Why do older men date younger women? The most straightforward answer is just because they can. In many cases, though, the fact that an older man can date a younger woman hinges upon the fact that he can’t date older ones. Something about him—maybe his immaturity, his lack of a career, his emotional instability—makes him unattractive to women his age in a way that goes undetected or otherwise ignored by the younger ones. In regular life, that’s often how it goes.
The amount of cognitive dissonance it must have took to actually believe this statement could power a city. Older men date younger women because the overwhelming majority of women do not grow up past high school.
This is completely at odds with observable reality. High status men date younger women because they are more agreeable, more fertile, and more beautiful. The end.
Bingo. I stopped dating in my own age range a while ago, and ended up with a younger, beautiful wife out of it. My wife is based, dedicated and faithful, something I honestly wouldn't be able to find in a woman my age. The kind of woman who is still single in her thirties and especially forties is quite frankly a discard 99% of the time. For behavioral reasons.
the "age curve" for women's preference is that they like to date up a few years, until the guy is around 39, and then women prefer guys a little younger.
the "age curve" for men's preference isn't a curve. it's a fucking cliff. 20-24 and that's it. women are objectively at their peak attractiveness then, and then it falls off a cliff. women talk about being more attractive as they age, but it's all just cope. to men, women are never more attractive than early 20s.
this is why women online over early 20s shame guys for dating early 20s women... they can't compete with those women, so they have to socially attack guys for it.
another piece is that it exposes the feminism lie. men don't care about women's degrees or careers. when a woman has invested years into her career, and a guy goes around it and intentionally dates a girl who has no career, that guy is saying to the career woman that she fucked up. she gave up her prime years to corporate america. contrary to what feminism says, she cannot have it all. getting hit with that truth bomb hurts.
speaking from personal experience, i'm late 30s, and have been dating women 10-15 years younger for the last 5 years or so.
i stopped dating women in their 30s not just because of attractiveness, but also because it's a fucking math problem. women can be ignorant of biology, but i'm not. if she's 33 when you start dating, and you're together for 2 years, she's already 35 before you're even talking about kids. she's already in what's medically called "advanced maternal age", it's much harder to get pregnant, and the rates of every bad birth outcome are fucking terrible. those girls are always in such a huge rush. after enough times of dealing with that rush, i just stopped. no guy wants to deal with that shit. celebrities and other guys with sufficient social capital simply don't.
but dating 21-24 year olds, there is no rush. i have time to figure out our long term prospects. even crazier, as i'm that late 30s guy, any time we go out and do anything, that's when the older female cope is exposed. since the girl i'm with is very attractive, and yet much younger than me, but still obviously legal, there's nothing other women can really do about it. as much as they talk about this combative shit on the internet, they know they'll just look like some crazy old jealous hag in real life. their behavior in real life is much different. it puts their insecurities on full display. they bend over backwards for validation and approval. waitresses, bartenders, even randoms in the grocery store.
That last paragraph resonates with me on a personal level. Nothing in my whole life has been as amusing as watching women constantly glare hatefully at my wife.
Seen this happen with a friend of mine, and it's more than a little heartbreaking.
TLDR: Finally finds a girl to get married, is in her mid thirties(he's older), and they've been having issues conceiving.
Guys, if you want kids, you gotta marry a wife while they're still fertile, and that means in their twenties at the latest. It's sad, but there's no getting around it.
The most straightforward answer is just because they can.
The most straightforward answer is because younger women are more fertile.
Duh.
In many cases, though, the fact that an older man can date a younger woman hinges upon the fact that he can’t date older ones.
'many' cases, my ass. There's a very narrow age ranges where this is a thing and it's 20-35 year old men with 16-24 year old women. It does not describe 50 year old men with 20 year olds, because those 20 year olds know damn well that they're sugar babies for their rich new daddy.
There's a very narrow age ranges where this is a thing
what she's just saying is cope. for the guys who can date early 20s women, not being able to date an older women is just not a thing. while the 30s women looking to lock someone down more seriously might pass on such a guy, there are still hordes of 30s women who will get in line to share a top guy.
as the latest single-hood data shows, women would rather share an alpha than own a beta. under30s guys are way more single than under30s women, but the volume of older taken guys just isn't enough to make up for it. women are definitely sharing the top men.
hinges upon the fact that he can’t date older ones
The men that can't get older women to want to date them won't get the young ones either.
