Crazy shit that really demonstrates how our culture has trained women to not take any accountability for their behavior as long as they can come up with some hamster-wheel excuse for it.
What blows my mind is that -men- even skew towards more leniency for women. Pathetic.
Trained women and men. Although TheImp blames "schools" I was just thinking about this the other day how our TV, movies, and other media has been normalizing this perspective for generations. Beyond the pro-feminine bias, there's at least two linked premises specific to affairs we've been programmed with:
1 - Men have affairs because they want to boink around. Women have affairs because of "emotional" needs, usually as a failure of their spouse to meet those needs.
2 - Doing something for emotional reasons - for "feelings" - is always good. What you feel deep down is always right. Listen to your heart. Cheating because you want to fuck other people is wrong. Cheating because you're not happy with the relationship is understandable. (for some reason carnal desires like lust don't count as feelings here - until the woman rationalizes it as "romance")
The programming is so deep that I once saw a TV show about a woman who found out her husband was cheating on her, and when the MAN said "I'm sorry - I just don't love you anymore." even I laughed at the faggot because I could not believe that's how a man in an affair would behave. Although men and women both cheat for various reasons, I think the women often excuse their own behavior with the above points. Men don't tend to excuse their own behavior that way.
If it can be believed, the higher the education, the less moral they are. And it's odd they haven't included Middle Eastern, Asian and I bet their 'black women' are African American not African 1st generation as you might get different results from them...
Wow I didn't even notice that. The "American Perspectives Survey" asked 5,049 people and there's no Asian category? Not even an "Other". I'm actually even more curious about that than this question.
Yeah noticed that, it's one of the things I credit Shoeonhead for is that she called out the hypocrisy of the light treatment of female pedos.
If you want to remove the protections women get, you'll need to take them out of the access to children as men need something to protect and unfortunately while children are the perfect focus for that, women control the access.
Male and female pedos are treated differently because men and women are different. There is absolutely a difference between a 120lbs female teacher getting fucked by an adolescent male student and a 90lbs adolescent female student getting fucked by an adult male teacher. Everyone intuitively knows this to be true. We only insist that these things are the same out of either 1) a misguided notion of “equality” or 2) a pointless attempt to illustrate hypocrisy.
Unless you're talking about literal rape I don't know what their weight has to do with it, but it should be more about keeping pedos, hebes, furries, trannies, groomers, and other sickos out of the classroom than considering how the victim "feels" about it or whether or not they are really a victim. Obviously it depends on the age-gap but there's something wrong in the head about a woman who has sex with her underage student - even if it's intuitively different to you or anyone.
So I agree with you that's one reason for different treatment, but don't agree that disagreeing is misguided or pointless.
The stat for black women is most surprising. For everyone else there's at least a 8% difference. I wonder why they're so equal in their treatment of marital infidelity.
Higher degree of experience probably. Call me racist and sexist but when a White lady complains that they've been cheated on I immediately imagine Chad dumping them in highschool and leaving her all alone with only 6 gorillion orbiter male shoulders to cry on. Looking at where her future led her: the woman is doing fine, always has been fine, has never experienced one void of basic needs support in her entire life.
When black ladies complain about infidelity I immediately imagine a life ruined. Whatever globohomo assisted doctor-lawyer-supergirl future the system told her she'd have melts away and she is genuinely alone in regard to her family's ability to support her, or support from fawning betas, and with a child whose absent father she hates, turning instantly to the govt for income, her only actionable path toward a pay raise being to have more children without picking up a household income, making kids into business, looking at laws about childcare the way a business looks at regulatory expenses (work around to the reg as egregiously as possible to keep expense low until pinned by new regs), generally perpetuating the cycle as much and as intensely as possible. Wallah, a person enslaved as a demo-finance war tool.
I have actually seen women's lives follow these stereotypes like that, enough to impress on me. Whites in the west are enslaved in our way too, but that is a struggle. The way our families are, in particular, makes the culture war possible. We are not insulated from the exploitation/destitution game by "systemic racism", the system HAAAAATES us, but via our owm cultural inheritance and the way we set up and operate our lives. I would describe it as "White exceptionalism" but explicitly in the context of every race enjoying our own forms of racial exceptionalism, meaning different things for each. Exception like distinction, being that the sum effect of differences between us results in collective traits that, in the context of another group's collective traits, constitutes an exception.
Haters describe it as "White supremacy", which is basically a weaponized compliment of high order, since it suggests that the ways in which the White race are exceptional are "supreme" or literally "the best". I think this is stupid, not I'm not racist who likes his own race's stuff, but because that is (1) literally a fuckin opinion, logically putting "White supremacist' in the same insult-tier as stuff like "nintenfag", (2) influenced overwhelmingly by my race, which I did not choose, and (3) jews do this better than us and if you confront a defender on the relevant metrics they will produce the same argument I just did one paragraph up ^.
I don't understand this chart at all, how do you make sense of that?
You should include important context in the op.
Affairs are always a betrayal. What is wrong with people?
Crazy shit that really demonstrates how our culture has trained women to not take any accountability for their behavior as long as they can come up with some hamster-wheel excuse for it.
