Western women are extremely egotistical even ones that are okay to hang out with have a serious attitude problem when it comes to finding a date and even though I haven't necessarily said anything outright to them in the past I really have thought no wonder you're perpetually single with that attitude.
Oh and of course, we've all fucking seen it as guys, they either get defensive as fuck about it or they act like they're not as bad as they are. If there's one thing I keep noticing when it comes to the demographics of taken women versus single women. The taken women especially the married ones are often at least somewhat normal or they're genuinely nice, they clearly got snapped up for marriage fast. The single women are almost always arrogant.
A lot of women out there also don't understand the level they're asking for and that men who even fit three of the criteria that they're looking for are going to be banging women way more attractive or with better personalities than them. Then there's the passport bro factor of, guys like us are getting completely sick of these predictable patterns, so we simply go off and search for a girl abroad and then the single women are stuck and seething. I really do think that these women would rather die alone than admit they're wrong. At least I have the excuse of being socially awkward with women and geographically limited by being on fucking TERF island. These women can get the opposite gender whenever they want.
Women are just completely out of touch with what men are like out there. According to the Female Delusion Calculator, only 0.35% of men in the age range of 30-39yo are as good as myself. I'm a not obese white man, 5'10" who isn't married and makes $135,000/yr. I can't even have casual sex with women. I haven't been on a date in two years. If I was paired with the top 0.35% of women, I'd be set. Instead, the only women who share any interest in me are single mothers and only if I'm willing to pay everything for them, do all the housework for them and without them having to have sex with me.
Men just want women to have realistic standards such that a woman understands where she falls in the relative attraction scale and goes for men who are relatively similar to her.
Women absolutely refuse to accept they are no where close to as attractive as they think they are relatively speaking.
If this doesn't prove it's all about height and looks I don't know what does. Am I correct in assuming that you're in the bottom 95% in terms of facial features?
I'd say for facial features I'm about a 5.5/10 for white men. I think my overall physical appearance is about a 6.5-7/10. The biggest issue for me personally for relationships is I mostly just want to have sex. I don't actually find women enjoyable for much outside of sex. I like small talk, hanging out, cuddling, watching movies but I hate dating and I hate being on a woman's beck and call. I just like doing what I feel like. I can in fact attract 7-7.5/10 women but these women are always the reformed slut types. They rode the cock carousel and see me as the guy they're going to settle down with, out up the white picket fence, tick their boxes for "marriage" and live a life of keeping up with the Joneses. I have 0 interest in this type of lifestyle with a woman. I want to be the cock on the carousel she's riding but I can only attract 4-5/10 women for that. The 7-7.5/10 women can find 8-9/10 men to ride if that's all they want instead of me. The 4-5/10 women though are too ugly for me to be bothered to have sex with so that basically puts me into Incel territory. For me to have a standard monogamous long-term relationship with a woman, the relationship would have to be under my terms which would be very non-standard compared to most relationships. When a 7/10 decides to settle for me, she sees herself as lowering her standards already so she thinks she should be the one dictating terms for the relationship and I'm not about to compromise on anything just for the sake of making something work. Either it works for me or it doesn't and the kind of relationship most women want doesn't work for me. But ironically, if I was a 9-10/10 man, then the relationship I wanted with the woman would work. The only reason women negotiate for a relationship style they want with men like me is because they think they're doing men like me a favor giving me attention when I'd rather just be single than engage in a relationship structure that's driven by what the woman wants. So that's why I'm single... but I'm in the top 0.35% of men so if women think men are less like me the further they go up, they're sadly mistaken.
Interesting write up, thanks for that. My situation is that I absolutely refuse to uproot my life for a woman who doesn't significantly improve my quality of life, and those improvements simply aren't realistic in today's dating scene. I also refuse cohabitation, marriage, and kids. Since I'm not Chad no woman is going to stick around very long once she realizes that I refuse to jeopardize my future just to keep her around.
There may be some stuff in your 'calculation' that you are missing. For one, you sound extraordinarily bitter and resentful. No one wants that sort of person around.
Why don't you want to? I don't have casual sex either but the reason I don't is because the women I can have casual sex with are too unattractive for me to be bothered.
Western women are extremely egotistical even ones that are okay to hang out with have a serious attitude problem when it comes to finding a date and even though I haven't necessarily said anything outright to them in the past I really have thought no wonder you're perpetually single with that attitude.
