I remember my grandfather talking about this years ago regarding women at work. Men, at least proper men, are capable of disconnecting emotions from things. He'd talk about how groups of men could have a heated argument at a business meeting then go play golf in the afternoon as nothing happened. It was a business argument, not personal.
Women can't do this, they are wired to cling to their emotions for everything. Just look at when these stunning and brave working women get into it, they want to destroy each other. It is always personal to them. Just like this story, this crazy woman couldn't take a difference of opinion and had to take it out on their patient.
Granted a lot of these female traits apply the same to the emasculated soy men, because they never learned to be men to begin with.
That has definitely held true for the women in my family. They all go through cycles where one fights with another and they stop speaking for one or two years. Then they'll reconcile and things are okay for a period of time, but eventually they have another blow-up that leads to a prolonged period of no contact. My mom and my sister, my sister and my SIL, my SIL and her mom, etc.
None of them seem to be able to get into a heated argument and then let it go.
That has never happened with any of the men in my family.
I remember getting into an argument with my Mom about ten years ago. It got heated and she was crying and yelling. Towards the end she said, "We are done! Done!!"
I assumed she meant we're done arguing for now, but she explained that she meant we are done for good. As in our relationship is over. I was like wtf are you talking about?? You're my mom and I'm your son. How could you even think about ending our relationship over a verbal disagreement?
To my Mom's credit, eventually she realized that she was acting like a huge bitch all the time after my step-dad divorced her. Now she's way more chill and just goes with the flow, and she's based af which has brought us very close ever since Covid hit.
Sounds about right my wife gets into a fight with her lifelong best friend every couple years then they stop talking for a year or two then one of them gets drunk and calls,texts then they friends again for another year or two
He'd talk about how groups of men could have a heated argument at a business meeting then go play golf in the afternoon as nothing happened.
Men are capable of forming a group ego that goes toward a common goal. Men put their ego in check when they realize it's hurting their groups advancement towards a goal.
Someone adds code reviews to our project. At first everyone acts the same - leaving petty little comments, going on and on about their pet topic, etc. But for men they go through this a few times, have it done to them and get hit with empathy, and they start to realize it's accomplishing nothing towards the end goal and it's hurting feelings that aren't going towards the end goal. Month later they only comment if they have something useful to say.
The one woman on the team, she starts writing longer comments with longer inanity. Then starts looking for any excuse to make the process longer and longer. Of course she gets mad if you leave the kind of comments on her reviews that she leaves on everyone else's. And if you say that this isn't accomplishing anything (it isn't) she has a meltdown.
We got a 2nd girl on the same, she was nicer, she left nicer comments but kinda did the same thing.
Women are spiteful and emotional.
I remember my grandfather talking about this years ago regarding women at work. Men, at least proper men, are capable of disconnecting emotions from things. He'd talk about how groups of men could have a heated argument at a business meeting then go play golf in the afternoon as nothing happened. It was a business argument, not personal.
Women can't do this, they are wired to cling to their emotions for everything. Just look at when these stunning and brave working women get into it, they want to destroy each other. It is always personal to them. Just like this story, this crazy woman couldn't take a difference of opinion and had to take it out on their patient.
Granted a lot of these female traits apply the same to the emasculated soy men, because they never learned to be men to begin with.
That has definitely held true for the women in my family. They all go through cycles where one fights with another and they stop speaking for one or two years. Then they'll reconcile and things are okay for a period of time, but eventually they have another blow-up that leads to a prolonged period of no contact. My mom and my sister, my sister and my SIL, my SIL and her mom, etc.
None of them seem to be able to get into a heated argument and then let it go.
That has never happened with any of the men in my family.
I remember getting into an argument with my Mom about ten years ago. It got heated and she was crying and yelling. Towards the end she said, "We are done! Done!!"
I assumed she meant we're done arguing for now, but she explained that she meant we are done for good. As in our relationship is over. I was like wtf are you talking about?? You're my mom and I'm your son. How could you even think about ending our relationship over a verbal disagreement?
To my Mom's credit, eventually she realized that she was acting like a huge bitch all the time after my step-dad divorced her. Now she's way more chill and just goes with the flow, and she's based af which has brought us very close ever since Covid hit.
Sounds about right my wife gets into a fight with her lifelong best friend every couple years then they stop talking for a year or two then one of them gets drunk and calls,texts then they friends again for another year or two
Men are capable of forming a group ego that goes toward a common goal. Men put their ego in check when they realize it's hurting their groups advancement towards a goal.
Someone adds code reviews to our project. At first everyone acts the same - leaving petty little comments, going on and on about their pet topic, etc. But for men they go through this a few times, have it done to them and get hit with empathy, and they start to realize it's accomplishing nothing towards the end goal and it's hurting feelings that aren't going towards the end goal. Month later they only comment if they have something useful to say.
The one woman on the team, she starts writing longer comments with longer inanity. Then starts looking for any excuse to make the process longer and longer. Of course she gets mad if you leave the kind of comments on her reviews that she leaves on everyone else's. And if you say that this isn't accomplishing anything (it isn't) she has a meltdown.
We got a 2nd girl on the same, she was nicer, she left nicer comments but kinda did the same thing.