A friend of mine is now married to a woman he dated for a bit late high-school (beginning of college) before she dumped him because she wanted to "have fun" while in college.
Last time I hung out with him and her she was very upfront about the fact she basically broke up with my friend to get fucked by as many dudes as she could before she decided to get back together with my friend.
It's as common as it gets. Women in their youth don't want "nice guys" for boyfriends. Women want to ride the cock carousel and then only want "nice guy" boyfriends after they get ugly and can't ride the Chad Cock Carousal as easily.
Alpha fucks. Beta bucks. Women fuck attractive men in their 20s while the women are hot then as the woman's 20s wind down they negotiate with an average looking beta dude for as many resources as they can. They typically aren't nearly as sexual though because the relationship for the woman is about getting money and time/effort/resources from the man for as little work (sex) as she has to do. She's not typically attracted sexually to this guy because she's attractive sexually to the men she fucked when she was younger and hotter but can no longer pickup easily enough.
And for the record, that's exactly my friend's situation. The girl who dumped him to fuck other men that he's now married to apparently "isn't a sexual person" and they have a dead bedroom. Meanwhile, he drives like a 20yo beater vehicle while his wife drives a brand new SUV because that's all he can afford while he slaves away making her SUV payments and his mortgage payments on the big house she convinced him to buy.
It's shocking how "don't listen to women" is just generally good advice. I wouldn't have figured that. Watching them, seeing them, understanding them, those are all good. But don't actually listen to them.
men are slowly weeding them out by giving them the silent treatment, which is funny given how that's normally a woman thing to do.
"Silent treatment" for women is a tactic of emotional manipulation employed against people that care about them (family members, friends, husbands) - it is used by the woman to show "how little she cares" about the target to hurt that person. What you're describing men doing is different - it's not to emotionally manipulate women, but rather just a matter of ignoring random people who aren't worthwhile interacting with. Don't conflate the two, they aren't the same thing.
I don't think this is so much a woman thing as it is a girl thing. And the universe that the feminism imposes on us is some kind of psychotic "Pretty Pink Princess" fantasy made by a 14 year old girl in her head.
What you're describing is "low time preference" which is institutionally conditioned into most people, by most intuitions, at this point. Women are still weak to that, and are more emotional, but that low time preference behavior is something all children have, and the intentional dependency and infantilization of society has made women remain girls for longer.
Disagree! Where I am, white women are judgemental and more towards non-whites. They also have white privilege, when more qualified people like myself can't get jobs.
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As for the rest of this shit show, it’s clear “she never had a bf” because she was more than likely a fucktoy for multiple guys. Simps gonna simp.
He's hesitating, and that's a somewhat positive sign. But he made the mistake of asking Reddit, so naturally they're gonna tell him to get involved with a ran through whore.
inb4 he finds out that she's a single mommy with 3 kids 2 different baby daddies, at least one of whom is black. This would most likely be whereareallthegoodmen material if there was more information about the woman, but it's on the Reddit dating sub, so naturally they ban any honest discussion about dating:
Soap-boxing will and has always included red/black-pill ideology and the subset of vocabulary that comes with it.
We can sympathize that dating is difficult and is even more difficult for people that might not be the prettiest. It's no secret to anyone.
They're admitting that the Manosphere is right when they say that dating success is almost entirely driven by looks, but they still ban discussion of it.
Anyway, onto the responses:
Imo, people shouldn’t have “rejection grudges”.
It's not about holding a grudge. It's about understanding the dating market and realizing that the answer he got when she had the most options was the honest one. She saw him as a low value man so she told him to fuck off so she could chase Chad. That didn't work out, so she's setting him up for a divorce rape so she can strip mine him for assets.
I do cause it says a lot when you get rejected. I would think she wants something.
Uh oh. Someone's dropping red pills. The tranny jannies have their knives out already.
Maybe she said no because she was focused on studying or just shy introvert.
HAHAHA no. They always have time for Chad and Tyrone. She just sees him as a beta.
A week later, out of curiosity I followed her on Instagram. She followed back right away. It’s funny cause in 2017, she never followed me back lol. I found out that at least since the day I asked her for her number in 2017, she has not had a bf, despite being an attractive girl. Now shes 28 and still single
Hoh boy, he really only considered that the attractive woman currently throwing herself at work acquaintances has been single from 22-28. Not even a hint of suspicion that her own personal blend of mental illnesses has driven her to stalin-purge every man that has ever dumped her from her social media. This boy is going to get chewed up and spat out if he doesn't wise up fast.
