There are Manosphere guys who's whole schtick is trolling the dating apps and trying to make the women flip their shit. They have more success than guys who take it seriously...
I think that's giving them a bit too much credit but I can see how that would be the case for some women. I veer towards the idea it's mostly them seeking validation which is why this woman resented being ghosted after a rejection.
a) This bitch is 36. She shouldn't be rejecting anyone who has his life together if she's actually serious about finding someone. The drug dealers who give her the tingles will never change and the high value men she's trying to con into marrying her are dating women 10-15 years younger than her.
b) Imagine being such an entitled cunt that you're getting pushback on a cat lady board.
That's what makes this thread particularly delicious because you know it's bad when even the redditors are largely calling her out on her behaviour. Women really don't understand how much rejection hurts a guy which is why I find it all the more cruel when these shitheads go out of their way to really attack incels and go on about rejection as if they know everything and pretend that incels are just entitled guys.
So when they get on the receiving end finally in any capacity I can't help but fucking laugh. As for your thing about high value men yeah, I've made this point frequently too. These women really don't realise that men with any self-respect aren't going to quite literally cuck themselves for some genuinely horrible high body count woman who doesn't even like men to begin with when if they work hard they can simply learn another language and fly overseas to have a real shot at meeting a nice woman.
It's so bad how they fuck themselves with these kinds of posts too because even when she tries to paint herself in the most positive light yeah it reeks of ego. I'm feeling generous today, so in a rare defence this may be typical woman craziness and she may not even be aware she's doing this. It seems pretty clear even to the redditors that she's expecting a text back from the guy as a matter of course and yes it's hurt her ego that he hasn't shown his appreciation to her.
It almost reeks of a form of humiliation ritual as well, she could have potentially gotten away with it in her 20's and I wonder if she's the exact sort of bitch that would do that in her 20's and be really mean to guys. However now she's in her 30's older men are completely wise to the shit women pull so they know to stay away. If it weren't for the fact that these women are almost always mega bitches even by the standards of other women I would feel sorry about them clearly buying into a lie that their life would stay great forever but reality is hitting them like a sack of bricks these days.
Edit: By the way, looking at her history she mentions in the thread she got cruelly rejected in her college years, so she probably has been doing this as a form of revenge over it against men in general. Every time women who behave badly towards men are doing it over some perceived slight and justifying it through ideology.
By the way, looking at her history she mentions in the thread she got cruelly rejected in her college years, so she probably has been doing this as a form of revenge over it against men in general. Every time women who behave badly towards men are doing it over some perceived slight and justifying it through ideology.
Typical alpha widow bullshit. Chad hurt me so it's only fair I hurt you, inferior beta!
Women really don't understand how much rejection hurts a guy
That really is a you-problem (talking to that hypothetical guy). You think women should reject no one because men get sad if they are rejected? Maybe he should get accustomed to being rejected, and his life will improve markedly.
as if they know everything and pretend that incels are just entitled guys.
If we mean 'incel' to say guy who can't get laid, no. If we mean it to refer to the 'incel' movement, the people who post on boards and call themselves 'loveshy', they most certainly do have a large number of creeps and insane people among them - who say that women deserve to be raped because they reject 'nice guys' like himself.
By the way, looking at her history she mentions in the thread she got cruelly rejected in her college years, so she probably has been doing this as a form of revenge over it against men in general.
Or maybe she isn't a sociopath. Big assumption, I know, we're talking about a Redditor after all.
I genuinely thought I was being clear in my first post but apparently not enough for you but if this isn't you trying to simp for horrible women.
Women really don't understand how much rejection hurts a guy
It's fascinating how this simple line immediately makes people jump completely to the worse possible conclusions I know people online can be retarded but it's weird how the mentality makes it's way to the far corners of the internet. Don't know why if you're a guy you'd ever simp for this mentality either, it's not going to make women like you.
Maybe, shocker, men are not somebody's personal emotional punching bag and they should just be left alone when they get rejected and respect their decision to remove themselves from a conversation. Instead of trying to come up with the most abusive ways possible to ritually humiliate a guy and then getting mad when he doesn't play along. This guy did nothing wrong, he exited after being rejected and still that wasn't enough for her.
This is a classic case of how guys are completely fucked no matter what they do when they're dealing with a western woman. Can't ignore them because that's misogynistic and they're being creepy loners. Can't interact with them because they're not worthy enough to even talk to them in the first place and god forbid you be alone in a room with them or look at them because that's a false accusation and your life ruined.
