Do you need good ‘detachment game’ to stop being friends? Meghan’s ex-BFF thinks so
‘Detachment game’ is the skill of knowing when and how to call time on a friendship – but few of us would call ourselves experts in it, writes Olivia Petter. But it might be just as important to think about as when you break up with a romantic partner
They are so twisted that they used the word "noble" -- which is connoted with selflessness and good character -- to describe one of the bluntest admissions of selfishness I've ever read. It's incredible.
Women are addicted to drama. It's like a drug to them. I've seen exceptions to most "rules" about women, but I haven't met a single one that isn't a drama junkie. It's tedious as fuck, but I did find out that my department is full of degenerates that way. I suspect a lot of the antisocial shit they do is about getting their drama fix rather than anything deeper.
One thing I've noticed is that women always assume the worst of each other socially. I've had women shit talk other women to me, and it's usually over something that probably has an innocent explanation but they jump to the worst possible interpretation of what happened. Men on the other hand are more direct. If we have a question we'll ask, and if we want something done differently next time we'll say so. Not even in a dickish way, just in a way that makes it clear what we expect. That clears up misunderstandings and allows adjustments to be made before things have a chance to fester and turn into resentments. That's why the catty rivalries that are so prevalent in women are basically nonexistent in men (except the homos who act like women). 99% of those rivalries started over something stupid and non-malicious.