I am very cheap so it doesn't take much for me to decide something costs more than I'd want to spend, I don't need to know an exact price.
You don't know what the price is at all. That's my point.
that was just an example for the level of spending I engage in as a baseline.
That's a shame. Experiences are what shape you, and actually bring real intelligence. Sitting in your little cave at your mom's house gives you that limited worldview, so you spend your time sulking and believing "I could be great if only this this and this" when in reality, you wouldn't be. You can't be. Because you don't do anything. You bring no value.
You're a bump on a log.
The food and drinks are cheaper at home as well.
I mean yeah the mac and cheese and dino nuggies your mommy makes you before tucking you in is definitely gonna be cheaper, but unless you're 13 it's pathetic. This is why you don't get the attention you think you deserve.
I just don't see what there is to do outside that's not just a worse version of what I have at home.
Because all you do is cling to your thoughts and imaginations instead of actually experiencing it for yourself.
Have you ever left your town? Your city? Your state? Your country? Have you ever actually experienced anything beyond getting your diapers changed?
it's awkward, cumbersome and generally unfruitful in person when attempting to socialize.
Yep! Socializing in person can be awkward and cumbersome for most people! And then, over time, they learn how to figure it out because they don't get scared by a tiny wittle bit of embarassment.
Shit happens dude. You deal with it and keep growing.
Well, the rest of us do. You choose to shy away and be mad at everyone and think that somehow you're some great guy who should be given a chance when, by literally your own words, you're just a sit-at-home do-nothing who has no desires, no passions, no dreams, and nothing to talk about
So, circling back to my original question, why the fuck would any woman ever have any interest spending time with a loser like that?
Get off your sweaty ass and do something for yourself instead of begging mommy and daddy to do it for you. Go on a walk and look at the sky for once. Go birdwatching. Skip rocks in a lake. Get some sun for god's sake
I've never looked at the prices for a taxi or uber but I can't imagine they're affordable
You seem to show a pattern of just believing something without ever doing any research to see if it's true. Again, not normal, but also not smart.
I currently try to keep my non-essential non-food related expenses at around $25 per month
That's loooooooow my dude. Incredibly low. Beyond broke.
But also, you still didn't answer my main question: Do you live in the sticks? Is there not a closeby area where people socialize? Unless you're way out in the boonies, I can't imagine a cab ride costing more than $15
What is there to even do IRL with friends?
Fucking anything lol.
Go to a bar, go on a walk, get ice cream, play a board game, hang out and watch TV, go to a museum, go to an art gallery, get a coffee, explore some urban area you haven't seen yet, see a local band putting on a show.
(Most of these things can be cheap and even free)
Obviously I'm relying on my parents, what else am I meant to do?
Grow up and do something on your own? You're talking like you're 13. Are you an adult?
There really isn't much for two unknown people to engage each other with
It seems you don't want to engage with people at all. This is how people meet. This is how normal people talk and interact. They get to know one another by talking and asking questions.
Again, you're not normal.
Baseless accusation.
Mmmm...it's pretty clear.
I usually just end up sitting around bored.
Great, exactly my point
all of those options are prohibitively expensive especially just to go somewhere I'll have a boring and miserable experience
Do you live in the sticks or something? There's no town center nearby? Taxi? Uber? How do you consider those "prohibitively expensive"?
I don't really have any friends I know in person
Again, not a normal thing. Having actual IRL friends is crucial to a social life. This is also what's hurting you.
You're relying on your parents entirely and it's why you can't actually meet someone. I remember you telling me that your parents set you up with someone and you spent the whole time looking at the floor because you were afraid of saying something awkward. This is why I'm saying you're not normal. This is what prevents women from actually wanting to engage with you.
they would rather slut around with chad while wage slaving in some comfy overpaid office job instead of settling for a normal man.
Well, you're not a normal man, so I don't think you'd know lol
Honestly what does anybody talk about and how does a conversation start?
By going out and meeting people.
How is it that expensive for you to go somewhere? Do you have friends who go out? Do you have parties you're invited to?
I can tell you that when I have conversations, it's usually about niche topics. Sometimes women aren't interested, most of the time they are. Last night I was out on a date and we talked about train travel, music, shows, a little politics and theology too, plants, baking, cultural touchtones...there's loads of shit to talk about. Coming in with the assumption that "women won't be interested in that waaah" is already setting yourself up for failure.
And, afterwards, she paid for the entire meal, gave me a ride home, and I sent her on her way. Third date.
Lol when did I say anything about magic?
I'm saying that it's very easy to see you have nothing to offer. You say yourself you have had only one goal in the past 10 years and that's to reproduce with a woman. Aside from being all "muh white birthright" what else do you have?
Let me ask you this, and we can get a clear answer: when you meet a woman, what d you talk with her about? If the answer is something along the lines of "nothing" or "I don't like talking to women," then we have your answer
Oh....this is sounding very familiar. We've definitely chatted before. No wonder you got banned (again)
Your only goal is to get with a woman. You have no standards. You have nothing to show for yourself. It's not surprising to me you have trouble getting dates.