Which goes to my question of, why the fuck would you try taking this woman's side other than to be a contrarian out of boredom?
This isn't whining, this is just the reality of what single men have to deal with every day if they even dare to interact with women. I always defer to the gymbros because I know especially if you're an older guy you'll immediately find ways to dismiss the points being made as you are now. If even the gymbros are going "Fuck no" and keeping away from women because they don't want to get accused of anything, you know things have gotten really bad between the genders.
I'm betting your an older guy, no one under the age of 40 would ever make comments like yours these days. If you're lucky enough to be in a long term relationship that goes double.
I genuinely thought I was being clear in my first post but apparently not enough for you but if this isn't you trying to simp for horrible women.
Why would I be interested in 'simping' for anyone, let alone a Redditor?
Don't know why if you're a guy you'd ever simp for this mentality either
See, you think that I'm jumping to conclusions, and you might be right, but now you are doing it yourself - by assuming that I am 'simping' for any mentality, rather than informing you that by allowing rejection to hurt you this much, you are doing a number on yourself.
There is no law of nature that rejection should hurt you as much that it does, if it does. And when it doesn't, your life will improve.
This guy did nothing wrong, he exited after being rejected and still that wasn't enough for her.
If replying to a rejection is 'ritual humiliation', does that mean that she is ritually humiliating herself by replying to rejections herself?
Can't interact with them because they're not worthy enough to even talk to them in the first place and god forbid you be alone in a room with them or look at them because that's a false accusation and your life ruined.
I think you're exaggerating just a little bit. And this may not help either.
Which goes to my question of, why the fuck would you try taking this woman's side other than to be a contrarian out of boredom?
That too, but also because I think she said not much wrong. Note that I'm not 'taking her side' in saying that men who are rejected should reply to the woman, I'm indifferent to that. People in general like to freak out about nothing, and you are no different.
I will say that I did not read the Reddit thread, perhaps they made better arguments for their criticisms of the woman than the people here.
If replying to a rejection is 'ritual humiliation', does that mean that she is ritually humiliating herself by replying to rejections herself?
I will say that I did not read the Reddit thread, perhaps they made better arguments for their criticisms of the woman than the people here.
For fuck's sake go and read the damn thread and you'll realise how badly you come across here. I don't expect you to read the whole thing but you will immediately understand why people are coming to these conclusions about her, she is an awful person.
rather than informing you that by allowing rejection to hurt you this much, you are doing a number on yourself.
I was writing in general terms, again, you haven't even read the damn thread even slightly why did you think this was even a remotely good idea to post?
I think you're exaggerating just a little bit. And this may not help either.
You obviously don't have a clue of what you're posting about.
That too, but also because I think she said not much wrong.
When you're more stupid and clueless than a redditor, you actually need help.
a large number of creeps and insane people among them - who say that women deserve to be raped because they reject 'nice guys' like himself.
I had a friend freshman year of college who couldn't look a girl in the face, not even fat or ugly ones, and he could only barely speak to them. I assumed he was abused at home or something because he wasn't ugly or fat but he was constantly talking about how fucked over "nice guys" are etc etc.
Anyway one time he said something along the lines of, "fuck that bitch, I wanted to smash her face and break her fucking nose". I didn't skip a beat, I said, "you couldn't do that, you'd have to look her in the face first." He laughed, like, violently and for way too long, it was so fucking weird. He was such a weird dude, very Holden Caulfield-esque.
He was super self-deprecating. He was just this "nice guy" in his own mind but in reality he clearly had some mental issues he desperately needed to work through. Wasn't even particularly a nice person. 100% who I think of when I hear or read "nice guy"
She shouldn't be rejecting anyone who has his life together if she's actually serious about finding someone. The drug dealers who give her the tingles will never change and the high value men she's trying to con into marrying her are dating women 10-15 years younger than her.
And you discovered all of this, how exactly?
Imagine being such an entitled cunt that you're getting pushback on a cat lady board.
According to her post, she does what she is asking for. It's not exactly entitlement to ask for what you give others.
Reading redditors interacting with one another is so tiresome. They're always tripping over themselves to equivocate and make sure they can't possibly offend anyone in any way. Makes what should be a short convo take twice as long to read.
Yep. Look at all this garbage taking up half the post.
