It appears that even most cucks willing to raise another dude's children still have some shame. She admits to having a kid on her profile and to her dates, but she leaves out a major detail: The kid is half black. When her dates discover that missing detail they head for the hills. I suppose it's one thing to be pathetic enough raise kids that aren't theirs for some occasional pussy, but they draw line at making it obvious to anyone with eyes how pathetic they are. They can at least LARP as the real father in public if the kid is fully white.
I suppose the "murderess" is at least more of a straight forward sadistic psychopath and narcissist. Where-as a mud wallower is more likely to go into unpredictable ranges of extreme depravity.
"Why not both" of these cases also springs to mind as probly the ultimate red flag.
Oh they're both atrocious. But a murderess only destroys one life. A mud wallower destroys her family, is a consummate welfare parasite and their inevitably criminal spawn will go on to hurt Innocents as well.
Statistically if it’s a white mom and black dad the abandonment rate is in the high 90s (I want to say 97.5%). Any sane white man would never date a coal burner because 1. Horrible life choices when you’re statistically guaranteed to be abandoned and still do it. 2. The mixed kid is going to be groomed into crying racism every time you punish him. 3. He might actually have to deal with the father at some point. 4. Racial preferences in dating are a massive factor when it comes to physical attraction, for example, I won’t date girls with curly hair, let alone knappy, physiognomy exists for a reason. 5. As she said, she thought “liberal” men were the answer because she wants a beta provider to go frigid on.
These people are living jokes who can’t take one iota of personal responsibility.
People can fuck up and learn to be better. I believe in redemption.
The kid is a consequence forever. And statistically and in practice, not a good one. No kid wants to be the bastard son of some missing father whose only contribution was to make him half black.
I love him with all my heart and I wouldn’t change a thing about him
This is always my favorite cope. Because every single single mother says it. Every time, almost verbatim. Its a reflexive deflect because they know that they resent the child for all the misery it is bringing, and it very much reflects in their whining that "all of this wouldn't be a problem if not for this goblin."
But they can't admit that, because even the retarded single mothers know it makes them look bad and turns everyone on them. So they throw the disclaimer in, just to hide it.
Is this your post OP?
I am convinced that the children of white father Asian mother are inherently fucked in the head. Probably some sort of resentment over their father being a colonizer or something. Children of Asian father white mother are well adjusted however.
Aren't White Male+Asian Female couples the way more common pairing though, like 10-1 probably? I doubt it's possible to compare them based on anecdotal observation.
Also doesn't Keanu hate his father? Or there was some bad blood for a while. It wasn't exactly a healthy relationship.
I'm convinced only because to this day as far as I know the most common way this arrangement happens is something to do with the Vietnam war or mail order brides. Both of those things are more or less exclusive to American men. You see so many old white dudes with younger SE Asian women. I dunno if they are the second wife or what.
If you're talking about kids that grew up today, I think it's quite common for Asian men to take white wives.
... that's because SE Asian women worship white men as gods that stride the earth. A 40-yr old kissless virgin will drown in pussy over here. A guy with even a hint of game is like a super-model.
I make sure the men are politically liberal, they say they’re not racist, they say they support interracial relationships… then this. Are they just lying about all that?
Boy, she sounds like a fun person to date. Nothing like being grilled about whether you are racist to appease a single mother.
"Make sure they are politically liberal" = stalked them online to discover as much as possible by the way.
Man when her looks go out what are you even left with?
They think they can feminist their way into a danger hair's pants, and when that doesn't work they commit sex crimes. Someone should tell them that they're not entitled to sex. I hear that works wonders on incels.
MRAs experimented with this ages ago, if you posted the exact same story in an entirely feminist sub they'd simp hard for the woman. Gender flip to a man and then they tear the man a new one.
Sorry for the double response, but this reminded me of an easy way to see the bias. Try searching the dating subs for "he rejected me". Then try "she rejected me". The former garners ridiculous amounts of sympathy. The latter gets the OP ripped a new asshole and called an incel.
