On the dating app Bumble, Ms. Bairachna liked the looks of a hipster. But when she scrolled through his photographs, she noticed his amputated leg.
“I looked at his profile for 15 minutes and felt so sorry for him,” Ms. Bairachna, 35, a marketing director for a clothing brand in Kyiv, said in an interview. She wondered if she could handle a relationship with a maimed war veteran.
Then she swiped left, removing him from potential matches. “I feel I’m not ready for that."
They could've done a story on the trials of dating as a maimed war veteran, but instead those chose this whore.
Trying to paint her as a sympathetic victim while mentioning a maimed war veteran who's also on the apps is hilarious and maddening all at once.
Yeah, now don't get me wrong, I can understand having misgivings dating a person with issues especially if it's a veteran who will inevitably have PTSD and shit like that. You know for a fact though because it's a western women she's likely having way worse thoughts about him but the guy probably dodged a bullet as a result. I still remember seeing confessionals of women who stopped finding their boyfriends attractive when they opened up about real trauma in their lives holy fuck it gets dark.
Also, Ukraine is a prime example of why I would likely cause havoc for my government if they even attempted to implement the draft here. If nothing else to stick it to western women who would happily see me dead anyway.
Never ever believe a woman when she tells you she wants you to be totally open and honest with her and to lean on her for anything. It's a trap. She's trying to get you to reveal inner weakness. The lizard part of a woman's brain is always on the hunt for superior genes, and part of that is trying to figure out if you're actually strong, or faking it. Seeing a man cry or be depressed and hopeless, no matter how justified or understandable in real terms, will always be seen as weakness by a woman. Her trying to get you to open that side of you to her is just a ploy to get you to rat on yourself. It's no different than if a guy acts like he's totally cool with sluts and whores and never judges a girl's body count, only to be disgusted when she falls for it and reveals she's fucked 178 guys. And just as the guy might internally respond with "Alright, she's getting moved to the fuck-only box, never ever a real relationship", a man who reveals weakness is being moved to the "scam him for resources, never ever fuck or have a real relationship" box.
Nah, there's just a difference between stated preferences and revealed preferences. While they may think they want you to show yourself vulnerable, they are often disgusted by it in practice.
Not everything is a conspiracy...
Seeing a man cry or be depressed and hopeless, no matter how justified or understandable in real terms, will always be seen as weakness by a woman.
And by every other man.
It's no different than if a guy acts like he's totally cool with sluts and whores and never judges a girl's body count, only to be disgusted when she falls for it and reveals she's fucked 178 guys.
Yeah, exactly right. People often don't know what they really like.
If she'd just said "fuck hipsters" a lot of people might even agree, like 'that's true, fuck hipsters.' But she had to make it about the unrecoverable injury.
I’m sure the dude who’s leg ate all that shrapnel probably wasn’t ready to lose his leg, but god forbid you take a chance on someone who died so you can keep your whore lifestyle in tact.
I wish Russia was going as hard on these people as the media think they are…
He wasn't maimed to protect women, he was maimed to protect the revolutionary government. If they thought they could get away with it they'd be using the women as meat shields too.
I’ve somehow went from always willing to serve and die for my country about 10-15 years ago, now I wouldn’t even clean litter off the street if the government asked me to. I’m not dying for single childless women and brown people. Draft dodging is based
More evidence that this war is fake and ghey - this woman is employed as a clothing marketing manager in the capital complaining about the paucity of intact Chads.
Russia’s full-scale invasion has upended nearly every facet of daily life in Ukraine.
Clearly, not a full-scale invasion. If it was, even women wouldn't have time for this level of nonsense.
For women, the problem is particularly acute.
When isn't it?
Well, let's see what the very next words are...
Tens of thousands of men have died. Many more are on the front lines, some have fled the country and others are reluctant to leave their homes, fearful of being stopped in the street by draft officers. In cities like Kyiv, the capital, the presence of men has noticeably dwindled. In some villages, conscription has hollowed out the male population.
Oh, man, that sounds rough...for women, of course!
“This leaves a small percentage of men who are ready for and want relationships,” said Margarita Stelmashova, a Ukrainian psychotherapist and sexologist.
Speaks for itself.
The war has also made forming long-term relationships more challenging. Many soldiers experience psychological stress that strains their intimate connections, sexologists say. And several women said in interviews that they worried about dating servicemen who might have war trauma, and who could one day be killed.
I assumed the post title was making fun of the article, but no, that's the actual title of an actual article in the new york times. This is 100% a "Huge numbers of men are dead, women most affected" article:
For women, the problem is particularly acute. Tens of thousands of men have died. Many more are on the front lines, some have fled the country and others are reluctant to leave their homes, fearful of being stopped in the street by draft officers. In cities like Kyiv, the capital, the presence of men has noticeably dwindled. In some villages, conscription has hollowed out the male population.
