Given your circumstances, yeah that was a pretty dumb move. Not sure why you’re whining to us about it. It was clearly intentional to connect the cancer with the vax and you literally asked the widow at the funeral. Jesus Christ.
Stole this from urban dictionary, but it fits:
“The idea that where a person lives determines their behavior, when in reality it's the people who live in a given location that determine if said location is safe or not.“
You sound like a pussy.