about it, stay away from NHS staff and Harry Potter fangirls, they're fucking nuts, you can see it in their profiles. NHS nurses in particular are known for being crazy.
My mom and stepdad constantly go on cruises, and they can't understand that I don't want them to buy me one. Some people really do think that's fun.
My mother was just on this...
https://www.cruisehive.com/carnival-cruise-ship-in-trouble-with-engine-difficulties/114969
and STILL is trying to convince me after telling me all about how it was limping along and passengers were out on restriction how great they are. Some people just like things you don't.
My son told my mother she's not allowed to go on The Flying Titanic, and my mother acted like that was an advertisement. For a flying ship with the name Titanic.
Okay in her defence, the sea experience is going to be way different as a passenger of a civilian than being shoved in a cot the whole way :D
Many cruiseships are essentially just a floating buffet.
Cruises are a decent way to get places that are otherwise hard to get to. Like, I did the inside passage in Alaska, which is cheesy AF, but I also haven't been back to any of those places. Cuz it's fuckin hard to get there otherwise. I don't regret that trip.
It's mostly terrible, though. Wherever you go, there are too many people that you came with.
For instance, when I go to Islands sometimes, if the cruise ships are in you avoid their terminal like the plague.
I know chadfishing is instructive, but it's equally instructive to make a normie Woman account and see what the experience is like too.
Women travel to collect foreign sperm. It's biological, even gorillas do it.
Yep, as others mentioned, "traveling" is a euphemism for going abroad and getting railed by the Chads and Tyrones.
If you really want an insight into how women think, definitely subscribe to Hoe Math. He's a guy who's been on both sides of the fence, as the virgin Joe and as the alpha Chad. He explains that being a Chad is not what it's cracked up to be, and that women are actually worse once you reach Chad-like status.
The conundrum you explained is outlined in this video here: https://youtu.be/7rgXgANHrhk
A couple of others well worth it, too: https://youtu.be/7VO_kFCaj1o
And I simply could not stop laughing at this one here: https://youtu.be/_zK1Uqb8kUk
Preaching to the choir but I'm sure this will be useful I actually don't want to know all of this because I'm already borderline like imp when it comes to women I'm just lucky enough that I've met some sane women out there in my time and it's precisely because I know a lot about how women think these days I am the way I am lol.
They're still fucking nuts and they will always find new ways to amaze me with their behaviour which happened awhile back just when I was trying to make friends but despite all that I'm getting a lot better at understanding it. It really doesn't help that literal mental illness is rife on top of everything else and the normies can't seem to help themselves.
From my personal experience, even the minimum wage women go on multiple holidays a year to both mainstream and exotic places. It has become as expected and normalised as owning a car, having somewhere to live and socialising.
A "bucket list" isn't for things you want to do regularly, it's things you want to do at least once in your life (before you "kick the bucket" i.e. die).
Almost every fucking girl in the UK for those who don't know:
. Heavy drinker ( I don't mind drinking but these girls even admit they take it too far in their profiles and think it's a personality trait )
. Works for the NHS
. Pronouns
. Harry Potter
. Some variant of netflix, travel and pizza ( They seriously have no hobbies )
I knew it would happen fast but yes I'm at the please kill me phase of the Hinge app I'm using. I think though this one had less fake profiles compared to the other apps. This is exactly why passport bros exist because these women are like clones of each other and are just part of a leftist hive mind blob.
Women tell you to judge them by their personalities and not their looks but they're fucking boring and I can't keep it to myself on this one. I don't think it would be safe to even take some of these women to a non-woke comedy club either which is probably what my first choice for a date would be.
Edit: I don't think I can do it anymore guys, I barely lasted, the normies are making me cringe too hard.
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Hobbies: 🛩🍔🐕🍷 sometimes also 🎬
MySpace magic / strategic photography/ only groupshot photos (she's always the worst looking one)
Some unnecessarily aggressive self aggrandizing boast: "Your friends dog will find me funnier than you" you know those kind of statements
Is Asian. That gets its own space
You know I'm very glad I'm in a good mood lately because I've been finishing debugging because it's exactly as you describe. Also fucking yes on the groupshot photographs. I immediately skip those if she doesn't even have one single photo of herself because she's clearly catfishing. My other favourite moment of fakery aside from the retarded filters they often put on is the inevitable closeups they use to hide the fact that they're fatties.
Guys you know it's fucking bad when the socially awkward virgin nerd has more hobbies and interests than any of these women combined jesus christ LOL my prejudices are completely confirmed.
Edit: Extra confirmation, learning Spanish is probably going to be easier than dealing with any of these women even if any did match me.
I remember watching a video of college age girls in America they were being asked by another woman what they think a man should be earning in a dating scenario and even she was stunned by their responses.
It's really not that hard or expensive to go places. Maybe the way these women want it, it is.
I guess everything is relative, but if you're not adding up those uber eats and netflix bills, you can trade money for time as needed.
Unsurprisingly already reached the peak of the app I think, nothing but fatties, vegans and feminists showing up now. I'm not even that badly against fatties especially compared to most guys my age but they're almost always completely delusional and have no self-awareness.
Women just put on dating apps what they think they are supposed to in order to sound attractive. In reality most girls like watching shitty tv shows and crime documentaries/podcasts. Everything else a girl posts about is fluff to sound more interesting than she is.