If you didn't see my post about this a few months ago, here it is.
What happened after that incident is that the day after, mom said she had to go to New York because my stepdad needs surgery up there, so basically nothing happened, because i had to stay with my little brother for a month and take him to school, but mom and stepdad came back on the 15th, and they said nothing about the booster until a few days ago, after the news started pushing this Omicron or whatever bullshit variant this is. Right now, I'm not in a position to where i can do what i did and literally refuse to take the booster, because she wants to be in the doctor's office with me as they inject me, and I'm really fucking worried that I'm gonna get heart problems. i had to get vaxxed back in February, but now, I'm just really fucking worried. I'm gonna document things for the next two weeks and keep y'all posted, and hopefully nothing happens.
Just say no.
Hold to your standards or forever hold none.
You're not being forced. No one can force you. You're making a choice to obey.
You're a man and your mother is a little girl. Grow some balls and tell her off. You're in this situation because the respect between you two is gone. The only way for you to fix that is to act like a man.
Tell her you're not doing it, and how dare she try to force such a dangerous procedure on you? Get angry. Accuse her of loving the vaccine more than she loves you. Then leave on your own. Doesn't matter where you go, you can go sit in a McDonalds for the evening if you need to. So long as you leave on your terms and damage her Mother's Ego, you win.
Good advice. Although getting angry should come with a warning - don't get threatening. She might call the police on him.
Yeah, I wouldn't get angry until you need it. If it's vaxx or kicked out of the house, use the anger to drive you to find new accommodations and a new community.
Doing most of that, and have been doing most of that for a while to be honest. It's exhausting, because I thought this was over two months ago, but it's not. Right now she's getting ready to take me, and I'm just staying in my room, because last night was a long night, so i'm gonna nap and nap until she lets go of it.
EDIT: If it gets any worse, i'll reply with what
Like I said, you've gotta directly attack her Mother's Ego and leave.
Let her stew as her hamster wheel spins, and spins, and spins thinking about how she wants to help you and protect you and everything is so hard boohoo.
Just sitting in your room labels you as but a child in her mind. You need to be the one to initiate dialogue, create conflict, and control the outcome.
Which I will, as I literally just left the last time she tried. I forgot to save the studies showing the vaccine's weaknesses/problems, so if you could link some to me, that would help a ton.
Studies aren't going to do you any good.
You're in an emotional conflict, not a logical one. For every study you pull she'll pull another or, more likely, use herself as a source.
Yep, as she did get boosted that day when I said I'll walk home, and had a friend pick me up from KFC.
https://patriots.win/p/140J5zG5FC/x/c/4JIOPkymw6T
Not sure it'll help, but literally the Covidians can't argue with microscopy, and the microscopy -- from multiple studies and autopsies -- have shown the toxins that swim around in the clot shots.
Here is the link: https://archive.md/Pl7pH
As Killroy said, it probably won't help, but maybe if you can get her to read it it might change her mind. It literally goes through the microbiology of what the toxins do once they get into your bloodstream.
Not much else can be done beyond that.
As a matter of biology once you're over the age of 13-14, if you don't want to get in the car there's not going to be much your mom is going to be able to do to get you in that car. Even if she literally knocked you out she's probably going to lack the strength to drag your unconscious body to the car and get it in the door. And if your step-dad is recovering from surgery he's not going to be in any state to kick your ass.
Just don't do anything stupid that would give her cause to call the cops, because they absolutely will take her side.
As an adult you do not have to tolerate your mother in the exam room.
Literally just leave. Look up homeless shelters if you have to. If you're working full time, you should be able to rent a place until you figure out the next move. Start going to church if you aren't. Pray.
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Classic move!
Brutal, man. I know what I would do and that's tell her to fuck off. What's she really going to do? Physically drag you to the doctor? Call the cops?
Get out of that shit house where people don't support you making your own choices.
Show her the American Heart Association study. https://www.ahajournals.org/doi/10.1161/circ.144.suppl_1.10712
Show her Kyle Warner.
Show her athletes collapsing on the field.
She's trying to kill you. For fucks sake, fight.
edit: This too. https://twitter.com/C19Vax/status/1466246791205060613 The official literature even says it's russian roulette.
I was so sure this was going to end up being an F-Zero joke or something.
That brought back memories.
