You seem to be one of those people who thinks porn is bad, but people who have been saying "porn bad" have been 100% wrong in all their predictions about all the evils porn would bring to society.
They’ve been 100% wrong? Have you been paying attention to the state of our society lately? Things are far from okay, and sexual degeneracy is at the forefront of our problems.
Hate to break it to you, but porn is not good for you. It destroys your drive, harms your relationships and desensitizes you to perversion and degeneracy. It’s a large reason why our society started down the slippery slope in the first place.
Even if you disagree about the slippery slope (and you’d be wrong), many of the negative effects of porn are well documented at this point. You’re fooling yourself if you think it’s harmless. You’d be wise to heed the warning.
She didn't enjoy it "at the time" though. She felt really shitty about herself throughout.
You don’t seem to understand how these things work. You do something for the dopamine hit or the buzz or the high — usually as a way to escape from your unfulfilling life — but when you come back to earth you’re even more miserable than before. The shame, the guilt, the bite of your conscience, the emptiness of your life… you brush it off and pretend it’s fine but you just end up repeating the cycle. You literally hate what you do but you keep doing it because it gives you that temporary hit.
And keep in mind this dire state is usually only realized years after making the same mistake over and over, never realizing why they’re so miserable in the first place. This is why many people don’t change their until they’re well into their 30’s or later, if ever.
Everything you’re describing is typical for people in this situation.
There are well-known male pickup artists who can attest to the fact that this applies to men as well as women.
They’ve been 100% wrong? Have you been paying attention to the state of our society lately? Things are far from okay, and sexual degeneracy is at the forefront of our problems.
Hate to break it to you, but porn is not good for you. It destroys your drive, harms your relationships and desensitizes you to perversion and degeneracy. It’s a large reason why our society started down the slippery slope in the first place.
Even if you disagree about the slippery slope (and you’d be wrong), many of the negative effects of porn are well documented at this point. You’re fooling yourself if you think it’s harmless. You’d be wise to heed the warning.
You don’t seem to understand how these things work. You do something for the dopamine hit or the buzz or the high — usually as a way to escape from your unfulfilling life — but when you come back to earth you’re even more miserable than before. The shame, the guilt, the bite of your conscience, the emptiness of your life… you brush it off and pretend it’s fine but you just end up repeating the cycle. You literally hate what you do but you keep doing it because it gives you that temporary hit.
And keep in mind this dire state is usually only realized years after making the same mistake over and over, never realizing why they’re so miserable in the first place. This is why many people don’t change their until they’re well into their 30’s or later, if ever.
Everything you’re describing is typical for people in this situation.
There are well-known male pickup artists who can attest to the fact that this applies to men as well as women.