After wrecking romance, feminist narcissism spreads to friendships with other women
(www.independent.co.uk)
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They are so twisted that they used the word "noble" -- which is connoted with selflessness and good character -- to describe one of the bluntest admissions of selfishness I've ever read. It's incredible.
Women are addicted to drama. It's like a drug to them. I've seen exceptions to most "rules" about women, but I haven't met a single one that isn't a drama junkie. It's tedious as fuck, but I did find out that my department is full of degenerates that way. I suspect a lot of the antisocial shit they do is about getting their drama fix rather than anything deeper.
One thing I've noticed is that women always assume the worst of each other socially. I've had women shit talk other women to me, and it's usually over something that probably has an innocent explanation but they jump to the worst possible interpretation of what happened. Men on the other hand are more direct. If we have a question we'll ask, and if we want something done differently next time we'll say so. Not even in a dickish way, just in a way that makes it clear what we expect. That clears up misunderstandings and allows adjustments to be made before things have a chance to fester and turn into resentments. That's why the catty rivalries that are so prevalent in women are basically nonexistent in men (except the homos who act like women). 99% of those rivalries started over something stupid and non-malicious.
You don't, but women do.
I’ve known guys like that, too.
Not all men, but all women :^)
This is why women's friends are so quick to tell her to dump her BF, husband, partner. They don't care and they don't want others to care. THey really are terrible when not controlled by the Patriarchy
Yes this is how women are
This thing with a relationship "serving you" is funny, because these same leftoid hoes also say you can't break a relationship if the other woman is doing something you find fucked.
Like I can end a friendship if I don't profit from the other person, but I can't if the other person is on a borderline personality disorder rampage, doing drugs, starts "working" in prostitution (real porn and OF included), if it's a woman who has an abortion, trooning out etc.
I dealt with that when I was younger. Never again. It's particularly grating when they have shitty friends that hate you but you're expected to be the house nigger who never crosses them. My refusal to do that spelled the end of that "friendship". I know one woman who doesn't do the social hierarchy shit (at least with me), and I wouldn't put up with it if she did.
I learned this as a kid. I wouldn't kiss ass so they'd try to harass me. Eventually they got a guy to hit me and I beat his ass and physically fought them off when they kept trying to save the dude from his whipping.
"There's this absurd notion that things that are not me sometimes stop me from doing what I want" -- t. eat pray lovers
The blue line there needs less of a social circle, apparently.
Daily reminder that Progressivism is a social and psychological disease.
One does not befriend a shark, a scorpion or a social climber. You are a food source, a target or a stepping stone at best.
Also I still find it hilarious that Prince Harry watched Suits and was like I need to marry that actress lmao
The women in my life are constantly cutting off each other. They'll get in a fight about something that isn't even a big deal, but they just can't get past it, and they'll stop talking for a year or two before they finally reconnect.
This has never happened between any of the men I know.
I had a friend who was constantly late to things. I cut him off completely after he was 4 hours late to a day we'd organised with other friends. Completely ruined the plans - I said that's it fuck off and we've never spoken since and honestly I couldn't be happier. I've had one good friend for almost 40 years and it's because we share the same interests and he's considerate. My wife on the otherhand is no longer friends with any of her high school group and she basically only has 1 friend who she's lucky if she sees once a month. And when she does see her all they do is sit around gossip about the other local women they hate. Lesson: Women don't like women very much.
I've seen it happen over land issues. Still, when it's resolved, you can actually be sure that the hatchet is buried.
Oh, this is actually about BLM. If your friends don't follow the dogma better get rid of them, specially if they've been cancelled and their livehood has been destroyed
Feminist narcissism started with each other then leaked over into their relationships. The majority of woman have no friends, with some having one or two at best, because they all view each other as competition for attention.
This is the sort of thing that, yeah, it is actually important to know how to end relationships well if they're not a good match or they're unhealthy for you, but entering it into the Feminist Doctrine is going to make all the midwits and idiots (99.9% of feminists) treat it as gospel, and search for reasons to end their friendships.
Their lives and their interpersonal dealings revolve around buzzwords and half-formed progressive ideas, which is why so many families get torn apart - the ideology makes them seek out reasons to end them.
This is just another example of leftist sophistry - taking something that has a tiny nugget of clarity to it and surrounding it with delusional, destructive nonsense.
Also, I don't even need to read the article to know that the advice boils down to 'just ghost them'; that's their answer to everything and they twist themselves in knots to excuse, conveniently never addressing how cruel it is to do that to someone.
It's amazing how accurate this is.
It's depressingly easy to predict. If there's one thing that characterizes feminists, it's the ongoing attempt to avoid responsibility of any kind. Being quick to ghost people, and rationalizing why it's not only okay, but Good™, fits perfectly with that.
The more I learn about them, the deeper my disappointment.