Fake it till you make it
Get a fake arm like that guy was doing in Russia or whatever
A fake arm? What?
Didn't work.
Guy in Italy tried it and the nurse caught him: https://abcnews.go.com/Weird/wireStory/italian-dentist-presents-fake-arm-vaccine-pass-81558716
Registered just to reply because I get you. You don't have options here.
Redman, the number one thing they found with blood clots and all the other systemic inflammation issues is that the root cause of that was that the person administering did not avoid major vessels. It's a process called aspiration.
Aspiration is when the provider puts the needle in, draws back on the syringe, and waits a moment to see if blood emerges into the syringe. If so, they start over at a new injection site. This is NOT standard practice in America.
In countries where aspiration is mandatory, they haven't had a single person turn up with clots.
Why?
When they deliver the medicine directly into a vein, or into an area overly dense with capillaries, it goes straight into the major circulatory systems. The chemicals in the vaccine cause thrombocytes(platelet) to detonate and shoot out their webby guts. The webby guts normally stop bleeding, and instead, make a blood clot. The bloodclots clog up places all over the body, causing those major problems you hear of.
Further, your immune system is fighting the immune training component of the shot all over your entire body, instead of just one area. This is a lot more taxing on your organs and nerves.
When the shot is delivered properly, into an area of muscle or fat where there isn't excessive access to veins and arteries, it is a localized inflammatory response and blood clots that form in a muscle will get broken down and dissolved safely.
If the administrator doesn't know what aspirating the shot is, you need to tell the provider to stop and tell your mother than you want them to get someone else to give you the shot because the original party isn't skilled enough to be allowed to.
Sadly, just about anyone who works for a drug store or grocery store pharmacy is being allowed to administer these things. :(
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D6hUoosMOuU
There is an elevated risk associated with getting the vaccine. That said, the booster is still very unlikely to harm you, especially if the initial shots didn't.
But that doesn't mean you should get it. If you are young and healthy and have a reasonably intact immune system, Covid poses no threat to you. Even if you got it, your symptoms would likely be so mild that the risk of transmitting would be very low. You don't pass on viruses just by breathing on people: you pass them on by coughing and sneezing and not washing your hands. If you're not doing any of those things, you're unlikely to be contagious.
If the only good reason for you to get the vaccine is because of what they're gonna do to you if you don't get the vaccine, then the decision you're making is not a medical decision.
What's important here is your right to decide what you put in your own body, and the question you have to honestly answer is: How much are you willing to give up before you surrender that right?
My biggest issue is money. I don't have enough money saved up to live by myself for more than 3 months, that's assuming i live either with friends or find a cheap apartment, but i'm trying. publix said they ran out and gotta get more, so time was bought for me for another two hours before i need to make a big decision.
Once again: you know what the risks are that are associated with your decision. If by choosing to retain your right to bodily autonomy and to make your own medical decisions, you are risking the possibility of homelessness, then you have to decide what is more important to you: your home, or your right to decide not to be injected with shit if you don't want to.
It's absolutely outrageous that anyone should be forced to make that decision, and it's not fair, but there it is. I honestly wouldn't judge you either way. It's not a call anyone else can make for you.
It's not, and I thought I had my mom too, as Publix asks on the immunization form which vaccine you want to take, and I'm due for my flu vax anyway, so I picked that and only that, and thought my mom wouldn't notice, and she didn't, until she went to get her reading glasses and saw it, so fuck.
The reason I got even more worried now is because the personal trainer i got at the gym (mainly to help me with dietary stuff) got me on protein and a multivitamin, and i'm (probably irrationally) thinking those are going to make me more likely to get myocarditis.
Bro, you're not a kid anymore. You're not doing yourself any favors by trying to avoid conflict through obfuscation. The one piece of solid advice that I will give you is that, whatever decision you make, take responsibility for it, and stand by it. Don't pretend you made a different choice. Men can't get away with that shit, and you won't have any self-respect left if you try.
Yeah. I'm too conflict-averse for my own good, but i'm slowly getting over that. I've resolved to actually try and reason with my mom using the myocarditis stats, but if that doesn't work, i will go scorched earth.
You do you but I'd live on the streets or in a violent homeless shelter before getting the shot.
Based on what? Show me the Phase III and Phase IV longitudinal studies with unequivocal peer reviewed control studies.