Every cock carousel rider regrets it in the end. How they cope with that regret defines the rest of their life.
Women control access to sex. Men control access to committed relationships.
A man is successful when he manages to fuck women without commitment.
A woman is successful when she manages to convince men to commit to her without needing to rely on sex or the promise of sex to sell them.
Cock carousel riders are stupid women who think they are successful because they allow their holes to be used by hot men for sex, when those men have no interest in committing to them. By a male standard, this is success. By a female standard, it is not.
unyoking sex from consequences has primarily benefited men.
Not all men - Chads. Only maybe 5-10% of the "top" men actually benefit from cock carousel riders. The whole point of the cock carousel is that the women is getting faux status: "I fucked a high value male, therefore that means I am high value." Hahahahah. No. Would any man who paid a model $5000 for sex think he was a high value man because she took his money? Of course not, because men have common sense. Cock carousel riders are similar to men who pay whores, if the men were dumb enough to think that the whores truly loved them.
But if I’m honest with myself, of the dozens of men I’ve been with (at least the ones I remember), I can only think of a handful I don’t regret. The rest I would put in the category of “casual,” which I would define as sex that is either meaningless or mediocre (or both). If I get really honest with myself, I’d say most of these usually drunken encounters left me feeling empty and demoralized. And worthless.
I know regretting most of my sexual encounters is not something a sex-positive feminist who used to write a column for Playboy is supposed to admit. And for years, I didn’t. Let me be clear, being a “slut” and sleeping with a lot of men is not the only behavior I regret. Even more damaging was what I told myself in order to justify the fact that I was disposable to these men: I told myself I didn’t care. I didn’t care when a man ghosted me. I didn’t care when he left in the middle of the night or hinted that he wanted me to leave. The walks of shame. The blackouts. The anxiety. The lie I told myself for decades was: I’m not in pain—I’m empowered.
The Culture was right there to pick me up and dust me off. I doubled down on being a proud slut and internalized the biggest and most damaging lie: that loveless sex is empowering. I basked in the girl-power glow of that delusion for decades, weaponizing my sexuality while convincing myself I was full of the divine feminine.
You shouldn’t have to withhold sex for a man to respect you;
LOL. I've had many women try this move on me. Sometimes I humored them so I could close the deal and fuck them, but NEVER, not once, did I respect them. In fact, I quickly learned that this is a "slut defense" that virtuous women don't have, only genuine sluts, so when I'd see this, I'd actually lose respect.
I regret being a slut. I regret it because I regret that those men can say they slept with me.
The entirety of the feminist worldview (and identity politics as a whole) is predicated on ignoring the vast majority of men who don't have this guilded "given whatever they want" lifestyle.
Feminism only makes sense if you forget a vast majority of men exist and that every person on the planet (except 1) has gynocentric tendencies.
The trope is even older. The Eagles talked about this in Those Shoes.
You just want someone to talk to
They just wanna to get their hands on you
You get whatever you choose
Oh, no you can't do that
Once you started wearin' those shoes
So how dumb does a woman have to be to do a thing that made her feel "empty and demoralized. And worthless." DOZENS OF TIMES without learning her lesson? lol. Did I ever tell you what the definition of insanity is?
This is actually common for everyone, regardless of gender.
How many people drink heavily, watch porn or do hard drugs and regret it soon after, yet continue to do it their entire lives?
Human beings are weak. If something gives them short term pleasure, they'll create an excuse to do it even if it hurts them in the long term. Then they'll justify it after-the-fact and pretend like it's not a problem.
People like getting drunk and porn, though. People only regret taking it too far, maybe. The vast majority of people who consume alcohol and watch porn have 0 issues or regrets.
The fact that you spread your legs for men who use you as a wet hole and make you feel worthless after is a totally different problem.
The vast majority of people who consume alcohol and watch porn have 0 issues or regrets.
Do you have anything to back that up?
There are entire communities of people who disavow porn or alcohol because they hate what it does to them, and there is plenty of evidence of its negative effects on people… many of who unfortunately don’t recognize the negative impact until much later in their life like this woman.
The fact that you spread your legs for men who use you as a wet hole and make you feel worthless after is a totally different problem.
Not really. It’s regret for living a destructive lifestyle because you enjoyed it at the time.
Anecdotally, I know plenty of examples of people having similar experiences after living a lifestyle indulging in sex, porn, alcohol, drugs and even videogames. It’s actually quite a common tale.
