According to a 2017 study published by the Archives of Sexual Behavior, 95% of heterosexual men usually or always orgasmed when sexually intimate, while just 65% of heterosexual women did.
Maybe its because the women were sleeping around so much they dulled their pleasure receptors and made it so they couldn't bond properly with a partner so that they could orgasm easier.
Interesting theory. Like male porn addicts needing more and more degenerate stuff to get the same thrill. I'm still convinced that women are just choosing looks over bedroom prowess, but I'm open to having my mind changed.
I've definitely used power tools for long enough hours in a day to feel some post-vibe numbness in their hands, maybe even arms. Now imagine that smashed up sexual organs practically every day.
Just like no one talks about prolapsed rectums and incontinence in the gay community, no one talks about women nuking their nerve endings in a barrage of unnatural overstimulation.
I was on dating apps having regular sex with women long enough to remember the shift in women's expectations.
They say men have unrealistic standards of women because of porn? Most women these days literally expect the man to get instantly hard and ram his cock inside of her then explode on demand. If the man doesn't do all of this she sees it as a sign he's bad at sex.
I know so many 30yo dudes on some form of Cialis/Viagra not because they need it but to keep up with women's demands when it comes to sex. If a bunch of dudes are doing this then women are starting to think this is normal and it's impacting regular men. A lot of women have never had sex outside of quick situationships either.
Women are truly the ones with warped expectations.
Also, the reason there's such a gap is because women settle for men they aren't sexually attracted to for resources far more than men do. Not to mention, women whore around and get 300 dicks in them so when they finally find the "right guy", the chance he's the best dick she's ever had is slim, whereas for men, most vaginas are good enough. Women ruin their own ability to enjoy sex from the past mistakes they make.
What's also annoying is that some women feel or act outright "hurt" or angry if a guy has any trouble getting the engine started. It's even more ludicrous when the chick doesn't even bother to try anything to jump-start the engine, she just expects it to run efficiently at all times.
Honestly, I'd say the real problem isn't just porn or sexually promiscuous behavior gone out of control (though it certainly can contribute), so much as couples who don't have patience or compassion for each other. Or maybe the lack there of between people in general these days. Society's just breeding more and more selfishness and sociopathy every day.
If the man doesn't do all of this she sees it as a sign he's bad at sex.
Not to mention that, thanks to the mainstream overpresence of things like 50 Shades, you now need to be at least somewhat capable of BDSM mind games and physical acts as a base just to keep up with her reading list and previous sexual encounters.
Don't feel comfortable smacking, biting, and roughing a woman up on the first date? You won't get the time to get there because she already decided you suck and called her shit ex she whined about all night to do it for you.
women settle for men they aren't sexually attracted to for resources
I don't think they care about the orgasm gap in this case. In a woman's ideal world they wouldn't have sex with Billy Betabux at all. They only put out just enough to get their claws into him so they shove the family court baseball bat up his ass.
They don't care in this case BUT they're going to misrepresent the stats to push for women getting "more" out of society. They are purposely misleading things. They know this is the reason. They don't want to give beta bucks sex but they want society to feel like women aren't being pleasured enough sexually. Meanwhile, it's men who are truly suffering sexually in society not women.
Hahahah, fuck off. Maybe they can't orgasm because they're on hormone replacement and have a colon for a pussy.
I couldn't read the whole thing, but your title might imply that women should try orgasming with other women, to which I rebut: ever heard of... lesbian bed death? Yeah, turns out women having sex with other women gets real boring real fast.
ever heard of... lesbian bed death? Yeah, turns out women having sex with other women gets real boring real fast.
Just to latch onto this comment, for people curious, lesbians eventually stop having sex altogether.
Even the pro-gay rags had a hard time trying to spin the lack of physical intimacy. 11% basically stopped being physically intimate, and the largest percentage would only be physically intimate maybe a few times a year:
https://ipgcounseling.com/queer-mind/sex-and-the-older-bisexual-lesbian/
It's mostly because the initial rush of doing something that feels wrong is what compels them when they're young. But after a while -- as you said -- it gets boring and when that dopamine from defying standards wears off, they're left with all the worst parts of being in a relationship.
The most hilarious part was the 38% having heterosexual fantasies.
Huh. I've only been familiar with that being a thing under different kinds of situations and conditions. So on a logical level it's not surprising, but with the specific instance, it's not something I'd considered before. Interesting.
