Like... if he is honest about how he feels about boundaries in a relationship, why is that abusive? As long as she is given those clearly, and she can decide how to proceed, then I see no reason why it would be abuse.
Not saying I agree with him, but that's irrelevant.
But Sarah insisted she didn’t necessarily think her former partner is a “terrible person.”
She wrote: “Someone being an emotionally abusive partner doesn’t mean they’re a terrible person (often stems from their own trauma)
“At the same time, it doesn’t mean it’s OK.(sic)”
This is the abusive part. Abusing your position as a former fuck buddy of a celebrity to push your name into the media and hurt them, all while you try to take the high road.
You'd be surprised how dumb modern women can be about relationship boundaries. I've seen married women with kids just wearing yoga pants so thin you can can very clearly see the pantylines. The husband just goes along with it and this is in a supposed conservative asian country. Its much worse in the west
Some really are NPCs who can't objectively gauge whether a certain action is objectionable. They observe too-tight yoga pants becoming mainstream and add it to their wardrobe, as popularity is their only barometer.
A continuation of baseline behavior is consciously seeing how a woman reacts to reasonable and unreasonable feedback. If she's swallowed the propaganda that conflicting preferences are "controlling behaviors", just walk out before any argument brews. If she's an emotionally tangled people pleaser, she's not contributing to the relationship and is just as bad as the "modern woman".
Woe to any man who doesn't figure this shit out past 25 years of age.
Remember that while 14 yr olds can consent to puberty blockers and double mastectomies, 22 yr olds simply lack the maturity & can't consent to dating a 48 yr old.
if he is honest about how he feels about boundaries in a relationship, why is that abusive?
He's a man.
That is the one and only reason.
If he hung out with a female friend, and his girlfriend got jealous and screamed insults, threw things at him, and keyed his car, that would be him being abusive too.
ask any woman whose fault it was for her last 10 breakups. not who initiated the breakup. whose fault it was. 90%+ of women will say that all 10 of her last breakups were the guy's fault.
All joking aside, we’re at a point now that a pleb woman expects access to the wealth and lifestyle of a famous multimillionaire and still also expects him to tolerate her slutting around on social media and in private hangouts with other men. She wants to continue to advertise her body to other high status men online and go on fuck dates with surfer chads AND spend Jonah’s millions - all at once.
I mean, I don't have to take the large soda and Super Sized Big Mac if its offered to me. I generally don't because I can recognize that despite the pleasure it brings, it has consequences that can last a lifetime, and also teach a horrible lesson to those looking at me for guidance.
Yes, how dare a man clearly set relationship boundaries and lay out his expectations of his romantic partner.
If Hill were actually in shape and posting shirtless pictures of himself on social media for all of his female fans to like and comment on, would this bitch not have had an issue with that?
If his boundaries never went further than "don't hit me," or "don't spend millions of dollars of my money on frivolous crap," this bitch is exactly the type who would label that misogynistic as well.
He's not based, quite the opposite- he's weak & insecure.
He found a hot woman on Instagram & liked her bikini pics but is worried if other guys see them he'll slide into her DMs like he did and take her from him.
He's not trying to protect her modesty, he knows she can easily find guys way better.
The feminists are accusing him of abusive behaviors while others are defending Hill of just communicating his boundaries. Is he being genuine or gaslighting w/ "I am not the right partner for you. If these things bring you to a place of happiness I support it and there will be no hard feelings."?
Male feminist being a complete ass? Very believable, though why come out with this story now? Does she feel obligated to knock him down a peg or is it to cover for something she has done which may soon come to light?
Like... if he is honest about how he feels about boundaries in a relationship, why is that abusive? As long as she is given those clearly, and she can decide how to proceed, then I see no reason why it would be abuse.
Not saying I agree with him, but that's irrelevant.
This is the abusive part. Abusing your position as a former fuck buddy of a celebrity to push your name into the media and hurt them, all while you try to take the high road.
Couldn't have happened to a nicer guy though.
It's always the man's fault.
There is a popular videogame streamer ( Ninja? ) whose wife forbade him to do collabs with women.
He was branded as a misogynist for not letting women ride his success.
His wife didn't forbid it, he deliberately refused to stream with women out of respect for her.
It is his fault for explicitly stating his boundaries and expecting her to abide by them.
She should be so afraid of losing him that she restricts her own actions before they came anywhere near to the edges of his sensibilities.
But that obviously isn't the case.
You'd be surprised how dumb modern women can be about relationship boundaries. I've seen married women with kids just wearing yoga pants so thin you can can very clearly see the pantylines. The husband just goes along with it and this is in a supposed conservative asian country. Its much worse in the west
They aren't dumb, they are attention whores. It is a shit test to see if their current guy is "man enough" to tell her "no".