There is nothing wrong with moderate alcohol consumption & porn. You seem to be one of those people who thinks porn is bad, but people who have been saying "porn bad" have been 100% wrong in all their predictions about all the evils porn would bring to society. As porn grew and grew, crime rates went down.
Being a slut is a big difference. It's a refutation of the reality of what it means to be a woman. It is spitting in the face of female virtue in order to allow herself to be used essentially as a free prostitute.
It’s regret for living a destructive lifestyle because you enjoyed it at the time.
She didn't enjoy it "at the time" though. She felt really shitty about herself throughout. Normally, we learn lessons from this. Like if you eat contaminated food, even if it "tasted good" and you spend the next day vomiting, you learn "okay I shouldn't do that again" and so the next time you see that contaminated food, you remember the consequences and you don't eat it.
It's one thing if you are a slow learner and it takes multiple times, but it's a totally different thing to not learn it for dozens and dozens of times. That isn't slow learning anymore, it is an ideological destruction of your capacity to learn. It's how feminism destroyed her common sense.
You seem to be one of those people who thinks porn is bad, but people who have been saying "porn bad" have been 100% wrong in all their predictions about all the evils porn would bring to society.
They’ve been 100% wrong? Have you been paying attention to the state of our society lately? Things are far from okay, and sexual degeneracy is at the forefront of our problems.
Hate to break it to you, but porn is not good for you. It destroys your drive, harms your relationships and desensitizes you to perversion and degeneracy. It’s a large reason why our society started down the slippery slope in the first place.
Even if you disagree about the slippery slope (and you’d be wrong), many of the negative effects of porn are well documented at this point. You’re fooling yourself if you think it’s harmless. You’d be wise to heed the warning.
She didn't enjoy it "at the time" though. She felt really shitty about herself throughout.
You don’t seem to understand how these things work. You do something for the dopamine hit or the buzz or the high — usually as a way to escape from your unfulfilling life — but when you come back to earth you’re even more miserable than before. The shame, the guilt, the bite of your conscience, the emptiness of your life… you brush it off and pretend it’s fine but you just end up repeating the cycle. You literally hate what you do but you keep doing it because it gives you that temporary hit.
And keep in mind this dire state is usually only realized years after making the same mistake over and over, never realizing why they’re so miserable in the first place. This is why many people don’t change their until they’re well into their 30’s or later, if ever.
Everything you’re describing is typical for people in this situation.
There are well-known male pickup artists who can attest to the fact that this applies to men as well as women.
Every woman should feel this way: Sleeping with me is a privilege. And you have to be worthy.
The usual; ignored the wisdom of her elders, rode the carousel, hit the wall, found a beta to settle down with, will convince herself that she’s happy when the truth is she has totally destroyed her ability to pair bond and will eventually divorce her current husband.
I'm far from an expert on relationships, but I would imagine it's like having your favorite food every day for the rest of your life.
Sure, the first week is awesome. But the 50th week? The 500th? Eventually your taste buds are dulled to the sensation of steak/pizza/whateverthefuckveganseat.
Those first few relationships you have are like that. Once you have too many of them, they aren't special anymore, and if the relationship isn't special, the partner isn't either, and there goes the ability to connect and be intimate with them.
Female orgasm produces the hormone oxytocin in the brain, creating feelings of love and attachment for her partner. Hormones work like drugs and alcohol. If you take too much of them over time your body develops a tolerance and they have less effect.
I've watched the Death Cult wreck the minds of several women I cared about, and I have had to cut them out of my life for the simple fact that watching them collapse into little piles of self hate and addiction was too hard.
Or maybe you’re a trans or nonbinary person reading this, thinking “What quaint ideas about gender and sex this old trad con has.” And to that I’ll say, it makes sense to me that the generation of young women who have experienced and borne witness to some of the worst side-effects of unyoking sex from consequence and love that Perry meticulously outlines in her book, “rough sex, hook-up culture, and ubiquitous porn”—would take a look around and decide:
I’d rather be a man. Or more accurately, I’d rather not be a woman.
I had a similar thought earlier this year. Aside from the typical female myopia regarding male disposability, the explosion in female trannies and trenders, specifically the she/they types, is definitely a direct, if long-term result of the sexual revolution.
