Assuming she passes as a man visually enough, then her perception of how women treat men isn't far off. Women have done that to themselves.
I can also see that she has zero understanding of male-male connections. Women only look thru the lens of what they expect as "being soft with each other" through a female ideal. Men trying to "emotionally support" someone going through a rough situation might be as simple as going out on the lake to hang out fishing, disconnecting, barely discussing at all, and not prying at it or making fun if he's a little upset. It's not expected, necessary, or required to be a session of awwww your poor baby, let cry with you, awww lets cuddle give me a hug awwww.
To give a funnier example of what I'd call the understanding among men. If you're walking along somewhere with a friend and trip and fall flat on your face, the process is check make sure you're ok, help you up, then make fun of you for being a dumbass and not looking where you were walking. That's the expectation that men want.
I've straight up had women make fun of "weird" men to me who were minding their own business. It's very jading as a somewhat attractive dude because I'm not a sociopath. It's like damn this dude didn't even do anything and you're heartless enough to talk shit because he's not what you prefer. Same chick's would swear horrendous looking women were beautiful
Men trying to "emotionally support" someone going through a rough situation might be as simple as going out on the lake to hang out fishing, disconnecting, barely discussing at all, and not prying at it or making fun if he's a little upset.
If your buddy doesn't bring it up himself, he doesn't want to talk about it. Simply giving him space to either not think about it, or be away long enough to process it in relative peace is worth its weight in gold in a male friendship.
This is something women never can understand, they always need someone hearing them talk before they can even think it themselves.
The understood message: "Hey man, I'm here for you if you need to talk or need a hand"
Men really REALLY appreciate it when going through hard times. No one needs to say it (although that's OK too) just knowing who's got your back is important.
There's a huge sense of social isolation that comes with being perceived as male, because now people are subconsciously treating me as a potential predator. All strangers, no matter their
gender, keep their guard up around me
No they avoid you because you’re a freak. You probably saw an actual male command the room with his presence and want to believe this is the same, it isn’t.
Ah yes, "western imperialism" is why men are emotively guarded... Go to Japan and see if their men are more emotionally vulnerable and open and their women more floozy. Or maybe check out Somalia, and see if the men there want to get in touch with their gayer, more feminine side. Apparently she was blaming Whitey before and got smacked down for it and goalpost-moved to "western".
Strangely? Or not so strangely. I bet there's a LOT of gayness going on in Somalia & other shit-holes nearby.
It's part of "rape culture" which dominates that nation. Of course anally fucking a man (or preferably a boy) doesn't make you gay in Islam, or in Haiti, but getting caught doing it does! (You can brag about it after, but not overmuch)
And this phenomenon (though because men are wired different, it isn’t the same for us….we don’t need our “emotions validated”. Women are obsessed with that concept) to the degree that it exists is a feminist creation sowing distrust and fear in the minds of women and fundamentally misunderstanding the nature of men who generally want to help women more than harm.
But they are so easily propagandized that they will let their guard down for gang bangers and view white men, even kind ones with suspicion because they’re hooked on true crime which only focuses on white killers.
The absolute dire situation between the sexes is a modern, feminist created problem, and that same degenerate feminism that convinced this woman to try to be a man, has influenced her thinking so that when even experiencing first hand, she cannot arrive at logical conclusions or solutions.
That and the female mind, left to its own devices also cannot comprehend the masculine ways of thinking and interacting with the world.
She just doesn’t know how to make friends with actual guys because guy/guy friendly connections are genuine, unlike female/female connections which are all fake and very surface level. Female/female friendships require constant validation even if the woman friend knows she should be offering constructive criticism to help her friend, she will lie to her friend and validate her at all costs, because that’s what feels good on both sides. Guy friends don’t do that shit, we don’t kiss each others asses, we laugh at pain to some degree, we will set a friend straight if we think he’s doing something stupid, harsh reality doesn’t usually get in the way of offering our true views to our male friends. She will never understand that reality, it’s completely foreign to the female mind, because contrary to popular opinion, men are more emotionally advanced than women, we don’t let emotions cloud our judgment and opinions nearly as often as women do.
Also, how much of a disturbing creep is she to make everyone around her uncomfortable? I'm a man interracting with women at work and pretty-much all of them are either reserved or friendly.
Or is it a brown city thing? I don't live in a shitty city.
