It's not really new. They've always whined that men are "praised for doing the bare minimum". As opposed to women who are considered the holiest of holies even though they're sociopathic pieces of shit.
These fatherless women who had either no father or a weak one believe that fatherhood is useless because they have never felt the effects of it. They were raised to believe men are feckless losers and every “supportive” source (media) tells them as such. No amount of data showing dads are essential to child growth and the largest prohibition against degenerate behavior will satisfy them because it means they are themselves failed products.
No amount of data showing dads are essential to child growth and the largest prohibition against degenerate behavior will satisfy them
That's a negative for them. It's little wonder they're against strong fathers. Whenever a kid is getting transed it's almost always the mother in the driver's seat.
In my experience women will destroy society as a whole for a “shit test”. They will lie their asses off in hopes that someone either calls them out or ignores them, this is their evolutionary biology at play, they crave dominance in the same way young men crave structure. This is one of the hardest red pills that most young men have to swallow because they were raised with the lie of “be a feminized pussy and women will appreciate you”. Women appreciate strength/power, that is all.
By far the toughest truth to accept and the one I have the conditioning deepest ingrained. I can notice or refuse to relax at an instinctual level now, but still have to consciously remind myself that women are anti-civilization.
Even writing this comment, I initially put "women in aggregate" because, of course, the individual women in my life are good ones.
I remember my piece of shit lazy as fuck mother screeching "I'D JUST LIKE TO DO WHAT I WANT FOR ONCE!!! JUST ONCE!!!" after she always did only what she wanted all day, every day, constantly.
This is my number one complaint about living with women. They seem totally blind to the amount of free time they have relative to you, and still act as though every waking moment is full of stuff they have to do.
God bless my wife, she does acknowledge it logically if I hold her to account on it, but it almost seems to be an unconscious compulsion. I saw it in my mother as well.
I think it comes down to them not being mentally able to acknowledge work that they don't physically watch you do. I think it's very easy for women to grow comfortable and take things for granted.
Thankfully we've overcome it, but for the first year or so of our marriage I did have to remind my wife that I'm not just having fun in my office for 8 hours a day. I can tell she still struggles to square that circle in her head. Her logical mind battles with her inner female emotions. For an otherwise intelligent and obedient woman, it leads me to believe it must be something innate.
I think it comes down to them not being mentally able to acknowledge work that they don't physically watch you do
Isn't that the craziest thing? Took me a couple of years to realize that if I want to be given any sort of credit for the hours of work I do at home, she has to be home when I do it or she dorsnt "see" it. I finally quit doing any housework when she's gone because she won't acknowledge that it was done. Fucking ridiculous but it's real.
I think abstraction is far more difficult for women than it is for men. It's why they're so difficult to keep satisfied, and why it always comes back around to 'what have you done for me lately?'
Oh, you know, just kept a roof over our heads and food in the fridge, and all the other bs I deal with so you don't have to...
I used to do all the cooking, all the groceries and a fair amount of the housework while paying all the rent and utilities. My cunty ex complained about having to do everything so I made sure she knew she had to take care of herself and I'll only do my share from then on. A week later she blows up and complains that she still does everything and it's not fair so I stopped doing everything but cooking for myself. She blows up again but at least I'm not sacrificing my day for nothing.
Morale of the story is: They will bitch no matter how much you do so just take care of yourself.
I remember my mother screaming at my older brother to get off his ass and get a job and thinking I'd never, ever seen my mother work ever.
Then she was forced to work after the divorce and quit after a few days because it was so hard. She might have maybe worked a year in her entire life and she always acted like her life was constant stress.
It's because women evolved to pick mates who acquire the most resources, but until very, very recently, "resources" meant "stuff". The caveman would bring home meat and pelts. The farmer would have acres of crops. The soldier would have medals. The carpenter would build tangible objects.
Being a modern man means that your primary - if not sole - acquisition is a number in a bank account. It's not something easily registered as a thing. Big number is good, yes, but it doesn't activate the same pathways as actually watching your man create something of value, because we didn't evolve to associate numbers with prosperity. That's something that needs to be learned. Until then, their subconscious tells them every day that you've come back empty-handed, which obviously means you weren't doing anything all day.
This is also why the trope of "wife spends all of husband's money on dumb shit" is so prevalent. Converting the Prosperity Number into objects fills that gap. It's no longer just a number, but a thing she owns.
If she's at least somewhat intelligent, she'll attribute her ownership of that thing to you. A lot of women miss this step and start believing that because they're the ones who bought it, they're the ones who earned it. This is why there are so many broke, useless women who are, regardless, massively entitled. They take money from their dad/boyfriend/beta orbiter/whatever, convert it into objects, then look at their collection of objects and think "look at all the stuff I have, I don't need no man".
seem totally blind to the amount of free time they have relative to men
"OH, you have a day off work, so we have to do this, and we have to go shopping for this and I need you to go out and buy me this and I need these things that I broke fixed and I need you to drive the kids here. . . ."
You're just an asset to them. If they talk that way they don't see you as an actual person that has their own needs. All your use revolves around them. That's a lack of empathy, something women love to talk about men not having.
“Women NEVER get posts or compliments like that. The bar is in hell for men."
I guess they hate that being a mother means responsibilities? Seems such a modern day woman thing were they have 100% evasion against responsibilities.
Is being a mother this great thing that men would never understand or is it the same for both? Can modern women ever make up their minds?
It's just projection. Women get called independent girlbosses who slay it and get that bag because they have an entry level position at The Woman Daycare Corporation. They get praise heaped upon them for doing virtually anything at all. So when they see men getting complimented for once, they assume the same must be true of men.
Women exist in a zero sum attention economy and any positive attention towards any man anywhere for any reason is an existential resource threat to them.