Which makes me suspicious of the claim that looks and bedroom skills have a correlation of 1. Anyone who's seen what real lesbian couples look like knows what I mean. Women just don't want to admit that they pick the tall male model over the guy who gives a shit about them in the bedroom every time.
Him giving a shit about them turns them off. Its the catch-22 of women.
They enjoy the journey a lot, even if they never reach the destination with Chad Thundercock. While Average Joe might get her off a few times, but its an unsatisfying conclusion that only serves to drain her horny out of her and make her realize she doesn't find he has any other traits she enjoys.
I've been to both places and yes, it's mud slimes of every race. The Moro ass wipes in the Philippines don't do it, but likely only because that'd be the last straw for the rest of their race to finally wipe them out.
Women get what they incentivize. By choosing top 5 percenters over guys who might give a shit every time they expose their real priorities. It's no different than a woman who calls all men woman beaters just because she insists on picking the 10/10 thug over a 6.5/10 guy who doesn't do that.
Nonsense article that could've maybe raised some interesting thoughts if it wasn't riddled with bad-faith arguments founded on utter bullshit and being generally all over the place. The article is too antagonistic and full of lies to be even remotely constructive.
“In porn, the man sticks the penis in the vagina without any warm-up, and she has an instant orgasm,” Mintz says.
This one especially makes me laugh. Claiming that moderate foreplay is never a thing in porn is an outright lie, and I have almost never seen any examples that pretend the woman receives an "instant" orgasm at the start.
they’re doing perfectly fine on their own. A separate study of more than 800 college women found that 39% of them said they always orgasm during masturbation — while just 6% said they always orgasm during sex with a partner.
If for self stimulation, less than half of the time is "perfectly fine", then 6% in this context is a bit rough though it is in a college setting.
When that data applied to the other shared statistics, why is 65% now unacceptable? That is magnitudes better than 6%! Incredible growth! If women consistently communicated with their male partners, who knows how high that number could go?
Maybe its because the women were sleeping around so much they dulled their pleasure receptors and made it so they couldn't bond properly with a partner so that they could orgasm easier.
TDLR; quit being hoes.
Interesting theory. Like male porn addicts needing more and more degenerate stuff to get the same thrill. I'm still convinced that women are just choosing looks over bedroom prowess, but I'm open to having my mind changed.
Vibrators have never been stronger.
I've definitely used power tools for long enough hours in a day to feel some post-vibe numbness in their hands, maybe even arms. Now imagine that smashed up sexual organs practically every day.
Just like no one talks about prolapsed rectums and incontinence in the gay community, no one talks about women nuking their nerve endings in a barrage of unnatural overstimulation.
No need for that. You convinced yourself with your second sentence. Now you just have to accept it.
I was on dating apps having regular sex with women long enough to remember the shift in women's expectations.
They say men have unrealistic standards of women because of porn? Most women these days literally expect the man to get instantly hard and ram his cock inside of her then explode on demand. If the man doesn't do all of this she sees it as a sign he's bad at sex.
I know so many 30yo dudes on some form of Cialis/Viagra not because they need it but to keep up with women's demands when it comes to sex. If a bunch of dudes are doing this then women are starting to think this is normal and it's impacting regular men. A lot of women have never had sex outside of quick situationships either.
Women are truly the ones with warped expectations.
Also, the reason there's such a gap is because women settle for men they aren't sexually attracted to for resources far more than men do. Not to mention, women whore around and get 300 dicks in them so when they finally find the "right guy", the chance he's the best dick she's ever had is slim, whereas for men, most vaginas are good enough. Women ruin their own ability to enjoy sex from the past mistakes they make.
What's also annoying is that some women feel or act outright "hurt" or angry if a guy has any trouble getting the engine started. It's even more ludicrous when the chick doesn't even bother to try anything to jump-start the engine, she just expects it to run efficiently at all times.
Honestly, I'd say the real problem isn't just porn or sexually promiscuous behavior gone out of control (though it certainly can contribute), so much as couples who don't have patience or compassion for each other. Or maybe the lack there of between people in general these days. Society's just breeding more and more selfishness and sociopathy every day.
Not to mention that, thanks to the mainstream overpresence of things like 50 Shades, you now need to be at least somewhat capable of BDSM mind games and physical acts as a base just to keep up with her reading list and previous sexual encounters.
Don't feel comfortable smacking, biting, and roughing a woman up on the first date? You won't get the time to get there because she already decided you suck and called her shit ex she whined about all night to do it for you.
