Is the easiest time in history to have kids and yet we are having less kids then ever.
Do not get me wrong, is ok to have kids only if you want them and not do to social pressure. But we are in a time where the social pressure is to not have kids, this is wrong as well.
You end up with a lot of depressed 30+ women and men that never grow up.
I do not want to influence anyone, however getting married and having kids changed me a lot.
I had 0 ambition, used to play computer games all day, I would postpone everything to the last moment, I was growing more and more depressed.
I got married and it changed my life. I started being more ambitious, my work ethic improved, I started having hobbies where I build things, my responsibilities have grown and I am a lot happier with how I am. I even gotten in shape. The reason for my change is not natural, it was hard for me to change but I did it so I can be a better husband and a father that the kids can be proud of.
I fully know that tomorrow or the day after my wife may go thru some crisis and take my kids and my house away from me. I have no illusion that this entire part of my life may crush and burn and leave me an empty husk of a human being.
I also know that my wife would probably leave me if I got fired and if she was to make more then me our relationship would not be a pleasant one.
But until that happens I plan to enjoy my life and I do feel like I was an overgrown child until I got married. I do not even know why my current wife even took a chance with me.
It's very true. There is a telos to existence that we are in denial of, people drifting through life wallowing in sadness, consumerism, hedonism, chemical dependency, looking to 'find themselves' or 'figure out how to adult,' etc. etc. etc.
We've forgotten this basic lessons our grandparents took for granted: humans weren't meant to live this way. Get married and have kids, it really is that simple, let the next stage of your life begin. Once you stop fighting the current you find your brain has all sorts of new pathways to grow and mature, all these tools left to rot become useful and important, and you don't have an eternal hunger that is never filled.
So much of modernity involves fighting nature tooth and nail, with only misery as the result.
Dude nothing happened, I'm happily married but I do nkow that life gets fucked up and women do tend to be chaotic and I've seen this scenarios to many times to believe that me and my wife are somehow special and love conquers all.
Maybe we will be happily married and grow old together, I do hope so.
But you are definitely more mature because you schizo post and brag about the money you have while you hate on women for fucking everything here all fucking day.
Considering you've tanked your own reputation to the point that no one will be convinced to your side, if you are capable of multitasking you are still wasting it by doing so.
Getting off on petty arguments is in fact a sign of immaturity because its what women love to do.
I'm as anti-feminist and probably misogynistic as he is, and have been doing it for decades, so its the same old song/dance of angry boys just being angry and thinking it will actually help us.
You've completely deflected the point being made to attack other people by making yourself the victim of their ignorance. Great show of how you deal with your criticisms, certainly not also a womanly trait.
People don't reject it because its a comfortable lie. They reject you saying it because all you do is schizo NPC post the same things and get in petty slap fights. You are making women look better by being the ridiculous alternative.
If you are so capable of multitasking, maybe you should take some courses on charisma, persuasion, and marketing. You might actually save some men out there who actually need it.
It's the internal change that fatherhood forces. Caring for your children moves you further along the path from 'boy' to 'man.' Having to father a child invokes manhood as steward and warden. You care about the world more, because your children inherit it. Your focus ceases to be entirely self-centered because you are invested in your children's success: father to son, in a chain that lasts past your own life.
Fatherhood is literal Patriarchy, and is one of the things Feminists want to destroy. The fact that you're speaking against it is deeply ironic.
When the court system is heavily skewed against men, and social media has turned a lot of women into whores, why bet everything you have on a horse with two broken legs?
this. the marriage rate is in the garbage, and divorce rate is consistently 50-60%. a handful of states have started to bump back on these stupid laws that incentivized women to destroy their families, but a lot of states haven't and many women are still fucking retarded.
not joking, was reading this article a bit back about a retarded Florida woman (yes, I know, that's saying the same thing twice) who tried to pull that shit, had no idea what the law actually states. she nuked her family, and then found out that apparently FL doesn't have lopsided divorce laws. she got mad that she wasn't going to get full custody, alimony for life, and child support til the kids are all 18, and tried to get the guy to take her back. he said no, so she started making shit up about him. he proved her ass wrong with security videos, and in the end he got full custody, alimony, and child support.
everything she did to her family was because of media and the broken court system. she thought it was going to be payday.
Lack of religion is directly tied to the selfishness of women. They know they have an emptiness and every media source tells them the wrong ways to fill it.
The Asians and Africans need more of this then, they still have too many fucking babies.
If another species had doubled its population in only three or four generations, humans would be screeching about how they needed culling and birth control. ESPECIALLY if there were so many deformed, retarded, and diseased as humans have. "sustainable endless growth" is a myth, and the mindset of CANCER.
Their success will ultimately be meaningless when they're old and alone. With kids THEIR success will be your success and you'll grow old surrounded by a family who loves you. These women are pretty much fucking themselves over in their later life.
Is the easiest time in history to have kids and yet we are having less kids then ever.
Do not get me wrong, is ok to have kids only if you want them and not do to social pressure. But we are in a time where the social pressure is to not have kids, this is wrong as well.
I do not want to influence anyone, however getting married and having kids changed me a lot. I had 0 ambition, used to play computer games all day, I would postpone everything to the last moment, I was growing more and more depressed.
