Every cock carousel rider regrets it in the end. How they cope with that regret defines the rest of their life.
Women control access to sex. Men control access to committed relationships.
A man is successful when he manages to fuck women without commitment.
A woman is successful when she manages to convince men to commit to her without needing to rely on sex or the promise of sex to sell them.
Cock carousel riders are stupid women who think they are successful because they allow their holes to be used by hot men for sex, when those men have no interest in committing to them. By a male standard, this is success. By a female standard, it is not.
unyoking sex from consequences has primarily benefited men.
Not all men - Chads. Only maybe 5-10% of the "top" men actually benefit from cock carousel riders. The whole point of the cock carousel is that the women is getting faux status: "I fucked a high value male, therefore that means I am high value." Hahahahah. No. Would any man who paid a model $5000 for sex think he was a high value man because she took his money? Of course not, because men have common sense. Cock carousel riders are similar to men who pay whores, if the men were dumb enough to think that the whores truly loved them.
But if I’m honest with myself, of the dozens of men I’ve been with (at least the ones I remember), I can only think of a handful I don’t regret. The rest I would put in the category of “casual,” which I would define as sex that is either meaningless or mediocre (or both). If I get really honest with myself, I’d say most of these usually drunken encounters left me feeling empty and demoralized. And worthless.
I know regretting most of my sexual encounters is not something a sex-positive feminist who used to write a column for Playboy is supposed to admit. And for years, I didn’t. Let me be clear, being a “slut” and sleeping with a lot of men is not the only behavior I regret. Even more damaging was what I told myself in order to justify the fact that I was disposable to these men: I told myself I didn’t care. I didn’t care when a man ghosted me. I didn’t care when he left in the middle of the night or hinted that he wanted me to leave. The walks of shame. The blackouts. The anxiety. The lie I told myself for decades was: I’m not in pain—I’m empowered.
The Culture was right there to pick me up and dust me off. I doubled down on being a proud slut and internalized the biggest and most damaging lie: that loveless sex is empowering. I basked in the girl-power glow of that delusion for decades, weaponizing my sexuality while convincing myself I was full of the divine feminine.
You shouldn’t have to withhold sex for a man to respect you;
LOL. I've had many women try this move on me. Sometimes I humored them so I could close the deal and fuck them, but NEVER, not once, did I respect them. In fact, I quickly learned that this is a "slut defense" that virtuous women don't have, only genuine sluts, so when I'd see this, I'd actually lose respect.
I regret being a slut. I regret it because I regret that those men can say they slept with me.
The entirety of the feminist worldview (and identity politics as a whole) is predicated on ignoring the vast majority of men who don't have this guilded "given whatever they want" lifestyle.
Feminism only makes sense if you forget a vast majority of men exist and that every person on the planet (except 1) has gynocentric tendencies.
The trope is even older. The Eagles talked about this in Those Shoes.
You just want someone to talk to
They just wanna to get their hands on you
You get whatever you choose
Oh, no you can't do that
Once you started wearin' those shoes
So how dumb does a woman have to be to do a thing that made her feel "empty and demoralized. And worthless." DOZENS OF TIMES without learning her lesson? lol. Did I ever tell you what the definition of insanity is?
This is actually common for everyone, regardless of gender.
How many people drink heavily, watch porn or do hard drugs and regret it soon after, yet continue to do it their entire lives?
Human beings are weak. If something gives them short term pleasure, they'll create an excuse to do it even if it hurts them in the long term. Then they'll justify it after-the-fact and pretend like it's not a problem.
People like getting drunk and porn, though. People only regret taking it too far, maybe. The vast majority of people who consume alcohol and watch porn have 0 issues or regrets.
The fact that you spread your legs for men who use you as a wet hole and make you feel worthless after is a totally different problem.
The vast majority of people who consume alcohol and watch porn have 0 issues or regrets.
Do you have anything to back that up?
There are entire communities of people who disavow porn or alcohol because they hate what it does to them, and there is plenty of evidence of its negative effects on people… many of who unfortunately don’t recognize the negative impact until much later in their life like this woman.
The fact that you spread your legs for men who use you as a wet hole and make you feel worthless after is a totally different problem.
Not really. It’s regret for living a destructive lifestyle because you enjoyed it at the time.
Anecdotally, I know plenty of examples of people having similar experiences after living a lifestyle indulging in sex, porn, alcohol, drugs and even videogames. It’s actually quite a common tale.
There is nothing wrong with moderate alcohol consumption & porn. You seem to be one of those people who thinks porn is bad, but people who have been saying "porn bad" have been 100% wrong in all their predictions about all the evils porn would bring to society. As porn grew and grew, crime rates went down.
Being a slut is a big difference. It's a refutation of the reality of what it means to be a woman. It is spitting in the face of female virtue in order to allow herself to be used essentially as a free prostitute.
It’s regret for living a destructive lifestyle because you enjoyed it at the time.