I was surprised to see anyone defending men who want nothing to do with that. I would have thought the site's tranny jannies would have purged all wrong think in the name of fighting the red pill bogeyman years ago.
Lmfao that story reminds me of a similar copypasta where a dude gets into an argument on reddit only to find the dude heavily browsed a sub dedicated to a fetish where you drink your own piss. To make it even funnier, the argument had something to do with Italian food iirc.
Reddit is a fucking cesspool. Really a shame because 10 years ago it was nowhere near as bad.
Immediately he knows the type of woman she is and that it probably didn't stop at having a black kid - the concept of the "cock carasouel" is very naturally intuited.
Deep down he knows that the whole world, in all that it presumes of him, will also see him as a weak and defeated cuck no matter how liberal his surroundings are; and the world would be right under any manner of circumstance in which he'd be seen carting around Tyrone's unwanted globohomo gremlin. Tyrone didn't even have to try. This makes the bugman look completely dickless. Even if he tried in earnest to "man up!" he'll probably get cheated on since no man with even a sliver of self-respect is going to see past that - and there is a paradox of disrespect here, where she thinks she wants this kind of man but she actually doesn't. He is then just another overly permissive tool to leech off of until he is disposed of when he can't take the shit anymore or she nitpicks something wrong with him and leaves because she cuts him down so low that she thinks she can do better.
She doesn't even see it, that the demand here is in itself a form of humiliation.
At face value it is easy to sympathize because it is easy to see women as victims, but this is the cognitive feedback loop that single mothers and coalburners have and it does not self-correct. Prevention is the only solution, and only a correct culture can prevent this. Always perceive single mothers and the like as they would perceive a man without a penis.
The answer should always be "that's unfortunate" or "pay the toll".
Don't take this as a 'defence of cucks', but thanks to this irresponsible mother and absent dad that kid is going to grow up with no male role model to lean on. None from family as I bet her parents aren't in her life enough if she's in the position, education nah, the days of the male teacher that extruded authority and patience is long over, this kid has a 70% chance of ending up in a gang to just feel some kind of male attachment.
And that's if he's lucky, unlucky and well...the butcher's will be eagerly waiting for him..
Even worse. All context clues lead to it being a half black son.
So you got single mom problems, "being a black male in America" issues, AND being a half black guy who won't be accepted by his black peers (because fuck light skinned niggas, as they say).
The kid has every single thing working against him possible. All so that a 19 year old girl could get off for a night.
It's ironic, even at their worst at the height of the slave trade, whites treated mixed children better than ANY other race does.
I'm not implying some 'higher morality from within' they have to other races, just a different philosophy. If you read about what happened in the past with mixed aborigines in Australia It's very clear. There was a belief that because they were mixed they effectively could be bred to eventually be like them. Compared to other races that ostracised them for being of 'mixed blood', it at least gives the children who were simply born this way a chance.
Neither would any other man with self respect. I just thought it was funny that even spineless cucks who would sell their dignity for pussy have limits.
He was also elected President because white people and probably (((white))) people wanted it. Hardly the first nigger elevated beyond his capability who developed a reflexive hate for more capable white people.
welfare laws created a financial incentive for poor mothers to stay single
Welfare queen being a viable career choice is a huge contributor to this. The financial incentives that the family courts create destroy the existing marriages.
I find it funny how she fails to land any man she deems able to meet her standards. Really though, it's not racism. It's the fact that the men are reaching their peak desirability while her own is on it's downhill course. Despite this, she's vetting the men like it's a job interview and the dates are essentially interviews to be her personal slave/servant.
If she acted fun and carefree like she did when she was riding raw dick at 18, long enough for any one of these men to get invested in her, it might work out for her... but instead, she's judgemental, ball busting, and she's demanding the men around her be ready to settle down or else she deems them broken.
She's got no empathy, and as such, she's doomed to fail because she can never really grasp the mistakes she is making. Nobody can get close enough to love her and the things she wants require a man to have his heart in it. Which will not happen given her behavior. She's a single catmom for life.
