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Women Marrying Themselves as ‘Symbolic Expression of Self-Love’ (www.breitbart.com)
posted 3 years ago by TerpenoidTester 3 years ago by TerpenoidTester +37 / -0
CNN: Women Marrying Themselves as ‘Symbolic Expression of Self-Love’
The news outlet painted "sologamy" as pertaining more to mental health and "self-love." rather than an extension of living an "auto-sexual" lifestyle.
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– daberoniandcheese 39 points 3 years ago +39 / -0

I vote for a pause on the word "trauma" until white women learn to stop saying it to mean "someone was mean to me"

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– Ahaus667 24 points 3 years ago +24 / -0

More so “I blame all my shitty actions on something I probably made up but have deluded myself into believing as fact”

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– TyCat999999 22 points 3 years ago +22 / -0

Shit, if they only used it that way it would be an improvement. “Something didn’t go my way” is trauma to them. And it isn’t just the white wines, especially among the Gen Z cohort.

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– Assassin47 9 points 3 years ago +9 / -0

it isn’t just the white wines

They are going to be drinking a lot of boxed white wines after hitting a certain age and realizing marrying themselves wasn't a winning strategy.

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– FuckGenderPolitics 4 points 3 years ago +4 / -0

And not even the betas will take them because they've woken up to the sick game these women play.

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– Bouldabassed 2 points 3 years ago +2 / -0

From your mouth to God's ears. There are some pretty despicable betas out there.

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– ForgotMyOldName 3 points 3 years ago +3 / -0

There are some pretty despicable betas out there.

We're just desperate, desperate enough to settle for women we think deserve death.

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– StupidPrizeWinner 2 points 3 years ago +2 / -0

...Imp?

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– current_horror 8 points 3 years ago +8 / -0

“Trauma” is right up there with “gaslighting”. In fact, when you try to tell a woman that she didn’t actually suffer any trauma, she will usually then accuse you of gaslighting.

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– hungryfreaksdaddy 3 points 3 years ago +3 / -0

I'm going to get really controversial here, but I do think that the majority of those white women actually have trauma. Why? Because sexual promiscuity is traumatic to women. That's one of the reasons that it has been discouraged and punished in virtually every civilized society. These women are mentally and spiritually broken, and they don't even know why.

Is it their own fault for getting into this situation? Yes, to an extent. They certainly made those choices. But society is also at fault. By embracing the lies of "sex positive" feminism, that sex is consequence-free as long as you don't get pregnant or get a disease, society has given women free-reign to give into their baser desires. It's only when they're single and depressed, with waning fertility, do they understand that something went wrong in their lives. They've been living in a way that is distinctly unnatural, and are facing the consequences while society tells them that everything's fine, and if it's not, it's the patriarchy's fault. Wish you'd settled down and had kids? Sound like you have a case of internalized misogyny! Go to re-education and take these antidepressants.

That doesn't mean that these women aren't responsible for their actions; but something needs to change on a broader level.

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– Ahaus667 29 points 3 years ago +29 / -0

These are the creatures our society pretends are empathetic and compassionate. Self obsessed children who demand others praise their narcissistic behaviors and in turn fake praise for the others the same as them. A charade so empty that only constant reaffirmation and leeching of others allows the continuation of the delusion.

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– FuckGenderPolitics 29 points 3 years ago +29 / -0

Self-Love

The term they're looking for here is narcissism. The real fun part is when they realize that there's no payout on divorce.

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– TerpenoidTester [S] 22 points 3 years ago +22 / -0

I was dying reading some of this shit.

One of the women, body image coach Danni Adams, told the outlet she took several years to invest in herself, go to to therapy, and “break generational curses” and “process trauma” before she decided she was ready to marry herself.

After the pandemic she married herself in front of roughly 40 people. The event included nine bridesmaids at a cost of $4,000. A friend officiated the ceremony, and Adams read her vows in front of a full-length mirror, according to the report. Following her self-wedding, she honeymooned in Tulum, Mexico.

“Everything that has happened to me in my past as a child, all the things that have harmed me, I was like, this is a restart at life. I get to own my life, my own joy, my own choices. And that’s what it was about,” she said, adding that marrying herself would not stop her from marrying another person in the future.

CNN noted that critics say self-marriage, which is not recognized by law in the United States, is narcissistic. In response, the outlet quoted a therapist who believes sologamy could be the manifestation of a “healthy form of narcissism.”