What blows my mind is that -men- even skew towards more leniency for women. Pathetic.
Trained women and men. Although TheImp blames "schools" I was just thinking about this the other day how our TV, movies, and other media has been normalizing this perspective for generations. Beyond the pro-feminine bias, there's at least two linked premises specific to affairs we've been programmed with:
1 - Men have affairs because they want to boink around. Women have affairs because of "emotional" needs, usually as a failure of their spouse to meet those needs.
2 - Doing something for emotional reasons - for "feelings" - is always good. What you feel deep down is always right. Listen to your heart. Cheating because you want to fuck other people is wrong. Cheating because you're not happy with the relationship is understandable. (for some reason carnal desires like lust don't count as feelings here - until the woman rationalizes it as "romance")
The programming is so deep that I once saw a TV show about a woman who found out her husband was cheating on her, and when the MAN said "I'm sorry - I just don't love you anymore." even I laughed at the faggot because I could not believe that's how a man in an affair would behave. Although men and women both cheat for various reasons, I think the women often excuse their own behavior with the above points. Men don't tend to excuse their own behavior that way.
If it can be believed, the higher the education, the less moral they are. And it's odd they haven't included Middle Eastern, Asian and I bet their 'black women' are African American not African 1st generation as you might get different results from them...
Wow I didn't even notice that. The "American Perspectives Survey" asked 5,049 people and there's no Asian category? Not even an "Other". I'm actually even more curious about that than this question.
Yeah noticed that, it's one of the things I credit Shoeonhead for is that she called out the hypocrisy of the light treatment of female pedos.
If you want to remove the protections women get, you'll need to take them out of the access to children as men need something to protect and unfortunately while children are the perfect focus for that, women control the access.
Male and female pedos are treated differently because men and women are different. There is absolutely a difference between a 120lbs female teacher getting fucked by an adolescent male student and a 90lbs adolescent female student getting fucked by an adult male teacher. Everyone intuitively knows this to be true. We only insist that these things are the same out of either 1) a misguided notion of “equality” or 2) a pointless attempt to illustrate hypocrisy.
A pedo is a pedo, each found guilty beyond doubt in a court of law should face a long drop and a quick stop, period.
Unless you're talking about literal rape I don't know what their weight has to do with it, but it should be more about keeping pedos, hebes, furries, trannies, groomers, and other sickos out of the classroom than considering how the victim "feels" about it or whether or not they are really a victim. Obviously it depends on the age-gap but there's something wrong in the head about a woman who has sex with her underage student - even if it's intuitively different to you or anyone.
So I agree with you that's one reason for different treatment, but don't agree that disagreeing is misguided or pointless.
“All men” are more accepting of this than “all women” - your claim and suggested explanation falls flat on its face
Never marry a woman with a degree.
Why are men being more harshly judged for having an affair?
Why do black women treat men and women equally?
Are black women more fair and logical?
The stat for black women is most surprising. For everyone else there's at least a 8% difference. I wonder why they're so equal in their treatment of marital infidelity.
Higher degree of experience probably. Call me racist and sexist but when a White lady complains that they've been cheated on I immediately imagine Chad dumping them in highschool and leaving her all alone with only 6 gorillion orbiter male shoulders to cry on. Looking at where her future led her: the woman is doing fine, always has been fine, has never experienced one void of basic needs support in her entire life.
When black ladies complain about infidelity I immediately imagine a life ruined. Whatever globohomo assisted doctor-lawyer-supergirl future the system told her she'd have melts away and she is genuinely alone in regard to her family's ability to support her, or support from fawning betas, and with a child whose absent father she hates, turning instantly to the govt for income, her only actionable path toward a pay raise being to have more children without picking up a household income, making kids into business, looking at laws about childcare the way a business looks at regulatory expenses (work around to the reg as egregiously as possible to keep expense low until pinned by new regs), generally perpetuating the cycle as much and as intensely as possible. Wallah, a person enslaved as a demo-finance war tool.
I have actually seen women's lives follow these stereotypes like that, enough to impress on me. Whites in the west are enslaved in our way too, but that is a struggle. The way our families are, in particular, makes the culture war possible. We are not insulated from the exploitation/destitution game by "systemic racism", the system HAAAAATES us, but via our owm cultural inheritance and the way we set up and operate our lives. I would describe it as "White exceptionalism" but explicitly in the context of every race enjoying our own forms of racial exceptionalism, meaning different things for each. Exception like distinction, being that the sum effect of differences between us results in collective traits that, in the context of another group's collective traits, constitutes an exception.
Haters describe it as "White supremacy", which is basically a weaponized compliment of high order, since it suggests that the ways in which the White race are exceptional are "supreme" or literally "the best". I think this is stupid, not I'm not racist who likes his own race's stuff, but because that is (1) literally a fuckin opinion, logically putting "White supremacist' in the same insult-tier as stuff like "nintenfag", (2) influenced overwhelmingly by my race, which I did not choose, and (3) jews do this better than us and if you confront a defender on the relevant metrics they will produce the same argument I just did one paragraph up ^.