In the old days, young girls would be brought up surrounded by female and feminine authority figures, and would be taught how to be women all throughout their childhood and adolescence. They would be given auxiliary child-rearing responsibilities and constantly see healthy male-female dynamics from the sidelines as they worked with their older female family members. The result was, they'd grow up knowing how to handle themselves around men, having confidence in their own femininity, and (a subject mostly left out of this essay) comfortable around children and the reality of reproduction.
These days, a young girl is thrown into mixed-sex environments from the time she's 6, and expected to navigate it through puberty. She has almost no interaction with healthy adult women, but she is subordinate to the large number female adult-children who run their schools. She has to get a handle on her sexuality in a highly sexually-competitive environment, with no outside moderation.
And that's without going into where boys and men are supposed to play into this, cause that's another essay in itself.
Of course they don't want to be women. They're afraid of being women, because they never learned how. There's only so much instinct you can fall back on. You can live as an adult female in the barest sense, hopping from dick to dick like a horny monkey, or you can be an immature androphobe who masturbates to grody lesbian smut or children's cartoons while yelling about anime cleavage, but both are failures as women, so why be women at all?
A lifetime of allowing myself to be the other woman, taken for granted or treated like a doormat under the false pretense of being “empowered” came to a head one night with the arrival of a text message from an on-again, off-again lover.
“Goodnight baby I love you,” it said. Quickly followed by, “Wrong person.”
The shame and guilt I grew up with regarding sex felt oppressive. I resented the double standard that men could be promiscuous and it would raise their status and a woman would be slut-shamed for similar behavior. My burgeoning sexuality would unfold as a reaction to these repressive religious orthodoxies, old school notions of sexual status, and trauma.
Mistake #1, disregarding the wisdom of your elders, their religion and the traditions they had cultivated over millennia as uncool.
I lost my virginity at 17 to my boss at a restaurant where I worked. And a year later, I experienced my first sexual trauma. I felt damaged and dirty and I blamed myself. Everyone responds differently to these situations—I dealt with the overwhelming shame by becoming hyper-sexual and promiscuous. The Culture was right there to pick me up and dust me off. I doubled down on being a proud slut and internalized the biggest and most damaging lie: that loveless sex is empowering. I basked in the girl-power glow of that delusion for decades, weaponizing my sexuality while convincing myself I was full of the divine feminine.
Mistake #2. But it's OK I guess, the important thing is that you acknowledge it was a mistake and have now committed to not doing more of it, yeah? Nobody respects whores, not even themselves, and you Mrs. Phetasy have at least managed sufficient honesty and self-awareness to realize this truth, though it has clearly taken much longer for you than it would have any man. That's OK too though, unlike far too much of modern society (whose flaws you yourself are only barely beginning to become aware of) I acknowledge the fundamental differences between the sexes, including how one's a slower learner than the other.
Another set of lies built on lies built on trauma. Sex isn’t just about power—it’s also about intimacy and vulnerability and trust. Things I wanted nothing to do with. Because implicit in modern dating is a complete lack of expectations –– especially those of chivalry. Whenever a man wanted to pick up the tab or pull out the chair or open the door or pick me up or take me to dinner or see me during the day or wait longer than the first date to have sex, I was shocked and suspicious of them. Was he a serial killer?
This is what happens when you take the mantras invented by subversive bitches like Betty Friedan and psychotic basketcases like Andrea Dworkin, people who would rightly have been burned at the stake or shunted out of society & left to die in a sewer at best in ages past respectively, as gospel.
I’m not suggesting we return to some Victorian era notion of sex or some 1950s era ideal about gender roles.
And there's Mistake #3, the one society cannot make if we are to recover from the Sexual Revolution and its disastrous consequences. The only true way forward out of this mess is backward, and the Taliban are showing just how it can be done if their rapid and little-talked-about purge of degeneracy from Kabul is any indicator.
I’m now 43-years-old and I’m in the first truly healthy, intimate relationship in my life with my (second) husband. We recently had a daughter.
I struggle to find the words to express my sorrow for both the husband and the daughter. They deserved better than this washed-up harlot, who even now strives to remain willfully blind to the solutions to her problems and the society which destroyed whatever potential she might have had as a wife and mother.
Sex can be empowering when you’re coming from a position of healthy self-esteem. If you’re coming from a place of trauma or insecurity, casual sex won’t heal that. In fact, it might set you back and undermine any progress regarding your feelings of self-worth. If you know your value, you’re less likely to sleep with someone who doesn’t value you. Cherish yourself and you will be cherished. You shouldn’t have to withhold sex for a man to respect you; he should respect you regardless. Sexual empowerment has nothing to do with how many people you do or don’t sleep with—it has to do with how comfortable you are in your skin—no matter your decision. It’s not about waiting until you’re in love to have sex; it’s about making sure that first, you love yourself.