She didn't enjoy it "at the time" though. She felt really shitty about herself throughout. Normally, we learn lessons from this. Like if you eat contaminated food, even if it "tasted good" and you spend the next day vomiting, you learn "okay I shouldn't do that again" and so the next time you see that contaminated food, you remember the consequences and you don't eat it.
It's one thing if you are a slow learner and it takes multiple times, but it's a totally different thing to not learn it for dozens and dozens of times. That isn't slow learning anymore, it is an ideological destruction of your capacity to learn. It's how feminism destroyed her common sense.
God damn she's ugly and post-wall. I guess she's only famous for being on JRE and other than that is just some obscure podcaster.
Every cock carousel rider regrets it in the end. How they cope with that regret defines the rest of their life.
Women control access to sex. Men control access to committed relationships.
A man is successful when he manages to fuck women without commitment.
A woman is successful when she manages to convince men to commit to her without needing to rely on sex or the promise of sex to sell them.
Cock carousel riders are stupid women who think they are successful because they allow their holes to be used by hot men for sex, when those men have no interest in committing to them. By a male standard, this is success. By a female standard, it is not.
Not all men - Chads. Only maybe 5-10% of the "top" men actually benefit from cock carousel riders. The whole point of the cock carousel is that the women is getting faux status: "I fucked a high value male, therefore that means I am high value." Hahahahah. No. Would any man who paid a model $5000 for sex think he was a high value man because she took his money? Of course not, because men have common sense. Cock carousel riders are similar to men who pay whores, if the men were dumb enough to think that the whores truly loved them.
So how dumb does a woman have to be to do a thing that made her feel "empty and demoralized. And worthless." DOZENS OF TIMES without learning her lesson? lol. Did I ever tell you what the definition of insanity is?
Feminism turned women into whores, and people wonder why many men love feminism so much? Why men LARP being libtards to get pussy?
LOL. I've had many women try this move on me. Sometimes I humored them so I could close the deal and fuck them, but NEVER, not once, did I respect them. In fact, I quickly learned that this is a "slut defense" that virtuous women don't have, only genuine sluts, so when I'd see this, I'd actually lose respect.
This is not the flex she thinks it is. LOL.
I see that you are well versed in the red pill.
This reminds me of the writings of Rollo Tomasi and other manosphere writers.
In all seriousness, this is a very accurate analysis of the current messed up state of modern women.
There is a lot of sub-8 men invisibility going on. Also some latent hatred for men
The entirety of the feminist worldview (and identity politics as a whole) is predicated on ignoring the vast majority of men who don't have this guilded "given whatever they want" lifestyle.
Feminism only makes sense if you forget a vast majority of men exist and that every person on the planet (except 1) has gynocentric tendencies.
The trope is even older. The Eagles talked about this in Those Shoes.
This is actually common for everyone, regardless of gender.
How many people drink heavily, watch porn or do hard drugs and regret it soon after, yet continue to do it their entire lives?
Human beings are weak. If something gives them short term pleasure, they'll create an excuse to do it even if it hurts them in the long term. Then they'll justify it after-the-fact and pretend like it's not a problem.
People like getting drunk and porn, though. People only regret taking it too far, maybe. The vast majority of people who consume alcohol and watch porn have 0 issues or regrets.
The fact that you spread your legs for men who use you as a wet hole and make you feel worthless after is a totally different problem.
Yes, and people also like having sex.
Do you have anything to back that up?
There are entire communities of people who disavow porn or alcohol because they hate what it does to them, and there is plenty of evidence of its negative effects on people… many of who unfortunately don’t recognize the negative impact until much later in their life like this woman.
Not really. It’s regret for living a destructive lifestyle because you enjoyed it at the time.
Anecdotally, I know plenty of examples of people having similar experiences after living a lifestyle indulging in sex, porn, alcohol, drugs and even videogames. It’s actually quite a common tale.
There is nothing wrong with moderate alcohol consumption & porn. You seem to be one of those people who thinks porn is bad, but people who have been saying "porn bad" have been 100% wrong in all their predictions about all the evils porn would bring to society. As porn grew and grew, crime rates went down.
Being a slut is a big difference. It's a refutation of the reality of what it means to be a woman. It is spitting in the face of female virtue in order to allow herself to be used essentially as a free prostitute.
She didn't enjoy it "at the time" though. She felt really shitty about herself throughout. Normally, we learn lessons from this. Like if you eat contaminated food, even if it "tasted good" and you spend the next day vomiting, you learn "okay I shouldn't do that again" and so the next time you see that contaminated food, you remember the consequences and you don't eat it.
It's one thing if you are a slow learner and it takes multiple times, but it's a totally different thing to not learn it for dozens and dozens of times. That isn't slow learning anymore, it is an ideological destruction of your capacity to learn. It's how feminism destroyed her common sense.
A virtuous woman would do that though, until marriage.
Virtuous women do not wait until marriage in modern times. They wait until they are sure the guy is interested in a serious relationship, though.
They're not virtuous then.