They are biologically emergent and exist for a reason. This is a matter of disrespect to begin with, not one of "breaking" supposed stereotypes.
Sure, letting a woman doll you up isn't going to tank your relationship defacto, but it will probably make her lose some respect for you or is a sign that she had no respect for you in the first place, which will manifest in a number of other silly ways. Next thing you know they'll be breaking the stereotype of having a monogamous relationship.
A shit test, as usual. Women SAY they want a man you is "comfortable" with degrading his masculinity when in reality they want a man who is protects it.
The "hold my purse" thing is a great example. If you do she automatically downgrades you. If you say no initially but give in when she shames or makes fun of you she sees you as unable to stand up for yourself. If you get mad she flags you as having no emotional control and a "loser" because a woman can make you mad.
The correct response, as always, is to never take anything she says seriously. Do what you want to do but make jokes out of it like "I'm allergic to leather, but the allergy only shows up with handbags" and keep the joke going even if she gets emotional. But never break and ask for "mercy" by saying "its just a joke" to try and appease her.
Does it count as 'letting her put makeup on you' if it's a ring of lipstick around your dick? /s
There are a lot of scenarios where guys putting on make-up is completely understandable from entertainment whether for studo lights or going full Tropic Thunder or using it to hide things like scars or burns.
But this passive bitch 'be your girlfriend's dress up doll' is pathetic for both the guy and the girl who hasn't learnt to be considerate of others out of childhood.
their biology always kicks in the end which is a big part of why they often end up sabotaging their relationships.
What's more, their biology is fucked and confused. For many, no one can ever be enough of a man because they don't need men. They have their cat, their "guy friends", the dude they're fucking, the other dude they're fucking, the other dude they're stringing along, their job, and an endless surplus of simps blowing smoke up their ass - along with all of the wonders of SSRIs and birth control pills and the neurological rollercoaster that is; the regret and buyer's remorse will always slingshot them back and forth until they get knocked up an inch close to the wall or past it. Sadly, this is the best outcome usually. Then they're off to the races with their mom memes pretending that shit never happened.
One has to wonder what length of the miles and miles of cock they "found" themselves at. Off to a rolling good time trying to date now, it's always some gross raisin-skinned roasty with a million tattoos and a nosering hitting me up - or some gluttonous black ogre jutting out its slovenly tongue at any potential feeder like a prize pig. What wonders the modern world has brought forth and placed on display for me; and it's like this, "here's your prize for that SIGMA MALE GRINDSET!". A bunch of burnt out cunts who "found themselves".
Only time this is at all acceptable is if it's for a Halloween costume, or something. Other than that...yeah, there are serious issues.
And you can tell based on the comments that it's ideological, not a real belief. They wouldn't be attacking the naysayers so viciously if it was just an opinion.
Every time I hear people who aren't men talk about masculinity, or being secure in their sexuality, it's always associated with some manner of homosexual behavior.
I'm going to go slightly against the grain here and, from some personal experience, say that some girl-puts-makeup-on-guy play can be fun and not degrading, IF the guy plays it well.
Do you think Chad cares if some silly girl puts some makeup on him? Is he going to get butthurt and upset over a little makeup? No, treat them as seriously as a dad treats his little kid who put makeup on him, etc.
I don't follow redpill, but aren't two of the core tenets "be fun, be attractive?"
[Twitter poster "ahnifollett" whose pinterest is "bisexual witch" and whose twitter doesn't exist, sounds like loads of fun]
Your perspective only works if the only two options are to allow it or to overreact aggressively. In that case of course option 2 looks like a sperg and is in a far worse place than simply allowing it.
You know what women, and sometimes children, also like, crave and need? Boundaries, and being told no.
Unless you want to be wearing the makeup yourself, which is a whole different set of problems, then you are caving into her stupid demands which have no value but whimsy and granting her that power over you. Which is a lose regardless of how you spin it.
No. The core tenets are to improve yourself, hold frame, be stoic, and take no shit. AKA the exact opposite of what you are advocating for.
Ugh, typo.
I disagree though. Back when trp, asktrp, mrp, etc., were active, "be attractive, be fun" were chanted all the time. Usually in the context of "fake it till you make it." Fair enough that "improve yourself" is probably the most pure and central ideal.
To use trp terminology, if you "lose frame" over a makeup play "shit test" and can't "be fun" then, well, it's probably pretty clear why you're in the situation you're in.
If you're taking her that seriously, you fucked up.
If you allow a woman do this to you, you are one step away from getting pegged. If you don't at least question it first, you are probably fine with getting pegged.
They are biologically emergent and exist for a reason. This is a matter of disrespect to begin with, not one of "breaking" supposed stereotypes.
Sure, letting a woman doll you up isn't going to tank your relationship defacto, but it will probably make her lose some respect for you or is a sign that she had no respect for you in the first place, which will manifest in a number of other silly ways. Next thing you know they'll be breaking the stereotype of having a monogamous relationship.