I regret being a slut. I regret it because I regret that those men can say they slept with me. Still, that’s how I know I finally value myself. Every woman should feel this way: Sleeping with me is a privilege. And you have to be worthy.
More fatal mistakes. But I guess it would be too much to ask a woman, especially a whore such as this, to take responsibility for their failings - even just acknowledging them as Mrs. Phetasy has just done must have taken a truly Herculean (Amazonian?) effort. I look forward to hearing about the divorce and how much your daughter hates you in 15-20 years' time.
Sex can be empowering when you’re coming from a position of healthy self-esteem.
According to whom? According to the people who lied to you your entire life? The Culture? This premise is false from the start. You state yourself you wasted your entire life having "empowering" sex and it was a mistake. Maybe empowerment isn't a net good?
he should respect you regardless
Why? Especially when it seems it's not reciprocated. Again this premise is flawed because you don't encourage young women to respect men, you just want men to respect women for existing.
This is the comedian that claims she's an enlightened centrist "comedian" that makes fun of both sides.
Women always realize they lose much of their worth after their 30s and they always realize it too late. You're no longer an attractive face.
There's a few that figure it out before their looks fade (looks like Brittany Venti figured it out) but many don't, and they only regret it once they're post-wall. They then go one of two paths:
Realize they fucked up and accept the fact they fucked up and it was their fault they fell for the lies of "female liberation". They often shift to being pro-men and/or more conservative/anti-feminist.
Double down on their ideology, saying it was the world's fault for misleading them and that ultimately women are disadvantaged because of this and men are the culprit and yadda yadda yadda.
Predictably, considering she was a "centrist" it means she'd be more susceptible to go down #2, and she did.
God damn she's ugly and post-wall. I guess she's only famous for being on JRE and other than that is just some obscure podcaster.
Every cock carousel rider regrets it in the end. How they cope with that regret defines the rest of their life.
Women control access to sex. Men control access to committed relationships.
A man is successful when he manages to fuck women without commitment.
A woman is successful when she manages to convince men to commit to her without needing to rely on sex or the promise of sex to sell them.
Cock carousel riders are stupid women who think they are successful because they allow their holes to be used by hot men for sex, when those men have no interest in committing to them. By a male standard, this is success. By a female standard, it is not.
Not all men - Chads. Only maybe 5-10% of the "top" men actually benefit from cock carousel riders. The whole point of the cock carousel is that the women is getting faux status: "I fucked a high value male, therefore that means I am high value." Hahahahah. No. Would any man who paid a model $5000 for sex think he was a high value man because she took his money? Of course not, because men have common sense. Cock carousel riders are similar to men who pay whores, if the men were dumb enough to think that the whores truly loved them.
So how dumb does a woman have to be to do a thing that made her feel "empty and demoralized. And worthless." DOZENS OF TIMES without learning her lesson? lol. Did I ever tell you what the definition of insanity is?
Feminism turned women into whores, and people wonder why many men love feminism so much? Why men LARP being libtards to get pussy?
LOL. I've had many women try this move on me. Sometimes I humored them so I could close the deal and fuck them, but NEVER, not once, did I respect them. In fact, I quickly learned that this is a "slut defense" that virtuous women don't have, only genuine sluts, so when I'd see this, I'd actually lose respect.
This is not the flex she thinks it is. LOL.
I see that you are well versed in the red pill.
This reminds me of the writings of Rollo Tomasi and other manosphere writers.
In all seriousness, this is a very accurate analysis of the current messed up state of modern women.
There is a lot of sub-8 men invisibility going on. Also some latent hatred for men
The entirety of the feminist worldview (and identity politics as a whole) is predicated on ignoring the vast majority of men who don't have this guilded "given whatever they want" lifestyle.
Feminism only makes sense if you forget a vast majority of men exist and that every person on the planet (except 1) has gynocentric tendencies.
The trope is even older. The Eagles talked about this in Those Shoes.
This is actually common for everyone, regardless of gender.
How many people drink heavily, watch porn or do hard drugs and regret it soon after, yet continue to do it their entire lives?
Human beings are weak. If something gives them short term pleasure, they'll create an excuse to do it even if it hurts them in the long term. Then they'll justify it after-the-fact and pretend like it's not a problem.