Edit: Since people think I posted this because I take it super personally. I really don't. I was telling a friend about dating, and mentioned it in passing. I was surprised to hear that he had a different opinion, and was curious about what the split was. I'm not asking for advice and I'm not venting. Obviously people are allowed to respond to rejection however they want. I always try to treat others the way I would want to be treated and that includes thanking people for taking the time to communicate with me even when it's something I don't want to hear.
Edit 2: Please note, I never said I was entitled to a response from someone, I said I preferred it. Yes, I do think a bit poorly of them, but the general response is that these people no longer care what I think, so I'm not sure why that matters. I'm also not out here 1) preemptively rejecting people 2) chasing people down when they don't respond, I very much respect their choice to not engage further 3) trying to feed my ego 4) looking for absolution. It's just a social nicety that I'm now realizing not everyone cares about. Thank you to everyone who shared their opinion without attacking mine (even if it was different), that's really all I was going for. I genuinely did not realize there was this much of a spread on how people felt on this topic.
Dumping is a shit test. Women are testing your emotional fortitude. Not responding is good. You can also try a single "lame" or "gay."
You can always pull out a classic and hit em with the "K"
I'm my experience that sends them over the edge almost every time
There are Manosphere guys who's whole schtick is trolling the dating apps and trying to make the women flip their shit. They have more success than guys who take it seriously...
I think that's giving them a bit too much credit but I can see how that would be the case for some women. I veer towards the idea it's mostly them seeking validation which is why this woman resented being ghosted after a rejection.
women's rights were such a colossal mistake
I hope our descendants, if there are any, read these words in their digital archives of ancient history, take heed, and don't repeat our folly
a) This bitch is 36. She shouldn't be rejecting anyone who has his life together if she's actually serious about finding someone. The drug dealers who give her the tingles will never change and the high value men she's trying to con into marrying her are dating women 10-15 years younger than her.
b) Imagine being such an entitled cunt that you're getting pushback on a cat lady board.
That's what makes this thread particularly delicious because you know it's bad when even the redditors are largely calling her out on her behaviour. Women really don't understand how much rejection hurts a guy which is why I find it all the more cruel when these shitheads go out of their way to really attack incels and go on about rejection as if they know everything and pretend that incels are just entitled guys.
So when they get on the receiving end finally in any capacity I can't help but fucking laugh. As for your thing about high value men yeah, I've made this point frequently too. These women really don't realise that men with any self-respect aren't going to quite literally cuck themselves for some genuinely horrible high body count woman who doesn't even like men to begin with when if they work hard they can simply learn another language and fly overseas to have a real shot at meeting a nice woman.
It's so bad how they fuck themselves with these kinds of posts too because even when she tries to paint herself in the most positive light yeah it reeks of ego. I'm feeling generous today, so in a rare defence this may be typical woman craziness and she may not even be aware she's doing this. It seems pretty clear even to the redditors that she's expecting a text back from the guy as a matter of course and yes it's hurt her ego that he hasn't shown his appreciation to her.
It almost reeks of a form of humiliation ritual as well, she could have potentially gotten away with it in her 20's and I wonder if she's the exact sort of bitch that would do that in her 20's and be really mean to guys. However now she's in her 30's older men are completely wise to the shit women pull so they know to stay away. If it weren't for the fact that these women are almost always mega bitches even by the standards of other women I would feel sorry about them clearly buying into a lie that their life would stay great forever but reality is hitting them like a sack of bricks these days.
Edit: By the way, looking at her history she mentions in the thread she got cruelly rejected in her college years, so she probably has been doing this as a form of revenge over it against men in general. Every time women who behave badly towards men are doing it over some perceived slight and justifying it through ideology.
Typical alpha widow bullshit. Chad hurt me so it's only fair I hurt you, inferior beta!
That really is a you-problem (talking to that hypothetical guy). You think women should reject no one because men get sad if they are rejected? Maybe he should get accustomed to being rejected, and his life will improve markedly.
If we mean 'incel' to say guy who can't get laid, no. If we mean it to refer to the 'incel' movement, the people who post on boards and call themselves 'loveshy', they most certainly do have a large number of creeps and insane people among them - who say that women deserve to be raped because they reject 'nice guys' like himself.
Or maybe she isn't a sociopath. Big assumption, I know, we're talking about a Redditor after all.
No Cathy Newman I don't think that.
lol holy fuck you're almost as bad as she is, maybe you should ask her out.
Then what was your point exactly?
Almost as bad? No, I'm 'worse'.
Perhaps one day you'll realize that non-stop whining doesn't get you anywhere in life.
