There is a visceral need for some level of interpersonal violence to be both legal and socially acceptable. More and more I am convinced that humans don't function properly without it.
Thermonuclear hot take... women WANT men to hit them when they go off the rails. Not a frustrated haymaker to break their nose or eye socket but with a sharp but measured open hand.
They instinctively see man who isn't willing to get physical with a woman or isn't hard enough to bear the emotional burden of doing so as unfit in his role as protector.
If a man can't stand up to a woman how can he possibly withstand the aggression of another man?
A contributing factor to why society is so fucked up. On some level they need that option to be on the table, but the rules of our society dictate that such an option is forbidden from ever being employed. And so the world went mad.
Think about the evolution of our species; with all we've changed in the past century relative to how things were for basically all the rest of human history it makes sense that were now seeing countless problems.
Especially because we aren't even allowed to discuss potential negative effects from many things, like birth control or how feminized our culture had become.
In addition to asking him to compensate her for her lost salary, the man said that his wife’s detailed plan also included notes about the division of housework, as well as plans for saving for childcare and a housekeeper.
Not only does she want paying like it's her job, she also wants to subcontract out half the job on his dime.
I dread to think of what a disaster of a diversity hire someone that dishonest, entitled and lazy is, and is then taking home 125k .
She's clearly happy to get an abortion; I think he might be lucky enough to make a split if he breaks it off now, but staying is definitely not an option either way. The real problem is: how spiteful is a career woman like that ready to be? I bet she's ambitious, greedy, solipsistic, and sociopathically feminist- on a good day. God help that man if she decides she's going to keep it and make him pay everything he's worth for it.
Sweet, I only payed $1.50! Seems to be one of my favourite words these days since they left are all such ego-centric assholes- high on their own moralistic bullshit. Feels like a subtle way of rolling narcissist and sociopath into one simple word: the world revolves around me, and if it doesn't, it's not important!
If you look at it from the perspective that these are two territorial single people undergoing a transaction, then this is basically surrogacy, and compensation for transactional surrogacy makes sense.
If you look at it from the perspective that these people are supposed to be a married family, then it does not.
Married people and families are necessarily conjoined. Same finances, same fate. No mine and yours, just ours, and thus all money and effort contributed is shared for the betterment of the family, no single individual interests. At least, that's the ideal. It usually doesn't work out that way in the modern world.
It may be fair for a surrogate to expect compensation for bearing a child, but for a mother, and wife, part of a family, it is a betrayal of the very concept of the family. Necessarily that kind of individual self interest shows that the woman does not see herself as part of a larger whole, a family.
This dude shouldn't be asking himself whether or not his "wife" deserves money for bearing a child. He should be asking himself if she is really his "wife."
I put wife in quotes because the guy says they are "spiritually married," which is obviously bullshit, because in spirit they couldn't be more single.
Ten years of co-habitation is common law, not 6 years of dating. So, right off the bat this entire article is full of shit by calling them husband and wife. Second of all, this would make her a hired broodmare/surrogate for him, aka, a paid whore, which is illegal. Their split on finances and the state of their financial/legal affairs, they are business partners who fuck, nothing more. A simple accounting of and mediation would separate their finances easily.
This is not motherhood. This is top-tier gold digging whoredom, using her children as props to manipulate and gouge the stupid simp who fucked her. Any good lawyer would take what he has and sever her parental rights.
In addition to asking him to compensate her for her lost salary, the man said that his wife’s detailed plan also included notes about the division of housework, as well as plans for saving for childcare and a housekeeper.
He has to pay her to stay home and also buy a housekeeper, roflkek
As an athiest, if I've learned anything these last few years, it's that being a religious nut is infinitely preferable to an ideological zealot. You do you, brother; I wish I had your kind of faith!
Did you ever see that clip where Sean Connery says it's sometimes OK to slap women?
There is a visceral need for some level of interpersonal violence to be both legal and socially acceptable. More and more I am convinced that humans don't function properly without it.
Thermonuclear hot take... women WANT men to hit them when they go off the rails. Not a frustrated haymaker to break their nose or eye socket but with a sharp but measured open hand.