People like getting drunk and porn, though. People only regret taking it too far, maybe. The vast majority of people who consume alcohol and watch porn have 0 issues or regrets.
The fact that you spread your legs for men who use you as a wet hole and make you feel worthless after is a totally different problem.
Yes, and people also like having sex.
Do you have anything to back that up?
There are entire communities of people who disavow porn or alcohol because they hate what it does to them, and there is plenty of evidence of its negative effects on people… many of who unfortunately don’t recognize the negative impact until much later in their life like this woman.
Not really. It’s regret for living a destructive lifestyle because you enjoyed it at the time.
Anecdotally, I know plenty of examples of people having similar experiences after living a lifestyle indulging in sex, porn, alcohol, drugs and even videogames. It’s actually quite a common tale.
There is nothing wrong with moderate alcohol consumption & porn. You seem to be one of those people who thinks porn is bad, but people who have been saying "porn bad" have been 100% wrong in all their predictions about all the evils porn would bring to society. As porn grew and grew, crime rates went down.
Being a slut is a big difference. It's a refutation of the reality of what it means to be a woman. It is spitting in the face of female virtue in order to allow herself to be used essentially as a free prostitute.
She didn't enjoy it "at the time" though. She felt really shitty about herself throughout. Normally, we learn lessons from this. Like if you eat contaminated food, even if it "tasted good" and you spend the next day vomiting, you learn "okay I shouldn't do that again" and so the next time you see that contaminated food, you remember the consequences and you don't eat it.
It's one thing if you are a slow learner and it takes multiple times, but it's a totally different thing to not learn it for dozens and dozens of times. That isn't slow learning anymore, it is an ideological destruction of your capacity to learn. It's how feminism destroyed her common sense.
They’ve been 100% wrong? Have you been paying attention to the state of our society lately? Things are far from okay, and sexual degeneracy is at the forefront of our problems.
Hate to break it to you, but porn is not good for you. It destroys your drive, harms your relationships and desensitizes you to perversion and degeneracy. It’s a large reason why our society started down the slippery slope in the first place.
Even if you disagree about the slippery slope (and you’d be wrong), many of the negative effects of porn are well documented at this point. You’re fooling yourself if you think it’s harmless. You’d be wise to heed the warning.
You don’t seem to understand how these things work. You do something for the dopamine hit or the buzz or the high — usually as a way to escape from your unfulfilling life — but when you come back to earth you’re even more miserable than before. The shame, the guilt, the bite of your conscience, the emptiness of your life… you brush it off and pretend it’s fine but you just end up repeating the cycle. You literally hate what you do but you keep doing it because it gives you that temporary hit.
And keep in mind this dire state is usually only realized years after making the same mistake over and over, never realizing why they’re so miserable in the first place. This is why many people don’t change their until they’re well into their 30’s or later, if ever.
Everything you’re describing is typical for people in this situation.
There are well-known male pickup artists who can attest to the fact that this applies to men as well as women.
A virtuous woman would do that though, until marriage.
Virtuous women do not wait until marriage in modern times. They wait until they are sure the guy is interested in a serious relationship, though.
They're not virtuous then.
The usual; ignored the wisdom of her elders, rode the carousel, hit the wall, found a beta to settle down with, will convince herself that she’s happy when the truth is she has totally destroyed her ability to pair bond and will eventually divorce her current husband.
Serious question: How does that kill pair-bonding?
Not defending what she did, I just want details, like the effects it has on the brain.
I'm far from an expert on relationships, but I would imagine it's like having your favorite food every day for the rest of your life.
Sure, the first week is awesome. But the 50th week? The 500th? Eventually your taste buds are dulled to the sensation of steak/pizza/whateverthefuckveganseat.
Those first few relationships you have are like that. Once you have too many of them, they aren't special anymore, and if the relationship isn't special, the partner isn't either, and there goes the ability to connect and be intimate with them.
Female orgasm produces the hormone oxytocin in the brain, creating feelings of love and attachment for her partner. Hormones work like drugs and alcohol. If you take too much of them over time your body develops a tolerance and they have less effect.
A woman becoming trad in her 30s is basically a deathbed conversion.
But she's not even becoming trad. She's blaming men for her retardation.
Yes, it is a very depressing read.
Imagine how many girls each year will make these same mistakes and then come to regret it decades later.
I am glad that I have never simped for any woman.