I genuinely thought I was being clear in my first post but apparently not enough for you but if this isn't you trying to simp for horrible women.
It's fascinating how this simple line immediately makes people jump completely to the worse possible conclusions I know people online can be retarded but it's weird how the mentality makes it's way to the far corners of the internet. Don't know why if you're a guy you'd ever simp for this mentality either, it's not going to make women like you.
Maybe, shocker, men are not somebody's personal emotional punching bag and they should just be left alone when they get rejected and respect their decision to remove themselves from a conversation. Instead of trying to come up with the most abusive ways possible to ritually humiliate a guy and then getting mad when he doesn't play along. This guy did nothing wrong, he exited after being rejected and still that wasn't enough for her.
This is a classic case of how guys are completely fucked no matter what they do when they're dealing with a western woman. Can't ignore them because that's misogynistic and they're being creepy loners. Can't interact with them because they're not worthy enough to even talk to them in the first place and god forbid you be alone in a room with them or look at them because that's a false accusation and your life ruined.
Which goes to my question of, why the fuck would you try taking this woman's side other than to be a contrarian out of boredom?
This isn't whining, this is just the reality of what single men have to deal with every day if they even dare to interact with women. I always defer to the gymbros because I know especially if you're an older guy you'll immediately find ways to dismiss the points being made as you are now. If even the gymbros are going "Fuck no" and keeping away from women because they don't want to get accused of anything, you know things have gotten really bad between the genders.
I'm betting your an older guy, no one under the age of 40 would ever make comments like yours these days. If you're lucky enough to be in a long term relationship that goes double.
Why would I be interested in 'simping' for anyone, let alone a Redditor?
See, you think that I'm jumping to conclusions, and you might be right, but now you are doing it yourself - by assuming that I am 'simping' for any mentality, rather than informing you that by allowing rejection to hurt you this much, you are doing a number on yourself.
There is no law of nature that rejection should hurt you as much that it does, if it does. And when it doesn't, your life will improve.
If replying to a rejection is 'ritual humiliation', does that mean that she is ritually humiliating herself by replying to rejections herself?
I think you're exaggerating just a little bit. And this may not help either.
That too, but also because I think she said not much wrong. Note that I'm not 'taking her side' in saying that men who are rejected should reply to the woman, I'm indifferent to that. People in general like to freak out about nothing, and you are no different.
I will say that I did not read the Reddit thread, perhaps they made better arguments for their criticisms of the woman than the people here.
For fuck's sake go and read the damn thread and you'll realise how badly you come across here. I don't expect you to read the whole thing but you will immediately understand why people are coming to these conclusions about her, she is an awful person.
I was writing in general terms, again, you haven't even read the damn thread even slightly why did you think this was even a remotely good idea to post?
You obviously don't have a clue of what you're posting about.
When you're more stupid and clueless than a redditor, you actually need help.
This is especially bad, even for you. You have to go so far out of your way to interpret what he said to reach that conclusion.
Hope she sees this bro
I had a friend freshman year of college who couldn't look a girl in the face, not even fat or ugly ones, and he could only barely speak to them. I assumed he was abused at home or something because he wasn't ugly or fat but he was constantly talking about how fucked over "nice guys" are etc etc.
Anyway one time he said something along the lines of, "fuck that bitch, I wanted to smash her face and break her fucking nose". I didn't skip a beat, I said, "you couldn't do that, you'd have to look her in the face first." He laughed, like, violently and for way too long, it was so fucking weird. He was such a weird dude, very Holden Caulfield-esque.
At least he had a good attitude about that burn.
He was super self-deprecating. He was just this "nice guy" in his own mind but in reality he clearly had some mental issues he desperately needed to work through. Wasn't even particularly a nice person. 100% who I think of when I hear or read "nice guy"
Pretty sure he means women don't realise getting rejected even as a guy hurts
And you discovered all of this, how exactly?
According to her post, she does what she is asking for. It's not exactly entitlement to ask for what you give others.
They don't owe me anything except the things I declare that, if they were missing, are a bad look.
Femcels in reality are more pathetic than incels in caricature.
LOL they did accept it gracefully by not replying you dried up cunt.
You're not wrong but watching retards dance is funny sometimes.
Reading redditors interacting with one another is so tiresome. They're always tripping over themselves to equivocate and make sure they can't possibly offend anyone in any way. Makes what should be a short convo take twice as long to read.
Yep. Look at all this garbage taking up half the post.
No, we aren't.
I'd hate to think of how she'd react if she did take it super personally.