Tens of thousands of men are dead, women most affected, right there.
The war has also heightened ideological divides, crushing potential relationships that may have blossomed before the conflict. Some women now refuse to date draft dodgers, saying that they are unpatriotic.
I see the white feather movement is alive and well.
The simple fact is that women have no place in leading society, and that goes as far as not having the franchise in a democracy. The simple truth is that this is normal behavior for women; anyone who thinks otherwise (including women) are simply viewing the world through a masculine lens. Its not really their fault, but from an evolutionary perspective women have better options that fighting to the death.
This, birth control (and the effects it has on their biology), the demonism a lot of modern women are involved in and their utter rejection of motherhood paint the picture of them not behaving naturally.
We have Tinder, we know where all the Ukrainian women are. They're in other European countries, trading sex for places to stay while their men die by the hundred thousand back home.
And while Ukrainian thots are spreading their legs all over Europe on OnlyFans, the government is hunting men who fled the country and dragging them to the front lines.
They are supposed to be under an invasion, and they have time for dating? Look at that title pic too, I mean yeah, that's the picture of a war zone. The height of the horrors of war is sitting on a couch alone smoking?
Being there is an invasion so there must be Russians everywhere, they could peddle their pussy to them?
Two different worlds now. The world of women, hedonism and narcissism incarnate. The world of men... Horrors beyond horrors. No wonder so many men are putting on dresses to escape. At this point, I would advise Ukrainian men to kill any draft officer that comes for them.
blablabla "women are the primary victims of war" yaddayaddayadda
It is truly astounding the level of mental gymnastics women will do to portray themselves as victims. An anti-Y-chromosome asteroid could wipe out 95% of men on earth and women would still find some way to make it all about them. "Emotional intelligence" my ass.
An anti-Y-chromosome asteroid could wipe out 95% of men on earth and women would still find some way to make it all about them
Considering just how many things women would suddenly have to start doing, a lot of it from scratch with no existing knowledge base to be mentored from, it would absolutely happen.
You know, shortly before actual, complete societal collapse, and not just the one nobody left noticed because they will have been too busy posting to social media about how the world was suddenly going to be better.
It's these journalists doing that. However misguided these men are to fight for a US puppet state, I'm absolutely sure these women aren't making it "all about them".
Western men tend to think that women in other places are as decadent as the average woman in the west.
The creation of a peaceful and law-abiding society that knows no hardship is a mistake. The soft inner core sacrifices the hard outer shell in a heartbeat without regards to the effects. Say what you will about the backwardness of the third world the men of those places would not stand idly by for this treatment. At this point the entire Western system will have to collapse for the Western white man to survive. Perhaps our descendants will be wise enough not to build another system.
Ukrainian dudes dies or gets mamed to defend their country and people. To defend their love ones.. only for the country to be taken away from the people anyways and your love ones will leave you for tyrone.
Nope. This is normal. Its not "anti women" to acknowledge the truth that half the population will never fight to defend their country/village/tribe. Women, as a group, will happily mate with the invaders that killed their menfolk so long as they get to live. Nothing about the 21st century changes any of this.
If you'll permit me a bit of history autism, this is 100% correct and more people need to look up history with regards to this, an absolute classic one would be the wars between American Indian tribes that happened where tribes would completely massacre each other and this happened well before the 'white man' arrived to the continent. Regarding how the leftists and others have this world view of the noble savage they should be used as human shields frankly.
Further reading should be encouraged on shit the Roman Empire did among other cultures and modern day China for example when they persecute the Uyghyr Muslims are allegedly forcing shit on the Muslim women precisely for this reason.
Bruh that's some neo-Stalinist revisionist bullshit you're peddling. The current Ukrainian government is dogshit and Russia is probably the lesser evil in this war - and corrupt worthless sacks of shit like Zelensky aren't at all worth defending - but Ukrainians are still a real people.
Bruh that's some neo-Stalinist revisionist bullshit you're peddlingc
Bruh, it was actually Stalin who promoted a separate Ukrainian culture in the hopes of appealing to the 'Ukrainians' that he thought were occupied by Poland. Know your history, my man.
Ukrainians are still a real people.
I guess it depends on what you label as a 'real people'. But they're not known a Little Russians for no reason.
Men suffering, dying and being maimed in war, single catty women most affected.
Sorry sweaty, you just don’t understand how hard it is to not have 3 different sex partners per day 💅
They could've done a story on the trials of dating as a maimed war veteran, but instead those chose this whore.
Trying to paint her as a sympathetic victim while mentioning a maimed war veteran who's also on the apps is hilarious and maddening all at once.
Was going too call out that part too. Holy crap, what a just shitty person.