So I see some like 7/10 asian chick on a dating site. We talk. We never really meet up to date, though. She's just one of many plates I was spinning at the time.
She came across as very ambitious but had a shit job working sales at an insurance company or something. I wasn't that interested and she didn't seem to be either so I didn't care.
Months later she contacts me out of the blue with some total scam like I hit her car or something. I knew who it was bc I kept all thots saved in my phone with their basic stats so I could tell them apart. I was like "yeah I remember you and we never met lol wtf are you on about?"
I realized later that just because I was hitting her up, she immediately jumped into this mode thinking she could look down on me & try to grift me, like I'd be some limp dick simp or something. What a dumb bitch. lol
Like wtf did she think was going to happen? That I'd just immediately adopt her frame on some shit that never happened & just send her money on shit she very obviously made up? How high do you have to be to think that's a scam that would work? LOL.
But absolutely girls try to grift "nice guys". I had total skanks try to tell me they needed an abortion & try to get me to pay for it. I wasn't even a nice guy. Maybe they thought I looked nice? LOL.
Any girl who is attractive & stays single is either:
extremely crazy, and/or
thinks she deserves a 10/10 gigachad so she rejects everyone in her league then cock carousels for Chads who are all too good for her so they won't be her BF. This often leads to her becoming damaged goods, see #1, above.
Plan A didn't work out so now she's seeking plan B.
Increasingly with women who can afford to, they're not seeking beta bux any more. It's not widespread yet but it's started to become an observable pattern, women in their mid 30s not settling with a beta bux but getting the same financial support from others and having children alone with her social circle and family raising the child.
A friend of mine is now married to a woman he dated for a bit late high-school (beginning of college) before she dumped him because she wanted to "have fun" while in college.
Last time I hung out with him and her she was very upfront about the fact she basically broke up with my friend to get fucked by as many dudes as she could before she decided to get back together with my friend.
It's as common as it gets. Women in their youth don't want "nice guys" for boyfriends. Women want to ride the cock carousel and then only want "nice guy" boyfriends after they get ugly and can't ride the Chad Cock Carousal as easily.
Alpha fucks. Beta bucks. Women fuck attractive men in their 20s while the women are hot then as the woman's 20s wind down they negotiate with an average looking beta dude for as many resources as they can. They typically aren't nearly as sexual though because the relationship for the woman is about getting money and time/effort/resources from the man for as little work (sex) as she has to do. She's not typically attracted sexually to this guy because she's attractive sexually to the men she fucked when she was younger and hotter but can no longer pickup easily enough.
And for the record, that's exactly my friend's situation. The girl who dumped him to fuck other men that he's now married to apparently "isn't a sexual person" and they have a dead bedroom. Meanwhile, he drives like a 20yo beater vehicle while his wife drives a brand new SUV because that's all he can afford while he slaves away making her SUV payments and his mortgage payments on the big house she convinced him to buy.
She's probably still fucking other guys
She's definitely fucking other guys. Finding an alpha to fuck on the side is the very next step after they lock down the betabux.
And yet so many young women insist they want nice guys and get outraged if you suggest otherwise
Don't listen to what they say, watch what they do.
It's shocking how "don't listen to women" is just generally good advice. I wouldn't have figured that. Watching them, seeing them, understanding them, those are all good. But don't actually listen to them.
"Silent treatment" for women is a tactic of emotional manipulation employed against people that care about them (family members, friends, husbands) - it is used by the woman to show "how little she cares" about the target to hurt that person. What you're describing men doing is different - it's not to emotionally manipulate women, but rather just a matter of ignoring random people who aren't worthwhile interacting with. Don't conflate the two, they aren't the same thing.
I don't think this is so much a woman thing as it is a girl thing. And the universe that the feminism imposes on us is some kind of psychotic "Pretty Pink Princess" fantasy made by a 14 year old girl in her head.
What you're describing is "low time preference" which is institutionally conditioned into most people, by most intuitions, at this point. Women are still weak to that, and are more emotional, but that low time preference behavior is something all children have, and the intentional dependency and infantilization of society has made women remain girls for longer.
It’s even good advice for women seeing as the lie to themselves as much, if not more, as they do to men.
Ah, it isn't forever. She will have one kid and they will get divorced at about year seven.