The options are mia culpa or double down, and with her attitude, she has chosen to double down.
She needs to find a fat ugly dude with a good job and absolutely devote herself to making him feel good if she wants that provided-for, protected, high stability environment. I imagine instead, she'll continue to spend an hour or two vetting each match, rejecting all but the most desirable who were willing to match her, just to get shot down because it turns out the guys she desire are just matching with everybody to maximize their time and minimize their investment in get-the-bag thots.
the most sensible comment " But please understand that the real world out there is not Reddit. Sometimes we lose touch with reality in our bubble here in Reddit."
I prefer to refer to it as trying to get a guy to start a relationship "pre-cucked".
Worried she might get herself knocked up by another dude after she starts dating you? Good news, this whore is ahead of the curve on that one.
That's what it feels like when a "single mother" tries to find a relationship while simultaneously bragging that the one(or more) guy she got knocked up by still thinks she's a waste of time.
It's egocentricism. She wants to think she is as desirable as she ever was.
She also wants to use it as a help call as if she were a wounded bird. The single moms like to all pretend it was a ripped condom, or a failed birth control pill, because the reason why this call works is because the single moms have convinced all the other women that it could happen to them. Sort of like how the "Believe all women" people want to convince all other women that rape happens to every single woman, ever. Or how the abortion lobby talks about life saving / rape abortion despite that not being even 1% of the reason why abortions occur.
All this squawking despite women being the ones that initiate most divorce.
I dunno, I think they recognize that it's at least something they should mention upfront if they don't want to have a lot of dates running as soon as they spring the surprise on men they're dating.
How they flavor it in their profile can vary though. I've seen some cringe and I've seen some that's just kind of normal/casual. Maybe it's gotten worse in recent years with narcissistic social media related behavior.
If you're meeting in person, well you'd find out eventually. A dating site I would think would have everyone's um reproductive status out there. Cuz ultimately that's the goal of dating.
True, though the circumstances are quite different when we're talking about individual women who happen to be single mothers, and media cases trying to "represent them" to push a propaganda narrative. Obviously the latter can have an impact on the former (media propaganda being spun to stroke the egos and sense of entitlement), but they are not necessarily one and the same.
And obviously when there's a media or marketing spotlight they're going to royally up the ante on how much bullshit they're willing to spew. I'd apply this metric to single mothers who actively gain money and/or fame through various online social media platforms too. And then there's the whole branch of single mothers who leech off the system for the sole purpose of child support and government handouts...
It's a mixed bag all around, and while not all of it is awful, most of it is, I'll agree.
It appears that even most cucks willing to raise another dude's children still have some shame. She admits to having a kid on her profile and to her dates, but she leaves out a major detail: The kid is half black. When her dates discover that missing detail they head for the hills. I suppose it's one thing to be pathetic enough raise kids that aren't theirs for some occasional pussy, but they draw line at making it obvious to anyone with eyes how pathetic they are. They can at least LARP as the real father in public if the kid is fully white.
There is literally no bigger red flag.
You sure? A single mother claiming her kid was trans would probably be a much bigger red flag.
Yes I'm sure. Murderess is less of a red flag than mud wallower.
I suppose the "murderess" is at least more of a straight forward sadistic psychopath and narcissist. Where-as a mud wallower is more likely to go into unpredictable ranges of extreme depravity.
"Why not both" of these cases also springs to mind as probly the ultimate red flag.
Oh they're both atrocious. But a murderess only destroys one life. A mud wallower destroys her family, is a consummate welfare parasite and their inevitably criminal spawn will go on to hurt Innocents as well.
