Hints have been there for a while. More study needed:
https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2024/01/240103130852.htm
Here is a tidy report on the question, from India of all places.
I have the beheading video from back then which the men took. They weren't raped, from what news I remember and how they appeared in the video. They were butchered in their sleep like animals.
Someone correct me if they know otherwise.
I agree with you that the self-defeating attitude is a problem he needs to fix in himself. I hope he finds a good role model and develops a more healthy approach to life.
My assumption is he learned the unhealthy tactic of complaining online from watching his parents. That's a big reason I try to shield my kids from much of the internet. My belief is that a parent must try to shield their children from their parents' mistakes as much as possible, while still teaching the children how to avoid making those mistakes.
It's my theory most people inherently know the truth behind eugenics is correct but abhor an implementation which harms, rather than just separates, the weeded. That's why voluntary sterilization is so highly praised in the west today. For example, how many of these have you seen promoted recently: Growing old alone and playing video games or engaging in other frivolous behavior, "becoming trans", having abortions, or couples just choosing to have no or few kids.
The people doing the believe god wants them to "heal", meaning homogenize and unify, the human race while they get to rule over the result. There is no advancement for the human race in their concept of the future, only pacification.
You have to put yourself in the predator mindset. Here is a group of women retreating to a place they feel safe, to a community where they are letting their guard down and discussing sensitive topics. This is exactly the place predators will flock to.
Not his place, so don't be there. The rule is universal and it doesn't matter if you're white or brown. Either assimilate or leave.