But if a guy doesn't want to date a single mom with herpes, he's an asshole.
Yeah, now don't get me wrong, I can understand having misgivings dating a person with issues especially if it's a veteran who will inevitably have PTSD and shit like that. You know for a fact though because it's a western women she's likely having way worse thoughts about him but the guy probably dodged a bullet as a result. I still remember seeing confessionals of women who stopped finding their boyfriends attractive when they opened up about real trauma in their lives holy fuck it gets dark.
Also, Ukraine is a prime example of why I would likely cause havoc for my government if they even attempted to implement the draft here. If nothing else to stick it to western women who would happily see me dead anyway.
Never ever believe a woman when she tells you she wants you to be totally open and honest with her and to lean on her for anything. It's a trap. She's trying to get you to reveal inner weakness. The lizard part of a woman's brain is always on the hunt for superior genes, and part of that is trying to figure out if you're actually strong, or faking it. Seeing a man cry or be depressed and hopeless, no matter how justified or understandable in real terms, will always be seen as weakness by a woman. Her trying to get you to open that side of you to her is just a ploy to get you to rat on yourself. It's no different than if a guy acts like he's totally cool with sluts and whores and never judges a girl's body count, only to be disgusted when she falls for it and reveals she's fucked 178 guys. And just as the guy might internally respond with "Alright, she's getting moved to the fuck-only box, never ever a real relationship", a man who reveals weakness is being moved to the "scam him for resources, never ever fuck or have a real relationship" box.
Nah, there's just a difference between stated preferences and revealed preferences. While they may think they want you to show yourself vulnerable, they are often disgusted by it in practice.
Not everything is a conspiracy...
And by every other man.
Yeah, exactly right. People often don't know what they really like.
I mean he clearly didn't or he would still have a leg.
Could have been a mine or a grenade.
If she'd just said "fuck hipsters" a lot of people might even agree, like 'that's true, fuck hipsters.' But she had to make it about the unrecoverable injury.
Is that wrong though?
I’m sure the dude who’s leg ate all that shrapnel probably wasn’t ready to lose his leg, but god forbid you take a chance on someone who died so you can keep your whore lifestyle in tact.
I wish Russia was going as hard on these people as the media think they are…
but he was apparently
Lol, he gets his leg blown off defending his country's women from the predation of the "orcs", and his reward is a left swipe.
Don't get maimed or die to protect women, bros, they aren't worth it.
He wasn't maimed to protect women, he was maimed to protect the revolutionary government. If they thought they could get away with it they'd be using the women as meat shields too.
Finally, someone who gets it.
That's the difference between a simp and honoring your wife.
If she is loyal, than treasure her. If she is fickle, don't simp.
I’ve somehow went from always willing to serve and die for my country about 10-15 years ago, now I wouldn’t even clean litter off the street if the government asked me to. I’m not dying for single childless women and brown people. Draft dodging is based
More evidence that this war is fake and ghey - this woman is employed as a clothing marketing manager in the capital complaining about the paucity of intact Chads.
Can we end this equal rights experiment already? Holy shit
Yep, if I’ve learned anything, it’s that some people really do deserve less
and wondered if he was too short and lying about his height. Do prosthetics really count?
She reporter his account and ran off to find some more cock.
Clearly, not a full-scale invasion. If it was, even women wouldn't have time for this level of nonsense.
When isn't it?
Well, let's see what the very next words are...
Oh, man, that sounds rough...for women, of course!
Speaks for itself.
Will women's suffering never end?!
I assumed the post title was making fun of the article, but no, that's the actual title of an actual article in the new york times. This is 100% a "Huge numbers of men are dead, women most affected" article:
Tens of thousands of men are dead, women most affected, right there.
I see the white feather movement is alive and well.
Weren't they just bitching about not wanting to date soldiers because they have, like, missing limbs and trauma and stuff?
You know there are times you just cannot deny the imp is right. Any mention of the black women having the worst time finding dates?
The simple fact is that women have no place in leading society, and that goes as far as not having the franchise in a democracy. The simple truth is that this is normal behavior for women; anyone who thinks otherwise (including women) are simply viewing the world through a masculine lens. Its not really their fault, but from an evolutionary perspective women have better options that fighting to the death.
I agree but women are rejecting the one thing that makes women unique. They see motherhood as antithetical to being feminine.
This, birth control (and the effects it has on their biology), the demonism a lot of modern women are involved in and their utter rejection of motherhood paint the picture of them not behaving naturally.
Look at you thinking you live in a democracy.
He is right about some things but his understanding is shallow
Imp should have been a mod on this dumpster fire
Holy shit it's a real NYT article. Fucking lol.