They instinctively see man who isn't willing to get physical with a woman or isn't hard enough to bear the emotional burden of doing so as unfit in his role as protector.
If a man can't stand up to a woman how can he possibly withstand the aggression of another man?
A contributing factor to why society is so fucked up. On some level they need that option to be on the table, but the rules of our society dictate that such an option is forbidden from ever being employed. And so the world went mad.
turns out islam really is right about women
the 19th will be repealed, inshallah.
Think about the evolution of our species; with all we've changed in the past century relative to how things were for basically all the rest of human history it makes sense that were now seeing countless problems.
Especially because we aren't even allowed to discuss potential negative effects from many things, like birth control or how feminized our culture had become.
People seem to think that because we went to the moon, that we are so different from our monkey ancestors.
And yet almost everything we do is the same, albeit a bit more advanced.
A man wants to marry a woman? He'd better show up with an expensive ring (pretty shiny rock)
A male bird wants to mate with a female bird? He'd better show up with a piece of blue glass (pretty shiny rock)
A woman wants to look more attractive? She puts on makeup.
A Cro Magnon wants to look more attractive? She puts mud on her face.
The sheer amount of technology around us blinds us to how savage we really are, and to ignore that is foolish.
Agree on all counts.
based Scotsman
Not only does she want paying like it's her job, she also wants to subcontract out half the job on his dime.
I dread to think of what a disaster of a diversity hire someone that dishonest, entitled and lazy is, and is then taking home 125k .
Alright to this guy, this is a big red flag trying to save you. Get the hell away from her now while you still can.
It's too late, there is a child now.
Unless he's black, he can no longer escape.
She's clearly happy to get an abortion; I think he might be lucky enough to make a split if he breaks it off now, but staying is definitely not an option either way. The real problem is: how spiteful is a career woman like that ready to be? I bet she's ambitious, greedy, solipsistic, and sociopathically feminist- on a good day. God help that man if she decides she's going to keep it and make him pay everything he's worth for it.
Sweet, I only payed $1.50! Seems to be one of my favourite words these days since they left are all such ego-centric assholes- high on their own moralistic bullshit. Feels like a subtle way of rolling narcissist and sociopath into one simple word: the world revolves around me, and if it doesn't, it's not important!
Horrifying. Especially in a sub with as many fictional stories as this one.
There are a lot of shitty websites that do this nowdays.
If you look at it from the perspective that these are two territorial single people undergoing a transaction, then this is basically surrogacy, and compensation for transactional surrogacy makes sense.
If you look at it from the perspective that these people are supposed to be a married family, then it does not.
Married people and families are necessarily conjoined. Same finances, same fate. No mine and yours, just ours, and thus all money and effort contributed is shared for the betterment of the family, no single individual interests. At least, that's the ideal. It usually doesn't work out that way in the modern world.
It may be fair for a surrogate to expect compensation for bearing a child, but for a mother, and wife, part of a family, it is a betrayal of the very concept of the family. Necessarily that kind of individual self interest shows that the woman does not see herself as part of a larger whole, a family.
This dude shouldn't be asking himself whether or not his "wife" deserves money for bearing a child. He should be asking himself if she is really his "wife."
I put wife in quotes because the guy says they are "spiritually married," which is obviously bullshit, because in spirit they couldn't be more single.
islam is right about women
Ten years of co-habitation is common law, not 6 years of dating. So, right off the bat this entire article is full of shit by calling them husband and wife. Second of all, this would make her a hired broodmare/surrogate for him, aka, a paid whore, which is illegal. Their split on finances and the state of their financial/legal affairs, they are business partners who fuck, nothing more. A simple accounting of and mediation would separate their finances easily.
This is not motherhood. This is top-tier gold digging whoredom, using her children as props to manipulate and gouge the stupid simp who fucked her. Any good lawyer would take what he has and sever her parental rights.
He has to pay her to stay home and also buy a housekeeper, roflkek
however, probably fake and gay reddit story.
Stop being a religious nut.
As an athiest, if I've learned anything these last few years, it's that being a religious nut is infinitely preferable to an ideological zealot. You do you, brother; I wish I had your kind of faith!
Unironically based
They're not legally married, not even common law, just "spiritually married". Guy can leave whenever he grows a brain cell