Someone needs to give this ape the "you're not entitled" spiel. Imagine if a short white guy wrote the male equivalent of this. You wouldn't hear from him until the neighbors called the cops about the smell.
Also add in the effect of being attractive. Plenty of guys have manipulated women to get in their pants but when they whine about “nice guys” who try to manipulate them I just assume the guy was unattractive
We all know it's not muscle in this case, but I shudder to think what 195 pounds of muscle would look like on a 5' 11'' sheboon. She would probably sprout a cock with all the testosterone needed to achieve that.
That's...not a sales pitch. Especially considering what people are trying to force as "natural."
Not saying it has to be bad, but "natural body type" also isn't good. Better than a lot of the alternatives (if truly natural and not Natural™), but as far as being attractive...not a selling point.
And actually a big red flag. Similar to how there's the meme about girls with "good personalities." Good personalities are great, of course, but if you're listing your own or a friend's personality as their selling point, it might be to cover up other stuff.
And, yeah, that's a hefty person. Even though she says she plays tennis, swims, and does yoga, I have a hard time believing she's fit at that weight. Especially since those are all generally slimming activities, not bulking ones.
You don't see many jacked tennis players - fit, but not jacked - and although swimmers build muscle, I don't think it leads to massive weight, although I could be wrong. Yoga doesn't build muscle bulk like that either.
There's just no way a woman at that size and weight is going to be anything but overweight, unless she's also a bodybuilder or something.
And besides being bigger, she's also 42. She ain't birthin you no babies. And if somehow you do miraculously knock her up you are playing Russian Roulette with the chromosome count of the offspring.
As a 6’1 guy who’s never seen below 200 since I was 15, I could get it if she was a female athlete. I taped at 6% bf constantly in the military and that was being between 220 and 240. I’ve dated multiple female athletes that were 5’7 and 160ish, 5’11 and 195 isn’t a huge stretch, the bigger problem is no one wants a 5’11 female unless you’re 6’4 or taller, and there’s hundreds of tall attractive white women devouring that market.
the bigger problem is no one wants a 5’11 female unless you’re 6’4 or taller
Complete nonsense. Her weight, age, and race are significantly bigger problems than her height. Women are the ones who refuse to date shorter mates. Men will absolutely date taller women so long as they aren’t fat, old, or ugly (and black women are almost universally ugly). The notion that men are intimidated or turned off by tallness is cope. Men looking for a partner aren’t intimidated by anything except very hot young women, and men aren’t turned off by anything except old age, obesity, and ugliness. The reason you don’t see a lot of men with taller women is because those women refuse to date short men.
Complete nonsense. Her weight, age, and race are significantly bigger problems than her height. Women are the ones who refuse to date shorter mates.
I can agree slightly with the first part, but guys are just as likely to want to date shorter women if they’re are taller, they just don’t care as much as women because they don’t have the female convenience of being the gatekeeper.
I don't think men are repulsed by taller women, but it's generally hard to date a taller woman because women are repulsed by shorter men. The few who are able to pull it off find that the price is a shitty relationship dynamic and learn from experience that it's just easier to date shorter women. It's not unlike dating a woman who makes more than you: Hard to pull off and a recipe for resentment on her end.
I wouldn’t say repulsed, but even when you look at trends of dating, tall guys prefer shorter women, you could argue that has to do with female preferences, but it’s at least partially men too. Again women are the gatekeepers, their preferences matter far more than men who tend to fall into what they can get unless they are desirable by the majority of women, and when you look at what the top 20% of men are dating, it’s not women taller than them.
There’s a lot of tall guys in America, about 14% are over 6’ while women over 5’10 is 1%. The problem is the competition, girls that height that are EUROPEAN have no problem finding a tall guy in America, the difference in America is more like a market environment that Europe.
I don't know how to say this in a way that's not offensive (because a lot of Americans seem to have issues with height), but 6' (183cm) is not considered tall in northern Europe.
What do you mean 'more like a market environment'?
A non obese 6’+ guy in America essentially has the pick of the litter if they’re not physiognomically challenged, and the average female is 5’4 while the average male is 5’9. It used to be taller but it’s not much different than Italy, where 6’ guys are far more valuable.
Not sure about Italy, but from everything I've seen, neither European men nor women are as obsessed with height as Americans are. Women want a guy taller than they are, that's it.