He will get divorce-raped and make child support payments until the kid is 18.
After his most productive years are behind him and his kid hates him (because mom told them to) he can have his life back!
They have 1 kid and are working on a second kid. I think they'll stick it out for a bit. Maybe it ends around when the first kid turns 7.
The more kids she has the bigger the payday when she divorce rapes him. She's playing the long game and that's bad news for him.
Your friend is a retard. I hope he sees his situation for what it is.
He tells me he couldn't be happier as he is also telling me about the pocket pussy he bought because his wife doesn't ever want to have sex.
That's some strong ass copium.
It's the carfentanyl of copium. Copefentanyl?
He already married her. He's fucked even if he does wake up.
He could always leave for ice cream and never come back.
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As for the rest of this shit show, it’s clear “she never had a bf” because she was more than likely a fucktoy for multiple guys. Simps gonna simp.
He's hesitating, and that's a somewhat positive sign. But he made the mistake of asking Reddit, so naturally they're gonna tell him to get involved with a ran through whore.
Make sure to check out the account of the guy who posted that. The man is patheticness incarnate.
inb4 he finds out that she's a single mommy with 3 kids 2 different baby daddies, at least one of whom is black. This would most likely be whereareallthegoodmen material if there was more information about the woman, but it's on the Reddit dating sub, so naturally they ban any honest discussion about dating:
They're admitting that the Manosphere is right when they say that dating success is almost entirely driven by looks, but they still ban discussion of it.
Anyway, onto the responses:
It's not about holding a grudge. It's about understanding the dating market and realizing that the answer he got when she had the most options was the honest one. She saw him as a low value man so she told him to fuck off so she could chase Chad. That didn't work out, so she's setting him up for a divorce rape so she can strip mine him for assets.
Uh oh. Someone's dropping red pills. The tranny jannies have their knives out already.
HAHAHA no. They always have time for Chad and Tyrone. She just sees him as a beta.
Hoh boy, he really only considered that the attractive woman currently throwing herself at work acquaintances has been single from 22-28. Not even a hint of suspicion that her own personal blend of mental illnesses has driven her to stalin-purge every man that has ever dumped her from her social media. This boy is going to get chewed up and spat out if he doesn't wise up fast.
Reminds me of a random story.
So I see some like 7/10 asian chick on a dating site. We talk. We never really meet up to date, though. She's just one of many plates I was spinning at the time.
She came across as very ambitious but had a shit job working sales at an insurance company or something. I wasn't that interested and she didn't seem to be either so I didn't care.
Months later she contacts me out of the blue with some total scam like I hit her car or something. I knew who it was bc I kept all thots saved in my phone with their basic stats so I could tell them apart. I was like "yeah I remember you and we never met lol wtf are you on about?"
I realized later that just because I was hitting her up, she immediately jumped into this mode thinking she could look down on me & try to grift me, like I'd be some limp dick simp or something. What a dumb bitch. lol
Like wtf did she think was going to happen? That I'd just immediately adopt her frame on some shit that never happened & just send her money on shit she very obviously made up? How high do you have to be to think that's a scam that would work? LOL.
But absolutely girls try to grift "nice guys". I had total skanks try to tell me they needed an abortion & try to get me to pay for it. I wasn't even a nice guy. Maybe they thought I looked nice? LOL.
Any girl who is attractive & stays single is either:
extremely crazy, and/or
thinks she deserves a 10/10 gigachad so she rejects everyone in her league then cock carousels for Chads who are all too good for her so they won't be her BF. This often leads to her becoming damaged goods, see #1, above.
Every Reddit post is at least half a lie.
Imagine basing your world view on reddit posts.
A lot of people here do.
You don't say...
If you are trying to poke me, my views have been persona non-grata on reddit for many years, since before I ever adopted them.
I'm more referring to the concept of getting your opinions from internet echo-chambers.
I don't though. There are plenty of criticisms of my views here, and I read various outlets that disagree with them.
"Followed her on instagram" is a red flag, but everybody's got an instagram nowadays. They don't actually work on instagram.
Not enough information here to make a decision for me.
Plan A didn't work out so now she's seeking plan B.
Increasingly with women who can afford to, they're not seeking beta bux any more. It's not widespread yet but it's started to become an observable pattern, women in their mid 30s not settling with a beta bux but getting the same financial support from others and having children alone with her social circle and family raising the child.
“Soft rejection” = “Ewwww!”