I don't think they care about the orgasm gap in this case. In a woman's ideal world they wouldn't have sex with Billy Betabux at all. They only put out just enough to get their claws into him so they shove the family court baseball bat up his ass.
They don't care in this case BUT they're going to misrepresent the stats to push for women getting "more" out of society. They are purposely misleading things. They know this is the reason. They don't want to give beta bucks sex but they want society to feel like women aren't being pleasured enough sexually. Meanwhile, it's men who are truly suffering sexually in society not women.
Yahoo is such a garbage publication. They consider this news?
Hahahah, fuck off. Maybe they can't orgasm because they're on hormone replacement and have a colon for a pussy.
I couldn't read the whole thing, but your title might imply that women should try orgasming with other women, to which I rebut: ever heard of... lesbian bed death? Yeah, turns out women having sex with other women gets real boring real fast.
They're referring to female retards pretending to be men because they fell for the apex fallacy, not male perverts acting out their sissy fantasy.
Just to latch onto this comment, for people curious, lesbians eventually stop having sex altogether.
Even the pro-gay rags had a hard time trying to spin the lack of physical intimacy. 11% basically stopped being physically intimate, and the largest percentage would only be physically intimate maybe a few times a year: https://ipgcounseling.com/queer-mind/sex-and-the-older-bisexual-lesbian/
It's mostly because the initial rush of doing something that feels wrong is what compels them when they're young. But after a while -- as you said -- it gets boring and when that dopamine from defying standards wears off, they're left with all the worst parts of being in a relationship.
The most hilarious part was the 38% having heterosexual fantasies.
Huh. I've only been familiar with that being a thing under different kinds of situations and conditions. So on a logical level it's not surprising, but with the specific instance, it's not something I'd considered before. Interesting.
Which makes me suspicious of the claim that looks and bedroom skills have a correlation of 1. Anyone who's seen what real lesbian couples look like knows what I mean. Women just don't want to admit that they pick the tall male model over the guy who gives a shit about them in the bedroom every time.
Him giving a shit about them turns them off. Its the catch-22 of women.
They enjoy the journey a lot, even if they never reach the destination with Chad Thundercock. While Average Joe might get her off a few times, but its an unsatisfying conclusion that only serves to drain her horny out of her and make her realize she doesn't find he has any other traits she enjoys.
That sounds like the most boring porn ever.
No pizza delivery even? How about a skilled plumber and a plumbing crisis?
They write articles like this (NSFW) but if we want attractive female characters in our games their response is "Ew, go watch porn you incel!".
Will feminists finally discover islam? Smart money says no.
Mud slimes cut off clits.
Yup.
I've been to both places and yes, it's mud slimes of every race. The Moro ass wipes in the Philippines don't do it, but likely only because that'd be the last straw for the rest of their race to finally wipe them out.
Women can also multiple orgasm, and some have an order of magnitude more orgasms than men.
I don't see them trying to do anything about lowering the total sex orgasm numbers of women to get them in line with men.
Like most feminism, they only care about raising the one dimension that women are lagging, and completely ignore the dimensions where women are ahead.
Lol
Women get what they incentivize. By choosing top 5 percenters over guys who might give a shit every time they expose their real priorities. It's no different than a woman who calls all men woman beaters just because she insists on picking the 10/10 thug over a 6.5/10 guy who doesn't do that.
It's the same old story.They have it better to start with,don't work as hard then want even more using deceptive arguments.
Could be a meme. Women too poor to coom. Can't get off without new sheets from Target.
Nonsense article that could've maybe raised some interesting thoughts if it wasn't riddled with bad-faith arguments founded on utter bullshit and being generally all over the place. The article is too antagonistic and full of lies to be even remotely constructive.
This one especially makes me laugh. Claiming that moderate foreplay is never a thing in porn is an outright lie, and I have almost never seen any examples that pretend the woman receives an "instant" orgasm at the start.
If for self stimulation, less than half of the time is "perfectly fine", then 6% in this context is a bit rough though it is in a college setting.
When that data applied to the other shared statistics, why is 65% now unacceptable? That is magnitudes better than 6%! Incredible growth! If women consistently communicated with their male partners, who knows how high that number could go?
6/10 college girls don't finish the job when they start it themselves? That can't possibly be right.
If they don't know how to get themselves off how the fuck are their partners supposed to?
SSRIs are notorious for causing anorgasmia, these bitches are literally too crazy to cum.