Redditors/leftists: "she has a stable relationship and an emotional stability to have a large healthy family REEEEEEEEEEE!"
I got nothing against this especially when all these kids look this happy together, rather have 8 kids all born in on family (which both parents must be units to keep up with) than one guy pump and dumping lots of single women.
rather have 8 kids all born in on family than one guy pump and dumping lots of single women
That sounds like an interesting comparison one could make to determine just how consistently crazy those redditors are. I bet many of them would fawn over posts about single mothers. Especially minorities or white women with black babies. Those cases seem way more common than giant nuclear families these days. Makes you wonder if it's really not overpopulation they're worried about at all...
They don't want large monogamous families because they are more likely to pass down traditions, help each other out to not be as reliant on the state and can be more emotionally stable since with those large families you end up with the older kids some times helping take care of younger siblings so have a concept early on of responsibility.
Forget single mothers, I bet these same redditors would fawn over a non-white family with that many kids regardless of parental marital status. They see a large amount of white children so they probably assume conservative parents,
and that's more than enough for them to get their double standards out.
The left wing mindset boils down to cognitive dissonance. They have to praise things that are objectively bad like single motherhood and denigrate things that are objectively good like a cohesive family unit.
Otherwise they would have to admit that some behaviors are better than others and certain demographics are more likely to engage in bad behavior.
Well yeah. Single mommies are entitled to a gigacuck that pays for her bad choices under the Clown World paradigm. And the gigacuck's reward is getting his life destroyed in family court. It's the ones who do things correctly that get a "you made your bed so now get fucked in it" response from the left.
See, my only issue with someone choosing to have a large family is whether or not it's sustainable (emotionally, financially, etc etc). That's of course going to vary on a case by case scenario, and it's just a slight concern of mine, personally.
I'm generally not the kind of person who feels like it's my place to tell everyone how to live their lives though, and I'm generally not a fan of people who feel the need to pass judgement on anyone and claim some moral "superiority" (Like the nutjobs in that thread).
From a historical perspective, I 100% understand why larger families were often a positive or useful thing. I am far from unaware of that. I just have trouble seeing it as being consistently ideal in modern times, particularly for me personally.
For me it has nothing to do with selfishness or hedonism like it might be for some, so much as recognizing my limitations in how thinly I can spread myself, emotionally and mentally, across multiple things on a regular basis.
And I'd rather not muck things up for my kids simply because I and my partner decided to have more kids than we could manage.
I mean, its a concern you have to think about when making choices about your life and the lives of others.
If you can't afford a house that can comfortably bed that many kids, then you shouldn't have that many. Making a bunch of kids grow up 3+ to a room just so you can have your epic big family is far more selfish, because that's a lot of misery you are piling on them. And that's just a single consideration you have to take.
You shouldn't over think things because you will always convince yourself out of them, but having actual realistic understandings of money, space and time should always be on the table. If not for yourself, then for the fucking kids who have to live through your consequences.
Redditors/leftists: "she has a stable relationship and an emotional stability to have a large healthy family REEEEEEEEEEE!"
I got nothing against this especially when all these kids look this happy together, rather have 8 kids all born in on family (which both parents must be units to keep up with) than one guy pump and dumping lots of single women.
That sounds like an interesting comparison one could make to determine just how consistently crazy those redditors are. I bet many of them would fawn over posts about single mothers. Especially minorities or white women with black babies. Those cases seem way more common than giant nuclear families these days. Makes you wonder if it's really not overpopulation they're worried about at all...
They don't want large monogamous families because they are more likely to pass down traditions, help each other out to not be as reliant on the state and can be more emotionally stable since with those large families you end up with the older kids some times helping take care of younger siblings so have a concept early on of responsibility.
Normal people will consistently reject deviants and miscreants. Which is what makes up the bulk of reddit.
Forget single mothers, I bet these same redditors would fawn over a non-white family with that many kids regardless of parental marital status. They see a large amount of white children so they probably assume conservative parents, and that's more than enough for them to get their double standards out.
Damn, you're right. That's an even better example of who we're dealing with here. Many such cases.
The left wing mindset boils down to cognitive dissonance. They have to praise things that are objectively bad like single motherhood and denigrate things that are objectively good like a cohesive family unit.
Otherwise they would have to admit that some behaviors are better than others and certain demographics are more likely to engage in bad behavior.
It's not an unwillingness to admit that some behaviors are better than others. They really think that bad behavior is good because they're evil.
I agree they're definitely evil too. Redditors especially are some of the most bitter, hateful, pathetic people on the planet.
Well yeah. Single mommies are entitled to a gigacuck that pays for her bad choices under the Clown World paradigm. And the gigacuck's reward is getting his life destroyed in family court. It's the ones who do things correctly that get a "you made your bed so now get fucked in it" response from the left.
See, my only issue with someone choosing to have a large family is whether or not it's sustainable (emotionally, financially, etc etc). That's of course going to vary on a case by case scenario, and it's just a slight concern of mine, personally.
I'm generally not the kind of person who feels like it's my place to tell everyone how to live their lives though, and I'm generally not a fan of people who feel the need to pass judgement on anyone and claim some moral "superiority" (Like the nutjobs in that thread).
From a historical perspective, I 100% understand why larger families were often a positive or useful thing. I am far from unaware of that. I just have trouble seeing it as being consistently ideal in modern times, particularly for me personally.
For me it has nothing to do with selfishness or hedonism like it might be for some, so much as recognizing my limitations in how thinly I can spread myself, emotionally and mentally, across multiple things on a regular basis.
And I'd rather not muck things up for my kids simply because I and my partner decided to have more kids than we could manage.
You are describing hedonism. You just don’t want to admit it to yourself.
I mean, its a concern you have to think about when making choices about your life and the lives of others.
If you can't afford a house that can comfortably bed that many kids, then you shouldn't have that many. Making a bunch of kids grow up 3+ to a room just so you can have your epic big family is far more selfish, because that's a lot of misery you are piling on them. And that's just a single consideration you have to take.
You shouldn't over think things because you will always convince yourself out of them, but having actual realistic understandings of money, space and time should always be on the table. If not for yourself, then for the fucking kids who have to live through your consequences.