I'm not gonna say anything new on gender in this forum, but I think the least desirable probably 30% or more of women just don't date. Something like that has to be the case to create the unbalance you see. There's nothing inherently wrong (in the sense of incorrect -- not a moral sense) with women who are spoiled for choice being picky.
The cause of the imbalance is women's Chad chasing. It is becoming more and more common for them to opt out of dating if they can't get the hawt guy they feel entitled to, but that's not limited to the bottom rungs. Even a 7/10 is going to have difficulty locking down the kind of gigachad they all want, and feminism has taught them that comprising even a tiny bit is a fate worse than death. They deal with it in different ways. Some opt out, some share gigachads in "situationships", and others financially exploit betas while fucking the guys they actually want on the side.
The issue is that women's demands for standards in men are too high such that this leads to a reduction in demand by women for men which is causing the imbalance. The statistics on online dating show this. Men rate women /10 in a perfect normal bell curve as it should be. Women on the other hand rate men basically such that like 10% of men are 9-10/10 and 80% of men are <5 and 10% are inbetween 5-9. It's a fucked up exponential-like curve. And that's 5/10 women rating men like this. That's what's causing the imbalance. Women's perception of men is unrealistic.
I've been working on "Dad bod." It's the only thing that keeps me sane. I'm in better shape now than I was at 30 (40 now). Of course, one is in better shape after ceasing to drink a fifth of liquor a day. Go figure.
I'm not gonna say anything new on gender in this forum, but I think the least desirable probably 30% or more of women just don't date. Something like that has to be the case to create the unbalance you see. There's nothing inherently wrong (in the sense of incorrect -- not a moral sense) with women who are spoiled for choice being picky.
The cause of the imbalance is women's Chad chasing. It is becoming more and more common for them to opt out of dating if they can't get the hawt guy they feel entitled to, but that's not limited to the bottom rungs. Even a 7/10 is going to have difficulty locking down the kind of gigachad they all want, and feminism has taught them that comprising even a tiny bit is a fate worse than death. They deal with it in different ways. Some opt out, some share gigachads in "situationships", and others financially exploit betas while fucking the guys they actually want on the side.
The issue is that women's demands for standards in men are too high such that this leads to a reduction in demand by women for men which is causing the imbalance. The statistics on online dating show this. Men rate women /10 in a perfect normal bell curve as it should be. Women on the other hand rate men basically such that like 10% of men are 9-10/10 and 80% of men are <5 and 10% are inbetween 5-9. It's a fucked up exponential-like curve. And that's 5/10 women rating men like this. That's what's causing the imbalance. Women's perception of men is unrealistic.
ok but why now?
Social media and hollywood propaganda.
When people call Jason Mamoa not constantly cutting to get an 8-pack showing a 'Dad bod', you know shit's fucked.
I've been working on "Dad bod." It's the only thing that keeps me sane. I'm in better shape now than I was at 30 (40 now). Of course, one is in better shape after ceasing to drink a fifth of liquor a day. Go figure.
I would argue social media and online dating are driving this.