She's got a point. I think it's a terrible idea for non-blacks to date blacks, though not for the same reasons she states. You could indeed meet a black person who you connect with on every level, she could very well be the coolest person you know, and someone you would love to spend your life with. Her family and the people she grew up with, however, most assuredly will NOT be. There's always going to be more than one person there with a bone to pick with you purely on the basis of your skin color. It's endemic to black culture. And I can guarantee you, those people are going to do everything they can to sabotage you or be a thorn in your side, and there's not much you're going to be able to do that won't involve trashing your relationship with her. Add to the fact that there's a greater level of criminality in the black population that is fucking celebrated, then you've a greater chance of putting yourself within striking distance of dangerous criminals. Stay platonic.
It's true that when the left complains about things like "white society generally exists to benefit whites" my core disagreement with them isn't that I think that's wrong but rather they think that's bad and I think it's good.
This is like that sketch where the racist and wokie realize they have so much in common.
Sure. But putting aside the fact that "racist" is some bullshit Communist term for loving your own race over others and not actually about hating other races,
being against interracial marriage/dating/breeding is not a hateful sentiment.
I don’t care about interracial dating. Yes it’s massively over represented on tv but if a man and a woman legitimately love each other more power to them. I’ll talk to any woman who is interested. This woman is just jealous and good grief will she shut up about slavery.
I’m mostly with you, but I did think of an interesting parallel: free trade. Does free trade benefit all nations equally? Clearly not. Some nations have little in the way of valuable natural or human capital, which are some of the things required to take advantage of unrestricted free trade.
Now think about the dating market and sexual market value. Think about matchmaking websites. The least popular female profiles? Black women, and it ain’t close. So why would black women support the “unrestricted free trade” of an open dating culture when they stand to be the biggest losers?
Same thing goes for men in general. For us, a total open dating market means 80% of women having sex with 20% of men. No intact families, no motivation to provide or advance. Just chads pump-and-dumping all the women while the common man plays video games in his lonely apartment/tomb. That is a bad set of circumstances for most men and (despite their protests to the contrary) most women. So how do you oppose the rise of such circumstances? Oh, no big deal: you just have to explicitly denounce the sexual liberation of women. Because that opinion flies in today’s society. About as well as opposing interracial dating, right?
Protectionism makes sense for those whom it protects. I can entertain arguments for and against such behavior. Certainly, we shouldn’t outright prevent interracial dating. Does a taboo against it, however, arguably benefit certain groups? Should their concerns and interests be automatically ignored?
So true about internet dating. I’ve tried with that but you are right. An average looking woman will still get a ton of attention while me as a guy who is average at nerdy gets like one response for every 100 messages sent.
When I was in 9th grade I figured I’d have a better chance by talking to any woman that was interested
All I know is throughout history is what happened to mixed race people in different areas. Ostracisation in a lot of Asia, straight up killing in a lot of Africa even when it was just different tribes.
Whites were at least more generous in that there's a reason why we have house slaves and field slaves......and Brazil. The problem isn't interracial couplings, it's there's active measures to stop it because it broadcasts how you don't need to be confined by characteristics like race in life, which one side REALLY hates.
She's got a point. I think it's a terrible idea for non-blacks to date blacks, though not for the same reasons she states. You could indeed meet a black person who you connect with on every level, she could very well be the coolest person you know, and someone you would love to spend your life with. Her family and the people she grew up with, however, most assuredly will NOT be. There's always going to be more than one person there with a bone to pick with you purely on the basis of your skin color. It's endemic to black culture. And I can guarantee you, those people are going to do everything they can to sabotage you or be a thorn in your side, and there's not much you're going to be able to do that won't involve trashing your relationship with her. Add to the fact that there's a greater level of criminality in the black population that is fucking celebrated, then you've a greater chance of putting yourself within striking distance of dangerous criminals. Stay platonic.
An intelligent well adjusted person neither cares about their opinions nor stays close to them. Only tards go back
You think that’s funny you should see the direct racism of dark skinned black people against light skinned black people.
So even if we mix.. society usually deems lighter skinned individuals as more attractive or more successful, at least for women.
Yes.
Agreed
This is like that sketch where the racist and wokie realize they have so much in common.
It's true that when the left complains about things like "white society generally exists to benefit whites" my core disagreement with them isn't that I think that's wrong but rather they think that's bad and I think it's good.
Sure. But putting aside the fact that "racist" is some bullshit Communist term for loving your own race over others and not actually about hating other races,
being against interracial marriage/dating/breeding is not a hateful sentiment.
I don’t care about interracial dating. Yes it’s massively over represented on tv but if a man and a woman legitimately love each other more power to them. I’ll talk to any woman who is interested. This woman is just jealous and good grief will she shut up about slavery.
I’m mostly with you, but I did think of an interesting parallel: free trade. Does free trade benefit all nations equally? Clearly not. Some nations have little in the way of valuable natural or human capital, which are some of the things required to take advantage of unrestricted free trade.
Now think about the dating market and sexual market value. Think about matchmaking websites. The least popular female profiles? Black women, and it ain’t close. So why would black women support the “unrestricted free trade” of an open dating culture when they stand to be the biggest losers?
Same thing goes for men in general. For us, a total open dating market means 80% of women having sex with 20% of men. No intact families, no motivation to provide or advance. Just chads pump-and-dumping all the women while the common man plays video games in his lonely apartment/tomb. That is a bad set of circumstances for most men and (despite their protests to the contrary) most women. So how do you oppose the rise of such circumstances? Oh, no big deal: you just have to explicitly denounce the sexual liberation of women. Because that opinion flies in today’s society. About as well as opposing interracial dating, right?
Protectionism makes sense for those whom it protects. I can entertain arguments for and against such behavior. Certainly, we shouldn’t outright prevent interracial dating. Does a taboo against it, however, arguably benefit certain groups? Should their concerns and interests be automatically ignored?
So true about internet dating. I’ve tried with that but you are right. An average looking woman will still get a ton of attention while me as a guy who is average at nerdy gets like one response for every 100 messages sent.
When I was in 9th grade I figured I’d have a better chance by talking to any woman that was interested
That's a lotta jibba jabba.
Imagine being so useless, unappealing, anti-feminine, and possessed by racialism that the men who dumped you think that white women look sane.
All I know is throughout history is what happened to mixed race people in different areas. Ostracisation in a lot of Asia, straight up killing in a lot of Africa even when it was just different tribes.
Whites were at least more generous in that there's a reason why we have house slaves and field slaves......and Brazil. The problem isn't interracial couplings, it's there's active measures to stop it because it broadcasts how you don't need to be confined by characteristics like race in life, which one side REALLY hates.
How dare you point out actual facts that destroy their narrative!