Oh and of course, we've all fucking seen it as guys, they either get defensive as fuck about it or they act like they're not as bad as they are. If there's one thing I keep noticing when it comes to the demographics of taken women versus single women. The taken women especially the married ones are often at least somewhat normal or they're genuinely nice, they clearly got snapped up for marriage fast. The single women are almost always arrogant.
A lot of women out there also don't understand the level they're asking for and that men who even fit three of the criteria that they're looking for are going to be banging women way more attractive or with better personalities than them. Then there's the passport bro factor of, guys like us are getting completely sick of these predictable patterns, so we simply go off and search for a girl abroad and then the single women are stuck and seething. I really do think that these women would rather die alone than admit they're wrong. At least I have the excuse of being socially awkward with women and geographically limited by being on fucking TERF island. These women can get the opposite gender whenever they want.
Women are just completely out of touch with what men are like out there. According to the Female Delusion Calculator, only 0.35% of men in the age range of 30-39yo are as good as myself. I'm a not obese white man, 5'10" who isn't married and makes $135,000/yr. I can't even have casual sex with women. I haven't been on a date in two years. If I was paired with the top 0.35% of women, I'd be set. Instead, the only women who share any interest in me are single mothers and only if I'm willing to pay everything for them, do all the housework for them and without them having to have sex with me.
Men just want women to have realistic standards such that a woman understands where she falls in the relative attraction scale and goes for men who are relatively similar to her.
Women absolutely refuse to accept they are no where close to as attractive as they think they are relatively speaking.
If this doesn't prove it's all about height and looks I don't know what does. Am I correct in assuming that you're in the bottom 95% in terms of facial features?
I'd say for facial features I'm about a 5.5/10 for white men. I think my overall physical appearance is about a 6.5-7/10. The biggest issue for me personally for relationships is I mostly just want to have sex. I don't actually find women enjoyable for much outside of sex. I like small talk, hanging out, cuddling, watching movies but I hate dating and I hate being on a woman's beck and call. I just like doing what I feel like. I can in fact attract 7-7.5/10 women but these women are always the reformed slut types. They rode the cock carousel and see me as the guy they're going to settle down with, out up the white picket fence, tick their boxes for "marriage" and live a life of keeping up with the Joneses. I have 0 interest in this type of lifestyle with a woman. I want to be the cock on the carousel she's riding but I can only attract 4-5/10 women for that. The 7-7.5/10 women can find 8-9/10 men to ride if that's all they want instead of me. The 4-5/10 women though are too ugly for me to be bothered to have sex with so that basically puts me into Incel territory. For me to have a standard monogamous long-term relationship with a woman, the relationship would have to be under my terms which would be very non-standard compared to most relationships. When a 7/10 decides to settle for me, she sees herself as lowering her standards already so she thinks she should be the one dictating terms for the relationship and I'm not about to compromise on anything just for the sake of making something work. Either it works for me or it doesn't and the kind of relationship most women want doesn't work for me. But ironically, if I was a 9-10/10 man, then the relationship I wanted with the woman would work. The only reason women negotiate for a relationship style they want with men like me is because they think they're doing men like me a favor giving me attention when I'd rather just be single than engage in a relationship structure that's driven by what the woman wants. So that's why I'm single... but I'm in the top 0.35% of men so if women think men are less like me the further they go up, they're sadly mistaken.
Interesting write up, thanks for that. My situation is that I absolutely refuse to uproot my life for a woman who doesn't significantly improve my quality of life, and those improvements simply aren't realistic in today's dating scene. I also refuse cohabitation, marriage, and kids. Since I'm not Chad no woman is going to stick around very long once she realizes that I refuse to jeopardize my future just to keep her around.
So you're saying that you're a 5.5/10, can attract 5/10s, but want 9-10s?
There may be some stuff in your 'calculation' that you are missing. For one, you sound extraordinarily bitter and resentful. No one wants that sort of person around.
A black man with my height age and income is like 0011 iirc. I can have casual sex but I don't want to.
Why don't you want to? I don't have casual sex either but the reason I don't is because the women I can have casual sex with are too unattractive for me to be bothered.
I'm a Christian and it's just stupid to have sex with women that I wouldn't potentially want children with