A shit test, as usual. Women SAY they want a man you is "comfortable" with degrading his masculinity when in reality they want a man who is protects it.
The "hold my purse" thing is a great example. If you do she automatically downgrades you. If you say no initially but give in when she shames or makes fun of you she sees you as unable to stand up for yourself. If you get mad she flags you as having no emotional control and a "loser" because a woman can make you mad.
The correct response, as always, is to never take anything she says seriously. Do what you want to do but make jokes out of it like "I'm allergic to leather, but the allergy only shows up with handbags" and keep the joke going even if she gets emotional. But never break and ask for "mercy" by saying "its just a joke" to try and appease her.
A shit test, as usual. Women SAY they want a man you is "comfortable" with degrading his masculinity when in reality they want a man who is protects it.
The "hold my purse" thing is a great example. If you do she automatically downgrades you. If you say no initially but give in when she shames or makes fun of you she sees you as unable to stand up for yourself. If you get mad she flags you as having no emotional control and a "loser" because a woman can make you mad.
The correct response, as always, is to never take anything she says seriously. Do what you want to do but make jokes out of it like "I'm allergic to leather, but the allergy only shows up with handbags" and keep the joke going even if she gets emotional. But never break and ask for "mercy" by saying "its just a joke" to try and appease her.
I won't even joke lol. Just say no and move on.