No. The core tenets are to improve yourself, hold frame, be stoic, and take no shit. AKA the exact opposite of what you are advocating for.

Ugh, typo.

I disagree though. Back when trp, asktrp, mrp, etc., were active, "be attractive, be fun" were chanted all the time. Usually in the context of "fake it till you make it." Fair enough that "improve yourself" is probably the most pure and central ideal.

To use trp terminology, if you "lose frame" over a makeup play "shit test" and can't "be fun" then, well, it's probably pretty clear why you're in the situation you're in.

If you're taking her that seriously, you fucked up.