It's not really new. They've always whined that men are "praised for doing the bare minimum". As opposed to women who are considered the holiest of holies even though they're sociopathic pieces of shit.
These fatherless women who had either no father or a weak one believe that fatherhood is useless because they have never felt the effects of it. They were raised to believe men are feckless losers and every “supportive” source (media) tells them as such. No amount of data showing dads are essential to child growth and the largest prohibition against degenerate behavior will satisfy them because it means they are themselves failed products.
That's a negative for them. It's little wonder they're against strong fathers. Whenever a kid is getting transed it's almost always the mother in the driver's seat.
In my experience women will destroy society as a whole for a “shit test”. They will lie their asses off in hopes that someone either calls them out or ignores them, this is their evolutionary biology at play, they crave dominance in the same way young men crave structure. This is one of the hardest red pills that most young men have to swallow because they were raised with the lie of “be a feminized pussy and women will appreciate you”. Women appreciate strength/power, that is all.
By far the toughest truth to accept and the one I have the conditioning deepest ingrained. I can notice or refuse to relax at an instinctual level now, but still have to consciously remind myself that women are anti-civilization.
Even writing this comment, I initially put "women in aggregate" because, of course, the individual women in my life are good ones.
I remember my piece of shit lazy as fuck mother screeching "I'D JUST LIKE TO DO WHAT I WANT FOR ONCE!!! JUST ONCE!!!" after she always did only what she wanted all day, every day, constantly.
This is my number one complaint about living with women. They seem totally blind to the amount of free time they have relative to you, and still act as though every waking moment is full of stuff they have to do.
God bless my wife, she does acknowledge it logically if I hold her to account on it, but it almost seems to be an unconscious compulsion. I saw it in my mother as well.
It's that old sitcom trope with the housewife complaining about the husband not helping when he gets home from work.
I think it comes down to them not being mentally able to acknowledge work that they don't physically watch you do. I think it's very easy for women to grow comfortable and take things for granted.
Thankfully we've overcome it, but for the first year or so of our marriage I did have to remind my wife that I'm not just having fun in my office for 8 hours a day. I can tell she still struggles to square that circle in her head. Her logical mind battles with her inner female emotions. For an otherwise intelligent and obedient woman, it leads me to believe it must be something innate.
Isn't that the craziest thing? Took me a couple of years to realize that if I want to be given any sort of credit for the hours of work I do at home, she has to be home when I do it or she dorsnt "see" it. I finally quit doing any housework when she's gone because she won't acknowledge that it was done. Fucking ridiculous but it's real.
I think abstraction is far more difficult for women than it is for men. It's why they're so difficult to keep satisfied, and why it always comes back around to 'what have you done for me lately?'
Oh, you know, just kept a roof over our heads and food in the fridge, and all the other bs I deal with so you don't have to...
"You were never there for us!"
Yeah, I was working 60-80 hours a week to keep everyone housed and fed and keep the water running"
I used to do all the cooking, all the groceries and a fair amount of the housework while paying all the rent and utilities. My cunty ex complained about having to do everything so I made sure she knew she had to take care of herself and I'll only do my share from then on. A week later she blows up and complains that she still does everything and it's not fair so I stopped doing everything but cooking for myself. She blows up again but at least I'm not sacrificing my day for nothing.
Morale of the story is: They will bitch no matter how much you do so just take care of yourself.
I remember my mother screaming at my older brother to get off his ass and get a job and thinking I'd never, ever seen my mother work ever.
Then she was forced to work after the divorce and quit after a few days because it was so hard. She might have maybe worked a year in her entire life and she always acted like her life was constant stress.
It's because women evolved to pick mates who acquire the most resources, but until very, very recently, "resources" meant "stuff". The caveman would bring home meat and pelts. The farmer would have acres of crops. The soldier would have medals. The carpenter would build tangible objects.
Being a modern man means that your primary - if not sole - acquisition is a number in a bank account. It's not something easily registered as a thing. Big number is good, yes, but it doesn't activate the same pathways as actually watching your man create something of value, because we didn't evolve to associate numbers with prosperity. That's something that needs to be learned. Until then, their subconscious tells them every day that you've come back empty-handed, which obviously means you weren't doing anything all day.
This is also why the trope of "wife spends all of husband's money on dumb shit" is so prevalent. Converting the Prosperity Number into objects fills that gap. It's no longer just a number, but a thing she owns.
If she's at least somewhat intelligent, she'll attribute her ownership of that thing to you. A lot of women miss this step and start believing that because they're the ones who bought it, they're the ones who earned it. This is why there are so many broke, useless women who are, regardless, massively entitled. They take money from their dad/boyfriend/beta orbiter/whatever, convert it into objects, then look at their collection of objects and think "look at all the stuff I have, I don't need no man".
"OH, you have a day off work, so we have to do this, and we have to go shopping for this and I need you to go out and buy me this and I need these things that I broke fixed and I need you to drive the kids here. . . ."
You're just an asset to them. If they talk that way they don't see you as an actual person that has their own needs. All your use revolves around them. That's a lack of empathy, something women love to talk about men not having.
Tell me about it...
I guess they hate that being a mother means responsibilities? Seems such a modern day woman thing were they have 100% evasion against responsibilities.
Is being a mother this great thing that men would never understand or is it the same for both? Can modern women ever make up their minds?
It's just projection. Women get called independent girlbosses who slay it and get that bag because they have an entry level position at The Woman Daycare Corporation. They get praise heaped upon them for doing virtually anything at all. So when they see men getting complimented for once, they assume the same must be true of men.
No, they need a man to do that for them, but we've made that socially unacceptable which is why society is on fire.
Women exist in a zero sum attention economy and any positive attention towards any man anywhere for any reason is an existential resource threat to them.