Assuming she passes as a man visually enough, then her perception of how women treat men isn't far off. Women have done that to themselves.
I can also see that she has zero understanding of male-male connections. Women only look thru the lens of what they expect as "being soft with each other" through a female ideal. Men trying to "emotionally support" someone going through a rough situation might be as simple as going out on the lake to hang out fishing, disconnecting, barely discussing at all, and not prying at it or making fun if he's a little upset. It's not expected, necessary, or required to be a session of awwww your poor baby, let cry with you, awww lets cuddle give me a hug awwww.
To give a funnier example of what I'd call the understanding among men. If you're walking along somewhere with a friend and trip and fall flat on your face, the process is check make sure you're ok, help you up, then make fun of you for being a dumbass and not looking where you were walking. That's the expectation that men want.
I've straight up had women make fun of "weird" men to me who were minding their own business. It's very jading as a somewhat attractive dude because I'm not a sociopath. It's like damn this dude didn't even do anything and you're heartless enough to talk shit because he's not what you prefer. Same chick's would swear horrendous looking women were beautiful
If your buddy doesn't bring it up himself, he doesn't want to talk about it. Simply giving him space to either not think about it, or be away long enough to process it in relative peace is worth its weight in gold in a male friendship.
This is something women never can understand, they always need someone hearing them talk before they can even think it themselves.
She can even be there, experience the event, and not understand its meaning.
Nothing might be said when two men share a beer quietly, but an important message is communicated.
Only men understand this.
The understood message: "Hey man, I'm here for you if you need to talk or need a hand"
Men really REALLY appreciate it when going through hard times. No one needs to say it (although that's OK too) just knowing who's got your back is important.
What does she think male spaces, which her kind destroyed, were for? You attacked male camaraderie and destroyed it.
No they avoid you because you’re a freak. You probably saw an actual male command the room with his presence and want to believe this is the same, it isn’t.
Nah, I'm good.
It's everything you might think it was. The echo chamber of self-victimization continues unabated.
Ah yes, "western imperialism" is why men are emotively guarded... Go to Japan and see if their men are more emotionally vulnerable and open and their women more floozy. Or maybe check out Somalia, and see if the men there want to get in touch with their gayer, more feminine side. Apparently she was blaming Whitey before and got smacked down for it and goalpost-moved to "western".
Strangely? Or not so strangely. I bet there's a LOT of gayness going on in Somalia & other shit-holes nearby.
It's part of "rape culture" which dominates that nation. Of course anally fucking a man (or preferably a boy) doesn't make you gay in Islam, or in Haiti, but getting caught doing it does! (You can brag about it after, but not overmuch)
And this phenomenon (though because men are wired different, it isn’t the same for us….we don’t need our “emotions validated”. Women are obsessed with that concept) to the degree that it exists is a feminist creation sowing distrust and fear in the minds of women and fundamentally misunderstanding the nature of men who generally want to help women more than harm.
But they are so easily propagandized that they will let their guard down for gang bangers and view white men, even kind ones with suspicion because they’re hooked on true crime which only focuses on white killers.
The absolute dire situation between the sexes is a modern, feminist created problem, and that same degenerate feminism that convinced this woman to try to be a man, has influenced her thinking so that when even experiencing first hand, she cannot arrive at logical conclusions or solutions.
That and the female mind, left to its own devices also cannot comprehend the masculine ways of thinking and interacting with the world.
"Day 3 of being a male. Apparently they get called faggot a lot"
She just doesn’t know how to make friends with actual guys because guy/guy friendly connections are genuine, unlike female/female connections which are all fake and very surface level. Female/female friendships require constant validation even if the woman friend knows she should be offering constructive criticism to help her friend, she will lie to her friend and validate her at all costs, because that’s what feels good on both sides. Guy friends don’t do that shit, we don’t kiss each others asses, we laugh at pain to some degree, we will set a friend straight if we think he’s doing something stupid, harsh reality doesn’t usually get in the way of offering our true views to our male friends. She will never understand that reality, it’s completely foreign to the female mind, because contrary to popular opinion, men are more emotionally advanced than women, we don’t let emotions cloud our judgment and opinions nearly as often as women do.
She's projecting so hard it's laughable.
Also, how much of a disturbing creep is she to make everyone around her uncomfortable? I'm a man interracting with women at work and pretty-much all of them are either reserved or friendly.
Or is it a brown city thing? I don't live in a shitty city.