Tell me you have a giant loose pussy without telling me you have a giant loose pussy. (the single mother not you)
Statistically if it’s a white mom and black dad the abandonment rate is in the high 90s (I want to say 97.5%). Any sane white man would never date a coal burner because 1. Horrible life choices when you’re statistically guaranteed to be abandoned and still do it. 2. The mixed kid is going to be groomed into crying racism every time you punish him. 3. He might actually have to deal with the father at some point. 4. Racial preferences in dating are a massive factor when it comes to physical attraction, for example, I won’t date girls with curly hair, let alone knappy, physiognomy exists for a reason. 5. As she said, she thought “liberal” men were the answer because she wants a beta provider to go frigid on.
These people are living jokes who can’t take one iota of personal responsibility.
horrible life choices are a great indication of lack of impulse control- obesity/tattoos
lack of impulse control is a big warning flag for arguments/domestic violence/substance abuse/infidelity/future obesity etc etc
People can fuck up and learn to be better. I believe in redemption.
The kid is a consequence forever. And statistically and in practice, not a good one. No kid wants to be the bastard son of some missing father whose only contribution was to make him half black.
This is always my favorite cope. Because every single single mother says it. Every time, almost verbatim. Its a reflexive deflect because they know that they resent the child for all the misery it is bringing, and it very much reflects in their whining that "all of this wouldn't be a problem if not for this goblin."
But they can't admit that, because even the retarded single mothers know it makes them look bad and turns everyone on them. So they throw the disclaimer in, just to hide it.
First comment is a killer!
>gets raw dogged by a black guy in her teens
>openly hates white men
>"why won't any white men date me?"
The sad thing is, she'll still find some pathetic beta to pay to raise her child. For a low as women can sink, betas can always sink lower.
I'm half Asian. White dad, Asian mom. I'm well adjusted and successful and I know a ton of others who are successful.
You tend to get the best of the two cultures: based hard working white dad and based tiger mom.
Cuck reddit commentor prefers a white mom because a higher percentage of them are liberal Karens that will brainwash their kids.
Aren't White Male+Asian Female couples the way more common pairing though, like 10-1 probably? I doubt it's possible to compare them based on anecdotal observation.
Also doesn't Keanu hate his father? Or there was some bad blood for a while. It wasn't exactly a healthy relationship.
I'm convinced only because to this day as far as I know the most common way this arrangement happens is something to do with the Vietnam war or mail order brides. Both of those things are more or less exclusive to American men. You see so many old white dudes with younger SE Asian women. I dunno if they are the second wife or what.
If you're talking about kids that grew up today, I think it's quite common for Asian men to take white wives.
... that's because SE Asian women worship white men as gods that stride the earth. A 40-yr old kissless virgin will drown in pussy over here. A guy with even a hint of game is like a super-model.
Yeah I'm not moving over on account, but I'm glad it works for someone.
What the fuck is this, Master Oogway after Dark? Edgy Fortune Cookies?
Keanus dad was mixed himself, apparently
Boy, she sounds like a fun person to date. Nothing like being grilled about whether you are racist to appease a single mother.
"Make sure they are politically liberal" = stalked them online to discover as much as possible by the way.
Man when her looks go out what are you even left with?
I think it's about shaming men who don't want to be seen with a child that clearly isn't his. She's been using Cuckold Simulator as a manual.
Imagine being so awful you make white liberal men opposed to interracial marriage.
You rachet that dick so bad, he turned counter-clockwise!
Even though it's a troll judging by the post history, the comments are once again proof redditors don't deserve human rights.
Yeah. Simps for feminism are the most likely to be rapey.
They think they can feminist their way into a danger hair's pants, and when that doesn't work they commit sex crimes. Someone should tell them that they're not entitled to sex. I hear that works wonders on incels.
Sorry for the double response, but this reminded me of an easy way to see the bias. Try searching the dating subs for "he rejected me". Then try "she rejected me". The former garners ridiculous amounts of sympathy. The latter gets the OP ripped a new asshole and called an incel.
I was surprised to see anyone defending men who want nothing to do with that. I would have thought the site's tranny jannies would have purged all wrong think in the name of fighting the red pill bogeyman years ago.