Some really are NPCs who can't objectively gauge whether a certain action is objectionable. They observe too-tight yoga pants becoming mainstream and add it to their wardrobe, as popularity is their only barometer.
A continuation of baseline behavior is consciously seeing how a woman reacts to reasonable and unreasonable feedback. If she's swallowed the propaganda that conflicting preferences are "controlling behaviors", just walk out before any argument brews. If she's an emotionally tangled people pleaser, she's not contributing to the relationship and is just as bad as the "modern woman".
Woe to any man who doesn't figure this shit out past 25 years of age.
Because by their own logic women are sheep and stupid. If you present something to them they are compelled towards it.
That's why adult women dating old ass Leo aren't a problem, he is the problem by presenting them the opportunity to do so.
Remember that while 14 yr olds can consent to puberty blockers and double mastectomies, 22 yr olds simply lack the maturity & can't consent to dating a 48 yr old.
He's a man.
That is the one and only reason.
If he hung out with a female friend, and his girlfriend got jealous and screamed insults, threw things at him, and keyed his car, that would be him being abusive too.
Because he's a man.
ask any woman whose fault it was for her last 10 breakups. not who initiated the breakup. whose fault it was. 90%+ of women will say that all 10 of her last breakups were the guy's fault.
tfw you're in you're 40s and cannot fathom having had 10 breakups.
Sadly it's hard to find a woman in her 20s that didn't already have 10 breakups.
What if he were Muslim?
All joking aside, we’re at a point now that a pleb woman expects access to the wealth and lifestyle of a famous multimillionaire and still also expects him to tolerate her slutting around on social media and in private hangouts with other men. She wants to continue to advertise her body to other high status men online and go on fuck dates with surfer chads AND spend Jonah’s millions - all at once.
Western women are literally unhinged in 2023.
She isn't a pleb. She is a pro surfer with brand deals and shit. She is like an G-list celebrity to his now D-list.
and who's fault is that, really?
I mean, I don't have to take the large soda and Super Sized Big Mac if its offered to me. I generally don't because I can recognize that despite the pleasure it brings, it has consequences that can last a lifetime, and also teach a horrible lesson to those looking at me for guidance.
You see where I'm going with this, I'm sure.
Theirs?
Lol no. Women only do what they are socially allowed to get away with. Men let it get this bad
So uh what's her problem, did he use his Jew psychic powers to make her to agree to the demands and enter a relationship with him?
Maybe she got used to living in his mansion, riding in his expensive cars and eating for free at expensive resturants??
If you can’t decide what lane you want to drive in, you’ll eventually hit the lane divider.
“He’s not abusive, he just won’t let me fuck around!”
oh well
The correct take. She's a butterface with a bad attitude and he's a fat slob whose entire career is barely shy of the truffle shuffle.
Point and laugh, the end.
Not wanting your woman to engage in mate seeking behavior seems pretty fucking benign.
Yes, how dare a man clearly set relationship boundaries and lay out his expectations of his romantic partner.
If Hill were actually in shape and posting shirtless pictures of himself on social media for all of his female fans to like and comment on, would this bitch not have had an issue with that?
If his boundaries never went further than "don't hit me," or "don't spend millions of dollars of my money on frivolous crap," this bitch is exactly the type who would label that misogynistic as well.
Honestly - I didn’t think Jonah was that based…
When a Hollywood movie star acts so socially conservative that so-called "social conservatives" take issue with it.
Some people need to have some honest discussions with themselves about where they actually stand.
Honest conversations are anti American. Or at least, anti modern American...
He's not based, quite the opposite- he's weak & insecure.
He found a hot woman on Instagram & liked her bikini pics but is worried if other guys see them he'll slide into her DMs like he did and take her from him.
He's not trying to protect her modesty, he knows she can easily find guys way better.
If you were Jonah hill you'd be worried about other guys too.
Lol, I did a search, and she’s so profoundly unattractive…
Which seems entirely appropriate for this whole situation, somehow…
One of those “I don’t wear makeup, ever” types, lololol…
The feminists are accusing him of abusive behaviors while others are defending Hill of just communicating his boundaries. Is he being genuine or gaslighting w/ "I am not the right partner for you. If these things bring you to a place of happiness I support it and there will be no hard feelings."?
Yeah, he's entitled to have boundaries. The woman can go fuck off if she doesn't agree with them
His fault for dating a woman with an online audience.
Lay with Dogs, gets fleas.
Jewnah Hill
I really want to hate this guy, and I do, but he is not wrong here.
If a woman can NOT stop herself from surfing with other men and showing her ass on insta, then she is a hoe and needs to go.
There is nothing wrong with boundaries in a serious relationship.
They're both stupid retards who thought they could change the other person.
Male feminist being a complete ass? Very believable, though why come out with this story now? Does she feel obligated to knock him down a peg or is it to cover for something she has done which may soon come to light?
Well she is a woman....