This is a grossly reductionist view on it, and I guarantee you women do not want to do what you described. Women use sex as a way to get into a relationship, which is different from the way men view sex, but they stigmatize whoring out.
Dating is useful because when you do encounter "job interview girls", you know she's not worth any more time. The whole point is to use dating as a screening tool. Bemoaning that dating doesnt generate immediate successful results is like complaining that you have to pour material through a sieve to get sieved material.
You and I both know the technical pick-up folks who just have sex have different goals than the folks trying to get in a relationship - most of them aren't very happy either, so claiming that dating is useless because it doesn't lead to that scenario is defeatist bullshit.
I am defeated. I tried dating for years. I'm now 34yo and single. I haven't been bothered to date for 2 years because of how bad dating is. I've gone on dates with well over 100+ women. I just got a new job offer for $140k/yr and I own a 3 bedroom house. I go to the gym 4-5 days a week, I'm fit, eat healthy, white, 5'10", still have some hair.
The relationship market is trash, it truly is. Some men still find success in it but most men don't. I mean, the stats where 2/3s of men are single in their 20s and 1/3 of men in their 20s haven't had sex in over a year didn't give it away?
Women demand too much and offer too little. It's not worth the energy. It's like panning for gold. Sure, maybe you could get lucky and find a gold nugget but for most people, you're just going to find dirt so it's going to just be a giant waste of time and money.
Don't take it personally, but that is the issue right there. And there is nothing you can do about it. You aren't even short, you are just an average height. And that one characteristic rules you out for a majority of women, unless you had another genetic X-factor to make up for it.
Basically, if you're 5'10" only 30% of women even want to acknowledge your existence.
Can you cut the crap and hyperbole? Not wanting to date you is not 'not acknowledging your existence'. It's like troons who accuse everyone of ERASING MY EXISTENCE.
I am defeated. I tried dating for years. I'm now 34yo and single. I haven't been bothered to date for 2 years because of how bad dating is. I've gone on dates with well over 100+ women.
Sorry to hear that, but in all honesty, there is some fishy stuff here. Let me guess, all those 100+ women just happened to be completely crazy, while you dindu nuffin. For that matter, they went out on dates with you, yet things did not turn out well, apparently.
Seriously man, have you ever considered that the problem could be with you? You have a seriously bad attitude. Frankly, those 100+ women seem to be pretty smart, because you are on record as saying that "women should be sex slaves with no rights". I'm not sure they're very keen on being kept locked in a basement because of your great enlightenment.
and 1/3 of men in their 20s haven't had sex in over a year
I don't believe studies with such absurd claims.
Women demand too much
Like I said, an absurd claim. Just go outside and watch all the OK-ish women with complete abominations of men. Women will put up with a lot.
and offer too little.
By all accounts, more men are going after dating than women, so objectively, women offer a lot - which is why it's a buyer's market for them.
Holy shit please. You're the biggest simp on this site and completely out of touch with reality. You're literally ignoring statistics in favor of your made up delusions and anecdotal evidence.
Please, you think 'simp' is any more impressive than 'racist' when you're losing an argument?
You're literally ignoring statistics
EXPERTS SAY
in favor of your made up delusions and anecdotal evidence.
Hell yeah, what I know to be true due to my own experience is more persuasive than some 'expert' or fraudulent statistics. Go outside and you'll be able to see the same.
Seriously man, have you ever considered that the problem could be with you? You have a seriously bad attitude.
Ah yes the old "you're just bitter" response. Definitely disproves everything he's said.
Women demand too much - an absurd claim
Tell me you're a simping niggerfaggot without telling me you're a simping niggerfaggot
more men are going after dating than women, so objectively, women offer a lot
Men go after women because women aren't going to go after them unless they are chad thundercock. Men are so desperate for affection they will try with literal 3/10s even if they themselves are a 5, because the market is so skewed by online dating and women's impossible standards.
A fat single mom with no job doesn't offer a lot and yet can still get what she wants. It shouldn't be that way, but it is, due to simps like you.
Ah yes the old "you're just bitter" response. Definitely disproves everything he's said.
Don't worry, I disproved anything worth disproving. And yeah, I think someone who says that "women should be property and sex slaves to men" has a pretty bad attitude, and that someone like that isn't going to be able to find a woman. Shocking. I know.
Tell me you're a simping niggerfaggot without telling me you're a simping niggerfaggot
Definitely disproves what came after... which you conveniently didn't quote.
Men are so desperate for affection they will try with literal 3/10s even if they themselves are a 5, because the market is so skewed by online dating and women's impossible standards.
Wait, so men are desperate and have no standards, and this means that women are bad?
That doesn't happen. Go to any crowded place and see how many men you see with women who are less attractive. Almost never. On the other hand, I see plenty of women who seem to be happy with men who look much worse.
A fat single mom with no job doesn't offer a lot and yet can still get what she wants. It shouldn't be that way, but it is, due to simps like you.
I don't date either fats or single moms, so you're wrong there, kiddo.
Question for you: How come you assume it's my personality that sucks so bad? Why don't you consider that the majority of women's personalities suck so bad that I avoid them like the plague?
How come you assume it's my personality that sucks so bad?
Possibly because you said that "women should be the property of men and sex slaves". But hey, maybe you'll find that one woman who thinks she should be your property. That is indeed the jackpot.
Why don't you consider that the majority of women's personalities suck so bad that I avoid them like the plague?
Cause you accused them of being too picky for not wanting you. You didn't say you didn't want them because of their personality.