I got married and it changed my life. I started being more ambitious, my work ethic improved, I started having hobbies where I build things, my responsibilities have grown and I am a lot happier with how I am. I even gotten in shape. The reason for my change is not natural, it was hard for me to change but I did it so I can be a better husband and a father that the kids can be proud of.
I fully know that tomorrow or the day after my wife may go thru some crisis and take my kids and my house away from me. I have no illusion that this entire part of my life may crush and burn and leave me an empty husk of a human being.
I also know that my wife would probably leave me if I got fired and if she was to make more then me our relationship would not be a pleasant one.
But until that happens I plan to enjoy my life and I do feel like I was an overgrown child until I got married. I do not even know why my current wife even took a chance with me.
It's very true. There is a telos to existence that we are in denial of, people drifting through life wallowing in sadness, consumerism, hedonism, chemical dependency, looking to 'find themselves' or 'figure out how to adult,' etc. etc. etc.
We've forgotten this basic lessons our grandparents took for granted: humans weren't meant to live this way. Get married and have kids, it really is that simple, let the next stage of your life begin. Once you stop fighting the current you find your brain has all sorts of new pathways to grow and mature, all these tools left to rot become useful and important, and you don't have an eternal hunger that is never filled.
So much of modernity involves fighting nature tooth and nail, with only misery as the result.
I'd need to stop doing that first. lol
Dude nothing happened, I'm happily married but I do nkow that life gets fucked up and women do tend to be chaotic and I've seen this scenarios to many times to believe that me and my wife are somehow special and love conquers all.
Maybe we will be happily married and grow old together, I do hope so.
But you are definitely more mature because you schizo post and brag about the money you have while you hate on women for fucking everything here all fucking day.
Considering you've tanked your own reputation to the point that no one will be convinced to your side, if you are capable of multitasking you are still wasting it by doing so.
Getting off on petty arguments is in fact a sign of immaturity because its what women love to do.
As someone who notices certain patterns, I’m very happy to have the imp as an opponent lol
I'm as anti-feminist and probably misogynistic as he is, and have been doing it for decades, so its the same old song/dance of angry boys just being angry and thinking it will actually help us.
You've completely deflected the point being made to attack other people by making yourself the victim of their ignorance. Great show of how you deal with your criticisms, certainly not also a womanly trait.
People don't reject it because its a comfortable lie. They reject you saying it because all you do is schizo NPC post the same things and get in petty slap fights. You are making women look better by being the ridiculous alternative.
If you are so capable of multitasking, maybe you should take some courses on charisma, persuasion, and marketing. You might actually save some men out there who actually need it.
I literally just found this site and 2 out of the 3 threads I've read have you blaming women for odd things and people calling you out on it lol.
It's not about the woman.
It's the internal change that fatherhood forces. Caring for your children moves you further along the path from 'boy' to 'man.' Having to father a child invokes manhood as steward and warden. You care about the world more, because your children inherit it. Your focus ceases to be entirely self-centered because you are invested in your children's success: father to son, in a chain that lasts past your own life.
Fatherhood is literal Patriarchy, and is one of the things Feminists want to destroy. The fact that you're speaking against it is deeply ironic.
When the court system is heavily skewed against men, and social media has turned a lot of women into whores, why bet everything you have on a horse with two broken legs?
this. the marriage rate is in the garbage, and divorce rate is consistently 50-60%. a handful of states have started to bump back on these stupid laws that incentivized women to destroy their families, but a lot of states haven't and many women are still fucking retarded.
not joking, was reading this article a bit back about a retarded Florida woman (yes, I know, that's saying the same thing twice) who tried to pull that shit, had no idea what the law actually states. she nuked her family, and then found out that apparently FL doesn't have lopsided divorce laws. she got mad that she wasn't going to get full custody, alimony for life, and child support til the kids are all 18, and tried to get the guy to take her back. he said no, so she started making shit up about him. he proved her ass wrong with security videos, and in the end he got full custody, alimony, and child support.
everything she did to her family was because of media and the broken court system. she thought it was going to be payday.
Lack of religion is directly tied to the selfishness of women. They know they have an emptiness and every media source tells them the wrong ways to fill it.
Or, alternatively, not to fill it, and that the “emptiness” is a good thing…
There’s a bit of that, too, I feel, in the very worst of social media, the blogosphere AND the MSM… 😑
Boomers destroyed society and will never live long enough to see the repercussions of their actions.
The Asians and Africans need more of this then, they still have too many fucking babies.
If another species had doubled its population in only three or four generations, humans would be screeching about how they needed culling and birth control. ESPECIALLY if there were so many deformed, retarded, and diseased as humans have. "sustainable endless growth" is a myth, and the mindset of CANCER.
Africans need feminism.
Not sure about India and Pakistan, how big is feminism there?
They just need some goddamn birth control. And if they're too stupid to use it, put it in their fucking unicef food.
The "beautiful" stage of the mouse utopia...
That's the name I couldn't remember to add. The beautiful ones.
They still are. Unless you think the federal reserve still “watches inflation like a hawk”.
Leftism is nothing other than the outcome of feeding Narcissist personalities. It will inevitably lead to their own extinction.
the Fisher' pill is the most brutal
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fisherian_runaway
Their success will ultimately be meaningless when they're old and alone. With kids THEIR success will be your success and you'll grow old surrounded by a family who loves you. These women are pretty much fucking themselves over in their later life.
I just saw some of the downvotes, and I think u/c needs to ban some regressive leftists from rdrama.