The fact that they are actually having to pause and think about whether they should let their daughter go on thinking one of them is cheating behind the others' back rather than admit to her that they're a pair of degenerates means they intrinsically know there's something negative about their behavior that they either feel shame over, or don't want to encurage their daughter to replicate.
If there was nothing bad about their lifestyle, admitting it to the daughter would be a complete non-issue.
That is what I am thinking. What he has left of a conscious is somehow telling him something is wrong with what he is doing. If he actually had full confidence in it his behavior like he is supposed to, wouldn't he not even have an issue in telling his daughter?
Only possibility is, it may not be about his daughter at all and just found a dumb reason to write an article cause he needs to make his 50 cents a day as a journo and he legit doesn't care, and the article is a lie, and his daughter already knew.
did not make her presence known to me. However, she confided in her mother. My wife told me our daughter saw us and now thinks I am having an affair. I asked my wife if she set the record straight about our open relationship, and the fact that she was actually with her lover at the same time I was with mine. She said that she doesn’t feel comfortable with our children knowing we have an open marriage.
Ha, I figured this is what happened. One party was caught, the other party told, but too embarrassed to correct the assumption. And of course she doesn't want your children knowing, they'll think she's a slut and the two of you don't love each other anymore (you don't and she is).
They have a 15, 17, and 19 year old. Surprisingly, the advice columnist agrees that they should come clean, even if the wife doesn't want to, but pretty much completely excuses the wife setting her husband up to look like a cheater just to protect her reputation.
And I think that’s probably the best way to consider this question, and to frame the conversation with your wife: not focusing on the goal of damage control, or trying to control how your children see either of you, but recognizing that it is obviously better for your 19-year-old to know the facts than to hold a mistaken impression that is undoubtedly causing her pain.
Kind of makes a big assumption that both her parents being essentially cheaters will make her feel better than just one parent, though.
Probably will just make her feel worse but in a different way. But at least it is the truth. When one spouse is cheating behind the other's back in can cause serious trust and betrayal issues in the kids. At least knowing it was mutual is something. Thought then they wonder if any spouse they get will end up wanting the same. So yeah, bad, but uh, at least not living a lie? Maybe wake up and stop being degenerates?
LOL, Wife wants to look good in her kids eyes and leave her husband out to dry. What a couple of cheating whores. No such thing as an open marriage, both are adulterers. Her wanting to hide it from the kids reveals she knows what they are doing is trashy. The journalist is ridiculous too, trying to say the wife has a right to privacy. You can't tell it's a mutually open relationship without mentioning mom is boinking some dude. The way women help facilitate the lies of other women, or at least softly condone it. These people are gross, they know they are gross and are just trying to control the situation to make them appear less gross to their kids. This is going to mess them up. The cheating more so, as cheating feels like a betrayal to the kids too. Though this mutual cheating will leave scars too. Not a pretty position to be in, but they chose it.
There's no such thing as an open marriage. Only a zombie marriage where the couple is sleeping around to test the waters for a few years before getting divorced.
This is actually amazing.
The fact that they are actually having to pause and think about whether they should let their daughter go on thinking one of them is cheating behind the others' back rather than admit to her that they're a pair of degenerates means they intrinsically know there's something negative about their behavior that they either feel shame over, or don't want to encurage their daughter to replicate.
If there was nothing bad about their lifestyle, admitting it to the daughter would be a complete non-issue.
The faintest glimmer of self-awareness, to be snuffed out by the end of the second paragraph.
That is what I am thinking. What he has left of a conscious is somehow telling him something is wrong with what he is doing. If he actually had full confidence in it his behavior like he is supposed to, wouldn't he not even have an issue in telling his daughter?
Only possibility is, it may not be about his daughter at all and just found a dumb reason to write an article cause he needs to make his 50 cents a day as a journo and he legit doesn't care, and the article is a lie, and his daughter already knew.
Her.
Ah got ya thanks for the correction :P
Bold of you to assume that anyone actually reads the shit that gets vomited onto that website
https://archive.is/xoqHX
Ha, I figured this is what happened. One party was caught, the other party told, but too embarrassed to correct the assumption. And of course she doesn't want your children knowing, they'll think she's a slut and the two of you don't love each other anymore (you don't and she is).
They have a 15, 17, and 19 year old. Surprisingly, the advice columnist agrees that they should come clean, even if the wife doesn't want to, but pretty much completely excuses the wife setting her husband up to look like a cheater just to protect her reputation.
Kind of makes a big assumption that both her parents being essentially cheaters will make her feel better than just one parent, though.
Probably will just make her feel worse but in a different way. But at least it is the truth. When one spouse is cheating behind the other's back in can cause serious trust and betrayal issues in the kids. At least knowing it was mutual is something. Thought then they wonder if any spouse they get will end up wanting the same. So yeah, bad, but uh, at least not living a lie? Maybe wake up and stop being degenerates?
So it says right at the top that they are an "Excellent Website." So they don't even get to the actual article before they start lying?
Any man who says "I am the king"...
But enough about LeBron James...
Looks to me like this is a literal "My wife's child".
LOL, Wife wants to look good in her kids eyes and leave her husband out to dry. What a couple of cheating whores. No such thing as an open marriage, both are adulterers. Her wanting to hide it from the kids reveals she knows what they are doing is trashy. The journalist is ridiculous too, trying to say the wife has a right to privacy. You can't tell it's a mutually open relationship without mentioning mom is boinking some dude. The way women help facilitate the lies of other women, or at least softly condone it. These people are gross, they know they are gross and are just trying to control the situation to make them appear less gross to their kids. This is going to mess them up. The cheating more so, as cheating feels like a betrayal to the kids too. Though this mutual cheating will leave scars too. Not a pretty position to be in, but they chose it.
How pathetic do you have to be in an open marriage? Fucking degenerates...
There's no such thing as an open marriage. Only a zombie marriage where the couple is sleeping around to test the waters for a few years before getting divorced.
Imagine going to a fucking tabloid for parenting help.
People post tiktoks of themselves behaving destructively all the time. Attention and validation are the currencies of our era.