OnlyFans is a gateway drug to Suicide
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One of the things they leave off the adult industry is this as a consequence. You are making sex, which biologically should be restrained to just a man and a woman, and turning it into a commodity to be bought.
Considering all the biology at play DURING sex that is meant to encourage mates to pair up and stay in a relationship, you trying to turn that into 'give me a few dollars and you can use me' will fuck you up mentally as your body on average will reject this.
Yup, many pornstars die young from overdose or suicide, and I think another just died a few weeks ago from overdose?
[EDIT]...Yup, Jesse Jane: https://www.koco.com/article/oklahoma-moore-cindy-taylor-brett-hasenmueller-found-dead-jesse-jane/46536263
The male performers are the only ones with a conscience enough to talk about why suicide is so prevalent in the industry, and a lot of it deals with what you just mentioned: it's hard for them to cope when the cameras stop rolling, and to drown out the shame a lot of them resort to drugs and/or substance abuse. The interviews with former male pornstars shed actual light on the issues instead of just blaming the "patriarchy" or some other such nebulous forms of "abuse" that the female performers attempt to defer to in order to sweep all culpability under the rug.
Marketwatch even did an article about the alarming suicide rates in that industry: https://www.marketwatch.com/story/deaths-of-despair-are-rising-among-adult-film-actresses-2018-01-24
But of course, the Tiny Hat commission ensures that the general public are always led to believe that there's nothing wrong with the porn industry and their alarming suicide rates is just par the course of suicides going up in general: https://archive.is/rQtI4
It's funny the author doesn't even bother to cross-reference suicide rates by other professions just to gauge the averages -- would have been interesting comparing it to law enforcers, firefighters, or anyone doing anything remotely respectable.
And of course, Vice had to run a damage control article claiming there's nothing wrong with porn, and all the negative things said about it have been "debunked", including that the average lifespan of porn performers is around 36 years of age (which is super ironic given the age of the woman in the OP's article who offed herself): https://archive.is/wip/4xfE6
As is typical of any Left-wing equivocation, the article never even bothers to put out what the correct figure is; it just runs damage control so coomers keep cooming.
All that being said, I am giddy to see suicide rates continue to skyrocket as more women realise they've permanently ruined their lives with OnlyFans.
The burgeoning loneliness epidemic set to hit in 2030, with completely plummeting birth rates, and lawlessness out of hand, I think we're almost at the cusp of seeing the West truly fall. A bunch of women hitting 35+ and killing themselves will likely help speed up the collapse, because without the collapse there is no way to rebuild.
It's a messed up subject. Tech has a porn problem. The newer the tech, the more likely it's being used for porn. The more advanced it's use, the more illegal stuff gets way ahead. I did research on it decades ago and decided my soul wasn't worth it.
Only Fans is the newest of a long game from porn, and every step has made women think their bodies were their only asset. It has also advanced tech like Zoom, YouTube, and others.
You wrote a great article. May I copy it?
Ha, I didn't write any of the articles I linked. This was just an off the cuff comment; but feel free to copy-pasta away.
It's being added to my list. Thank you.
Women’s capacity to have children and form families is absolutely their greatest asset. This power has been perverted by feminism and birth control. That’s pretty much the story.
Both dying of an OD screams contaminated stash. Unironically wonder if they died because of fentanyl in whatever they were taking.
Fentanyl is being used as a convenient scapegoat to deflect from deaths caused by vaccine-induced myocarditis. Cocaine spikes your heart rate up to 180+, and hearts damaged by the vax simply can’t handle it. It looks like an overdose, and it technically still is, but we’re seeing way more cases of it now.
Playing soccer also spikes your heart rates into the 170-190 range, which is why vaxxed athletes are dropping dead. I doubt their Gatorade was laced with fentanyl.
Just nitpicking, but I think the videotaped side of the "business" is still too young to have had its first generation fully die off.
But this is all normal because we always had dancing girls and prostitutes!!
Oh sorry, I don't know what came over me.
That's part of the problem, are those the same? Functionally, sure, she's selling a service with her body. As far as the processes, outcomes, and legalities? You could argue they're quite different.
For instance, one reason I could see women in taped porn specifically becoming prone to addiction is because of the filming process. Cuts, reshoots, the possible hours involved.
Are you arguing that porn stars are more pron to addiction than prostitutes?
My example was about addiction, but my argument in the reply was just that porn actresses can't easily be lumped in with other sex workers in trying to assess life expectancy.
More generally speaking, each sex work "profession" has its own unique qualities, so making a statistical assumption about one "profession" based on another isn't likely to be very accurate.
You're actually correct, it's a good faultline that comes up in a few discussions about the average lifespan of a performer for that exact reason: it's still a fairly recent industry in regards to the performers who gained popularity from the technological ease-of-access to porn.
However, there is little attempt from the establishment to fund extensive research into the impact(s) it has on the performers/society at large because there will never be a positive-enough outcome they could spin that would outweigh or justify the negative side-effects it entails for both those involved in producing it and those involved in consuming it.
At least that article included a paragraph about an org trying to get people out of the industry. The rest was pretty funny though. Pornstars are committing suicide, let's
Calling suicide an "untreated epidemic" is kind of like saying the obesity epidemic is untreated. As if the solution lies in more drug prescriptions instead of the forces that cause people to make terrible choices.
Make money creating a problem, then make money creating a solution. Seems on brand to me.
Yes, that's quite telling isn't it? One of the most recurring things the women always say is, "After I get home I just start crying all night."
There was an interview with a former adult actress in Japan, and she said the exact same thing -- she would finish a shoot and then just go home and breakdown crying uncontrollably. Brittany De La Mora mentioned that she and others would use heroin to cope.