The sexual revolution has helped utterly destroy gender relations.
I've watched the Death Cult wreck the minds of several women I cared about, and I have had to cut them out of my life for the simple fact that watching them collapse into little piles of self hate and addiction was too hard.
I had a similar thought earlier this year. Aside from the typical female myopia regarding male disposability, the explosion in female trannies and trenders, specifically the she/they types, is definitely a direct, if long-term result of the sexual revolution.
In the old days, young girls would be brought up surrounded by female and feminine authority figures, and would be taught how to be women all throughout their childhood and adolescence. They would be given auxiliary child-rearing responsibilities and constantly see healthy male-female dynamics from the sidelines as they worked with their older female family members. The result was, they'd grow up knowing how to handle themselves around men, having confidence in their own femininity, and (a subject mostly left out of this essay) comfortable around children and the reality of reproduction.
These days, a young girl is thrown into mixed-sex environments from the time she's 6, and expected to navigate it through puberty. She has almost no interaction with healthy adult women, but she is subordinate to the large number female adult-children who run their schools. She has to get a handle on her sexuality in a highly sexually-competitive environment, with no outside moderation.
And that's without going into where boys and men are supposed to play into this, cause that's another essay in itself.
Of course they don't want to be women. They're afraid of being women, because they never learned how. There's only so much instinct you can fall back on. You can live as an adult female in the barest sense, hopping from dick to dick like a horny monkey, or you can be an immature androphobe who masturbates to grody lesbian smut or children's cartoons while yelling about anime cleavage, but both are failures as women, so why be women at all?
No refunds.
Absolute Chad move.
Talk about a buzzer-beater pregnancy. I'd be shocked if the kid doesn't have any "last egg in the carton" issues.
Mistake #1, disregarding the wisdom of your elders, their religion and the traditions they had cultivated over millennia as uncool.
Mistake #2. But it's OK I guess, the important thing is that you acknowledge it was a mistake and have now committed to not doing more of it, yeah? Nobody respects whores, not even themselves, and you Mrs. Phetasy have at least managed sufficient honesty and self-awareness to realize this truth, though it has clearly taken much longer for you than it would have any man. That's OK too though, unlike far too much of modern society (whose flaws you yourself are only barely beginning to become aware of) I acknowledge the fundamental differences between the sexes, including how one's a slower learner than the other.
This is what happens when you take the mantras invented by subversive bitches like Betty Friedan and psychotic basketcases like Andrea Dworkin, people who would rightly have been burned at the stake or shunted out of society & left to die in a sewer at best in ages past respectively, as gospel.
And there's Mistake #3, the one society cannot make if we are to recover from the Sexual Revolution and its disastrous consequences. The only true way forward out of this mess is backward, and the Taliban are showing just how it can be done if their rapid and little-talked-about purge of degeneracy from Kabul is any indicator.
I struggle to find the words to express my sorrow for both the husband and the daughter. They deserved better than this washed-up harlot, who even now strives to remain willfully blind to the solutions to her problems and the society which destroyed whatever potential she might have had as a wife and mother.
More fatal mistakes. But I guess it would be too much to ask a woman, especially a whore such as this, to take responsibility for their failings - even just acknowledging them as Mrs. Phetasy has just done must have taken a truly Herculean (Amazonian?) effort. I look forward to hearing about the divorce and how much your daughter hates you in 15-20 years' time.
According to whom? According to the people who lied to you your entire life? The Culture? This premise is false from the start. You state yourself you wasted your entire life having "empowering" sex and it was a mistake. Maybe empowerment isn't a net good?
Why? Especially when it seems it's not reciprocated. Again this premise is flawed because you don't encourage young women to respect men, you just want men to respect women for existing.
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This is the comedian that claims she's an enlightened centrist "comedian" that makes fun of both sides.
Women always realize they lose much of their worth after their 30s and they always realize it too late. You're no longer an attractive face.
There's a few that figure it out before their looks fade (looks like Brittany Venti figured it out) but many don't, and they only regret it once they're post-wall. They then go one of two paths:
Realize they fucked up and accept the fact they fucked up and it was their fault they fell for the lies of "female liberation". They often shift to being pro-men and/or more conservative/anti-feminist.
Double down on their ideology, saying it was the world's fault for misleading them and that ultimately women are disadvantaged because of this and men are the culprit and yadda yadda yadda.
Predictably, considering she was a "centrist" it means she'd be more susceptible to go down #2, and she did.