Girls mature faster than boys because they former develop boobs and start drawing attention from creeps. Gotta grow up faster when you’re a target.
However, most girls also stop maturing at that same age, stuck in a state of arrested development. They realize they can manipulate the people around them using their sexuality, and that doesn’t require much more personal growth.
Boys mature more slowly because no one views them as adults until they start working. At that point, it’s a slow hard grind to create personal value. By the time a lot of men are 30+ years old, they’re much more mature than even middle aged women.
men and women's brains are different. not kinda the same but a little different. very, very different. physically different. white mass v. grey mass. those drug bags we call glands that squirt immediate, brain-function-overriding drugs right inside your brain (emotions). basic, baked-in instincts.
it's not environment and oh you know girls have to deal with creeps. it's real, physical differences. also women enter puberty about 2-3 years before men. that's it. that's the difference. all direct results of the natural and physical world.
women are children and remain children their entire lives, with respect to male development. this is a real physical fact of how our minds develop. it's evolutionary useful for things to be this way and so they are.
I don’t think I was an adult or fully mature or stabilized into my current brainset until maybe my upper 20s. Maybe even ~30. Having kids forced a huge change as well.
I do feel that many of my female friends and acquaintances had reached the same level of brain stability by roughly the end of college.
This seems like the kind of topic for which there really ought to be some hard science research. I don’t know if there is.
Girls mature faster than boys because they former develop boobs and start drawing attention from creeps. Gotta grow up faster when you’re a target.
However, most girls also stop maturing at that same age, stuck in a state of arrested development. They realize they can manipulate the people around them using their sexuality, and that doesn’t require much more personal growth.
Boys mature more slowly because no one views them as adults until they start working. At that point, it’s a slow hard grind to create personal value. By the time a lot of men are 30+ years old, they’re much more mature than even middle aged women.
men and women's brains are different. not kinda the same but a little different. very, very different. physically different. white mass v. grey mass. those drug bags we call glands that squirt immediate, brain-function-overriding drugs right inside your brain (emotions). basic, baked-in instincts.
it's not environment and oh you know girls have to deal with creeps. it's real, physical differences. also women enter puberty about 2-3 years before men. that's it. that's the difference. all direct results of the natural and physical world.
women are children and remain children their entire lives, with respect to male development. this is a real physical fact of how our minds develop. it's evolutionary useful for things to be this way and so they are.
I don’t think I was an adult or fully mature or stabilized into my current brainset until maybe my upper 20s. Maybe even ~30. Having kids forced a huge change as well.
I do feel that many of my female friends and acquaintances had reached the same level of brain stability by roughly the end of college.
This seems like the kind of topic for which there really ought to be some hard science research. I don’t know if there is.
I was a fully functional adult in my early 20s. I’m the best version of myself now at 40.
Know the difference.
Is there a reason you never capitalize your sentences?