Lmfao that story reminds me of a similar copypasta where a dude gets into an argument on reddit only to find the dude heavily browsed a sub dedicated to a fetish where you drink your own piss. To make it even funnier, the argument had something to do with Italian food iirc.
Reddit is a fucking cesspool. Really a shame because 10 years ago it was nowhere near as bad.
Immediately he knows the type of woman she is and that it probably didn't stop at having a black kid - the concept of the "cock carasouel" is very naturally intuited.
Deep down he knows that the whole world, in all that it presumes of him, will also see him as a weak and defeated cuck no matter how liberal his surroundings are; and the world would be right under any manner of circumstance in which he'd be seen carting around Tyrone's unwanted globohomo gremlin. Tyrone didn't even have to try. This makes the bugman look completely dickless. Even if he tried in earnest to "man up!" he'll probably get cheated on since no man with even a sliver of self-respect is going to see past that - and there is a paradox of disrespect here, where she thinks she wants this kind of man but she actually doesn't. He is then just another overly permissive tool to leech off of until he is disposed of when he can't take the shit anymore or she nitpicks something wrong with him and leaves because she cuts him down so low that she thinks she can do better.
She doesn't even see it, that the demand here is in itself a form of humiliation.
At face value it is easy to sympathize because it is easy to see women as victims, but this is the cognitive feedback loop that single mothers and coalburners have and it does not self-correct. Prevention is the only solution, and only a correct culture can prevent this. Always perceive single mothers and the like as they would perceive a man without a penis.
The answer should always be "that's unfortunate" or "pay the toll".
Don't take this as a 'defence of cucks', but thanks to this irresponsible mother and absent dad that kid is going to grow up with no male role model to lean on. None from family as I bet her parents aren't in her life enough if she's in the position, education nah, the days of the male teacher that extruded authority and patience is long over, this kid has a 70% chance of ending up in a gang to just feel some kind of male attachment.
And that's if he's lucky, unlucky and well...the butcher's will be eagerly waiting for him..
Even worse. All context clues lead to it being a half black son.
So you got single mom problems, "being a black male in America" issues, AND being a half black guy who won't be accepted by his black peers (because fuck light skinned niggas, as they say).
The kid has every single thing working against him possible. All so that a 19 year old girl could get off for a night.
It's ironic, even at their worst at the height of the slave trade, whites treated mixed children better than ANY other race does.
I'm not implying some 'higher morality from within' they have to other races, just a different philosophy. If you read about what happened in the past with mixed aborigines in Australia It's very clear. There was a belief that because they were mixed they effectively could be bred to eventually be like them. Compared to other races that ostracised them for being of 'mixed blood', it at least gives the children who were simply born this way a chance.
Washington post global survey clearly shows white countries are the only non racist ones : https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/worldviews/wp/2013/05/15/a-fascinating-map-of-the-worlds-most-and-least-racially-tolerant-countries/
And then doesn't even abort. Typical height of female decision making.
But dude, it made her happier! She finally found herself and figured out what she wants because her son helped her figure out what's really important.
As such, the slate is wiped clean of all her past sins and possible baggage, now its men's fault she isn't happy anymore.
Most likely the parents dissaproved of whoever she was dating and had a baby with. Disowned.
So that boy has no shot as if he had a grandfather or an uncle to lean on, he'd at least have a shot.
tbf i wouldn't date a single mother regardless of her bastards heritage
Neither would any other man with self respect. I just thought it was funny that even spineless cucks who would sell their dignity for pussy have limits.
Might consider a widow, depending on the circumstances.
Never married? Hard pass. Divorcee? Harder pass.
Widow is definitely a more case by case basis.
The last comment is gold - basically once you go black nobody will want you back.
I didn’t know that “92% of mixed race kids have a single mom”
I always wonder why Barack Obama hated white people when he was ABANDONED by his black family and raised 100% by his white mother.
He was also elected President because white people and probably (((white))) people wanted it. Hardly the first nigger elevated beyond his capability who developed a reflexive hate for more capable white people.