A shit test, as usual. Women SAY they want a man you is "comfortable" with degrading his masculinity when in reality they want a man who is protects it.
The "hold my purse" thing is a great example. If you do she automatically downgrades you. If you say no initially but give in when she shames or makes fun of you she sees you as unable to stand up for yourself. If you get mad she flags you as having no emotional control and a "loser" because a woman can make you mad.
The correct response, as always, is to never take anything she says seriously. Do what you want to do but make jokes out of it like "I'm allergic to leather, but the allergy only shows up with handbags" and keep the joke going even if she gets emotional. But never break and ask for "mercy" by saying "its just a joke" to try and appease her.
I won't even joke lol. Just say no and move on.
Does it count as 'letting her put makeup on you' if it's a ring of lipstick around your dick? /s
There are a lot of scenarios where guys putting on make-up is completely understandable from entertainment whether for studo lights or going full Tropic Thunder or using it to hide things like scars or burns.
But this passive bitch 'be your girlfriend's dress up doll' is pathetic for both the guy and the girl who hasn't learnt to be considerate of others out of childhood.
What's more, their biology is fucked and confused. For many, no one can ever be enough of a man because they don't need men. They have their cat, their "guy friends", the dude they're fucking, the other dude they're fucking, the other dude they're stringing along, their job, and an endless surplus of simps blowing smoke up their ass - along with all of the wonders of SSRIs and birth control pills and the neurological rollercoaster that is; the regret and buyer's remorse will always slingshot them back and forth until they get knocked up an inch close to the wall or past it. Sadly, this is the best outcome usually. Then they're off to the races with their mom memes pretending that shit never happened.
One has to wonder what length of the miles and miles of cock they "found" themselves at. Off to a rolling good time trying to date now, it's always some gross raisin-skinned roasty with a million tattoos and a nosering hitting me up - or some gluttonous black ogre jutting out its slovenly tongue at any potential feeder like a prize pig. What wonders the modern world has brought forth and placed on display for me; and it's like this, "here's your prize for that SIGMA MALE GRINDSET!". A bunch of burnt out cunts who "found themselves".
I am jaded as fuck. I've seen things from way too many angles and want a reset, even at my own expense.
I fucking miss poland.
There are no 'alpha women', just unhinged creepers in a princess culture.
Only time this is at all acceptable is if it's for a Halloween costume, or something. Other than that...yeah, there are serious issues.
And you can tell based on the comments that it's ideological, not a real belief. They wouldn't be attacking the naysayers so viciously if it was just an opinion.
Every time I hear people who aren't men talk about masculinity, or being secure in their sexuality, it's always associated with some manner of homosexual behavior.
If men allow women to test them, they've already failed the test.
Dear bitch,
If you treat your boyfriend like a Ken doll, then you don't have any respect for him.
nigga you gay
guts theme
That should only happen at Halloween.
I'm going to go slightly against the grain here and, from some personal experience, say that some girl-puts-makeup-on-guy play can be fun and not degrading, IF the guy plays it well.
Do you think Chad cares if some silly girl puts some makeup on him? Is he going to get butthurt and upset over a little makeup? No, treat them as seriously as a dad treats his little kid who put makeup on him, etc.
I don't follow redpill, but aren't two of the core tenets "be fun, be attractive?"
[Twitter poster "ahnifollett" whose pinterest is "bisexual witch" and whose twitter doesn't exist, sounds like loads of fun]
Your perspective only works if the only two options are to allow it or to overreact aggressively. In that case of course option 2 looks like a sperg and is in a far worse place than simply allowing it.
You know what women, and sometimes children, also like, crave and need? Boundaries, and being told no.
Unless you want to be wearing the makeup yourself, which is a whole different set of problems, then you are caving into her stupid demands which have no value but whimsy and granting her that power over you. Which is a lose regardless of how you spin it.
Ugh, typo.
I disagree though. Back when trp, asktrp, mrp, etc., were active, "be attractive, be fun" were chanted all the time. Usually in the context of "fake it till you make it." Fair enough that "improve yourself" is probably the most pure and central ideal.
To use trp terminology, if you "lose frame" over a makeup play "shit test" and can't "be fun" then, well, it's probably pretty clear why you're in the situation you're in.
If you're taking her that seriously, you fucked up.
Notice how women claim authority over femininity AND masculinity.
No man is ever allowed to say "A real woman does..."
I somehow rather doubt that. Ever seen the annual Russian “high heels race”? It’s hilarious, and goes how you’d expect.
Never let your woman mark you, full stop. Be that with makeup, or otherwise.
Claims it is a social construct and not inherently feminine,
proceeds to impose a bunch of bitch behaviors on weak men.
If you allow a woman do this to you, you are one step away from getting pegged. If you don't at least question it first, you are probably fine with getting pegged.