If you meet an asshole in the morning, you’ve met an asshole. If you meet one in the afternoon, you’ve met two assholes. If you meet assholes all day, you’re the asshole
This is a grossly reductionist view on it, and I guarantee you women do not want to do what you described. Women use sex as a way to get into a relationship, which is different from the way men view sex, but they stigmatize whoring out.
Dating is useful because when you do encounter "job interview girls", you know she's not worth any more time. The whole point is to use dating as a screening tool. Bemoaning that dating doesnt generate immediate successful results is like complaining that you have to pour material through a sieve to get sieved material.
You and I both know the technical pick-up folks who just have sex have different goals than the folks trying to get in a relationship - most of them aren't very happy either, so claiming that dating is useless because it doesn't lead to that scenario is defeatist bullshit.
I am defeated. I tried dating for years. I'm now 34yo and single. I haven't been bothered to date for 2 years because of how bad dating is. I've gone on dates with well over 100+ women. I just got a new job offer for $140k/yr and I own a 3 bedroom house. I go to the gym 4-5 days a week, I'm fit, eat healthy, white, 5'10", still have some hair.
The relationship market is trash, it truly is. Some men still find success in it but most men don't. I mean, the stats where 2/3s of men are single in their 20s and 1/3 of men in their 20s haven't had sex in over a year didn't give it away?
Women demand too much and offer too little. It's not worth the energy. It's like panning for gold. Sure, maybe you could get lucky and find a gold nugget but for most people, you're just going to find dirt so it's going to just be a giant waste of time and money.
Don't take it personally, but that is the issue right there. And there is nothing you can do about it. You aren't even short, you are just an average height. And that one characteristic rules you out for a majority of women, unless you had another genetic X-factor to make up for it.
Yeah, I agree that's definitely a large factor.
For those unaware how big of a factor this is, here's a good example:
https://files.catbox.moe/mvgdmu.jpg
Basically, if you're 5'10" only 30% of women even want to acknowledge your existence.
Can you cut the crap and hyperbole? Not wanting to date you is not 'not acknowledging your existence'. It's like troons who accuse everyone of ERASING MY EXISTENCE.
Sorry to hear that, but in all honesty, there is some fishy stuff here. Let me guess, all those 100+ women just happened to be completely crazy, while you dindu nuffin. For that matter, they went out on dates with you, yet things did not turn out well, apparently.
Seriously man, have you ever considered that the problem could be with you? You have a seriously bad attitude. Frankly, those 100+ women seem to be pretty smart, because you are on record as saying that "women should be sex slaves with no rights". I'm not sure they're very keen on being kept locked in a basement because of your great enlightenment.
I don't believe studies with such absurd claims.
Like I said, an absurd claim. Just go outside and watch all the OK-ish women with complete abominations of men. Women will put up with a lot.
By all accounts, more men are going after dating than women, so objectively, women offer a lot - which is why it's a buyer's market for them.
Holy shit please. You're the biggest simp on this site and completely out of touch with reality. You're literally ignoring statistics in favor of your made up delusions and anecdotal evidence.
Simps gonna simp. Must defend milady's honour.
Please, you think 'simp' is any more impressive than 'racist' when you're losing an argument?
EXPERTS SAY
Hell yeah, what I know to be true due to my own experience is more persuasive than some 'expert' or fraudulent statistics. Go outside and you'll be able to see the same.
Life is more than than stats. It’s just self affirmation at this point.
You honestly have the most pozzed and cucked responses sometimes.
Only sometimes? Did you win the lottery? Cause you're in a generous mood...
Ah yes the old "you're just bitter" response. Definitely disproves everything he's said.
Tell me you're a simping niggerfaggot without telling me you're a simping niggerfaggot
Men go after women because women aren't going to go after them unless they are chad thundercock. Men are so desperate for affection they will try with literal 3/10s even if they themselves are a 5, because the market is so skewed by online dating and women's impossible standards.
A fat single mom with no job doesn't offer a lot and yet can still get what she wants. It shouldn't be that way, but it is, due to simps like you.
Don't worry, I disproved anything worth disproving. And yeah, I think someone who says that "women should be property and sex slaves to men" has a pretty bad attitude, and that someone like that isn't going to be able to find a woman. Shocking. I know.
Definitely disproves what came after... which you conveniently didn't quote.
I don't date either fats or single moms, so you're wrong there, kiddo.
Take out the "dindu nuffin" and this reply becomes indistinguishable from the feminist shaming tactics that are rampant on the pedo site.
Then it should be easy enough for you to show me where I'm wrong.
Not sure why you’re getting downvoted. This is true or any normal man who doesn’t waste > 50% of their lives on the internet.
I don’t believe any of this. Either you’re lying or your personality sucks so bad that women would rather avoid you like the plague.
Question for you: How come you assume it's my personality that sucks so bad? Why don't you consider that the majority of women's personalities suck so bad that I avoid them like the plague?
Possibly because you said that "women should be the property of men and sex slaves". But hey, maybe you'll find that one woman who thinks she should be your property. That is indeed the jackpot.
Cause you accused them of being too picky for not wanting you. You didn't say you didn't want them because of their personality.
If you meet an asshole in the morning, you’ve met an asshole. If you meet one in the afternoon, you’ve met two assholes. If you meet assholes all day, you’re the asshole
Lol dude moat women are fucking multiple dudes while pretending to be or are actually interested you. This is am age of sociopathic disregard
I believe this was true before the mainstreaming of internet dating.