The options are mia culpa or double down, and with her attitude, she has chosen to double down.

She needs to find a fat ugly dude with a good job and absolutely devote herself to making him feel good if she wants that provided-for, protected, high stability environment. I imagine instead, she'll continue to spend an hour or two vetting each match, rejecting all but the most desirable who were willing to match her, just to get shot down because it turns out the guys she desire are just matching with everybody to maximize their time and minimize their investment in get-the-bag thots.