I was doing some research on the topic and saw this accidently based article from NBC - https://www.nbcnews.com/id/wbna39993685
Welfare queen being a viable career choice is a huge contributor to this. The financial incentives that the family courts create destroy the existing marriages.
I've come to conclusion the only way to save humanity is for the complete destruction of current civilization. Just start again.
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Found out <- She is here
I find it funny how she fails to land any man she deems able to meet her standards. Really though, it's not racism. It's the fact that the men are reaching their peak desirability while her own is on it's downhill course. Despite this, she's vetting the men like it's a job interview and the dates are essentially interviews to be her personal slave/servant.
If she acted fun and carefree like she did when she was riding raw dick at 18, long enough for any one of these men to get invested in her, it might work out for her... but instead, she's judgemental, ball busting, and she's demanding the men around her be ready to settle down or else she deems them broken.
She's got no empathy, and as such, she's doomed to fail because she can never really grasp the mistakes she is making. Nobody can get close enough to love her and the things she wants require a man to have his heart in it. Which will not happen given her behavior. She's a single catmom for life.
The options are mia culpa or double down, and with her attitude, she has chosen to double down.
She needs to find a fat ugly dude with a good job and absolutely devote herself to making him feel good if she wants that provided-for, protected, high stability environment. I imagine instead, she'll continue to spend an hour or two vetting each match, rejecting all but the most desirable who were willing to match her, just to get shot down because it turns out the guys she desire are just matching with everybody to maximize their time and minimize their investment in get-the-bag thots.
I'm pretty sure that's a troll account. I can't look at all of their posts because their account is suspended, but it smells off.
the most sensible comment " But please understand that the real world out there is not Reddit. Sometimes we lose touch with reality in our bubble here in Reddit."
The craziest part of that whole thread is a Faggitor being self aware.
Just bear in mind that these are the same people voting for law and policy in your local, state and federal government elections.
Victim of the original "Fuck around and find out".
Unfortunately it’s a troll post
But it does mirror reality
Maybe it's time for a return to shaming and shunning.
“I’m a single mom”
sounds better than the reality
“I let losers rawdog me”
I prefer to refer to it as trying to get a guy to start a relationship "pre-cucked".
That's what it feels like when a "single mother" tries to find a relationship while simultaneously bragging that the one(or more) guy she got knocked up by still thinks she's a waste of time.
It's egocentricism. She wants to think she is as desirable as she ever was.
She also wants to use it as a help call as if she were a wounded bird. The single moms like to all pretend it was a ripped condom, or a failed birth control pill, because the reason why this call works is because the single moms have convinced all the other women that it could happen to them. Sort of like how the "Believe all women" people want to convince all other women that rape happens to every single woman, ever. Or how the abortion lobby talks about life saving / rape abortion despite that not being even 1% of the reason why abortions occur.
All this squawking despite women being the ones that initiate most divorce.
I dunno, I think they recognize that it's at least something they should mention upfront if they don't want to have a lot of dates running as soon as they spring the surprise on men they're dating.
How they flavor it in their profile can vary though. I've seen some cringe and I've seen some that's just kind of normal/casual. Maybe it's gotten worse in recent years with narcissistic social media related behavior.
If you're meeting in person, well you'd find out eventually. A dating site I would think would have everyone's um reproductive status out there. Cuz ultimately that's the goal of dating.
True, though the circumstances are quite different when we're talking about individual women who happen to be single mothers, and media cases trying to "represent them" to push a propaganda narrative. Obviously the latter can have an impact on the former (media propaganda being spun to stroke the egos and sense of entitlement), but they are not necessarily one and the same.
And obviously when there's a media or marketing spotlight they're going to royally up the ante on how much bullshit they're willing to spew. I'd apply this metric to single mothers who actively gain money and/or fame through various online social media platforms too. And then there's the whole branch of single mothers who leech off the system for the sole purpose of child support and government handouts...
It's a mixed bag all around, and while not all of it is awful, most of it is, I'll agree.