The men that can get the younger ones would have no problems getting your panties wet, but they don't want to date older insufferable infertile cumts. Especially not you.
The amount of cognitive dissonance it must have took to actually believe this statement could power a city. Older men date younger women because the overwhelming majority of women do not grow up past high school.
This is completely at odds with observable reality. High status men date younger women because they are more agreeable, more fertile, and more beautiful. The end.
Bingo. I stopped dating in my own age range a while ago, and ended up with a younger, beautiful wife out of it. My wife is based, dedicated and faithful, something I honestly wouldn't be able to find in a woman my age. The kind of woman who is still single in her thirties and especially forties is quite frankly a discard 99% of the time. For behavioral reasons.
the data dump from OKC/dataclysm is long public. https://www.businessinsider.com/dataclysm-shows-men-are-attracted-to-women-in-their-20s-2014-10
the "age curve" for women's preference is that they like to date up a few years, until the guy is around 39, and then women prefer guys a little younger.
the "age curve" for men's preference isn't a curve. it's a fucking cliff. 20-24 and that's it. women are objectively at their peak attractiveness then, and then it falls off a cliff. women talk about being more attractive as they age, but it's all just cope. to men, women are never more attractive than early 20s.
this is why women online over early 20s shame guys for dating early 20s women... they can't compete with those women, so they have to socially attack guys for it.
another piece is that it exposes the feminism lie. men don't care about women's degrees or careers. when a woman has invested years into her career, and a guy goes around it and intentionally dates a girl who has no career, that guy is saying to the career woman that she fucked up. she gave up her prime years to corporate america. contrary to what feminism says, she cannot have it all. getting hit with that truth bomb hurts.
speaking from personal experience, i'm late 30s, and have been dating women 10-15 years younger for the last 5 years or so.
i stopped dating women in their 30s not just because of attractiveness, but also because it's a fucking math problem. women can be ignorant of biology, but i'm not. if she's 33 when you start dating, and you're together for 2 years, she's already 35 before you're even talking about kids. she's already in what's medically called "advanced maternal age", it's much harder to get pregnant, and the rates of every bad birth outcome are fucking terrible. those girls are always in such a huge rush. after enough times of dealing with that rush, i just stopped. no guy wants to deal with that shit. celebrities and other guys with sufficient social capital simply don't.
but dating 21-24 year olds, there is no rush. i have time to figure out our long term prospects. even crazier, as i'm that late 30s guy, any time we go out and do anything, that's when the older female cope is exposed. since the girl i'm with is very attractive, and yet much younger than me, but still obviously legal, there's nothing other women can really do about it. as much as they talk about this combative shit on the internet, they know they'll just look like some crazy old jealous hag in real life. their behavior in real life is much different. it puts their insecurities on full display. they bend over backwards for validation and approval. waitresses, bartenders, even randoms in the grocery store.
That last paragraph resonates with me on a personal level. Nothing in my whole life has been as amusing as watching women constantly glare hatefully at my wife.
Seen this happen with a friend of mine, and it's more than a little heartbreaking.
TLDR: Finally finds a girl to get married, is in her mid thirties(he's older), and they've been having issues conceiving.
Guys, if you want kids, you gotta marry a wife while they're still fertile, and that means in their twenties at the latest. It's sad, but there's no getting around it.
Oh, so she's upset because she used to be the young girl. Nice projection.
She’s upset, kinda oxymoronic
No, just moronic.
The most straightforward answer is because younger women are more fertile.
Duh.
'many' cases, my ass. There's a very narrow age ranges where this is a thing and it's 20-35 year old men with 16-24 year old women. It does not describe 50 year old men with 20 year olds, because those 20 year olds know damn well that they're sugar babies for their rich new daddy.
what she's just saying is cope. for the guys who can date early 20s women, not being able to date an older women is just not a thing. while the 30s women looking to lock someone down more seriously might pass on such a guy, there are still hordes of 30s women who will get in line to share a top guy.
as the latest single-hood data shows, women would rather share an alpha than own a beta. under30s guys are way more single than under30s women, but the volume of older taken guys just isn't enough to make up for it. women are definitely sharing the top men.
A lot to unpack there sweaty
The men that can't get older women to want to date them won't get the young ones either.
The men that can get the younger ones would have no problems getting your panties wet, but they don't want to date older insufferable infertile cumts. Especially not you.
exactly this. the whole article is just a shitload of cope.