There are also real artists who are doing real shit. Don't minimalize it by showing people doing this sort of performance art bullshit. There are also graphic artists, animators, creators of actual stories whose jobs are at stake
your argument was that right wingers here use violent speech and leftists didn't even come close
In terms of severity, yes.
outright ignoring and rejecting history
You're using loose relations of what those parties stood for and what leftists stand for and drawing bad comparisons. Nazis, North Korea, Pol Pot, all stood for an unequal society that relied on one group, either by genetics, religion, or otherwise, ruling over the others. Leftist parties today are largely based on equality among race/class/gender/orientation etc.
You're making the same mistake that you're telling me not to make, and putting Nazis on some arbitrary left/right system. Yes, they were anti-capitalist. They were also anti-communism. They were also anti-gay. They were also anti-gun ownership. The comparison is weak.
You are not engaging in good faith discussion, you probably aren't even capable of such.
I'm more than happy to engage with you on a format that is outside of paragraphs where you can make assumptions about me, then start ranting about them, only for me to have to try and dismantle false perceptions. You won't though. Nobody ever does, under the guise of declaring me to be the one incapable.
You're so fast to sling insults and say that I'm not capable of good faith conversation? Please.
There is no pro big centralized government right wing party
There certainly are, and they call him God Emperor
I challenge you to try and engage in a real, actual vocal debate with me. I'd be delighted to, and engage in genuine good faith discussion. I have a feeling you'll just call me a faggot and say "blah blah you can have the last word I'm tired" when in reality you just know that once we talk, you'll realize your assumptions were all wrong.
Let me know! Otherwise I'm not really interesed in your mud slinging
Are you actually one of those tankie retards tbat buy the "real communism has never been tried" shit and thinks all those communist countries somehow weren't communist because they didn't actually achieve your religion's mythical end state?
No. I'm saying that fascism and genocide are inherently anti leftist. Leftists are constantly embracing diversity and are forcing DEI hires and allowing for religious expression. Most of the figures you named before are in part defined by their oppression of specific groups of people.
Do you know what left and right actually are defined by? It's not retarded horseshoe theory, where you start blaming anything bad leftists do on them "swapping around" after they fail, or reddit's worthless political compass.
Of course! I agree 100%. This should be obvious.
Right wing extremists are anarchists. Left wing extremists are totalitarians. Authoritarian leftists, SOCIALISTS and COMMUNISTS were the driving forces behind every atrocity of the 20th century.
This sort of political spectrum is not linear. Left wing extremists can become totalitarian, as can right wing extremists. Right wing extremists can become anarchists, as can left wing extremists. These sorts of beliefs are not mutually exclusive. There is, in fact, the need to include the social, economic, etc right/left beliefs.
By saying "leftists," you're including anyone on the political left, which is largely anti-conflict/war, so there is a major discrepancy between the terminology and the reality.
things like the delusional leftist attacking the congressional baseball game to shoot at republicans - crickets.
I was on leftist sites, and it certainly wasn't crickets. He was shot and killed. People talked about it as a great argument for gun control, because people, in general, don't really like violence.
thousands were jailed without trial for 4 years.
I agree, the US justice system is poorly run and needs reform. Did you know that in the US roughly 1/4 of prisoners are jailed without trial?
There's an interesting article I found about prisons in general. It's a long read but I thought it was interesting!
https://www.prisonpolicy.org/reports/pie2025.html
You are intellectually dishonest in how you reply - you aren't arguing from any real position, you're wasting my time.
My argument is that pathetic internet mudslinging is not "invented" by leftists as if it's some mastermind plan, as if conservatives don't also have their pockets of extreme rhetoric calling for violence.
And that's just what they are, pockets. This is a pocket here and I have been on this site and sites like it for years. I see the shit that gets said here and it's heinous, and also gets cheered for. I saw the same sort of comments about Hillary, Obama, Biden, and more.
"But it's different," you might say, for this that or the other. They deserve it because xyz, or they started it. Nobody started it. It's been going on for centuries. It continues to bleed into political parties as they evolve over the course of time. It was just like this 10 years ago, 20 years ago, and beyond. THe only difference is now it's so easy to be aware of it, and obviously you're going to be outraged when the other side does it.
I recognize the "kill all men" rhetoric but I also have talked to women who say that and I don't actually get any heat at all. I've engaged with conversation with people on here and they'll literally tell me to kill myself when I say something even slightly against the grain.
I don't recall an instance where windows were smashed in by leftists to get into the capitol, but feel free to correct me.
I'm not trying to waste your time. I'm being 100% genuine with you. Don't mistake me disagreeing with you as trolling.
Nazi Germany and the Soviet Union
lol they’re leftists now? Mao is leftist?? North Korea is leftist??? Are you high?
Feet first into a wood chipper is still a higher bar. Is your argument that your rhetoric is brand new? Because, people insulting others for political party is older than dirt
Right my point is why are you starting threads about it? It’s like you’re going out of your way to be outraged lol