We have Tinder, we know where all the Ukrainian women are. They're in other European countries, trading sex for places to stay while their men die by the hundred thousand back home.
It's the female way. Sell it to the most protective bidder.
The average age of their soldiers is like 48 now. It has to be at least 500k dead + double or triple that maimed.
Probably not all dead, probably a lot missing limbs that couldn't fight anymore.
And while Ukrainian thots are spreading their legs all over Europe on OnlyFans, the government is hunting men who fled the country and dragging them to the front lines.
This bit was transparently a lie. Ms. Pylcha obviously feels the same way about maimed men as the first woman mentioned in the article.
She's this close to a realization.
The men are going to come back from the war and slap the shit out of these useless brats
Well obviously Ukraine needs infinity Africans too.
They're mad that the 20% they consider human were drafted as well. They probably wouldn't even notice otherwise.
Considering the sorry state of humanity, if you're not in the top 20%, what the hell are you doing?
Man loses limb defending country.. women most affected.
They are supposed to be under an invasion, and they have time for dating? Look at that title pic too, I mean yeah, that's the picture of a war zone. The height of the horrors of war is sitting on a couch alone smoking?
Being there is an invasion so there must be Russians everywhere, they could peddle their pussy to them?
Two different worlds now. The world of women, hedonism and narcissism incarnate. The world of men... Horrors beyond horrors. No wonder so many men are putting on dresses to escape. At this point, I would advise Ukrainian men to kill any draft officer that comes for them.
It is truly astounding the level of mental gymnastics women will do to portray themselves as victims. An anti-Y-chromosome asteroid could wipe out 95% of men on earth and women would still find some way to make it all about them. "Emotional intelligence" my ass.
Considering just how many things women would suddenly have to start doing, a lot of it from scratch with no existing knowledge base to be mentored from, it would absolutely happen.
You know, shortly before actual, complete societal collapse, and not just the one nobody left noticed because they will have been too busy posting to social media about how the world was suddenly going to be better.
It's these journalists doing that. However misguided these men are to fight for a US puppet state, I'm absolutely sure these women aren't making it "all about them".
Western men tend to think that women in other places are as decadent as the average woman in the west.
If there was time for this type of dating and app usage, then the war isn't nearly as big as they want us to believe.
Man it sucks when all the men being sent out to fight and die in a war means you have to hang out at the hookah bar alone.
The struggle is real.
They should just use this link and share their experiences with the wider world.
The creation of a peaceful and law-abiding society that knows no hardship is a mistake. The soft inner core sacrifices the hard outer shell in a heartbeat without regards to the effects. Say what you will about the backwardness of the third world the men of those places would not stand idly by for this treatment. At this point the entire Western system will have to collapse for the Western white man to survive. Perhaps our descendants will be wise enough not to build another system.
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Just send all the migrants there, problem solved.
Draft the women too
Ukrainian dudes dies or gets mamed to defend their country and people. To defend their love ones.. only for the country to be taken away from the people anyways and your love ones will leave you for tyrone.
Ukraine is in a lose lose situation imo.
[Victoria Nuland cackling in the distance.]
Uh oh better flood Ukraine with sub-saharans
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Dehumanizing women.
If they're gonna become prostitutes anyways why not institute a comfort women system?
Would probably make Ukrainian men less likely to flee.
I'm not a anti women lad like certain people are, but this is just parody stuff lmao.
Nope. This is normal. Its not "anti women" to acknowledge the truth that half the population will never fight to defend their country/village/tribe. Women, as a group, will happily mate with the invaders that killed their menfolk so long as they get to live. Nothing about the 21st century changes any of this.
If you'll permit me a bit of history autism, this is 100% correct and more people need to look up history with regards to this, an absolute classic one would be the wars between American Indian tribes that happened where tribes would completely massacre each other and this happened well before the 'white man' arrived to the continent. Regarding how the leftists and others have this world view of the noble savage they should be used as human shields frankly.
Further reading should be encouraged on shit the Roman Empire did among other cultures and modern day China for example when they persecute the Uyghyr Muslims are allegedly forcing shit on the Muslim women precisely for this reason.
Ukraine is not a country and anyone 'fighting' for it is... quite mistakenly putting his life on the line for a phony puppet non-country.
Tell me more about your thriving dating life.
Bruh that's some neo-Stalinist revisionist bullshit you're peddling. The current Ukrainian government is dogshit and Russia is probably the lesser evil in this war - and corrupt worthless sacks of shit like Zelensky aren't at all worth defending - but Ukrainians are still a real people.
Bruh, it was actually Stalin who promoted a separate Ukrainian culture in the hopes of appealing to the 'Ukrainians' that he thought were occupied by Poland. Know your history, my man.
I guess it depends on what you label as a 'real people'. But they're not known a Little Russians for no reason.