“It is actually a lack of self-love that leads to unhealthy narcissism,” therapist John Amodeo claimed. “We are then constantly needing validation from other to fill our inner emptiness.”

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– Indipendepede 16 points 3 years ago +16 / -0

healthy form of narcissism

BWAAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Is this the cry of a political lesbian after they realise women are awful too?

We are then constantly needing validation from other to fill our inner emptiness

Like dragging 40 friends to a wedding ceremony to celebrate your self?

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– Grumman 13 points 3 years ago +13 / -0

body image coach

Gee, how did I know she would be the fat one?

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– ArtemisFoul 8 points 3 years ago +8 / -0

she married herself in front of roughly 40 people

I know for a fact that every single one of these women then proceeded gossip with her own friends about this batshit insane, self-absorbed bitch.

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– current_horror 4 points 3 years ago +4 / -0

It is actually a lack of self-love that leads to unhealthy narcissism,” therapist John Amodeo claimed. “We are then constantly needing validation from other to fill our inner emptiness.

Narcissists are not seeking validation. They are seeking dominance. Because they view themselves as better and more important than others, so their needs and preferences should come first.

Narcissists aren’t empty. They are frustrated that the entire world doesn’t bend to their whims. They can’t satiate their desire for total dominance, so they whinge about it.

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– ForgotMyOldName 1 point 3 years ago +1 / -0

Narcissists are not seeking validation. They are seeking dominance

Only faggots don't want dominance.

Because they view themselves as better and more important than others, so their needs and preferences should come first.

If you don't have that mentality then you belong as a slave.

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– Stumpy 2 points 3 years ago +2 / -0

There’s a difference between wanting dominance, and wanting it but coming to terms with the fact that you can’t always have it.

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– TyCat999999 10 points 3 years ago +10 / -0

I almost feel like the media picks out the weirdest, most personality-disordered people they can find and writes as if the symptoms of their disorders are revolutionary acts. Meanwhile out here it Normalville no one is doing this crazy shit. Certainly it can’t be said that “Women are…”

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– deleted 5 points 3 years ago +5 / -0
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– JustHereForTheSalmon 9 points 3 years ago +9 / -0

At least these women are honest with themselves and admit they can never love anyone as much as they love their own selfish asses.

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– tensigh 6 points 3 years ago +6 / -0

“Let them marry” they said, “it won’t change marriage at all” they said.

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– Gizortnik 2 points 3 years ago +2 / -0

Off: The Ceremony

So many red flags...

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– RaceCreatesCulture 2 points 3 years ago +2 / -0

Men do something that's in their self-interest = narcissistic.

Women literally marry themselves = self-love

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– Mischief_Maven 2 points 3 years ago +2 / -0

Narcissists are voids, hence why they yearn for dominance on a divine scale. Vapid latria drives them like junkies seeking a fix. The slightest dissent leaves them screeching, as they covet paltry praise but make due aiming at a mark with wanton choler. Simplest proof is exposing the anointed image staged in their own being as a false idol. Those who see beyond the brittle mask must be smashed, lest the soulless husks face their true selves. Narcissists use marks as proxies for self-scorn while being engrossed by the ideal idea of themselves. Of course they are to the angelic as what the antichrist is to the messiah. Expecting repent from one is akin to wringing a stone for blood. They are utterly incapable of introspection and should be considered beyond salvation.

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– Assassin47 1 point 3 years ago +1 / -0

This looks like it was written by ChatGPT but it's pretty damn good.

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– NotMacgyver 2 points 3 years ago +2 / -0

If a woman then cheats....on herself? with another person does she then have to give herself half her possessions and can the state or bank tax her on such a transaction ?

Cause that would be fucking hilarious

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– Devidose 7 points 3 years ago +7 / -0

Nah the cat gets that money.

J/k, it was already getting that money because there was nothing else to spend it on other than more takeaway food.

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– evilplushie 1 point 3 years ago +1 / -0

Narcissistic 304s

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– KingLion7 1 point 3 years ago +1 / -0

Self love is just re branded narcissism. The pride that caused Lucifer to fall from Heaven is an affliction amongst many western women.

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– Guy_Incognito76 1 point 3 years ago +1 / -0

This is why they had convents

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– almond_activator 1 point 3 years ago +1 / -0

Emma Watson's "self-partnering" makes a comeback.

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– deleted 4 points 3 years ago +4 / -0

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