Because Europe isn’t as “diversified” as America is, at least not yet. If Norway was flooded with Mexican manlets height would be an every day discussion because you’d have a couple million 5’7 and under crying about it.
In America you just have to break down all these statistics (height, weight, IQ, crime rates, etc.) by race. Europe is getting there too thanks to mass migration.
I doubt that's what's holding her back. That's actually thin by black woman standards. Her BMI is 27.2 - barely overweight. The average black woman has a BMI of 32.
She wants the guys who have options, and guys who have options can be a lot picker than "barely overweight". That said I think being a sheboon with an attitude problem (but I repeat myself) is her biggest obstacle.
I’ve met agreeable black women. They are rare. It cannot be overstated how much more attractive they are simply by din of their personalities. They almost always have quality boyfriends or husbands, too.
I've worked for them. They tend to be church ladies and they're excellent to work for. The best part is they can still cop an attitude and it comes in handy when they're backing you to a customer or higher management.
>I’m educated and have a good career. I own my home and car
Cool, are you going to date some broke ass dude and let him live in your house and drive him around to places in your car and take him to dinner with the money from your good career? No? Then stfu about all that shit that doesn't matter. You're projecting female desires onto men.
This is the reverse of when a guy thinks that just being nice and wanting to have sex should make him attractive to women.
At bare minimum, she's trying to find an old black man who isn't an addict or in prison. In reality, you know she wants one at the same level as her. She's probably okay with white guys, but the ones that are okay with her are rare.
It's a math problem. She's 1-in-6 and she seeks 1-in-1,000,000
She'd probably be best off looking for men in a prison reform pen pal program or something.
Of all the deluded women out there, black women are the most deluded of all. No one wants to be with one, but they all think they are all that.
Someone needs to give this ape the "you're not entitled" spiel. Imagine if a short white guy wrote the male equivalent of this. You wouldn't hear from him until the neighbors called the cops about the smell.
Or the screaming when a young man makes a mild remark that women seem to like bad boys and that unleashes the whole “nice guys are the real bad ones”
They're projecting their own inner ugliness onto the men because anything is preferable to admitting what shallow whores they are.
Also add in the effect of being attractive. Plenty of guys have manipulated women to get in their pants but when they whine about “nice guys” who try to manipulate them I just assume the guy was unattractive
Unattractive either physically or by behavior. Attractive people with no confidence can still repulse women.
True.
You underestimate how shallow some women are.
"When's the last time you dated a nice guy?"
181 cm, 89 kilo.
That would be a lot for a man (unless he has more muscle than average), let alone for a woman.
We all know it's not muscle in this case, but I shudder to think what 195 pounds of muscle would look like on a 5' 11'' sheboon. She would probably sprout a cock with all the testosterone needed to achieve that.
That's...not a sales pitch. Especially considering what people are trying to force as "natural."
Not saying it has to be bad, but "natural body type" also isn't good. Better than a lot of the alternatives (if truly natural and not Natural™), but as far as being attractive...not a selling point.
And actually a big red flag. Similar to how there's the meme about girls with "good personalities." Good personalities are great, of course, but if you're listing your own or a friend's personality as their selling point, it might be to cover up other stuff.
And, yeah, that's a hefty person. Even though she says she plays tennis, swims, and does yoga, I have a hard time believing she's fit at that weight. Especially since those are all generally slimming activities, not bulking ones.
You don't see many jacked tennis players - fit, but not jacked - and although swimmers build muscle, I don't think it leads to massive weight, although I could be wrong. Yoga doesn't build muscle bulk like that either.
There's just no way a woman at that size and weight is going to be anything but overweight, unless she's also a bodybuilder or something.
She is black, old and fat.
I don't care she can climb Mount Everest if the subject is dating. That's several ''never would''.
And besides being bigger, she's also 42. She ain't birthin you no babies. And if somehow you do miraculously knock her up you are playing Russian Roulette with the chromosome count of the offspring.
Based on her writing there’s not as much a Russian roulette as there is a loaded makarov
Here we play Russian Roulette with six bullets and we reload after every shot
That's an upside for her. If the kid comes out retarded she can make child support a life sentence.