Their body was literally trying to forcibly tell them that they were breaking.
And to your point about the men, yes even with that biological predisposition, they noted that the work was so dehumanising (since they were basically a paid erection attached to a body no one cared about) that suicidal thoughts became prevalent. Their humanity had been reduced to little more than sexual tools with no other value.
Not to mention forming normal relationships - as much as there's a general acceptance there's still a stigma for most of the normal population
It’s not even about stigma. Women who fuck dozens of dudes are literally psychologically broken. They cannot properly pair bond.
Liberals can never admit porn is bad, despite the most obvious evidence, because doing so would discredit their entire belief system.
Why not cut her up and sell her by the pound?
Ah yes, the Ferengi way!
Nothing of value was lost.
Why? I thought all these pornstars were filthy rich girlbosses
Lol is this a really cheap cash grab?
Why pay for it yourself when you can get one last hit of that simpbux from the deceased.
This whole gofundme for funerals reeks of opportunism
As much as I hate OnlyFans and everything it represents, this is much, much more than just OnlyFans...
This woman has been "prominent" in porn for pretty much as long as I have known about porn. She was interviewed in a Louis Theroux documentary about it, and she only went back to OnlyFans after apparently (unsurprisingly) "struggling" to move out of the industry... And she's fairly well known for having mental health "struggles", apparently, so perhaps this isn't that surprising at this point.
So... It's not as clear-cut as your title makes out, in this case. The "fundraiser"/GoFundMe does seem a bit... Rich, though, given that this woman allegedly had a pretty decent nest egg net worth set up. Unless she blew all that/was in debt somehow, or wrote her mum out of her will or something.
But regardless, I will never celebrate someone's death, whether I agree with their "profession" or not. I just won't.
Yeah I realise that my point was the Onlyfans leads to harder porn and so on ending at suicide - i.e gateway
I just hung out with 3 women who all do onlyfans on the weekend. One of them makes her entire living from onlyfans. Another one, used to do only fans but now doesn't do onlyfans at all. The last one does onlyfans but it's her side gig and not her day job. One of the guys I was hanging out with, who connects everyone together, considers himself a bit of a minor porn producer. He's got a dungeon in his house where all 3 girls have shot porn from.
I have a direct lens into the psyche of these people and truthfully, the problems onlyfans girls face are not unlike the same problems ALL women face. IMO, the biggest problem for these onlyfans girls is that they tend to be incredibly "leftist" and therefore the values/beliefs they grow up valuing are in fact the very values/beliefs that end up destroying them but because all their peer groups are also leftists, they never learn the truth of the matter.
They like to use drugs because drugs are cool and marijuana is the main drug of choice. This is a leftist value not just a pornstar one. They are staunchly feminist and believe in "equality" to the max. They want to be strong and independent. Yet these women all have the same tropes as any other women. They like super hot men, refuse to look at men that don't meet their high physical standards yet the women aren't that good looking and are getting chunky as they age. They're chunky because they eat mostly vegetables and are against meat eating (more leftist values).
Now of these girls I hung out with in particular they all seemed to be at different stages. The youngest was excited about what she was doing because it made more money than her last job and she likes sex but you can tell the only reason she's even bothering with all of this is because she's "dating" the porn producer guy. The second their relationship ends, that's probably it for her onlyfans career. The next onlyfans girl also shoots with her bf and she's a nurse who with just her nursing alone makes more money than her blue-collar boy toy boyfriend. You can tell she drives the whole relationship and he's just along for the ride because everything out of this guy's mouth was something he was doing for this girl and he seemed tired. I don't expect this relationship to last very long either but not because of the porn. Simply because it's a female driven modern relationship which never lasts.
Lastly, the oldest and most experienced onlyfans girl who no longer does it had gained a little weight. She was still not fat but not skinny. The normal wall look white girls get in their 30s. She was the most depressed of all of them because she's desperate for a BF but can't get one but also can't admit how much she desires a man to herself because that would undermine her "strong and independent" feminist views. She's depressed and admits it and she's seeing a psychologist. Her psychologist (a woman) told this girl she should just find a man who will take care of her. The ex-pornstar girl of course laughs with all her pornstar friends about how misogynistic her psychologist was to suggest a man should take care of her but of course that is the correct advice but the girl can't accept that because it goes against her leftist values.
Anyway, the main point I want to make is after having had experience with these women I don't actually think it's the porn in itself that destroys these women but the culmination of all the leftist values these women acquire growing up and through their peer groups that would have led her to choose to be a pornstar in the first place. If a girl decides she wants to do porn then she was already doomed in the first place to the fate she ends up because only a girl whose values/beliefs in life are so twisted to begin with is ever going to agree to it. These women had no chance for any other fate in life before they even chose to do porn. Their fates were already sealed.
All the same problems that middle aged single depressed wine and cat ladies (who've never done porn) face are the exact same problems all the pornstar girls face except they are amplified for the pornstar girls because these women are the single depressed middle aged cat ladies taken to the max.
The root problem isn't porn. The root problem is feminism. If the women didn't do porn they'd still end up as single depressed cat ladies in their 30s contemplating suicide. Porn isn't good and I don't think any girl should be contemplating doing onlyfans but we need to tackle the fundamental values and beliefs of young women in society that makes them think doing onlyfans is even a good idea in the first place.
Disagree with this comment. Women can come back from leftist indoctrination. They can’t come back from a career in porn. Because that shit destroys your soul.
is it possible to learn this power?
Are we sure she committed suicide because she was doing porn, and not because…she was living in Cleveland?
(I have family up there. I can say that.)
I won't make light of her death, but this cracked me up.
Duh.
Good. They deserve it lmao. So fucking useless that sex is their only "talent"