As a 6’1 guy who’s never seen below 200 since I was 15, I could get it if she was a female athlete. I taped at 6% bf constantly in the military and that was being between 220 and 240. I’ve dated multiple female athletes that were 5’7 and 160ish, 5’11 and 195 isn’t a huge stretch, the bigger problem is no one wants a 5’11 female unless you’re 6’4 or taller, and there’s hundreds of tall attractive white women devouring that market.
Complete nonsense. Her weight, age, and race are significantly bigger problems than her height. Women are the ones who refuse to date shorter mates. Men will absolutely date taller women so long as they aren’t fat, old, or ugly (and black women are almost universally ugly). The notion that men are intimidated or turned off by tallness is cope. Men looking for a partner aren’t intimidated by anything except very hot young women, and men aren’t turned off by anything except old age, obesity, and ugliness. The reason you don’t see a lot of men with taller women is because those women refuse to date short men.
I can agree slightly with the first part, but guys are just as likely to want to date shorter women if they’re are taller, they just don’t care as much as women because they don’t have the female convenience of being the gatekeeper.
I don't think men are repulsed by taller women, but it's generally hard to date a taller woman because women are repulsed by shorter men. The few who are able to pull it off find that the price is a shitty relationship dynamic and learn from experience that it's just easier to date shorter women. It's not unlike dating a woman who makes more than you: Hard to pull off and a recipe for resentment on her end.
I wouldn’t say repulsed, but even when you look at trends of dating, tall guys prefer shorter women, you could argue that has to do with female preferences, but it’s at least partially men too. Again women are the gatekeepers, their preferences matter far more than men who tend to fall into what they can get unless they are desirable by the majority of women, and when you look at what the top 20% of men are dating, it’s not women taller than them.
Girls that height have no problem in northern Europe, because there are more than enough tall guys.
There’s a lot of tall guys in America, about 14% are over 6’ while women over 5’10 is 1%. The problem is the competition, girls that height that are EUROPEAN have no problem finding a tall guy in America, the difference in America is more like a market environment that Europe.
I don't know how to say this in a way that's not offensive (because a lot of Americans seem to have issues with height), but 6' (183cm) is not considered tall in northern Europe.
What do you mean 'more like a market environment'?
A non obese 6’+ guy in America essentially has the pick of the litter if they’re not physiognomically challenged, and the average female is 5’4 while the average male is 5’9. It used to be taller but it’s not much different than Italy, where 6’ guys are far more valuable.
Not sure about Italy, but from everything I've seen, neither European men nor women are as obsessed with height as Americans are. Women want a guy taller than they are, that's it.
Because Europe isn’t as “diversified” as America is, at least not yet. If Norway was flooded with Mexican manlets height would be an every day discussion because you’d have a couple million 5’7 and under crying about it.
In America you just have to break down all these statistics (height, weight, IQ, crime rates, etc.) by race. Europe is getting there too thanks to mass migration.
I doubt that's what's holding her back. That's actually thin by black woman standards. Her BMI is 27.2 - barely overweight. The average black woman has a BMI of 32.
She wants the guys who have options, and guys who have options can be a lot picker than "barely overweight". That said I think being a sheboon with an attitude problem (but I repeat myself) is her biggest obstacle.
I’ve met agreeable black women. They are rare. It cannot be overstated how much more attractive they are simply by din of their personalities. They almost always have quality boyfriends or husbands, too.
I've worked for them. They tend to be church ladies and they're excellent to work for. The best part is they can still cop an attitude and it comes in handy when they're backing you to a customer or higher management.
>I’m educated and have a good career. I own my home and car
Cool, are you going to date some broke ass dude and let him live in your house and drive him around to places in your car and take him to dinner with the money from your good career? No? Then stfu about all that shit that doesn't matter. You're projecting female desires onto men.
This is the reverse of when a guy thinks that just being nice and wanting to have sex should make him attractive to women.
Eggs expired and built like a gorilla.
Wonders why men don't desire her.
Have you tried not being fat?
At bare minimum, she's trying to find an old black man who isn't an addict or in prison. In reality, you know she wants one at the same level as her. She's probably okay with white guys, but the ones that are okay with her are rare.
It's a math problem. She's 1-in-6 and she seeks 1-in-1,000,000
She'd probably be best off looking for men in a prison reform pen pal program or something.
Did anyone read the article? I'm wondering what her point is? Is she just looking for a date?